The Truth About Stefan Muth, owner of Diagnose-Me.com, a malicious cyber hacker pretending to be a doctor with no credibility and hated by everyone.

My Promise and Oath: I solemnly swear that the following information is true and accurate to the best of my knowledge and therefore does NOT constitute libel or defamation by the legal definition of those terms. I am willing to submit to a polygraph test to authenticate my sincerity, and can support my claims with ample evidence, specific examples, and testimonials from others. (See these independent testimonial accounts from others that support and concur with my claims)

The Truth About Stefan Muth

Exposing the owner of Diagnose-Me.com

The man everyone has a bad experience with

Learn the truth about this man’s history of abusive, malicious, insane behaviors, lies, broken promises, and criminal cyber hacking before you become involved with him

(His wicked smile and hateful eyes/facial expression show in the pictures below)

“if you intend to have any dealings with Stephan Muth, we encourage you to be cautious and investigate deeply. He is a very immature, malicious, and deceptive person”

- Prashant Trivedi

“My honest opinion is that he is unstable and possibly not even safe to be around, let alone do business with, I curse my poor judgement in ever trusting him.”

“He is the most vile and disgusting person i have ever met.”

“I have never harmed another human being in my life, and I had to remove myself from him (Stefan) to prevent myself from doing so.”

- Joe Fisher, managed Stefan's website at Diagnose-Me.com, Mensa member, a very mellow and easy going guy

“That's how he torture me mentally. He exaggerate every situation to look me very bad. He expect me to get a very good work result w/o telling me what's my job.”

"He's mentally ill. He's the most evil person I've ever meet."

- Filipino worker of Stefan’s (does not wish to be named)

“Muth and those similar will naturally receive justice someday. Meeting up with such folks is similar to stepping into a pile of feces. You simply want to wash it off and take precautions it never happens again, but certainly warn others about the pile if you can't remove it yourself.”

– Charles Dibella

More quotes about Stefan Muth here

Current Location: As of May 2010, sources inform me that Stefan Muth currently lives on an island in the Philippines known as Bgy Binduyan, Puerto Princesa, Palawan.

Navigation Index

Preface

New! The True Facts and Chronology of my Working Relationship and War with Stefan Muth

What you should know before you become involved with Stefan Muth

How he turns everyone who works for him into his enemy

How he put me in a no win situation and blamed it on me!

A 40 year old man who throws rocks at innocent people?!

List of Stefan's wrongs vs. my wrongs

Seven primary unpleasant traits of Stefan Muth

Nine wacky beliefs that destroy his credibility

Insightful quotes about Stefan Muth

The inside story on how Stefan “bought” his Filipina girlfriend

How I had to use law enforcement to stop serious threats from Stefan

Stefan’s new website about me - PROOF that he is a LIAR and a THIEF

2 Absolute proofs of Stefan Muth’s insanity and wickedness!

Conclusion

New Sites warning others about Stefan Muth

Breaking News! Stefan loses all his workers in a nasty fight, is in danger of being convicted of tax fraud and losing custody of his son

Appendix: Read Stefan Muth’s own words about why he hates me (with my comments in parantheses)

- Stefan Muth’s side of the story about our history and parting (with my comments in parentheses)

- Stefan Muth’s long response to this webpage, followed by my response

- Stefan Muth confesses that he delights in the suffering of other people!

Related Links about Stefan Muth

Horror Story Testimonials about Stefan Muth

Five Sources Confirm Stefan Muth to be a Cyber Hacker

Comparison References: Stefan Muth vs Winston Wu – Who would you trust?

Update! Stefan Muth plans to sue my parents now! Proof of his insanity and wickedness!

Update! Stefan Muth’s new wife Rosa has finally left him!

Update! Class action lawsuit against Stefan Muth in Hawaii! (off-site)

New! Learn exactly what will happen to you if you work for Stefan Muth

New! Blog of Updates about Stefan Muth (off-site)

Comment about Stefan Muth in my Guestbook or Forum

Preface

If you’re looking for information about Stefan Muth or considering working for him or his medical website at Diagnose-Me.com then consider yourself lucky to have found this page. Here’s what you should know. Basically, virtually EVERYONE who has been around him in person for any considerable amount of time has a bad experience and a horror story to tell.

On this page, you will learn the TRUTH about him, what he is and what he’s done to others, which may save you a lot of time, energy and trouble, as well as a bad experience so many have endured already. All the info on this page is true to the best of my knowledge. I’ve known him and lived with him for 5 months. Here’s a brief summary of him.

In short, the man is insane, malicious, abusive, hateful, wicked, psychotic, twisted, highly unstable, a wacko and nutcase. Basically, he is the kind of person who hates everyone and is in turn hated by everyone as well. That’s just the kind of person he is. He lives to hate and delights in the suffering of other people (see his letters in the appendix for proof). You can see it in his hateful eyes of disdain in the pictures above in fact. And if you stand up to his attacks, he can’t take it so he labels you as “dead meat”, and tries to make your life as miserable as he can.

I’ve never met such a hateful man before with such dark vibes around him. For some reason, he harbors a sick twisted disdain and hatred for everyone and everything in the universe, which rules his behaviors and words. That’s why only shit emanates from his mouth and thoughts, even toward the most wonderful things in life. In addition, he acts like a bully, is verbally abusive, and turns all his friends and workers into enemies, even the most pleasant and docile ones. Plenty of examples of all these things abound. Deep down, he is so nasty and disgusting that even the sewer is cleaner than what he is on the inside, and even the devil is a more likable and good entity than he is. When you get to know the real him, all this becomes apparent. As a result of all these qualities, the man walks around with this really bad energy and vibe about him that feels like radiation poison to you.

He can’t be reasoned with even. When he talks to you, what he says is often so non-sensible that you can’t response logically to it. The moment you realize this, you get this sinking feeling that there is no reconciliation with him. One classic example of what he does essentially is put you between a rock and hard place, a kind of no-win situation, then he proceeds to verbally abuse the hell out of you, until he decides to eject you from his life. NO ONE ever parts amicably with him. I rarely ever have problems getting along with guys, since they are usually straightforward and make sense, except psycho ones like these. As they say, the eyes are the window to the soul, so just look at his eyes in the photos above, and see what vibes you get.

In fact, he always brings out the WORST in others and then blames them for it. He even incites violent urges from peaceful docile people. (See the breaking news update below) And he loves doing this too, for it gives him an excuse to hate others and make them into his enemy. Deep down, that’s what he really wants. Probably, his biggest dream is to have the whole world against him while he sits in a sheltered position where he can bash and trash the rest of the world. In fact, that’s what he does every night after dinner, venting his disdain at everything in the world in front of whatever company is with him. Also, since he himself has created his own webpage against me, it’s only fair that I be allowed to do the same in retaliation. But make no mistake, before he chose to become my enemy, I NEVER EVER did anything wrong to him and in fact did EVERYTHING he asked me to do for him, and that is a fact I would swear to with every fiber of my being. Therefore, the fact that he would make an enemy out of one who never wronged him and did everything he asked, speaks volumes about his insanity and the type of character he really is.

Now normally I am willing to forgive and forget petty disputes I have with others. We’ve all been wronged, and though many have wronged me, I do not usually create web pages exposing them. Nor do I get obsessive about my enemies. But Stefan Muth stands out. It's difficult to explain why. It's one of those things you have to experience to really understand. Once he burns you, you are filled with a bloodthirst for revenge. It's hard to understand or explain unless it happens to you.

The best way I can describe it is this:

When a cold blooded genius looks at you with a 1000 percent look of certainty and infallibility in his eyes and says the worst shit he can think of to try to make you feel bad, it sort of fills you with a resolve to bring him down to his proper place. His God complex and complete certainty/infallibility attitude and aura quickly turns your respect for him into one of total disgust and revulsion. Only then do you realize how evil he truly is, when he attacks and undermines you with a 1000 percent certainty in his attitude. For a while, you even believe what he says, even if you know he is wrong. You can't help it cause he acts infallible and believes his own lies and uses his geniusness to give himself a status of infallible authority. At that point, you desire nothing more than to bring him down and expose his God complex.

But of course, those are just words. You gotta experience it to know what I really mean.

In addition, the fact that he treated me like sh**, verbally abused me, scolded me, insulted me, broke promises to me, and then chose to make me into a sworn enemy, all after I was so kind to him, nice to him, did everything he said, never screwed up, and never wronged him in any way, even patched up his relationship, etc. hurts my pride and feelings. Thus I am understandably justified at wanting to get back at him for the great wrong he’s done to me and others, since he deserves it, just like the American people wanted vengeance and justice done for Pearl Harbor and 9/11. Therefore, my web pages exposing him and warning others about him, are a consequence of him reaping what he sows, a matter of cause and effect so to speak. Read what it’s like to work for him here, and perhaps you can imagine how it would fill you with resentment.

I know it's not emotionally or spiritually healthy to be hung up on this guy, but I truly feel that he deserves every bit of it. And believe me, I am a very nice guy and would not do this unless the person really deserved it. Plus I have a responsibility to warn others in the future who might become involved with him, about him.

Now if you think that this page might be cruel in any way, don't, for two reasons. First, he is a very cruel person himself, so he justly deserves such cruelty back at him. Second, he has put up his own hate website about me first, which you can see by clicking here. Thus, I am merely rendering the man his fully deserved karma. And I have always followed the Golden Rule. HE is the one who CHOSE to be my enemy. Not me. He made that choice and now he will have to live with the consequences. Sites are these are among them of course.

Now in case you think it’s my word against his, or you aren’t sure which one of us to believe, then I invite you to take a look at this comparison table of quotes and comments from people who have met or been involved with us in real life. Then YOU DECIDE! Also, you can verify my trustworthiness and credibility at these sources described here. And don’t forget to see these horror story testimonials about him here. Then ask yourself, who would you rather believe, a truth seeker who studies religion, philosophy, and spiritual teachings, or a guy who lives to hate and delights in seeing others suffer?

In the past, those who were victims of his abusive malicious insane behaviors and cyber hacking activities who wrote about it online were threatened by him into removing them. Thus, there was no info online exposing his true behavior and history if you tried to google his name. He was the only source about himself. Now all that’s changed. With me, Winston Wu, a master debunker, debater and exposer, the truth about him is finally known to the public. He cannot threaten me into taking down these pages like he did to the others. I’m a fighter, and though he knows more about computer hacking and programming than me, I am far superior to him in debate, logic, strategy and tactics.

Some things he can’t escape are:

- He has never explained for example, why he invited me over and didn’t give me the work he promised, but put the blame on me for that, without any valid reason. Every employer at least gives his workers a chance first.

- He has never provided any valid reasons for becoming my sworn enemy. That itself is the greatest testament to his insanity. After all, ANYONE who hates, bullies, and verbally abuses someone else who NEVER wronged them, must have serious mental issues.

- He has never reasonably explained why he demands unrealistic things of others and faults them for it, when the fault is within himself. For example, he once demanded that I give him a highly detailed scientific topographical map of the Philippines with every factor accounted for, leaving no room for error. Such is not available to the public, and probably not even to the Philippine government! Yet he demanded no less! (How do you deal or reason with someone like this, who is in their own world?) Another time, he asked me to find a five bedroom house for him and the whole family, which was cheap, flawless, and located in an area with clean air. I did my best, using all the realtor agents I could find to help. But Stefan claimed he could do better, which he never even lifted a finger to prove. Examples like this abound. The man doesn’t work with people or reality. He demands unrealistic or impossible things, and even when you give him what he wants, he finds something wrong with it. He doesn’t even have good communication skills, so sometimes you don’t even know what he wants and if you try to ask him, he gets angry and insults you for having to ask him what he wants. He has the worst people skills of any boss or manager I’ve ever met.

The True Facts and Chronology of my Working Relationship and War with Stefan Muth

First, let me introduce him briefly.

Stefan Muth is the owner of a successful profitable online business located at www.diagnose-me.com, a medical self-diagnostic program, very extensive and the first of its kind, from which he derives a high daily revenue. He makes around $400 a day from it, in addition to another $400 a day (amazingly) from Google ads on over 3000 web pages of medical terminology that are linked to the online medical reports that he sells to his customers. Thus, he makes a total of around $800 to $1000 a day, of which he pays around 40 percent in taxes, and divides the rest among many other expenses.

Oddly, he also lives as a hermit in the forest at his Hawaii residence in Laupahoehoe on the Big Island, running his online business out of an old run-down tiny wooden shack. He needs no social interaction and strangely, for a man of his income and financial assets, lives in the simplest conditions and in a house that looks like it needs to be bulldozed over. He is also a workaholic who spends most of the day and night behind the computer 7 days a week, and judges men by their money and career. Being a strict vegan, he is oddly very materialistic and non-spiritual.

He has an unusual blend of traits, for example he is one of the most generous and spendy guys I’ve ever met, going through money like you wouldn’t believe, since he is a multi-millionaire, but is also one of the most anal retentive, perfectionistic, negative, fault-finding and critical guys I’ve ever met as well, as well as a SUPER control freak who is completely intolerant of any risk, whether small or only perceived. It’s very rare to see all those qualities in the same person. In my judgment, he is very similar to Ross Perot, the former Presidential candidate of 1992 and 1996, in that he is a great entrepreneur and genius at making money, but has horrible people skills, a hot temper, perfectionistic, a control freak, is intolerant of any little mistakes and of any people different from him, a bit delusional/mad, and in his own world. Thus, it’s no wonder that 100 percent of everyone who’s ever worked for him, at his GOV (Garden of Vegan) forest preserve or Diagnose-Me.com , parts with him on bad terms.

As a cynic and doomsayer of the US economy, he stores a large amount of his money in gold, claiming that gold is the most stable denomination, much safer than the volatile US dollar. Allegedly, he has a large treasure of gold bars hidden somewhere in his forest compound in Laupahoehoe, Hawaii. (treasure hunters, take note) I’d guess around half a million dollars worth of gold, or maybe even more. He claims that no one will ever be able to find it. But obviously, if he has it “hidden” on his land, it can’t be above ground or in midair, but somewhere underground and camouflaged well.

Stefan and I partnered up back in the Fall of 2006 to go the Philippines together to find love, after he found out about me through an article I wrote for Elenas Models at www.WomenRussia.com and contacted me.

To this day, Stefan Muth, owner of Diagnose-Me.com, maintains on his hate site, Winston-Wu.com, that I was a lazy bum who wouldn't do any work, so he fired me. This is a complete LIE. Here are the REAL FACTS about my working relationship with him. I swear by them.

From the moment I arrived in Hawaii to meet him in the Fall of 2006, he only gave me 2 or 3 hours a day of work to do, which was far less than what he promised. He also did not give me the "Medical Research" work he promised either, and made excuses to delay having me start on it or train me for it.

Yet he was also deducting food and living expenses from the paychecks of me and the other workers on his Hawaii plantation. This presented a problem for me because what I was making from him, even at 30 dollars an hour, was barely enough to cover these deductions.

Muth even warned me that if my deductions exceeded my salary, then I would end up OWING HIM money!

Naturally I protested, "But that's not my fault. You aren't giving me enough work and hours. What can I do about that?"

Instead of acknowledging my innocence, he merely said "I'll try to give you a little more work." Yet he barely gave me much more.

A few times, he announced that he would be giving me the "Medical Research" work that he promised very soon. But that never came to pass.

After a few weeks, we moved together to the Philippines, where he met up with girlfriend and future wife, through my referral, yet I never received the $500 reward he promised for anyone who found a new wife for him.

There, the work he gave me became even less, to nearly nothing. But he paid me nevertheless, $100 per week. He assigned a few errands to me here and there, which I did responsibly, including acting as his treasurer and dispensing $100 a week each to his girlfriend and her sisters.

With all the free time I had, and living in Angeles City, the land of "sex/dating paradise" for men, naturally I went out and made use of it, to make up for all the years of sexual deprivation and loneliness in my life. It was the chance I had been waiting years for. I had a blast and I lived many fantasies and had many cloud 9 experiences that were very satisfying.

