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Five Point Comparison Intro
Here I will present an important four point comparison that outlines the key differences between America and most other countries in four major areas (that the major media never talk about because they are obsessed only with economic issues). First, here are the major problem areas in America that are toxic and require a solution:
The social environment is isolating, toxic and devoid of human connection. People live in their own bubble and are disconnected. An "ice barrier" exists between strangers (hence the term "breaking the ice"). People don't talk to strangers unless it's business-related. Trying to meet people feels awkward. People are paranoid, uptight, and only socialize within their cliques. They don't even know their neighbors. Friendships are superficial. All that matters is making money. Competition is placed over cooperation. Everyday life is stressful and demanding, yet feels empty and meaningless at the core. People are conditioned to try to fill their void with consumerism, which only leads to dissatisfaction and grouchy faces. Americans act fake and superficial, without soul or feeling. They are like zombies, with empty eyes and plastic smiles. Thus, if you are deep or down-to-earth, you will feel alienated and estranged.
Trying to date women is excessively difficult and problematic. Women are unfriendly, unapproachable and spoiled with toxic personalities. They have a cold force field and are closed, cliquish and paranoid. Being highly self-absorbed, arrogant and difficult, with a bad attitude, they are extremely hard to connect with. With too many choices, they become super picky and shallow. Every desirable woman is taken, too picky or not looking. And every girl claims to have a boyfriend. More men are dateless than in any other country. Single men outnumber single women. Nice guys are treated like dirt. Men do not feel wanted or appreciated. Women are masculinized and men are feminized, inverting both genders against their nature. Corrupted by feminism, women harbor deep hatred and contempt for men, viewing them as fools, creeps and predators. Flirtation with women is a taboo, considered creepy and violating. You can't get a date just by asking. The divorce rate is the highest in the world.
The culture is toxic to one's self-esteem, personality and mental health. People feel insecure and inadequate to the core, and constantly grapple with self-esteem issues. No one feels accepted for who they are. To cope, people develop toxic personalities and inferiority complexes. They grow big egos, brag, become assholes, act tough, arrogant and phony, or lose it and go crazy. The US has the highest rates of mental illness, psychiatric visits and use of anti-depressants in the world, which speak volumes.
Cost of living is too high and healthcare costs are astronomical. Cost of living is higher than in most countries, forcing people to become workaholics and debt slaves with little or no freedom or free time. Healthcare costs are astronomical and medical expenses are the #1 cause of bankruptcies. The US is the only industrialized nation with no universal healthcare.
Food is unhealthy. Harmful toxins/chemicals in food/water have led to the highest rates of obesity, cancer and heart disease in the world. Eating organic is expensive. Not only is food addictive, but Americans overeat to fill their emptiness and void as well.
So overall, America is highly toxic to one's mind, body, soul and relationships. As the great Indian sage Jiddu Krishnamurti stated, "It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly sick society." But these truths are TABOO to mention (especially #2), lest you be seen as a "loser", for our culture only allows you to act fake and pretend that everything is great, or blame yourself - neither of which changes anything. However, the Good News is that in most other countries these areas are REVERSED:(see our testimonials):
The social atmosphere is more open, friendly and inclusive. People are authentic, modest and down-to-earth. They are easy to meet and connect with. Talking to strangers feels natural and relaxed. Making friends is easier. People are more alive, with real emotions and souls. (Thus you feel more alive as well.) There is real connection and camaraderie with others. Cooperation is placed over competition. Friendships are truer and families are closer. You never feel isolated, even when you are alone. Many European and Latin American countries have cultures that are very romantic, passionate, soulful and artistic, so if you have such traits, you will fit in better.
Dating women comes easily and naturally. Women are sweet, friendly, feminine and down-to-earth. They are approachable, open, sociable, engaging, curious, and exude genuine warmth. Thus they are easier to meet and connect with. Females are generally thin and look wholesome. They cherish their femininity and have values. Women appreciate good men and seek a partner, not a competitor. Niceness counts. Flirtation with women creates energy and excitement. They are flattered by compliments and like being pursued. Men get dates easily just by asking. (Note: Not surprisingly, American men who date overseas usually report that they NEVER want to go back to dating American women again! So many of them have told me this, that it's become a cliché.)