But Stefan became more and more upset and starting mocking me and tried to make me feel bad for enjoying my life and living out my fantasies and dreams.

So I kept asking him, "Well what do you want me to do? You ain't giving me any regular work. Am I supposed to sit around and do nothing?"

He had no answer or solution to that, nor did he give me any real work. So I continued to do my own thing, while checking everyday to see if there was anything I could do for him.

What else could I do? What would you have done?

Eventually he became disgusted and complained that he was paying me $100 a week for doing little to nothing.

My logical response was "Ok, if you feel you are paying me for nothing, then don't pay me. You don't have to if you don't think I'm worth it."

Yet he continued paying me $100 a week anyway. Even though I volunteered to not take it, he insisted that I take it. Yet he continued to complain that I wasn't doing anything to earn it! What could I do?! What would you do?!

So my next logical response was, "Ok then, why don't you give me some work so I can earn this salary that you keep giving me?"

Despite this, he was also giving his girlfriend and her two sisters $100 a week each, even though they weren't doing anything to earn it either! Yet he didn't complain about that cause they were girls and entitled to free money, in his eyes. All they did was sweep the floor, cook occasionally for us, and did little errands for his girlfriend. They didn't do any more than I did, if not less. But he was not resentful at them, cause they were girls, only at me.

Eventually, he came up with a few more tasks for me, some of which were vague, odd or unrealistic. For example, he wanted me to get him a highly detailed topographical map of the Angeles City area that contained measurements for every square mile of land, including elevation, wind direction, and other variables. He wanted this in order to "scientifically" pinpoint the perfect blot of land on which to build a house under optimum conditions. This seemed a strange and unusual way to go about it, but I tried my best to do it.

I could find nothing like that online, only normal maps of the Philippines, so I went to the Bureau of Land Management in town. They looked confused and had nothing but normal maps too. They acted like my request was unusual and they weren't sure how to help. Eventually they told me that my boss was an "anal perfectionist" and that in the Philippines, such personalities were not liked. I agreed and said, "I know, but what can I do?" I was truly between a rock and a hard place.

Another time he wanted me to find a big house with five rooms for him to rent, big enough for all of us. Using internet real estate sites, my contacts, and realtors working at mall booths, I tried my best to find some qualifiers. I found a few that met the criteria, but they all had some little attribute or defect that disqualified them in Stefan's mind. Then his girlfriend's sister and I hired a trike to take us on an all day scouting mission for properties in the area. We came up with a few qualifiers that fit the bill, but they were either too far away or contained contracts that he didn't like.

I did my best with what I could obviously, using the resources I had. What more could you ask for?

This effort quelled Stefan's complaints for a while. But after he ran out of work for me, they came back up again.

This time though, along with his complaints, his personality became colder and more distant. Eventually, we were barely even talking. He gave me the cold shoulder and I did not feel like we could sit down and talk like reasonable men. I was simply a victim of a no win situation he put me in, and there wasn't much I could do about it. Yet in his mind, it was all my fault of course, not his. It became obvious that even though he was highly intelligent, esp with computers, he was also delusional and twisted, having a propensity to victimize others for his own faults.

The straw that broke the camel's back came one day when I wrote an update that a girl I was dating at the time saw me talking to another girl, and got jealous. When he read that, he had had enough of me and avoided me altogether, even though that was my personal life and not even his business. Before, he would just laugh and tease me about such things. But now, he decided he had enough of me.

Since we were no longer talking in person, I could only communicate with him by email. So, even though we were under the same roof and often in the same living room using our laptops, we only communicated by email, instead of just talking to each other. It was like something out of a bad sitcom, dysfunctional no doubt.

By email, he told me he was tired of my laziness and lack of work ethic, to which I protested of course, that it wasn't my fault since he wouldn't give me any work. It's not like he was giving me work and I was refusing to do it, so I didn't understand what the BASIS of his complaint was. It was very confusing.

I've had good and bad bosses before, like everyone else, but I've NEVER had a scenario where one was abusing me for not doing any work while at the SAME TIME refusing to give me work! That is insane and sadistic. And unheard of!

Yet he was acting like it was all my fault! WTF? How was it my fault?! I didn't get it, and he never proved that it was, yet he acted like it was 100 percent my fault and that I was guilty for no reason. There was a certainty on his face about it, even though it made no sense. It felt like the Twilight Zone for a while, where I was framed and charged for a crime I didn't commit.

In our emails, he was attempting to pin the blame on me and trying to make me feel like scum, saying that I should know what to do without asking him what to do, else I was incompetent and dumb! WTF? I could not believe he was serious. I kept wondering if he was playing some kind of practical joke on me. It made no sense.

We exchanged long emails about this situation. If you all want, I can post them on a webpage for you all to see and analyze, but I'm afraid you would find it all to be just extremely long diatribe without any point or substance.

I tried my best to find a logical solution, but he was only giving me vague answers that were going nowhere. Eventually I realized that this was a hopeless situation. Even if he did find some more errands for me to do, we'd still come back to this same impasse again after they were done.

What's even worse is that his personality became intolerable to be around. He kept trying to make me feel bad and said the most vicious things to bring down my self-esteem. He became an energy vampire that drained me of all my energy. Being in his presence felt like basking in poisonous radiation. Obviously, I knew that that was a bad thing long term, and irreparable as well. The only thing to do was separate from him.

So, fed up and having had enough of this ridiculous situation, I wrote to him "Why don't I just move out then, so you won't have to complain about paying me anymore? There seems no other solution." He agreed that we should part ways and said he couln't wait to get rid of me.

So you see, technically he didn't fire me or told me I was fired. He put me in intolerable conditions and forced me to quit. Yet he still maintains the lie on his site Winston-Wu.com that he fired me cause I was too lazy and incompetent and wouldn't do any work. What a liar! In fact, I have work references in my portfolio from managers and bosses who will attest to my competency and reliability.

Now, based on the above chronological account of the true facts of our working relationship, I ask you:

1. Where in this account am I at any fault or wrongdoing?

2. What is the exact basis of Muth's hatred toward me and his need to turn me into his enemy?

3. What would YOU have done if you were in my situation?

To continue the story:

Within a few days I found a new place and prepared to move out. After I did, he began attacking me online. He attempted to undermine everything about me to try to make me feel like shit. Then he went to my cyberbullies, like Dave Fuller, and wrote them a long letter about why he hates me, which contained no legit valid reasons. It seemed like he hated me just for the sake of hating me. I never figured out his motive. You can read his letter here:

http://www.happierabroad.com/Stefan_Muth_Diagnose-Me.htm#Letter1

He even joined a Yahoo Group called WooWeasel that was set up soley for the purpose of trashing me and another guy they despised. It was sickening. I never thought he would stoop that low with the losers.

Then they revealed their plans to create a hate site about me that would defame my name and tarnish my image. That's how Winston-Wu.com got started. When it went up though, it contained nothing legitimate against me other than that I was a "sex tourist" and playboy. So what? I've done nothing wrong or illegal that they could cite. So what basis was there to attack me or discredit me? There was none. It was just hate and disgust for the sake of it. You can see that for yourself on there.

Anyway, that's when I had my excuse to launch an attack of my own. I created a barrage of sites on multiple domain names exposing the truth of Stefan's nasty character, insanity, lies, and mistreatment of me. Soon I was contacted by other victims from Stefan's past, who sent me other horror story testimonials to add to my sites. The case against Stefan from multiple sources became rock solid and damaging.

Then, after feuding with all his remaining workers in Hawaii and victimizing them as well, Stefan lost them all. Some of them added their testimonials about him on my sites. At some point, his new Filipina wife left him too, not surprising given his personality, which mutual sources told me about and he himself admits.

I posted some of these sites exposing him under my HappierAbroad.com domain, created blogs for them at Blogger and Wordpress, posted videos about them on YouTube, and filed a complaint about him and his company at RipoffReport.com. These were areas that got ranked high in search engines, and it worked. Now, when you Google "Stefan Muth" you will see all these sites on the first and second page of hits. His name and reputation are done for online.

No doubt his blood boiled at this, and boiled intensely, for anyone who would lose his temper at trivial things, as he always did, MUST certainly be affected by a barrage of websites exposing him with his full name and photo on them. It's simple logic.

I had my revenge finally. Justice was served. To add icing on the cake, a site exposing cyber predators found my sites and listed Stefan's name on theirs too, at http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com

Now, Muth is pleading with me to take them down in exchange for the removal of Winston-Wu.com. Obviously they must be damaging or threatening to him somehow. But it's not that simple. The fleet of sites about him are there for a just cause for what he's done, and also to warn others who are considering working for him about how they too will be victimized if they do.

I told him that I will only remove the sites and agree to a mutual take down of our attack sites, on either of these two conditions:

1) He must read this account of our history together above and answer the three questions above, providing a VALID justifiable reason why I am at fault for it all, that a reasonable person would agree with. If he can do that, I will admit fault and remove the sites. And he must also provide a justifiable reason for his attack and hatred of me, and turning me into his enemy. A valid basis for his actions must be established. Otherwise, he will be justly forced to do #2 below.

2) He must apologize deeply, show that he is truly sorry for what he did, admit fault and wrongdoing on his part, and make generous amends to atone for his sins. He should pay reparations for his mistreatment, victimization of me, unjustified attacks, threats, broken promises, lies, unpaid rewards I completed (finding him his wife), the stress, hurt and anger he's caused, and for the great work I put into the fleet of websites exposing the truth about him and bringing him to justice. As a multi-millionaire who hands out generous amounts of cash to girls like nothing, he can easily afford to pay such reparations and damages to his victims.

Those are his options. He can't just get off scotch free like he wants. He either does one of the above, or else the fleet of sites about him, which are available to anyone, will continue to sail under the flag of justice.

Those are the conditions and just consequences of his actions. The ball is in his court. So I hope he does the right thing.

Thank you for listening to the truth. If you have any questions, email me at WWu777us@yahoo.com

Sincerely,

Winston Wu

What you should know before you become involved with Stefan Muth

If you are considering working for or with Stefan Muth, here are some things you should know and consider first:

He is an Abusive Psychopath, which has been attested to by EVERYONE who has ever worked for him. Literally EVERYONE! See the many Horror Stories about him here.

He will offer you a very generous salary in the beginning of your employment, which he will pay. But there are some BIG catches you will find out later on that will hit you rudely:

First, you are NOT allowed to ask him any questions about your work. Questions annoy him, even reasonable and necessary ones. It's just one of his pet peeves. He expects you to know what to do without asking him anything. You are expected to read his mind too! If you can't, then you are an incompetent fool in his eyes! I'm serious. Even if you are done with your work, you cannot ask him "What do you want me to do next?" without being criticized and insulted by him. In his mind, you should know what to do without being asked, which is absolutely unreasonable. We all know that in the real world, managers always welcome questions from their workers. It is a manager's duty to instruct his workers and answer their questions about how to do their job. No manager EVER has a problem with being asked questions! Not even bad managers. But Stefan Muth does, and thus he absolutely FAILS in his role as a manager. But does he acknowledge this and try to correct it? Not at all! In his eyes, his faults are always YOURS! And there is no reasoning with him. That makes working for him a no win situation guaranteed to get worse, because if anything goes wrong, he will use you as his scapegoat and punching bag, pinning the blame on you. As this goes on, he will amass hatred against you which will only get worse and worse until it reaches a breaking point. That's why EVERYONE who has ever worked for him has left with bitterness, anger and resentment for the way they were victimized by him through no fault of their own. I've seen this happen many times.

Any and ALL misunderstandings between you and him (which could be avoided by asking him a simple question) will result in him scolding you, regardless of who was at fault. This will even happen with trivial minor issues. Add the fact that Muth has terrible communication and people skills, and you can see how this is an unavoidable recipe for disaster! These misunderstandings will build up as hatred in him for you that will snowball over time, often quickly. While this happens, every little thing you do will be inflated and used against you. You will literally be "walking on eggshells" so to speak. It will make you uncomfortable and nervous, which will only make things worse and give him more reasons to spite you. At some point, he will be filled with cold consuming hatred for you. You will see it in his eyes. Then he will treat you like shit, kick you around, break his promises, be disrespectful and rude to you, or just ignore you and make conditions unbearable for you so that you will be forced to quit. One way or another this breaking point will be reached. Even if you are a nice innocent angel who is reliable, responsible and does no wrong, this will happen to you. It's guaranteed. No one has ever been exempt from this nasty outcome. NO ONE! Not even a carbon copy of Muth himself would be exempt, and that should tell you a lot. I've seen it happen many times.

He will expect you to work 7 days a week. Well, most of the time that is. If you don't, you will be considered lazy and fall short of Muth's "standards" as he calls them. Since he works 7 days a week and never has fun or enjoys life, he expects you to do the same. To him, work is the only purpose in life and he resents people who enjoy life.

Based on these "catches" above, which are more like a Trojan Horse in his promising generous offers to you, there is no question that Mr. Muth must be majorly F***ed in the head! Big Time. There is no other conclusion. Here is a chronology of our history together which shows the three events above in motion. The above scenario has happened to myself, Joe Fisher, Leo Barnett, Michael Troy Stevenson, Dan, Two Chinese women whom I never met (who worked for him before I did), and many others. Many of them have posted horror stories about Muth here. They were all VICTIMIZED and YOU will be too! Now, if you were in my shoes, wouldn't you feel the need to warn others about him too, so they can avoid being the victim of such an insane predicament?

He has started an online war against me, for no reason other than that he hates anyone around him long enough, just for the sake of hating. This is in spite of the fact that I was always kind and obedient to him, did EVERYTHING he asked, and did NOTHING wrong! See a factual chronology of our history together here. If that isn't messed up, I don't know what is! Geez, do you think that he might have some issues there? We could have parted amicably, but he HAD to make an enemy out of me. And for that, I've exposed him with these sites, in the name of justice.

He is a confirmed Criminal Cyber Hacker by multiple sources, including me. See here for examples and proof. Muth has a history of breaking into people's email accounts and impersonating them. This happened with Prashant Trivedi and Dan, whose testimonies you can read in the link above. He also broke into my Yahoo and Gmail account too, which I know for a fact.

He is listed as a "cyberpath" or "cyber predator" on http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com

There is also a Class Action Lawsuit being organized against him in Hawaii by another one of his victims.

Now, needless to say, I am not just some disgruntled ex-employee of Muth's. I am also a victim of his. The information and links above prove it. Unlike him, I have a track record of credibility and integrity, which you can check through third party sources here. And you can also see this comparison chart of referencesabout him vs. me, so you can decide who you want to believe, but I'm sure it will leave no question in your mind. In addition, you can check who I am and the kind of person I am at these links about me. If you do, you will see that Truth is my number one motto and value.

Some more things you should know:

- EVERYONE who has worked for him in the past has a BAD EXPERIENCE and horror story to tell. They never part wit him amicably. No one has been exempt. That is obviously a major RED FLAG. And this includes very nice people as well.

- This man has a history of abusive, malicious, and insane behaviors, as well as a history of criminal cyber hacking.

- Deep down, he HATES people in general, and is a major pessimist and cynic. Thus, he tries to validate this disposition of his by actively seeking out the worst in you, focusing on it, and attempting to bring it out, in order to confirm his worldview and justify his hatred of people. You don’t even have to do anything wrong or be guilty of anything for him to hate you. All you have to do is stand up to him when he belittles or abuses you, and he brands you as dead meat, an enemy to him. Then he will do anything to ruin your life. Even if there’s nothing about you to dislike, he will find something. It’s guaranteed. Or he will make something up. And once he does, there’s no arguing against him, cause he won’t listen.

- He sees something wrong in EVERYTHING and EVERYONE. Even with the most flawless thing or person, he will ALWAYS find something wrong. It’s just in his nature. You can tell him the most wonderful news and he will put a negative spin on it. He is incapable of being positive, optimistic, or happy about anything. Instead, he lives and thrives on bringing down other people and things. The “shit” in his head he projects out onto the external world.