The social culture is more accepting and wholesome. You feel naturally accepted and free to be yourself. "Self-esteem" and "confidence" are not even issues you have to struggle with, and neither is "trying to fit in", which is very liberating. Thus you develop a normal healthy personality without inferiority complexes or psychological baggage. People have real friends/family to talk to about their problems. Having to see a therapist or psychiatrist is unheard of.
Cost of living and healthcare are more affordable. Cost of living is lower, allowing people more freedom and leisure time. Universal healthcare is provided (in industrialized nations) so no one goes bankrupt from medical expenses. But even if not, healthcare is still affordable.
Food is healthier. Food is mostly natural and organic. People are healthier and thinner.
Yet most Americans never hear about these comparisons because they are so taboo. So that's what we are here for, to disseminate these life-changing truths to those in need. We know that once you go abroad and experience all this, your life will change forever!
Warning: This site contains truths and content that are taboo and politically incorrect and may offend those unaware or unattuned to truth.
America's Leading Experts and Studies Back Our Claims!
Our Research Specialist Steve Neese has compiled a groundbreaking scholarly Research Section detailing the findings of national experts and studies that confirm our claims about the narcissism and degradation of relationships and women in America. His Research brings credentials and legitimacy to our arguments.
Are you fed up with the cold, unapproachable, spoiled, mean-spirited women in America with a bad attitude?
Do you feel alienated by America's fake, toxic, insane, antisocial society and lack of human connection?
Are you an unhappy misfit in America who is open to a real solution?
Do you feel like you're going crazy in America and want to understand why and what you can do about it?
If so, then you've come to the right place! I have Good News for you: The problem is NOT you. You are not crazy. And there is a Real Solution to it all! I'm Winston Wu, Founder of HappierAbroad. I'm here to share with you the Biggest Secret that America doesn't want you to know, which is that: You can have a better life and love relationship, solve many of your life's problems, and curing or greatly alleviating many of your mental or psychological problems, by simply GETTING OUT OF AMERICA!
That's it! It's very simple and true, yet goes against everything you're taught. Hence why you don't hear about this secret much, though awareness of it is growing nowadays since 6 million Americans now live overseas, and that number is increasing every year as more Americans realize that their country is a sinking ship that's best to get out of for their sanity's sake.
As of now, we are the only major movement and website that has a Proven Solution and Answer to the lonely, isolating, toxic, insane, mentally ill, inauthentic, dateless, expensive, soulless, unhealthy culture of America. First, understand this simple truth:
"It takes far less effort to find and move to the society that has what you want than it does to try to reconstruct an existing society to match your standards." - Harry Browne, How I Found Freedom in an Unfree World
That's an important lesson. You can't change your society or culture, but you can go to another one that is more healthy, sane, and treats you better. It makes perfect sense. Thus you don't have to stay in America if it's killing your soul or doesn't give you what you need.
If you're a single male, the BIGGEST SECRET that's being kept from you is this: There are many overseas cultures where meeting and dating quality single women come naturally, like breathing. Outside the USA, single women who are feminine, sweet and down-to-earth are the NORM and in ABUNDANCE! Many of them (in the millions) are single and see YOU as GOLD! But this is not publicized in any positive light in America, due to its taboo and politically incorrect nature.
I'm here to make you aware of OPTIONS you didn't know you had beyond the US Matrix. And I'm also here to deprogram you from the false myths, assumptions and propaganda that's been fed to you by your society, culture, peers and media, which are restricting you from a whole world of social and romantic opportunities.
If you're skeptical and think this sounds too good to be true, then I PROMISE that once you go through my material, you will be convinced by the overwhelming mountain of proof that me and others present to support our claims. Guaranteed! You can also see our FAQ's page.
If all this sounds great, then watch my welcome video below and listen to my audio lecture 5 Benefits Overseas. Then continue with the Five Point Comparison section below. Check out my page of Big Secrets that you won't hear about in America. And feel free to browse the links in the left navigation menu at your leisure. You can also read this Checklist to see if you are the "Happier Abroad type". See our PowerPoint Presentation too. Thank you for your interest.
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