- He derives pleasure out of belittling, verbally abusing, and bullying others. But of course, he will not accept any of the same in return. And in fact, he proudly admitted to others that I was his “verbal punching bag” and even enjoyed throwing rocks and pebbles at me when I lived with him in Hawaii.

- He DELIGHTS in seeing other people SUFFERING and has even ADMITTED to this! Click here to see an example in his own words. Very sick and twisted, to say the least.

- When he asks you to do something for him, he often does not give clear or articulate directions. Instead, he expects you to read his mind, and if you guess wrong, he chews you out for it with an intolerant hot temper, never being able to see himself at fault for his vagueness and lack of communication. Needless to say, he has terrible communication skills. Of course, this behavior is illogical, but then again, he is not a rational, sensible or balanced person anyway.

- Though he is brilliant at computers and highly meticulous, he has no people skills whatsoever, obviously, yet he blames that all on others rather than on himself.

- Though he says false things about others and makes many mistakes, he will never listen to any corrections on it. And he will never apologize or admit his errors either. In his mind, he is always right and he has a God complex. That’s another thing that makes him so hard to get along with. When he is wrong, you can’t tell him about it, so you either have to lie and agree with him, or tell the truth and incur his wrath. That’s like being stuck between a rock and a hard place.

- He is a major control freak and anal retentive, even about miniscule and unimportant things that don’t matter one way or the other.

- If he thinks you are useful to him or on good terms with him, he will be generous and giving to you. But once he’s had enough of you, he sees fit to knowingly lie about you, break his promises to you, not pay what he owes you, etc. That says a lot right there, cause a principled man would even treat his enemies fairly and justly. But he doesn’t.

- He has wacky beliefs that undermine his credibility, sanity and sense of reality. Some examples: He believes that all pharmaceutical medicine is bad for you, and thus never takes medicine nor allows his children to take them, including pain killers such as Tylenol. He believes that a woman can only get pregnant from having sex only ten days per month. He believes that a man can’t win the heart of a woman without “buying her” through cash and expensive gifts. But of course, you can’t show him that he’s wrong about all these warped beliefs, cause in his mind, he can’t be wrong and he has some sort of a God complex. Furthermore, he is not a logical, sensible or rational man anyway.

I personally testify that all these things are true and an accurate description of him. With the above heeded, it’s your choice whether you want to work for or with such a man. In case you think it’s a case of my word against his, you can verify my credibility here: http://www.happierabroad.com/CheckMe.htm and see this Comparison of References between him and me.

How he turns everyone who works for him into his enemy

This is the pattern he has followed with me, his last three workers, and everyone who has ever worked for him before us.

Basically, he hires people and makes big promises to them, sounding like a big Santa Claus, to lure them in. Then gradually he looks for the worst in them, as he hates people in general deep down. If he can’t find anything bad, he will make something up in his mind, and once he does, he will not listen to reason, even if you are 100 percent sure he is wrong. Then he proceeds to verbally abuse them, belittle them, bully them, uses them as his punching bag for a while, and starts to despise them. It’s a twisted drama he repeats with everyone. Soon he launches his “Salem Witch Hunts”, accusing them of all sorts of weird things that don’t make sense, and are obviously mostly just shit in his own head. Even if you do nothing wrong in a technical sense, or moral/ethical sense, he will still imagine faults where there are none. And once he does, there’s no convincing him that he’s wrong. Basically, the shit in his head he projects onto others. The gremlin that he is thrives on hate, so he must hate to survive. If there’s nothing to hate, he will find something. It’s like he has a NEED to turn people into his enemies.

For instance, one time I laid my head on my girlfriend’s lap in his living room, and he bitched at me about it later, saying that it was a very vile obscene thing to do in the living room, and told me that the whole world, including my girlfriend, now saw me as an indecent slob, simply for resting my head on my girlfriend’s lap. There was no use convincing him that the world and my girlfriend did not share his twisted nutty view, for in his mind, he is never wrong and all the shit in his mind is really out there in objective reality, and not just in his head.

So, inevitably over time, he adds up all the negatives about you in his head, even making up some of it, til he’s had enough of you. Then he turns on you, declares you a worthless vermin, becomes your enemy, and breaks every promise he’s ever made to you. At that point, he won’t even fly you home, even if he promised to before. After you part with him, he will never have anything good to say about you ever again. And you are left wondering what you ever did wrong. But in truth, the sick fantasy is all in his head, but he’s too insane to realize that he’s the true source of the problem, not something out there. This is guaranteed to happen to you even if you’re perfect, blameless and do nothing wrong.

Thus, NO ONE, ever parts with him amicably. EVER. He makes sure of that.

That is the prevailing and consistent pattern in his behavior toward others.

To read five testimonials that verify this, click here

How he put me in a no win situation and blamed it on me!

Here is how Stefan Muth put me in a no win situation and then blamed me for it.

First, let me state that in my experience working many jobs, a NORMAL manager is always happy to answer questions from the workers about how to do things or what the manager wants. In fact, they respect that, because it shows that the worker is trying to do the job right, in clarifying what needs to be done properly. This is common sense in the business world and in basic working human relations of any kind. If you're not sure about any specific aspects of a job or task that you're performing, you call a manager or supervisor over and they are glad to clarify everything for you, logically and efficiently. That's part of their job and function.

However, Stefan was nothing of the kind. If you asked him for the specifics of what he wanted, he would usually do one of two things:

1) He would either get mad, irritated and act like it was a stupid question, then insinuate that I ought to know without asking him. In other words, he expects me to read his mind, which is totally unrealistic and insane.
2) Or he would give a vague ambiguous half hearted answer that still left you unsure about what to do. And you'd be afraid to ask him again out of fear of angering him.

Now, this clearly shows that he is devoid of people skills, communication skills, basic managerial skills, and even common sense. In fact, it is a total lack of cooperation on his part, and decisiveness as well. No sane manager expects workers to read his mind.

As a result, you're left with the choice of risking doing something wrong by guessing what he wants, in which he will blame you for it, or just standing there doing nothing in which case he will blame you as well. It's a lose lose situation, obvious to anyone but him (another reason why he's insane). After all, what can you do when a guy you're working for won't even cooperate with you?! That's a no win situation for sure!

There is no question that this is not the kind of man you want to work for or with. It's a good bet that he's been fired from every company he was an employee at due to his total lack of people skills as well as serious personality defects, which is why he can only work for himself.

Now, in case you’re wondering, this was not a case where I did anything wrong or screwed up. This was NOT a case where he repeatedly explained something over and over again while I kept screwing up. That kind of thing played NO part in this at all. Period. No other managers or supervisors I've had have behaved this way before. The truth is, like most people, I've gotten along with some of my managers and others I haven't, but I've NEVER EVER had a situation where one refused to give me any work then charged me with being lazy and blamed me for it! That's TOTALLY INSANE! Yet that's EXACTLY what Stefan Muth did! I swear it!

Now ask yourself this key question: Would any sane credible level-headed person put another in a no win situation and then blame him for it, without any cooperation on his part to try to resolve it?! Of course not! Thus this is another clear testament that Stefan Muth must have been insane and deluded with serious personal issues, to the point where he can't even be reasoned with.

A 40 year old man who throws rocks at innocent people?!

What do you think of a 40 year old adult man who throws rocks at innocent people? Well that’s what he did. This Stefan dude threw rocks and pebbles at me while I was living with him in Hawaii, just for fun! Now, what kind of a 40 year old adult throws rocks at innocent people? Is that the behavior of a mature, mentally healthy, sane adult? Obviously, any adult who does that has some serious screws loose, don't you think?!

List of Stefan's wrongs vs. my wrongs

As I mentioned before, I have NEVER done anything wrong to Stefan, nothing morally, ethically, or legally. And he cannot even cite one legitimate thing I did wrong to justify his insane hatred. That speaks volumes about his insanity and unstable behavior. After all, who would hate someone and become an arch enemy to someone who never did any wrong to them? Even in movies, people hate or become enemies for an understandable reason. But in our case, there is none. The technical wrongs I've committed against him are: NOTHING

In fact, I did EVERYTHING he asked and took his abuse for a long time. What more could I have done?!

All he can cite are useless silly things such as me burning popcorn while cooking it in a pot, leaving condoms on the floor of my bedroom for people to slip on, etc. Big fricking deal. And of course, he fabricates silly delusions about you in his mind, and once he does, there’s no reasoning with him. When I stood up to him when he was belittling and verbally abusing the hell out of me, proudly calling me his “verbal punching bag” even, he couldn’t stand it. So technically, self-defense and standing up for yourself is a sin in his eyes. In fact, once you stand up for yourself against his attacks, you are instantly labeled “dead meat” in his eyes. That’s how his mind works. What an evil maniac.

But on the other hand, Stefan has clearly committed unethical acts against me, such as:

- Constantly verbally abusing and belittling me, calling me his "verbal punching bag", and admitting it proudly.

- Breaking his promise to give me certain work he promised upon arrival, for NO JUSTIFIABLE reason.

- Throwing rocks and pebbles at me for fun, something no mature sane adult does.

- Constantly bullying and threatening me with scare tactics, even after we've parted.

- Failing to pay up when he loses bets, and he's lost several.

- Failing to pay up debts he promised to pay.

- Knowingly Lying about me on his website about me www.winston-wu.com (e.g. that I was having sex with a bar girl the day my baby was born) and in email flame wars, making dozens of mistakes, lies, and false facts per email that it becomes tedious repeatedly correcting him.

- Stealing private photos from my email account by hacking into it, which I never sent out to anyone.

Seven primary unpleasant traits of Stefan Muth

Here are the 7 primary characteristics that Stefan Muth possesses to extreme degrees, which I’ve seen him exhibit time and time again. He is a wealthy successful meticulous entrepreneur who is extremely negative, hateful, fault-finding, and revels in anti-popularity. That makes him an interesting and unique blend of traits worth studying. His self-description with his own photos are on one of his sites here: www.theoneforyou.com/me

- Extreme negativity: He likes to see the worst in others and everything. He is like George Bush in that when he tries to say something positive, he is stumped and tongue-tied and has little to say, but when he criticizes, he has a lot to say and looks very passionate in doing so. In fact, during Christmas, when he had me get a birthday card for his fiancée, he couldn’t think of anything sweet or romantic to write in it, so he had me write a few paragraphs of sentimental stuff for him. Oddly enough, though he can write long analytical and critical emails, he can’t think of anything to write in a birthday card to his fiancée. He is also the type of person who always ASSUMES THE WORST about everyone and everything. People who always assume the worst are usually right less than 10 percent of the time, so you’d think a person who prides himself on his “technical efficiency” would see the inaccuracy of his ways and change, but noooooooo…….. And usually, if you tell him some great news, he will make something negative about it, like it’s bullshit, and that the only true things are negative things. What a total party pooper, the type of person that people booo in theatres and movies. Since he loves to see the worst in everyone, and bring it out in them, it’s also no wonder that he fires over 90 percent of the people he’s hired to work at www.diagnose-me.com, spewing hateful venom at them behind their back once they leave. He will even admit this and is proud of it.

- Anal retentive/Control freak/Perfectionist: He is probably the most anal retentive and biggest control freak I’ve ever met. Hands down. He nitpicks at very little things. And he looks for every flaw and imperfection in everything and everyone, even if he only imagines them. There is no pleasing him. After all, how do you please someone who finds something wrong in everything? Even one of his employees in Hawaii, a guy named Leo who is one of the most positive, nonjudgmental and easygoing guys I’ve ever met, looks annoyed, confused and vulnerable when talking to Stefan cause he knows very well that no matter how good a job he does or how positive he is, his boss will point out every imperfection that he sees and will seek the negative in everything. And to magnify his anal retentiveness, he has a nasty temper that flares off at any imperfection he perceives and no tolerance for mistakes of any kind. Thus, walking around him is not like walking on eggshells, but like walking in a God damn MINEFIELD!

In fact, he’s such a control freak that he has no tolerance at all for any kind of risk, even if it’s so small and inconsequential that normal people wouldn’t care about it. And even if the risk doesn’t exist and is only in his head. If he perceives any kind of risk, he will expend a ton of resources and time to eliminate it. That’s what makes him a bit scary and creepy too. The ironic thing is that for a perfectionist, he sure makes a lot of mistakes himself. Not only is he a SUPER control freak, but a psychopath with a God-complex as well. He bullies others like a dictator, acting as though he is the ruler of the world.

- Judgmental: For someone who seems intelligent and a know-it-all, he is sure very judgmental about others, and likes to jump to conclusions quickly. He claims that all my dates here dump me because I’m stingy. Yet he rarely ever meets my dates, has no evidence that they’ve dumped me (but plenty of evidence to the contrary), and has no basis for claiming that they hate my stinginess. In fact, he is the one who makes the biggest deal out of my alleged “stinginess”. He is the one who goes on and on about it, not the girls. The girls that like me might call me a “kuripot” sometimes when I try to spend wisely, but they don’t stop seeing me because of it, if they really like me that is. Being frugal is in fact a good way to screen out the girls who only want to use you. But the truth is, I’m not really stingy. I just don’t like to waste money on unnecessary things since I’m on a budget. That’s all. Nothing wrong with that. There is nothing wrong with spending wisely because you are on a budget. Most people don’t have a problem with it and they understand. But Stefan is obsessed with it, more than anyone else here. Since he can afford to splurge a ton of money here, he uses it to belittle me since I can’t do the same. What a bully! For example, if I tell him that I bought a cell phone load for a girl I’m dating of 100 pesos (which is plenty since each text they send costs only 1 peso, and plus most girls here have only a 30 peso balance at any given time), he will belittle me by asking me what kind of a man I am, since he buys 500 pesos cell phone load cards for his girlfriend each time. That is so immature and ego-tripping that I’m not even sure if he’s reached puberty yet! Sheesh!

He is free to interview any of the girls I date, and if he does so, he will find that none of them will claim that they dumped me cause I’m stingy. In fact, most of them will say that they don’t see me because I stopped calling them and stopped making myself available to them. And to this day, he still can’t even name three girls who he thinks has “dumped” me. If he tried to, I could easily text them and have them meet me again. He knows it too. Also, there are many girls here who still hang out with me, sometimes in groups, even after I’ve made it clear to them that I’m frugal, need to save money, and won’t let myself be hustled into wasting money. They hang out with me even though they can’t use me to pay all the time, because I’m FUN and LIKABLE. One of them even told me that she and her friends like hanging out with me, but not Stefan, after taking just one good looking at him and receiving his negative/critical stare. He knows all this, yet persists in his delusion, like a madman. Trying to reason with him is like trying to reason with a madman.

One reason that Stefan often errs in his judgments about others is that as a die-hard computer programmer, he assumes that he can understand, predict and calculate others the same way he can with computer programs. In other words, people can be understood and controlled like computer programs can. He puts them into his “pet formulas” so to speak. And when people don’t work according to his programs and formulas, he starts looking for the program line or variable that “screwed it up”. Well people don’t work that way. You can’t calculate human behaviors or relationships. But he thinks you can. And I’ve noticed this from him time and time again. Obviously, he is in his own world with very little experience in social skills and human relationships. Of that, there can be no doubt. He is right only in HIS own mind.

- Verbally Abusive/Name Calling: Like an immature person, he constantly chews people out in nasty ways. He loosely calls people “stupid”, “idiot”, “dummy” and even worse words, often in trivial situations or for reasons that don’t exist but which he fabricates in his twisted mind. And he likes to belittle others for stupid reasons. If he can’t find a reason to belittle you, he will make up one in his mind. And once he does, he won’t listen to any attempt to explain to him that he’s wrong or in error. Even those who try to please him are not exempt. You could be Jesus Christ or Mother Theresa and he’d find a reason to convince himself that you’re despicable and a horrible thing he needs to get rid of, insulting you and belittling you in the process. Even though I’ve NEVER done anything wrong to him, never broke any promises to him, never backstabbed him, was always on his side, etc. he constantly put me down, and said a lot of nasty words to me. He even admitted that he relished using me as his “verbal punching bag”. All this is strange behavior for a 40 year old man who considers himself stable and successful. No one likes someone who is verbally abusive, and thus it’s no surprise he has no true friends and is unpleasant.

- Nasty short explosive temper: He loses his temper and explodes in anger at trivial things, even at people who did nothing wrong, due to some imperfection that didn’t go his way exactly. Most people get mad sometimes of course, but the key thing to remember is that he loses his cool for UNJUSTIFIED and UNWARRANTED reasons. The examples of this are endless. He does it to the point where it’s almost like a mental disorder. Healthy, positive, happy, mature men don’t do that. It’s a sign of social and mental dysfunctional to be always blowing your fuse at small things. Hence again, it’s no wonder he has no good friends and no social people skills. And it also makes being around him feel like walking on egg shells. But couple his nasty temper with his anal retentiveness, and it makes being around him feel like walking on a God damn MINEFIELD. The worst thing about it is that he NEVER apologizes afterwards when he calms down. You see, someone with good people skills usually apologizes after they’ve lost their temper. It’s the manly thing to do. But he NEVER does, not even to his fiancée. He is very comparable to Ross Perot, the 1992/1996 Presidential candidate – very successful at making money and understanding business, but has horrible people skills and a nasty bad temper.

- Has no true friends/Unable to be a true friend: He has admitted that he only likes friends that are “useful”. And incidentally, that’s why him and I are no longer friends, as I have outlived my “usefulness” to him, which he adamantly says. (Well gee I’m soooooo sorry to have become a damper in his productivity lifestyle) He is like the bad guys or criminals in TV shows and movies who dispose of their teammates as soon as they don’t need them anymore. Hence he has no true friends and is unable to be a true friend to anyone. Yet he acts like he’s an authority on love and relationships! What a joke! How can he be an authority on love/relationships when he can’t even be a true friend to anyone?! That’s like Hitler pretending to be an authority on peace and harmony!

- Spends and splurges a lot of money: The only trait he has that might be good, depending on how you look at it, is that he is very generous with his money and splurges a lot of it. I’ve never seen anyone go through so much money so fast. In short, he LOVES to pay for things and buy things for people (even for me). But the question is, does that trait exonify all his negative qualities above? Of course, it’s partly because he has a lot of money (2 to 3 million dollars in assets) and he believes that he can “buy” people, which is how he deals with human relationships. He also has this belief and mentality that a man’s WORTH is determined by his money and how generous he is with it. And that the measure of a man is how much he can splurge his money. This is a belief and mentality that he SHARES with whores, scammers, hustlers, and gold diggers. And one which he tries to reflect onto me. It’s no wonder why he sees money as the deciding factor in MY relationships, when in fact, he sees it as the deciding factor in HIS. In short, because he believes that he is worthless without his money and that it is his only quality, he believes the same about me. Yet he is wrong and examples abound to show him that, but as he himself likes to say “You just don’t listen!” This attitude of his toward money also leads him to think that he can “buy” people, just like he bought his current girlfriend and her family. But more on that later. He also has an unlikable habit of belittling others who aren’t as rich as he or aren’t workaholics like him.

Concluding comments:

Now, you might think that my comments here about Stefan are a bit negative and critical too. But look at it this way: Since Stefan is EXTREMELY negative himself to the nth degree, seeing the worst in everything and everyone, and spinning every happy/positive story into a negative one, why not apply that mentality in evaluating him too, to deliver POETIC JUSTICE to him and giving him his rightful karma? What’s wrong with giving him a taste of his own medicine? After all, it’s in alignment with his own ways too.

You might think that I harbor an unhealthy grudge against a former friend that I should just forget about and move on. Well that’s partially why, but there’s more to it than that. You see, this guy is MAJORLY VERBALLY ABUSIVE, and a hugely narcissistic know-it-all with delusional beliefs like a madman. Even when he says things that a mere simpleton would know is wrong, he firmly sticks to it and won’t listen to reason. After all, madmen don’t listen to logic or reason, they believe what they want to believe and that’s it. (e.g. Hitler wouldn’t listen to the logic or reason of his generals in the latter stages of WWII when they kept trying to explain to him that his military tactics were badly flawed and doomed to fail) He also likes to belittle others who aren’t as wealthy as him or aren’t workaholics. So why not belittle him?

Plus, he LOVES finding fault with others, to a passion. So why not give him a dose of his own medicine so to speak, and find fault with HIM as well? It would be his justly due karma after all. And of course, he LOVES to hate others (including me) finding any reason to do so, even if it’s only in his mind. In fact, his ego thrives on hate. So why not hate him too? It’s only fair (though not the most spiritual thing to do, I admit).

Basically, he’s the type of guy who if an audience watched in a movie, would boo and would clap when brought down, like the evil corporate executives in movies that everyone loves to be against. He is in his own world, and revels in being “anti-popular”. Plus, he hates the world and LOVES finding fault with others, to a passion. So why not give him a dose of his own medicine so to speak, and find fault with HIM as well? It’s his justly due karma after all.

Also, he has joined a hate group called WooWeasel (http://groups.yahoo.com/group/wooweasel/) which derives entertainment at my expense, to do the same, so he asked for it. You can see so for yourself by going their forum at the link above and read all his nasty vile hateful comments about me in his own words, to glimpse the real Stefan. Just keyword his name or the email handle he uses for the hate group, g0vegan@yahoo.com to see his posts. You will see that his hateful posts about me don’t contain anything substantive or legit, but mere dysfunction and a desire to hate for the sake of it. Judge for yourself. Remember that I NEVER asked him to be my enemy or did anything to incite it. It was simply his choice to become my enemy, without ANY wrongdoing on my part. He’s the backstabber who dealt the FIRST STRIKE, not me. HE CHOSE to be my enemy! Not me.

Anyone who has met me will tell you that I am very easygoing, soft, and pleasant to be around. I have a list of positive comments from people who have met me too. So, if someone hates me the way he does, that person must have a major personality problem.

Nine wacky beliefs that destroy his credibility

For a man who is a perfectionist and does not tolerate other people’s mistakes, Stefan has made some of the stupidest blunders himself that are worthy of a Darwin Award. Check out these wacky beliefs and insane statements that he’s made which undermine his credibility, sanity, and sense of reality. I promise that these are true. He won’t even deny it. The funny thing is that he’s uttered each of these with a righteous air of authority in his voice!

Here are some examples I recall:

1. Though he runs a medical self-diagnostic site (www.diagnose-me.com), he doesn’t believe in taking medicine when he gets sick. And won’t let his kids take medicine when they’re sick either! To him, all conventional medicine is “poison”! He has no credible scientific evidence to back up such a fanatical belief. It’s merely his belief. But usually, even when he tries to provide reasons or explanations, they don’t make sense and sound incoherent.

So if I’m in pain from severe migraines, if I follow his beliefs, I’ll have to endure it, yelling in pain, simply because of a wacky belief.

This dude has no real ability to assess risk properly.

2. He’d rather die of hunger than eat any noodles or bread that have the slightest bit of egg or dairy in them. That’s how fanatical and religious he is about his veganism. Yet he claims that raw foodists have wacky beliefs and are wacky people. He’s one of those people who take the smallest isolated incident or factor, and bases entire beliefs and lifestyles around it, totally out of proportion. On such things he lacks the ability to reason with logic or common sense.

3. Now listen to this ridiculous statement uttered right from his mouth:

“I’ve done extensive research on fertility cycles. And what I’ve concluded is that a woman cannot get pregnant if you have sex with her during the 10 days after her menstruation period and the 10 days before it. Only during the middle 10 days can she become pregnant.”

Yet, ANY average Joe can Google the terms “fertility cycle” or “pregnancy cycle” to get a list of reputable credible sites on pregnancy, such as Planned Parenthood. And NOT ONE of them will teach what he said. What they will tell you is that there is only ONE day each month that a woman can’t get pregnant on, but this day is difficult to calculate because it requires that extensive tests of her fertility and ovulation cycles be done. Thus, you would have to use some form of birth control to avoid getting pregnant. And this is nothing new either. I called Planned Parenthood back in 1994 when I was concerned about this issue, and they told me the exact same thing!

So how can someone who runs a business in the medical industry be THAT STUPID!?

No credible organization or expert on fertility says that a woman can’t get pregnant 20 days of the month!

4. Listen to this crazy one. A nut giving statistics about people who are “nuts”. Classic!

“Most schizophrenics are violent and dangerous. Look it up.”

Um excuse me Mr. Wacko! Anyone who’s taken a basic intro course in psychology knows that that’s not true, not only for schizophrenics, but mentally ill people in general. It’s a myth perpetuated by Hollywood.

And anyone who “looks it up” on any credible psychology website will find that schizophrenics are not violent or dangerous in general. They simply are on a “split from reality”, hallucinating all sorts of things living in their own nightmarish hell.

5. This statement which he’s uttered and lectured me with hundreds of times, is just as stupid:

“Winston, you can’t get a real girlfriend in the Philippines unless you spend freely and not be a tightwad with your money. After all, money is what separates you from the local boys. Without it, you’re no better than them.”

Not only have my real life dating experiences in the Philippines debunked that statement a gazillion times, but common sense itself tells you that he is wrong. The only girls you will impress with spending freely on money and gifts, are gold diggers and users. Yet he STILL has NOT recanted this silly statement. The man has serious social deficiencies, which is why he only knows how to control others with money.

Furthermore, most Filipino guys here have no trouble getting girlfriends, totally unlike all the dateless sexless guys in the US.

(Note: After I typed blunder #5, Dianne and her cousins looked at my computer screen and asked me who I was quoting. After I told them, they said “Well it’s wrong” and had a look on their face like it was the most ridiculous statement they ever heard.)

6. He also believes that the KEY to winning a girl’s heart is with money and presents! Many times, after I’ve had a great first date with someone, he would tell me that the next step is to bring her a lavish gift to show her that money is no object to me. That is how you SECURE her love, according to his book! Gee whiz! Even children know that that is NOT the way to do it. This guy has lower emotional intelligence than a child!

Nevertheless, several times he forced me to implement this theory. I’ll tell you what happened when I did.

One time after getting a cute girl’s phone number at the mall in SM Department Store, I went out with her and her roommate. Then we agreed to go out alone next time. The day before we did, Stefan told me to present to her a box of expensive chocolate from a mall kiosk. I told him it wasn’t necessary. But he said, “Come on!” and bought the box of expensive chocolates for me. I gave it to her at work that night, and she seemed flattered and impressed. The next day, she showed up 45 minutes late for our date, and then immediately took me to the Hypermart (an all purpose big store like Walmart) where she looked at new purses, picked one out, and then said, “You buy me this.” When I refused, she had a sour face the rest of the day, exiting early with her friend. So much for the expensive box of chocolates that Stefan wasted his money on.

Another time, I met this really hot girl on the street and took her bar hopping until late into the night. The next day, I showed her pictures to Stefan, and he said that she was hot enough to not make me wander, and so I’d better win her over. Since I had plans to see her again that day, he told me to impress her by getting her a 500 peso cell phone card, to show her that you can spend lavishly on her with no problem. I didn’t agree of course, but he suggested I text her and tell her that I have it for her as a test. I did exactly that, and told her I had a phone card for her and another gift (printed copies of her pictures). She didn’t seem to care. Instead, she stood me up and never showed up for our next appointment. Instead, she hung out with her cousin who was trying to apply at a bar, standing me up. Then she finally agreed to meet up with me late that night, but only hung around for 10 minutes. The next day, she texted me, asking for 5000 pesos (over a hundred dollars) so that her sister can apply to work in Dubai. In outrage, I asked her why I should give away so much money to help her sister, especially after she treated me like shit the other day. Why should I give a fuck whether her sister works in Dubai or not?! It has nothing to do with me. It was the stupidest request in the world. She replied that she was just asking, that’s all. As a test, I asked her if she’d be willing to have sex for the 5000 pesos, and she said no. She wasn’t willing to sell her body for the hundred dollar gift, she just wanted it with no strings attached. What a stupid moron.

Again, so much for the 500 peso phone card gift to impress her.

7. “Hitchhiking is dangerous and should never be advocated.”

Another dumb but understandable statement since many paranoid people share it. The thing is, he is NOT qualified to say that cause he’s never tried hitchhiking before, and most people who have will tell you it’s very safe contrary to the negative stigma attached to it in the US. Comparatively, it’s safer in Europe than the States.

In fact, Kinga (www.ledbydestiny.com, www.hitchhikingtheworld.com) did it for 5 years, starting with $600, traveling the world. The fact that she died of Malaria years later, had NOTHING to do with unsafe hitchhiking practices. However, negative twerps like Stefan ATTEMPT to discredit her with her death, which is very low and offensive to those of us whom she inspired. Just goes to show you what kind of person he is.

8. “You can’t make money in the stock market because the system is doomed to collapse.”

Yet another ridiculous statement that everyone knows is bogus. My parents and many others have made a lot of money from stocks and mutual funds. But anyway, gee what an optimistic statement. I'd love to have him for my stock broker!

This guy is clearly delusional. Normal people don’t make these kind of blunders. Only twisted mad men in their own world, who borderline belong in an insane asylum, make statements like these.

Clearly, people like this, when their insane thoughts are exposed, lose complete credibility to others, and are no longer taken seriously anymore.

9. “Women in England expect men to pay for them, just like Russian women.”

Sheer ignorance isn’t enough to excuse this one. This guy actually claims to have LIVED in England for a number of years! (Perhaps he never left his cottage or went out to meet people, just like his lifestyle in Hawaii) So he has no excuse not to have any experience with British people.

EVERYONE knows that British women are generally independent, reserved, generous, and happy to pay for themselves, usually insisting on paying for themselves. That’s been my experience, every Brit attests to it, and everyone who’s been there knows this. All except Stefan, the man in his own world as usual.

I was just talking about men and women HANGING OUT when this topic was brought up. But even in romantic dating situations, British women often offer to pay for themselves. They can afford it and are proud of their independence.

They are NOTHING at all like Russian women, who on the other hand, DEMAND that any man in their presence pay for them, even if he’s just a friend, acquaintance, or someone they don’t even like!

My blunder?

The only blunder of mine that Stefan can cite is that I often burn popcorn while cooking it in a pot. Big deal! That’s nowhere near the idiocracy and insanity of the 9 statements by him above.

But of course, he will NEVER admit that he’s wrong or recant any of the 9 blunders above. Just watch. Nor will he deny making these statements either, for he did.

Insightful quotes about Stefan Muth

The following are spot-on quotes I’ve collected from advisors and friends about the evil control freak and forest hermit Stefan Muth who created www.diagnose-me.com who hates everyone and is hated by everyone in turn. Not even his Filipina fiancée Rosa, whom he bought from her family with a sh**load of money, truly loves him, as her feigned affections to him in person, which I’ve witnessed many times, are so fake that if they were shown on a movie screen, the audience would complain “She can’t act at all!”

One of Stefan’s ex-workers sent me this letter after he quit that supports and confirms all that I’ve said here, especially about him being an unstable psychopath.

“Hey Winston, this is Joe, remember me from up at Gov before you and Stefan left for the Philippines? We have not talked since you left, but you would likely be very interested to know some of the things that have happened between me and Stefan and some other workers. If anything so that you know just how off-the-rocker he is. He essentially stole 10,000 from me, in the form of wages promised but never paid (this is heavily documented) needless to say I am no longer working for him, and a new worker Mikey and him are possibly embroiled in a legal battle over trivial circumstances. My honest opinion is that he is unstable and possibly not even safe to be around, let alone do business with, I curse my poor judgement in ever trusting him.

Hope all is well with you!”

He later told me in Yahoo Chat:

“He is the most vile and disgusting person i have ever met”

“I have never harmed another human being in my life, and I had to remove myself from him (Stefan) to prevent myself from doing so.”

Now, this is a guy I’ve met who is the type that everyone likes to have for a buddy, always friendly, polite, honest, low key, nonconfrontational, and normally never says anything bad about others. That should tell you a lot.

A Filipino worker employed by Stefan, who is one of the nicest most agreeable people I’ve ever met, had these things to say about him:

“"Living and working with him was sooooooooo stressful. It was the most stressful experience I ever had. He was always angry about everything, even when I did nothing wrong. He tortured my mind! Even when I bowed my head and apologized, it didn't help. I am a God fearing man of peace and cannot handle such constant conflict and stress. It was too much. What you (Winston) wrote about him on your webpages is true."

“That's how he torture me mentally. He exaggerate every situation to look me very bad. He expect me to get a very good work result w/o telling me what's my job.”

"He's mentally ill. He's the most evil person I've ever meet."

Prashant Trivedi, a spiritual leader in India, wrote in a long letter about Stefan after a fiasco where Stefan hacked into his email account and impersonated him in order to attempt to destroy the “intentional community” movement.

“Anyone who has known Stephan Muth for even a short period of time, will attest to the validity of the following information. On the surface, he appears to be above board.

Since we originally published this information, another with whom we never had contact has written to tell us of a similar ugly incident that have occured between them and Stephan Muth.

If you have a concern about this matter, or if you intend to have any dealings with Stephan Muth, we encourage you to be cautious and investigate deeply. He is a very immature, malicious, and deceptive person that is actively preying upon others in the 'Intentional Community' movement.”

You can read Prashant’s entire account here. It is detailed, sincere and objective.

Dan from Hawaii, who partnered up with Stefan back in 2000 to start an eco-community, related this to Prashant Trivedi regarding Stefan after reading his account:

“After about two days of this, Stefan was in my room using the computer, and I wanted to go out to the store. I told him I didn't want anybody in the room when I was gone (I was starting to get suspicious of him, due to the realtor incident and also what he told me about stealing your Communities list).

He told me, "What's the matter, now, Dan, do you think I'm gonna steal your passwords or something?" Then he mumbled under his breath, "I've got them already, anyway".... I didn't take him seriously right then about my passwords. After thinking about what he had said, the next day I asked him what he meant by "I've already got them anyway", he denied that he ever said anything like that.....

I didn't know what he meant until about four days ago, when I decided to look up his number and see if we couldn't resolve this whole thing...at one point he laughed and said, "Do you remember seeing a message on the screen that said, 'You are working under a monitoring program'?"... I told him I did remember that, now that he mentioned it.. He then told me that he had gotten some software off the Web called SKIn98 (Stealth Keyboard Interceptor 98) that records every single keystroke and mouse-click, and can even send the detailed report to a remote e-mail address...He said, "I saw everything, you typed, passwords, everything".... (I guess he'd either forgotten that he vehemently denied having my passwords, or else just didn't care anymore), and when I asked him why he did it, He said he "was just fucking with me, because you're so paranoid". [I guess 'paranoids' really do have people that are out to get them, after all!...] He said he'd have loved to see the expression on my face when I saw the message about being monitored, that's how he was going to 'get to me'....by my seeing the message. Then he slipped and said, that the bad thing about it was that it gave me that message about it monitoring me. It occured to me a little later that he really didn't want me to see the message and be "paranoid", he wanted to monitor my keystrokes, read my messages, and possibly even change or down my website....like he did to yours.

I just wanted to relay this message to you and express my concern and support for you in this matter. I wish there were something to do about this, but I must let karma run its course and stay out of it. I just wish he'd move out from across the hall. It's really starting to annoy me having him around at all...”

You can read Dan’s full letter to Prashant here.

Clearly from what happened above, you can see that Stefan is a mental case and a power tripper who thrives on invoking fear in others.

According to Dan, Stefan’s wife Anna remarked about him:

"Stupid!...He's so stupid!"

One of my advisors, a no-nonsense realist who is an expert on people and bullshit detection, made the following observations and analyses about Stefan after seeing his emails and posts. He texted me these as answers to my questions by phone.

“He is a control freak.”

“I told ya I had a bad feeling about him the first time you described him (long ago).”

“Yeah I saw his photos that you sent out. From his face, I could see that there was something not right about him.”

“His ego has been damaged and he has low emotional intelligence.”

“He uses people for his own benefit. When he is done with them he throws them away.”

“I find it fascinating that people waste their time writing crap about others. They should be worried about their own lives. Just shows you that they don’t

have much of a life I guess.”

“Yeah I read it, he is just a control bully trying to manipulate you through passive-aggressive tactics.”

“He hates you and is a bully. Both. He has serious character flaw issues, that’s why he is a hermit and anti-social.”

Craig, one of my friends from the list who came and visited the Philippines, had this to say about him after hearing my story:

“I knew a guy like him once. He made $15,000 a month in his business, but was a real control freak with no people skills. People only tolerated him because he was paying them. He was nice to you if he found you useful in a business sense, but as soon as you weren’t, he wanted nothing to do with you. I eventually couldn’t tolerate him and had enough.”

Also, he and another guy named Jeff who later came to visit both said independently of each other,

“The only way a guy with that kind of personality can get people to tolerate him is by PAYING them.”

And another friend visiting from New York, a cosmopolitan man with worldly street smarts, commented regarding people like Stefan,

“Some people are brilliant in one area of life but really stupid in another. For example, they might be really good at computer programming, but have horrible people skills.”

On my Forum, which Stefan made a nasty twisted vindictive appearance at, showing his dickhead attitude, a poster commented:

http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=91

“As for Stefan, he totally turned me off. I don't like Stefan at all.”

My close friend Elizabeth had this to say about Stefan:

“He may achieve everything under the sun, but he will forever be too miserable to enjoy it.”

What is most telling is that EVERYONE that has worked for Stefan, not just me, has ended up parting with him under LESS than amicable terms. NO ONE has been exempt. That should tell you a lot. If that doesn’t spell “multiple red flags and bad signs” then I don’t know what does.

The inside story on how Stefan “bought” his Filipina girlfriend

Now, let me give you the inside story about how Stefan “bought” his alleged “successful relationship” with his Filipina girlfriend Rosa.

He met Rosa on a webcam chat site at www.asianbabecams.com (the kind where you pay to watch them strip). When we arrived on November 19, she wouldn’t even talk to him during the first 4-5 days. She didn’t even want to look at him or acknowledge his existence. Instead, she often looked away from him and had an unhappy look on her face. In fact, she even talked to me a lot more than to him. I served as an amusing distraction for her, as I joked around with her and was playful, which almost all Filipinas like as it tickles their funny bone.

During that time, we all hung out as a group with her sister and roommate. Stefan’s girl was interacting and talking to all of us except him. She acted like he wasn’t even there. I felt sorry for him. Rosa’s sister tried to cover for her (as all sisters do) by claiming that she was simply shy and needed time to get to know him. Yeah right. Shy my ass. A shy girl who likes a guy doesn’t look away from him all the time with an unhappy face. Instead, she looks happy and radiant around him, even if she doesn’t say much.

One night, Rosa made herself stay in his hotel room, but rather than make love, she went to sleep and ignored him, giving him the silent treatment. The next night was even worse. After we all went out for dinner, she told Stefan at the door to his hotel room that she would join him shortly after chatting with her sister and roommate. But alas, she never came back that night! He was really ticked about it the next day. A major red flag of disinterest indeed! (or else she was shy and afraid to be alone with him yet)

At that point, it looked for all the world that his intended love affair was doomed and would end soon. All the bad signs were there. It just wasn’t gonna work out, so to speak. So, Stefan had me deliver an ultimatum to them – Either she get her act together and start treating him better, or else he was gonna cancel all their plans as well as his financial support. It was awkward for me having to deliver a serious confrontational ultimatum to 3 cheerful nice girls. Even a blunt and brutally honest person like me hesitated on it, but I did it anyway, since Stefan was my financer and benefactor.

After the ultimatum, things started turning around. Rosa became more affectionate toward him, and one night they finally did it in bed. Ever since then, they’ve lived in the same room in the apartment I shared with them. They have sex regularly, and she shows affection and devotion to him daily.

Now, GET THIS! Here’s the clincher, or the “AH HA!”

During those first 4-5 days, Stefan rented a new apartment for the three girls, bought them a brand new desktop computer (their old one broke), threw hundreds of dollars at them and her family, etc. And on Rosa’s birthday, he gave her family 10,000 pesos ($200) to throw a big party for her 18^th birthday, where he presented her with the biggest present she ever received – a $300 digital camera he bought in the states. In addition, he bought her a new cell phone too. And prior to all this and our arrival, he sent her hundreds of dollars by Western Union to support her and help pay her rent.

And that’s not the end of it, get this: For Rosa’s twin sister’s birthday (which is on the same day as her’s), Stefan took them all to the mall on a shopping spree where they were allowed to buy whatever Rosa’s sister needed for her and her two babies. And they bought A LOT! I was expecting them to be humble and modest and only choose a few things, like most girls I know would. But I couldn’t be more wrong. They stacked the shopping cart to overflowing with clothes, to the extent that we needed two shopping carts. The total price must have been $200 at least. But he was glad to do that for his girlfriend’s sister. What a guy, huh?! Or what a fool? I’m sure they must have loved it, but from an outsider’s viewpoint, should he have sacrificed his dignity and self-respect like that (if he had any)? I don’t know. One could argue that since he was rich, he could afford it. But even if I had his millions, I’m not sure I would have done that. But then again, I’ve never been that rich, so I can’t really say (as lottery winners tend to recklessly over-splurge a lot too). It just seemed like a desperate plea-begging attempt to secure the love of her and her family.

Now, if all this isn’t “buying her love”, then I don’t know what is!

Whatever the case, I’m sure that Rosa’s family must have been more than appreciative of all this. They were probably awestruck at how he was able to spend so much so freely, going overboard oftentimes. They, on the other hand, lived in a cement shack with a tin roof, with walls that were so loose and cheap that they would wiggle when I punched them for fun.

So, with all the facts and events above, can you put 2 and 2 together? Can you see the obvious? Is it all easy to piece together?

A likely scenario?

I could be wrong, but a likely scenario is this:

Rosa didn’t like Stefan when she met him in person. She probably found his sincerity online to be refreshing compared to all the other vulgar obscene guys on those webcam sites. And she appreciated the money he was sending her in ADVANCE (a big no no as we all know). So she thought she could get to like him when he arrived.

(Suffice to say, a pattern I’ve noticed with Stefan is that Filipinas tend to like his pictures online and his appearance in web cam. But in person, they get turned off or creeped out/uncomfortable by him, because he projects a VERY strong negative, anal retentive, hateful, dysfunctional, intolerant, “I am in my own world and I hate everything outside of it” type of VIBE, as I described in the post with his primary traits. Thus, it wouldn’t surprise me if Rosa liked him online but changed her mind when she experienced his vibe and aura in person.)

When he arrived, she realized that she didn’t like him after all, and probably felt uncomfortable around him, as he is an awkward person with no social skills coupled with an extreme negative/anal retentive vibe, and a very nerdy/geeky face. So, she gave him the silent treatment, looking unhappy in the process, subconsciously hoping that it would botch everything without her having to confront him about her true feelings.

But, as described above, after all the shitload of money that he spent and all the fancy things he bought for her and her family, it is probable that at some point during all this, Rosa’s sisters and parents gave her the following pep talk:

“What are you doing Rosa!? This guy is giving us all so much in terms of money, gifts, and financial support. It is more than we could ever have dreamed! This guy is rich and generous. He is the KEY to our whole family’s prosperity and well-being! He is the one who can alleviate our extreme poverty! He is our savior! We NEED him! Make this relationship work! Do it for all of us! We are all depending on it for our livelihood!”

So, since Filipinas have very little individuality and their whole life is about helping their family rather than themselves, Rosa FORCED herself to make the relationship work. With all her will and sense of duty to her family, she made herself like him somehow. And thus she began treating him with affection and like a real boyfriend. To this day, she has probably convinced even herself that she really loves him to death. And to outsiders, and even to me, it sure looks like she does love him and is fully devoted to him. When I look at them, even I am convinced that she truly loves him now.

To this day, Stefan gives Rosa and her two sisters (who both live with them) $100 each, every week. That’s $300 a week that he gives them in cash. (And when I lived with them, he was giving me $100 a week too, which I appreciated) Out of that money, the girls give a portion to their family and keep a portion to themselves. I have no idea what they do with the rest of that money though, as it seems to disappear somehow (they are all still very frugal and act as though they are broke), but no one talks about it and it’s not even discussed. But what’s odd is that they are all getting $1200 a month from him total, and that’s way more than their family needs (most foreign boyfriends here give their girlfriend’s family between $100 and $200 a month, which is enough to satisfy them), so it’s a mystery as to where all that excess money (a fortune to a Filipino family) goes exactly. About once a week, Rosa’s parents come over to collect money from them, to collect “the weekly dues” so to speak.

Not surprisingly though, Rosa’s two sisters hardly ever talk to Stefan, unless they need to. They mostly just stay in their room all day chatting on the internet, occasionally going out to visit their parents. Generally, they don’t socialize with him, don’t go out with him, don’t party with him, and don’t have any meaningful conversations with him. They are like roommate acquaintances to him, around just for the convenience.

And that folks, is their “perfect little arrangement”. What a nice fairy tale happily ever after ending huh? (sarcastic)

So the question is: Did Stefan “buy” Rosa’s love and her family’s approval? Or did she love him from the start and was merely “shy” the first 4-5 days? Circumstantially, it looks at first glance like the former is more likely to be true. But we can never really know for sure, because we can’t go back in time to test what would have happened if Stefan hadn’t splurged all that money and gifts upon Rosa and her family. So we can never prove the true basis of Rosa’s love for him. But the thing is, Stefan doesn’t really care, because for to him “love = money”. And he also believes that the measure of a man is his ability to splurge. Thus to “buy love” is in alignment with his “scientific model” and formula of how life and relationships work.

An expat guy here who’s lived here for many years and has had the same girlfriend for 6 years, whom I told all this to, said that Stefan’s scenario will continue to work as long as he is shelling out the money. And that a Filipina whose boyfriend is financially supporting her family, cannot break up with her boyfriend without the family’s permission. So, as long as her family gets the money, they will need him, and she will stay with him.

Now, I don’t know about you, but that’s not the kind of relationship that I would want. It feels like a lie, and I don’t like feeling like a “Santa Claus” of any sort, unless it’s to my children, but definitely not to a whole unrelated family that wants to leech off me.

Personally though, I’m not sure how long such a relationship can last, as eventually her true feelings toward him will surface, even if she has little or no individuality. But it’s gone on for 5 months now.

PS - There is bad news for him though. When I moved out, Rachel (Rosa's sister) told him that she didn't want to hug me goodbye cause I stank, but the truth is that she gave me two warm hugs goodbye. What this means is that these girls are willing to LIE to him and say what he wants hear to keep his money coming in. Seems like a red flag.

PS 2 – Sadly for him, even though he spent a sh**load of money on Rosa’s 18^th birthday, and gives her $100 a week at least in allowance, when Stefan’s birthday came in late February, she didn’t do sh** for him. All she did was give him a card and cheap T-shirt! Gee wiz! A card and T-shirt? That’s something that a casual friend or acquaintance does for you on your birthday, not a lover! In fact, I even did more for him on his birthday that she did. I treated him to a Chinese restaurant, bought him a big stand up high quality fan, a card, and was going to get a birthday cake for him but couldn’t find one that was purely vegan. You would think that Rosa would at least have done all that. But she didn’t. And money was no excuse, as he gives her $100 a week, which is a fortune in the Philippines and a higher salary than a computer programmer makes there. She could have easily bought him a big present with some of that, and took him to a nice restaurant and did something “romantic”. But I guess she doesn’t think like that. Incidentally, a lot of American expats here have claimed that no matter how much money they give their Filipina partners and their family, they are never really appreciative of it, because in their minds, “he OWES them”. Well that’s just sad and unfortunate.

Now, contrast his relationship with mine:

When I first went out with Dianne, she wasn’t shy toward me and didn’t ignore me, but looked happy with me, enjoyed herself, was very accommodating and even called me her “Prince”. I NEVER gave her any money or bought her any gifts to get her affection or love. I only paid for dinners, drinks and transportation costs. Soon, she gave me lots of love, affection, sensuality, passion, time and devotion. I never had to “buy” any of it or do anything to “win” her over.

Even to this day, I don’t give her money, and when I try to, she always refuses it. I did give her family 3000 pesos ($60) one time to make up for her lost wages from being with me so much, but that was LONG AFTER she gave me her love, started living with me, and we were having sex regularly.

Her family hasn’t tried to leech off me or asked me for regular financial support yet, but even if they do, I know that she won’t let them and will defend me. Contrary to many girls here, she doesn’t like to mix love and money, and doesn’t like to make money a condition of love. She knows that money corrupts love and isn’t comfortable with such exploitative and mercantile arrangements.

Just to give you some examples: When my parents visited, my mom took out $100 to give to Dianne as a gift, but Dianne refused it, even after my mom kept trying to make her take it. Another time, when I was buying a two piece swimsuit for her, we found a nice one in her favorite colors for 800 pesos. Later on, she found another cute one for 299 pesos and told me to put the other one back, as this one was cheaper and just as nice to her.

Now, which relationship do you think is more GENUINE and PURER? Mine or Stefan’s?

PS – Laughably, this wacko likes to compare himself to James Bond too, which he did when I knew him. Sure he may be able to spend lavishly like James Bond does, but excuse me Mr. Nutcase …….

1. James Bond doesn’t have an innate hatred for everyone and everything in the universe.

2. James Bond doesn’t verbally abuse and bully innocent people and turn them into enemies.

3. James Bond dates tall skinny women, not small mediocre young girls that look like children. Unlike you, he has no pedophilic taste in females!

4. James Bond does not have a zero tolerance for risk and danger like you do, you coward!

5. James Bond faces his enemies, and doesn’t run away or give them the silent treatment like you do.

6. James Bond goes out and gets involved in the action, he doesn’t stay in a shack in the forest all day and night like a hermit like you do!

How I had to use law enforcement to stop serious threats from Stefan

From an update to my mailing list describing what happened:

Update: Government officer resolves threat from Stefan! (Did I do the right thing?)

Hi all,
Well it looks like my problem with Stefan has finally been resolved the other day. Let me explain.

You see, even though I signed a No Contact Agreement at the police station, which offered some protection for me, Stefan never signed it and never rescinded his big threat and promise to me that if I didn't leave the country by June 21st, he would have me arrested, deported, and make my life a living hell that I'd regret forever. It was a big and serious ultimatum that he issued last week. And I didn't want to take any chances, since I have a life here, wonderful woman, and coming child and all.

So, with June 21st approaching, I simply couldn't take the risk of waiting around and seeing what he would do or if and how he would carry out his threat and ultimatum. Although everyone, from long-time expats to lawyers and business people here, told me that he could not legally arrest and deport me over threats to him by email (in self-defense that is), I still had no idea what he could do with all his money, and his alleged "contacts in high offices". For all I know, he could be planning to bribe high officials or policemen to have me arrested, since it would be the only way he could carry out his threat to me, as he could do nothing to me legally. It was a logical assumption. And I didn't like doing nothing and feeling like a sitting duck. Thus I thought it wise to DO something, find some help and protection to make sure he couldn't carry out his ultimatum.

So, while I was at a barbecue with some European friends, I told them about my problem and the serious ultimatum imposed upon me by a fellow American that I used to be friends with, to arrest and deport me by June 21st. At first, they told me that bluffing and power/ego trips were common among men in a dispute, and that's probably all it was. But an Austrian friend and German guy told me that they knew someone powerful and trustworthy who could help, who had helped them with unjust threats in the past. His name was Master Galo, the brother of the "Barangay Captain". The "Barangay" are a group of people who make laws and settle things in court, sort of like a legislature and judicial body in one. Every district has a Barangay body. The captain of the Barangay is sort of like the mayor of the district, and holds high executive power almost equal to that of the city mayor. (Incidentally, here in the Philippines, a mayor has a lot more power than a mayor in America) The captain has an authority higher than even the police chief, and is called "the boss" by the police chief as well.

Now, since Master Galo is very close to his brother, like twins, anything he says and does goes as if it were coming from the Barangay captain himself. But this was a man of justice and wisdom, who could not be bribed or corrupted, so the good had nothing to fear from him, only the evil did. As a master in martial arts, he has high discipline and strength of character. He trains policemen at the academy and also teaches self-defense to kids. And he is so strong that he can do push-ups with just one index finger (which I witnessed when I met him) as well as a few other amazing feats. Also, he knows one of Bruce Lee's teachers, a Filipino master who is still alive (but obviously must be very old by now). In addition, he gets flown around the world to teach martial arts in different countries. So not only is he a high ranking official, but a highly respected one as well, for his integrity, honor, and character. What I was told was that if you are in the "right", he is the best help and protector that you can have here, but if you are in the "wrong", he is the worst person you can have against you here.

Perfect, I thought. He would be the one to finally resolve my problem with Stefan (the wealthy former friend of mine and computer programming genius with a heart of hate and cold reptilian blood) once and for all.

So my new German acquaintance brought me over to Master Galo's place to seek his help. After my brief explanation, he agreed to go to Stefan's home to resolve everything, and listen to both sides. Though I was reluctant and uncomfortable about seeing Stefan face to face (and Stefan didn't want to see me either), he insisted that I go along with him. And he assured me that as long as he went with me as arbitrator, I would not be violating the No Contact Agreement that I signed at the police station. But that wasn't my main concern. It was just that me and Stefan were very uncomfortable around each other. His extreme negativity, hatred, and spiritual darkness cloud hovering around him, gave me the chills (as it did to many of my dates in the past), and for some unknown unexplainable reason, he was uncomfortable around me too.

(Note: I have no fear of Stefan in person if it's just me and him, as he is afraid to face me man to man in person <though I've never had anyone fear me before>, and knows that my personality is stronger than his and that I am braver than him. Also, as my debating skills are far better than his, I can easily outwit him, outtalk him, and outreason him head to head in debate. What I am afraid of is his vast amount of money, his highly meticulous detail-oriented mind, and computer genius skills that make him a dangerous force to reckon with.)

But Master Galo insisted I go along so that he can get us to agree to a settlement of peace. So the next day, we went together on a scooter to Stefan's house, where I used to live. I texted Stefan's girlfriend and her sister in advance to let them know we were coming and who I was bringing with me. When we arrived, Stefan wasn't there, but at the hospital with his pregnant fiancée, so we had his girlfriend's sister call him. And he agreed to show up later. While we waited, I took Master Galo to an internet café to show him the threats by email that Stefan made to me and posted on my hate group forum, wooweasel.

When we returned to Stefan's house, I sat outside across the street, while Master Galo talked to Stefan inside his home. After a long time, he came out and had me face Stefan. It turned out that Stefan's threats and claims of having filed 3 processes against me were mostly bluffs. He even denied them and claimed to only have the "intention" of filing charges against me, but never did. However, that contradicted his email and post to the hate group that he had already filed 3 processes against me and that I was in "big, BIG trouble" as he put it. When I mentioned that email, he called me a liar to my face and denied having written that he started any "process" against me. But I have the proof in my email box. So he is either lying or has amnesia. I'm not sure if he was trying to cover his ass in front of Master Galo, or whether it was just a bluff he made that he didn't remember. Either way, whether he filed any "process" against me or not, the fact that he denied it in front of Master Galo rendered whatever he did file on me (if he really did) inert.

Master Galo got us both to agree to not to harm each other or hire thugs to "hit" each other. I heartily agreed and wished for peace. But Stefan was dodgy on whether he was going to file any charges against me with the local government. He did claim that he would file charges against me at the US Embassy in Manila when he goes there to apply for a fiancée visa for his girlfriend. Since that was out of Master Galo's jurisdiction, he was free to do so, which Galo acknowledged. But of course, I was free to file counter-charges at the US Embassy as well, and/or clear up any false charges made by him. It seemed as though he implied that he would not try to do anything against me with the Philippine authorities, only with the US Embassy. He didn't say those exact words, but it seemed like that was his intention from the context of his statements (especially since he knows that he has no legal action against me here).

Master Galo wanted us to shake hands in agreement and peace. I was willing to, but Stefan refused, spouting "We have nothing to shake on!" Instead, he gazed at me with PURE HATRED and EVIL in his eyes. It was a bit frightening and worse than I expected. I have never seen such a look of pure hate directed at me before. It made my blood chill. When I glanced at him, I saw nothing but death and destruction in his eyes, which he willed at me with menacing eyes. It was like something out of a horror movie. There was this coldness in his eyes and gaze that was almost inhuman, as though he completely lacked any warmth, kindness or heart. It reminded me of the cold sociopathic look that the infamous Katya gave me during our fight in Moscow. Although I was completely safe in Master Galo's presence (not that Stefan can kick my a** anyway), I felt as though my soul was being pierced by his gaze of pure hatred and vindictiveness.

To me, it was a gaze of pure evil, a look of spiritual darkness. And incidentally, that's one of the reasons I moved out a few months ago. Beside his unjustified constant verbal abuse, I couldn't tolerate being around him everyday with his cold sociopathic look that chilled my blood and this dark spiritual energy that hovered around him. (Most of the girls I brought home at the time felt it too – his cold stare and dark energy - and were uncomfortable in his presence) All that made me very uncomfortable everyday (after all, who wants to come home to verbal abuse and dark spiritual energy that chilled your blood everyday?!). My soul and emotions desperately wanted to be free of such a negative uncomfortable influence, and so I took the next opportunity for us to part ways.

When I first met Stefan in Hawaii back in October, although he was technically my friend and supporter, I had a bad gut feeling about our relationship. It was kind of like how the Jedi Council felt in "Star Wars: The Phantom Menace" when Qi Gong Jin insisted on training Annakin to be a Jedi. Though it seemed like a good idea on the surface, there was a dark cloud of foreboding hovering over our future together, and now I know why.

Any other normal man with a heart would have shaken my hand in peace and tried to put it behind us. But not him. Oh no. He was different. There was a coldness in his blood and gaze, which was chilling and inhuman.

You might be wondering why this guy Stefan hates me so much. Well that's what I was going to ask you. I SWEAR that I was always kind to this guy, always nice to him, and always did everything he asked. I NEVER wronged him, backstabbed him, or betrayed him in any way at all, PERIOD. The choice to become my enemy was HIS CHOICE alone. I NEVER made the choice to become his enemy, at all. So how can a man hate someone so intensely, who never wronged him????!!!!!!!! I don't get it, and I find it very baffling, insane and irrational. Maybe you can explain it to me?! But I guess the emotion of "hate" is not logical or rational anyway, but highly subjective and personal. I honestly don't know why, nor can I fathom how he could have come to hate me so much with pure menace. Can anyone out there explain it to me? Any good theories?

The police station staff whom I visited last week also wondered the same thing. They couldn't get why this Stefan hated me so much either. They also found it amusing that two former friends who flew to the Philippines together could be at each other's throats like this. But when they saw pictures of us with our girlfriends on the computer, they jokingly postulated that perhaps he was jealous that my girlfriend was way hotter than his. But I don't think that's his motive, since he considers his girlfriend to be a 9.5, near perfect, and so theoretically wouldn't think that any other girl would be much hotter (and if he did, with all his money he could get someone hotter anyway). So I don't know. Your guess is as good as mine. Any ideas?

I don't know. Maybe his ego was damaged one day during our chess marathon, when I beat him 8 or 9 times, totally outwitting and outstrategizing him. Even though it was only a game, with a madman, who knows what effect it could have. Or perhaps with his "God complex" and dysfunctional ego, he believes that while he can dispense unlimited criticism at others, if someone returns his criticism or stands up for himself, then in his eyes, "they're dead"? I don't know. Whatever it is, all I know is that it is completely UNDESERVED and UNEARNED.

All I do know is that he loves to ridicule, criticize, insult, and blast me with a ton of adjectives that are totally unfounded and without evidence, though he believes are all true. Either I am blind to my own faults (which we all are to a degree) or he has deep emotional/psychological problems/imbalances which he projects out onto others, including innocent people (as well as a very low emotional IQ). I strongly believe the latter, since almost all his criticisms toward me are backed with zero evidence or legitimacy.

Anyway, back to the story. Stefan wouldn't shake my hand or agree to anything, even peace. But he shook Master Galo's hand and angrily said that he never wanted to see my face again. Then we all parted.

When I hopped onto Master Galo's scooter with him, I said to him, "Did you see what I was talking about earlier - the cold look in his eyes and voice, the hatred in his gaze……. it's as if his heart and blood are cold, like he's not human, but a machine! He wouldn't even smile! There was no peace or warmth inside him! Did you see what I mean?" Master Galo replied, "Yeah I did. It's a good thing that you moved out of there. Best to stay away from him."

I then added, "You see, any normal guy, such as our mutual European friends, would have shaken hands and made peace after apologizing over a quarrel or dispute, and let it go. But this guy is different. He's almost inhuman. There's no genuine warmth in him even. And that's why I was afraid of what he could do with his money and computer genius brain." He agreed.

For his time and help, I treated Master Galo to lunch. During lunch, I found out that we had some things in common. He shared some of my spiritual beliefs, and the belief that true love has nothing to do with money. He's also interested in Chinese philosophy, knows about Lao Tzu's teachings (yin yang), traveling (been to Europe too), and is educated. We agreed on a lot of things and shared common views. He was definitely more interesting than I thought. So not only is he a powerful acquaintance and ally to have, but a good conversationalist as well. Hopefully, he will come to the next barbecue of my European friends, which are mutual friends of his too. Afterward, he drove me back home.

I felt relieved that the feud with Stefan is finally over, and that I can finally get on to other more important and positive things and people. I know I might have been a bit over-paranoid about Stefan's threats of having me arrested and deported, since everyone told me that he was bluffing and bullying me as a scare tactic, but I just didn't want to take any risks and wait around til June 21st to see how he was going to carry out his promise to have me arrested and deported by then. It was better to be safe than sorry, I felt, since so much was at stake here, should he deliver on his threat. So I sought help and protection.

Maybe I overreacted, but strategically speaking, I think I did the right thing. Bringing over a powerful official in response to his serious un-retracted threats to me accomplished several things: 1) It showed him that he can't get away with serious threats to destroy my life here, have me falsely arrested and deported, etc. 2) It showed him that I'm not all talk, but a man who takes ACTION. 3) And most importantly, it showed him that I can muster powerful allies at my side when I need to, who have high authority, so that he'd better not try anything shady or underhanded against me.

With all that, whether the threats and ultimatum from him were bluffs or not (I do believe he was really seeking a way to carry them out, even if he couldn't), my actions here put a stop to it either way. Now my fears have calmed and I can sleep easier.

Even though I'm technically safe for now, I'm still shaken up about the cold evil look of pure hatred in his eyes. It was so inhuman, evil, sociopathic, and cold-blooded. I could never imagine myself sinking to that. It's just chilling scary, to the point where it makes your blood feel cold to be around him. I feel like I've just seen the devil face to face. Even though I'm safe, won this battle, and his efforts to arrest and deport me have failed, I can still feel him "psychically" attacking me with intense hatred, anger, malice and vindictiveness running through his veins, heart, mind and soul.

I guess the moral of this story is: When you are in a foreign country, try to make as many friends and contacts as you can into your network, because if you need help someday, it makes it a lot easier to get it. And that's something easy for me of course, since I'm very outgoing and social. (whereas Mr. Cold-Blooded is not)

At this point, Stefan is still planning to file charges against me at the US Embassy. I heard about this from spies I have on the hate forum wooweasel, which Stefan still posts to as his support group. But the US Embassy will not do anything as disputes between foreigners here are out of their jurisdiction. At most, they may file his charges away as evidence for reference sake. I plan to write them an email or warn them about Stefan's possible arrival there on June 21st, and that if he does, to inform me so I can clear things up or file counter charges. Either way, I don't think much will come out of his Embassy efforts to get me somehow.

Anyhow, I mark that day as a TRIUMPH of Good over Evil.

Thanks for reading,
Winston

Stefan’s new website about me – PROOF that he is a LIAR and a THIEF

As of now, Stefan has even sponsored a new anti-Winston site to bash me. He even bought a new domain name for it. You can see what he has put together about me on it at

http://www.winston-wu.com

As you can see, the site content contains no substance or legitimate arguments against me. He can’t even cite one thing I did wrong to him, cause there are none. All he does it belittle me about money and dick size. And he cites his twisted opinions as though they were facts, and contains deliberate lies as well as stolen pictures he hacked from my Yahoo email account. For instance, he says on it that on the day of my baby’s delivery, I sexed a whore and filmed it, which he knows is false. The sex pictures of me and a bar girl were taken in December 2006, while my baby was born in January 2008, so how could they be at the same time? He knew about that specific bar girl long ago since I showed him pictures of her before at the time they were really taken. His fellow bashers of me have already stopped making this false charge, but he hasn’t. Apparently, in his mind, when he dislikes someone, he thinks it’s ok to knowingly lie about them publicly, to make him look bad.

Nevertheless, fair is fair and since he put up that site about me, I too have a right to put up this webpage about him as well, exposing the honest truth about him and who he is.

Anyhow, here’s easy PROOF that this man is both a LIAR and a THIEF. In his site www.winston-wu.com he says that I slept with a bar girl in those photos on the same day that my baby was being delivered, illegally displaying the porn pictures of me that he illegally hacked from my Yahoo email. The girl in those porn photos is Mary Ann, who used to work in the bar called Typhoon, located on Fields Ave in Angeles City, Philippines. Here is her picture:

http://www.happierabroad.com/P8100226.JPG

All you have to do is go to the link above, save it as a picture file, then print it out and bring it to the bar Typhoon and ask the management about her. Anyone can do this, including Stefan himself, since he lives here in Angeles City now. They will tell you that she left the bar and left town long ago back in February or March of 2007. I haven't seen her since then! My baby was born in January 9, 2008. That's A YEAR after I saw Mary Ann. So how could I be having sex her if I hadn't seen her for a whole year!? The answer is that I wasn’t. Those stolen images were from a video shot back in December 2006.

Also, Stefan stole those porn pictures from my AOL Pictures private account by stealing the link from my Yahoo email. If you don't believe it, then go to http://pictures.aol.com and try to find the porn album publicly. You can't, because it's a private album, which he stole from my private email.

So, he is a LIAR and a THIEF. But him and his villainous bashers don’t care. They do not care about right and wrong, only in seeing others brought down. If he had any integrity, he would remove the FALSE information about me. But he doesn’t. He doesn't care about the truth or about fairness for that matter. He just loves to hate and see others go down and will do anything to accomplish his evil desires.

2 Absolute proofs of Stefan Muth's insanity and wickedness

Here are two absolute proofs beyond a doubt of Stefan Muth's insanity and sickness.

1) Even though I was kind to him and did EVERYTHING he asked me to do (under an informal contract), he declared me his enemy, for no reason other than that he suddenly decided that he "despised" me!

Now think on this for a moment. What person in his right mind would turn someone who was kind to him, and did everything he asked, and did NO WRONG to him, into a sworn enemy that he loathed?!

Not even villains do that. Not even Hitler and the Nazis would have done that. Think about it. If I were an officer with the Nazi army or SS, and I did everything I was told and failed none of my missions, would I suddenly be declared an "enemy of the state"? Of course not. I would be decorated and commended for my service to the state, and be considered an ideal citizen for others to emulate!

So, if even Hitler and the Nazis would have treated me better, what does that say about Stefan Muth?! Nothing good I'm afraid. This fact alone is absolute proof of his insanity and wickedness.

2) He has publicly declared on his hate site about me, www.winston-wu.com, that he plans to SUE MY PARENTS!

Here have a look at a screen shot of this declaration in his own vile words!

http://www.winston-wu.com

"Why don't I simply sue this twit? Applying libel laws to a penniless individual hiding in a Third World country is not easy. But yes, steps in this direction are being taken since even one counterfactual statement constitutes libel. Wu's activities are supported by his father who, if implicated, will be included in the lawsuit.”

Of course, such a plan has no chance of succeeding, as any court or judge in the world would laugh him away. But the fact that he has such an evil twisted INTENT says a lot about his true character, and is another absolute proof of his sick insanity, which should be avoided at all costs.

After all, what person in his right mind would go after an adversary's parents, who had no part in the feud, out of pure meanness? It's totally indecent, inappropriate, irrational and insane!

These two proofs alone speak volumes!

Now, would you like to get involved with him or his Diagnose-Me.com site?

Comparison References: Stefan Muth vs. Winston Wu – Who would you trust?

Five Sources Confirm Stefan Muth to be a Cyber Hacker

This is what will happen to you if you work for Stefan Muth

Conclusion

What can we conclude based on all the above? Only one thing. This man’s abusive malicious insane behaviors and past criminal cyber hacking activities, make it impossible for him to get along with others smoothly and harmoniously. With his God complex he is practically unredeemable, and has less emotional maturity than any child I’ve ever met. And his nasty horrible qualities have only gotten worse with time, not better. He hates people in general, is uncomfortable around people, and derives pleasure in bashing and belittling others. And he currently enjoys bullying me with scare tactics. He is a VILLAIN down to the core, and proud of it.

So, if you are considering becoming involved with him, keep in mind the checklist presented earlier of what you should know about him first. And be prepared to be the victim of many wrongs that will befall you, like they did to me.

The fact that he would hate and make an enemy out of an innocent person who befriended him and never did him any wrong, speaks volumes about how whacked, mad, and crazy he really is. He basically has no legitimate arguments or reasons to hate me or attack me, so he resorts to lying and belittling me with scare tactics. A true madman to be avoided for sure.

In case you think it’s a case of my word against his, you can verify my credibility vs. his here. And my integrity can be vouched for here: http://www.happierabroad.com/CheckMe.htm.

I think the world as well as himself, is better off with this guy put away in an insane asylum, in jail, or at least left by himself in the forest as a hermit so he can bother no one and won’t be able to deceive others into working for him again. He literally hates and despises everything and everyone in the universe, tries to bring out the worst in others, and revels in it, repeating this dysfunctional cycle without end. But alas, his ways can only lead to destruction in the end. Hopefully anyone who considers becoming involved with him will google his name and find this page.

Hopefully, his bought Filipina fiancée will realize this before it’s too late. She is deeply unhappy with him, and anyone can see that no matter how much she tries to fake it out of shame. She didn’t even do sh** for him on his birthday. When they were in America, he kept her locked up in his forest shack like “Rapunzel” I heard, so that he could control her life. Hopefully, someday she will realize the error of her ways too, that money isn’t everything, and that a relationship based on financial need is unhealthy and can never work out in the long run, and that selling herself to him for her family’s financial salvation was not really a wise thing to do.

Now normally I do not hold grudges, and am willing to apologize, forgive and forget petty disputes I have with others. However, this is nothing of the sort. You see, once you’ve experienced the ugliness of his insatiable hatred and wrath, it possesses and consumes you with the same hatred back toward him. And no horror movie seems scary again in comparison to what he is. It leaves such an ugly mark and taste on your soul and psyche that you don’t forget it. This is hard to describe in words, it’s one of those things you have to experience to know what I am talking about. Dan, Prashant and Joe know what I am talking about, and that is apparent from their accounts of him. Once you experience the wretched ugliness of his true nature, even the demon possessed girl in the movie “The Exorcist” seem like campy Disney characters in comparison. Seriously. No horror movie seems scary in comparison to him. Even sewer filth is not as dirty as what he is. That’s the best way I can put it in words.

I mean, for Heaven’s sake, the guy walks around with this lethal energy field around him that make you feel like your own molecular cells are being attacked with some poisonous radiation. In short, his aura vibes are like “toxic chemicals”. That’s how bad his disgusting personality has permeated his own aura even. To say “Yuck” would be an understatement. That’s why everyone who ever knew him leaves with a very sick feeling in their stomach.

Buddha said that some people are like a stick with fire on one end and feces on the other. If you touch them, you either get burnt or dirty, so better not to touch them at all. I think Stefan Muth is such a type.

Thank you for reading. If you wish to leave comments about this article, you may do so at the new blogs about Stefan below:

New Sites warning about Stefan Muth

http://stefanmuth.blogspot.com

http://stefanmuth.wordpress.com

http://www.ripoffreport.com/reports/0/410/RipOff0410674.htm

The above three were compiled by me, but this blog below, which has nothing to do with me, somehow has him on a “List of known Cyberpaths” on the right side of the page. I have no idea how he got on it, but oh well.

http://cyberpaths.blogspot.com/

Breaking News! Stefan loses all his workers in a nasty fight, is in danger of being convicted of tax fraud and losing custody of his son

Dear all,

I got some startling news about my former friend turned enemy Stefan Muth. Apparently he’s in some trouble, which I have been feeling with my sixth sense for a long time now. Recently I chatted with one of Stefan’s former workers (who prefers to remain anonymous) on Yahoo Messenger and found out some startling updates. Apparently, after he disowned me coldly without even a parting handshake and declaring himself my enemy, he continued his hate rampage and psychotic behaviors after returning home to Hawaii.

When he left the Philippines and got back to his isolated shack in the forest of Laupahohoe, Hawaii with his Filipina fiancée Rosa, whom he bought and who doesn’t even love him, he coldly turned on all three of his workers there as well. He jipped them of many months in wages, broke his promises to repay goods that he ordered, stole $10,000 in promised wages from his website manager and computer worker, and verbally abused the hell out of everyone. In effect, he did everything he could to turn them against him, satisfying some dark morbid urge in him, as usual. It got so bad, I heard, that all his workers wanted to “beat him up” for being the biggest mean spirited dick in the world! And this included this New Age hippie guy that’s been there for two years who is always positive, happy-go-lucky and nonjudgmental. (To get a guy like that to want to beat you up, you’d have to have done something very very bad beyond words)

His website manager said that although he had never harmed another human being in his life, he was strongly tempted to beat up this evil nut Stefan, so that he had to leave the premises of this wicked man to prevent himself from losing control. Thus he came the closest he’s ever came in his life to getting into a physical fight with another human being. That’s what nasty cretins like Stefan Muth do to people, turning totally nonviolent people into feeling violent for the first time. Stefan loves to turn all his workers and friends against him into enemies. He can’t seem to help himself.

Another worker, a big guy hired for construction project, wanted to ring Stefan’s neck, but the other two workers had to restrain him. That’s how bad it got.

With $10k in stolen wages lost, the website manager bowed out gracefully, leaving Stefan’s fate to his own karma. Afterward he described Stefan as “highly unstable”, “not even safe to be around, let alone do business with” and “the most vile disgusting person I ever met”.

So all his workers had it with him and left. With no one to do all his errands and chores, Stefan had to resort to hiring some drugged out drifters, I hear, the type he totally despises, to help him with daily essential tasks. Thus he’s all alone now and surrounded by people he hates. Way to go psycho!

The former workers that Stefan screwed over and abused, have reported him to the IRS with inside knowledge of how he committed tax fraud, citing 27 incidents. He was buying thousands of dollars of goods and services and writing them off his taxes as business expenses, when they really weren't, and asking his workers to cooperate in on the matter. I too can vouch for this fact, because I’ve personally witnessed him claim that he was planning to write off many non-business expenses as business expenses on his taxes, and in fact he asked me to generate fictitious business letters and reports to try to make these expenditures look like business expenses. That is a fact. It is their hope that the IRS will investigate and put him in serious trouble. Surely the 10K discrepancy in the tax return will trigger an audit by the IRS at least.

Also, his two year errand boy and his ex-Russian wife are considering filing for custody of Stefan’s male child (his daughter already lives with the mom) which they have a case for, since Stefan is now without a doubt clinically insane. There is no misunderstanding or ambiguity about it, as the examples of his insanity are enough to build a mountain with. Plus the drugged out drifters in his forest preserve make it an unsafe environment for children as well.

To read his side of the story about this fiasco where he lost all his workers, click here.

Appendix: Read Stefan Muth’s own words about why he hates me (with my comments in parantheses)

Read these letters from evil Stefan Muth below about why he hates me, and I challenge you to find even one legitimate or valid reason in them. They will tell you what kind of person he is, as his own words back up my statements about him.

Stefan Muth’s side of the story about our history and parting (with my comments in parentheses)

After I parted ways with Stefan Muth, my ex-friend turned arch enemy last year, he wrote up this account of our history and parting ways to my arch enemy Dave Fuller, which Fuller happily posted to wooweasel. Here below you can read it to get his side of the story.

But as you can see, nothing he says about me is a legitimate argument against me. He only cites behaviors and lifestyles which he finds despicable about me, but nothing morally, ethically or legally wrong about me. In fact, I've always said, and I'll say it again, I've never done any wrong to this guy. Not only did I do EVERYTHING he asked me to do, but I let myself serve as his "verbal punching bag" too. It isn't my fault that he found me "not useful" to him. Simply put, he gave me NO WORK, so I had no work to do for him. That's not my fault of course. But purely his. And the fact that he attempts to cite it against me shows how crazy he is. In my many jobs, I've had good bosses, bad bosses, and so-so bosses, but never have I had one that gave me no work, literally, and blame me for it. That's insanity!

In fact, his own words incriminate him and reveal him to be the kind of person I describe in my web page about him at the link above. In part 2, he even admits that he saw me as his "verbal punching bag" and relished it, showing what an ass of a person he really is. Any sane person knows that anyone who needs to use others, especially those who befriend him, as a "verbal punching bag" has issues and is a dysfunctional asshole.

Anyhow, here is Stefan's side, in his own words, in two parts, with an introduction by my arch enemy Dave Fuller, and my comments in parentheses:

---------- Forwarded message ----------
From: Edward Nigma <the_riddler_1969>
Date: Mar 31, 2007 5:33 AM
Subject: [WooWeasel!] The Wu Exposed Part One
To: wooweasel@yahoogroups.com

Well I gave you a preview of what to expect. The following is part
one of two very revealing emails about Wu. The emails were sent to
me in private by none other than Wu's sponsor on his latest
adventures in the Philippines. The guy thought he could change Wu
for the better but after months of trying in vain to change him, he
realised it was a hopeless cause. As off last week Wu was booted out
of his free accommodation and forced to fend for himself. His
sponsor finally lost patience with him. Below is the first part of
some very revealing things about Wu from someone who spent the best
part of 3 months living with him. To those of us her who know the Wu
none of this is really a surprise but still, it's a damn good read
nonetheless and hilarious as hell. Enjoy....
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Hello Riddler,

Indeed, I am Winston's 'flatmate' and 'mysterious benefactor'. Your
insight amazes me...

Winston has previously forwarded me what you have written to and
about him (bloody hilarious!), and I've been reading your more
recent writings in this forum also. It is so accurate, save for a
couple of minor details... and yet you've never met him?

I met Winston online last May. He seemed "interesting", and
certainly doesn't have trouble chatting up the ladies (as you know,
he is totally unselfconscious), so I figured I'd invite him over
since I am no good with ladies. I also felt sorry for the poor slob.

After he arrived in Hawaii, back in September I think, various odd
behaviours were apparent, but overall he added general hilarity to
the situation and we accepted him. I was keen to go to the
Philippines (I am here now, with my fiancee -- not a bar girl by the
way, her family lives here -- awaiting her visa), and so was he. So
we traveled here together in mid-November and I rented a house. I
went back to Hawaii a couple of times to catch up on business, while
he stayed here permanently.

(Comment: His fiancee wasn't a bar girl, but she was a webcam girl, and the fact that she was 17 when he met her online, turned him on, he said)

His behavior with and towards women is... well, how can one describe
it? Pathetic? Groveling for sex... fondling/caressing all the
time... tightwaddish... unfaithful... constantly 'thinking with the
wrong head'... you know it all. In short, he's a 'pig' and if he had
an alcohol problem on top of it he would be "perfect".

(Comment: Yeah well that's your opinion. The girls didn't have a problem with it. Only you did. The problem was in your mind. They liked me a lot and showed it in various ways. I have a personality that is sweet, funny, romantic and sappy which they connect with, that most westerners here don't have, which gives me points over other guys that might have more money. Simply put, I know how to make the girls FEEL GOOD, not just be their sugar daddy like Stefan does)

He simply can not understand that, without money (and it soon
becomes apparent to every girl that he doesn't have much), he is
even less desirable than a Filipino man. At least they can be
attractive, fit, decent... and have more than a "toothpick" (as a
bar girl called it last week!) between their legs. Yes, Winston was
in a bar last week, and apparently the girls decided to take 'it'
out and play with it. One of them said "But it's just a toothpick!",
to which he replied, "Yes, but I promise it will get bigger"!

(Comment: Oh but I am considered attractive by the cultural standards in the Philippines. I am far closer to the cultural ideal male here than the cultural ideal male in the US, for sure. The only people that say I'm not are American men, but who cares, I'm not trying to attract or date American men! As long as Filipinas think I'm attractive, that's what counts.)

I have tried and tried and tried for the past months to make him see
the light. To treat women with respect, "splurge" $10 on a date, not
fondle and grope all the time, NOT go to bars right in front of them
(yes, he actually peeled off with another guy into a bar, leaving
his former "#1" Leah with me and my fiancee last month)... and to
use a condom!

(Comment: You don't know shit about women Stefan and you have NEVER even had even one American girlfriend, while I've had two. I've tried all your advice and none of it worked. Splurging money has never created attraction or chemistry for me.)

He says he usually has to use 3 condoms during a session
because "They keep coming off"! More often than not he can't
perform, so plays the "rub the toothpick against the thigh" game,
which is probably most off-putting to women. And he doesn't even
wonder why they don't come back for another date... he puts it down
to "incompatibility" or some other problem of hers.

(Comment: My problem with condoms and small penis size are NOT my fault. And yes most girls here do come back for a 2nd date. You only wish and think that they don't, cause you want to believe the worse about me, cause that's what you feed on, negative stories, and sometimes you have to fabricate them to satisfy yourself. YOU are the one who says they don't come back for a 2nd date, not me. That's not something that's true. It's something that you WANT to believe only. Like I've said before, I bet you $100 to find or name 3 girls that I've dated who you think won't see me again, and if I can get 2 of them to see me again, then I win. But you chickened out, cause you know I'd win and that deep down, you have no real argument against me.)

He is the only man I know of where women complain after 5 minutes
saying he's taking too long!

(Comment: Only whores who don't care about me complain about how long I take. But every whore monger here has had that experience with impatient bar girls, not just me.)

So, I have tried for these past few months to change him, but even a
Saint has his limits of patience and I have realized, as everyone
else does (some quicker than others), that he is not susceptible to
the opinions of others. He is perfect in his own eyes; he is
delusional and in complete denial of his behaviours. He's in the
marching band where everyone else is marching out of tune... not
him. When a girlfriend sees him with bar girls on Fields Avenue,
he's not "being unfaithful", he's "socializing"... and he always
somehow turns it around to be her fault. When he complains about
spending a few cents, he's not being a tightwad, he's "being frugal -
- a trait that women admire".

(Comment: I am always open to change for the better. But that's not what you offered. You criticized things that didn't matter, or cited false facts that were not even true. What am I supposed to do, pretend that your lies are true? I am not perfect in my own eyes. Your assessment of me and others is simply inaccurate. And for someone with no people skills, you are not in a position to counsel others on relationships.)

I was sincerely hoping that he would find a nice girl, and be
faithful to her and treat her well. I was even prepared to put him
on the payroll and vouch for him so that he could obtain a fiancee
visa for her.

But last week I finally had it with him; I felt I had given him
enough chances and as much as I hate to abandon human beings or
animals (including pigs), I gave him an 'ultimatum' (one of his
favourite words in addition to "do-able" as in "she's do-able"
and "exotic" which is used to describe things he is unfamiliar with,
which is most things). I told him that I wanted some useful work
from him -- some actual effort on his part in some area, or I was
not going to put up with his lecherous behaviour, his "uselessness",
or the stink emanating from his room, anymore.

(Comment: Funny you say that. What "useful work" did you want? You never gave me any work. That's not my fault. You expect me to read your mind and know what you want without asking? That's insane. For you to expect that shows that you are "off the rocker", as your other workers said. I've had bad bosses before, but never one that gave no work and blamed me for it. That's insane. And any reasonable, rational person knows it. FYI, I was already improving myself in a lot of ways. I had just found my soulmate and real girlfriend Dianne too, at the time. The problem was that YOUR MIND wanted to see the worst. To this day, you are unable to cite one improvement that I didn't do that would have made a difference.)

He was unwilling to change anything, thinking he is perfect in every
way, so I asked him to find his own place. He has now found himself
a bedsit which is a 5-minute walk away from Fields, thus saving him
7 pesos each way, every day. It costs him 3500 pesos per week, plus
bills, so he should be able to afford to live here for a few more
months since his father has just given him $5000 in cash and $10000
in a stock trading account.

(Comment: Correction. I was the one who offered to move out, to stop your constant complaints about me, which had no solution and was not in my power to change, since there was nothing real to fix. You then accepted it since there was no other solution and our parting was inevitable. You were simply shitting on about nothing specific, so there was no logical solution to my problems with you and your nasty personality. To this day, you have not given any logical explanation for any of this, nor have you explained what I could have done differently to satisfy you. It appears you simply hated me and had enough of me, had no more use for me (after me and my advisor led you to your fiancee, which you never thanked us for), and was looking for excuses to justify ejecting me from your life. The place I moved to was 3500p a month, not a week. Again, you are inaccurate with facts and details, not me.)

Now that I have told you about myself, could I ask how you came to
know him, and why you appear to have made it your life's mission to
tarnish this poor soul's already rock-bottom image in a very
hilarious way? I mean, why kick the poor bastard when he's down
(even if he doesn't know it)?

It is better that you don't let him know I contacted you, since he
might then cut me out of his loop, thereby depriving me of some
schadenfreude.
{he later agreed it was ok to post this. That was why I didnt post
it the other day}

Regards,

WuCares

(Continued in part 2)

Fuller:

Here comes Part Two. Some hilarious and sickening stuff in here.
There is one part that had me laughing for over 30 minutes and still
does just thinking about it. Enjoy...
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Stefan:

Hello Riddler,

Would you mind if we move future conversations over to e-mail? I
find it easier to see what I'm replying to that way... my e-mail is
wucares@g0v.org (or anything else at g0v.org). That's g0v with a
zero, not an '0'. My real name is Stefan XXXXXXXX, by the way.

Sure, go ahead and share with Wuever you want to. It would actually
be funny if the Wu suspects his two arch nemeses have combined
forces, yet can't prove anything. I'll deny everything...

(Comment: That comment above shows what kind of person you are and doesn't say good things about your honesty and integrity. There you admit that you would deny this whole email of yours to Fuller, in effect saying that you are willing to lie and cover things up. So much for credibility.)

Believe it or not, I was not lying back and taking it -- I have
really given him an 'earful' in scores of e-mails over the past few
months. I have *really* laid into him, but to the Wu it's all like
water off a duck's back. I call him my "verbal punching bag",
because I can let off steam on him any time -- stuff that would get
me killed around most people -- and he remains in complete calm self-
control. We have to give him points for that. So in that respect you
are wrong -- NOTHING get's under his skin. Nothing!

(Comment: True, but again, the fact that you would use someone who befriended you and was helpful to you as a "verbal punching bag" shows what kind of a person you are. Your words are self-evident in my claims about what kind of person you are, and are self-incriminating as well. Anyone can see you are dysfunctional, fucked up, psycho, and a villain, for needing to use others as a verbal punching bag.)

And, let's be honest and say we feel sorry for the guy. What would
you do if you had a 3-1/2 inch endowment, and few unpaid women would
want to sleep with you a second time? It must be a pretty sad
situation to be in. We should count our blessings.

(Comment: Dude, I've had FAR MORE unpaid women sleep with me than you, and you know it. In fact, I've exceeded the national US average of 10 sexual partners in a lifetime long ago.)

Not that his behaviour doesn't lose him any goodwill he has ever
earned. The women here are (usually) especially naive, compliant and
innocent, as you know. If a guy asks for unprotected anal sex, I am
99% sure he'll get it every time. It is therefore the moral
imperative of the stronger, more willful, more knowledgeable and
influential party (the Western man) to take the reins of
responsibility... something that Winston will not do. If he made
some sweet 19-year-old pregnant, or supplied her with syphilis, he
wouldn't care and he wouldn't support her because he would turn it
around to be her fault somehow... and he couldn't afford it anyway.

(Comment: Correction, I'd say around 50 percent of girls here will have unprotected sex.)

It makes me sick to watch him each time he gropes a beautiful young
thing and says, "Look at how innocent she is!" It is like watching
Dracula rub his hands at the sight of a new victim. I was hoping to
curb that behavior, partly for his sake but mainly for all the women
he was, is and will be defiling. Then again, any woman who sleeps
with someone as obviously lecherous as he can't say she didn't see
it coming.

It came to the point where not subsidising him seems the only
option... hopefully his father will run out of money eventually so
that Wu has to get off his fat arse and take responsibility for
something.

Actually, my ex-wife was Russian too. From St. Petersburg. Our
divorce was final last October, after 9 years and 11 months of
marriage. She became a fundamentalist Christian (with the emphasis
on mental) back in 2001 and we fell out of love from that point
onwards. She divorced me. My fiancee now is 14 years younger (1, a
whole foot shorter (4'11), with feet about 6 sizes smaller, and much
better endowed. She also has a wonderful attitude.

Boy do I have some stories about Winston. He has (rather amazingly)
publicised most of them, as you know, like the one where he wonders
whether he should barfine a girl on his birthday since his "#1"
wasn't sure she could make it (!!??)... all the time whining about
no one baking him a cake, singing "happy birthday" and helping him
to blow out the candles.

(Comment: And I was justified in doing so. Nothing wrong or despicable about wanting to have a good time on your birthday.)

One you probably haven't heard occurred in January. We were sharing
this house where I am now with my fiancee, her twin sister, older
sister and their female friend (yes, it beats sharing with 4 guys by
several miles!) Winston had had one of his sordid nights with his
then "#1", and was sitting on his bed in his usual stupefied-looking
manner. Three of the girls went in to his room for some reason (no
idea why... it really stank), and my fiancee's older sister slipped
(but didn't fall) on Winston's spent condom, which was lying out in
the open, unsealed on the concrete floor. Arrrggghhhh!

(Comment: So what? Just cause a girl slips on a condom in my room does not make me a horrible person deserving of being your verbal punching bag, you idiot.)

Then there's the time another "#1" came by the house when Winston
had some bar girl in his room. Obviously, he wanted to keep them
separated. He came out of his room for a while to talk to his "#1",
and then said he was "tired" and wanted to go back to his room
(where the hooker was). After a while his "#1" started knocking at
his door, wanting to talk to him. Winston kept putting her off,
saying he was tired, would be out in a while, etc. Eventually #1
went back to the front room and continued chatting with the rest of
us.

After about 5 minutes, Winston came out of his room and walked down
the hallway towards us with his trousers undone and pulled down a
bit, shirt untucked and looking generally messy. And his excuse for
having taken so long in his room -- told to all 5 of us (myself and
4 girls) who were in the front room? "Sorry - I was masturbating"!!
It was such an amazing admission that his "#1" didn't ask any more
questions before leaving, so one could argue it had the intended
effect.

(Comment: Yeah, it was like a scene out of a sitcom. It was funny. So what? It provided you some entertainment. So what are you complaining about? I did what I had to in that situation.)

Back in Hawaii he managed to step in his own poop on the first day
and track it into the house. He also regularly left "deposits"
encrusted and mashed onto the toilet seat. I had to lecture him
sternly (believe it or not) about actually turning around and making
sure everything is ship-shape (as opposed to shit-shape) before
leaving a restroom. In fact, I have had to lecture him on any number
of blindingly-obvious-to-an-8-year-old topics, without much effect.

While in Hawaii, he was constantly embarrassing everyone who was
with him by chatting up almost every female (usually shop
assistants) he encountered. At our health food store, his
interaction with the checkout girl caused the manager to come out
and give him a stern 5-minute warning about not talking that way to
his employees. He asked a pregnant account manager at our credit
union if she wanted to go out for a drink, as part of his opening an
account there. She was stunned. He filmed an attractive young woman
at a beach for minutes, even though the three well-built and hostile-
looking Hawaiian guys she was with made everyone else back away for
fear of the scuffle that was surely about to ensue (luckily it
didn't.) And on and on.

(Comment: So what? I'm a risk taker, and get away with it cause I know how to take calculated risks. That's what people admire about me, my bravery, something you don't have.)

Aside from everything else, as you know, he is completely obsessed
with women... filming, photographing, fondling, groping and even
being rejected by them. It all turns him on. He has printed out
hundreds and hundreds of the digital photos he's taken here... when
I asked why he doesn't just keep them on his computer backup device,
he said he needs them to fuel his fantasies while alone in his
bedroom, so to speak.

His name here is "Babaero", which is Filipino for "Playboy". My
phone even dials his number when I say that. Often while he is
talking to women, people around him -- or the woman herself -- are
saying "Bola bola", which means "bullshit". He also hears the
Filipino word for "cheapskate" ("Kuri Pot"?) a lot. But he doesn't
care. He has absolutely no shame. If you offered him $100 to walk
down Fields Avenue naked and masturbating, he'd probably do it.

(Comment: It's not that I have no shame. I just have confidence and drive. And you should know that the most enlightened people and those with solid self-esteem do not care what others think. Every spiritual guru says you are a slave if you are attached to what others think. But I get what I want here, and that's the bottom line.)

In Hawaii, before coming to the Philippines, he was wearing a pair
of shoes that looked like they were stolen from a bum who he'd just
kicked to death. He spent half an hour deliberating on whether he
should spend $40 on a new pair of shoes in order to impress the
ladies here. He asked the shoe store sales assistant what he
thought, and when he responded that Winston definitely needed new
shoes, Winston said, "But you're biased!"... and deliberated for
another 10 minutes before buying them.

(Comment: So what? I am cautious about big purchases cause I don't like to regret them later. Like you even said, better to do nothing than to make a wrong decision.)

All through his fornicating he professes his "deeply spiritual"
nature. He reads and listens to self-improvement books and tapes by
Wayne Dyer. The hypocrisy in his life is... unbelievable.

He did manage to beat me in every one of 9 games of chess that we
played, and I'm no dunce. Chess is the one thing he is good at,
aside from eating and fornicating. As someone said on the forum,
he'd probably score well in an intelligence test, but score 0% in
a 'common sense' test. I still can't understand how someone
apparently intelligent can be such an *idiot*.

(Comment: I'm not an idiot. I just see things in a different way and have different values, priorities and beliefs than you.)

I read on the forum where he denied that he'd been in a mental
institution (as you had correctly written) -- then I found a web
site where he was writing about that very episode: how much he
enjoyed it in the institution and how sorry he was to leave. And how
mentally-disturbed he indeed was.

(Comment: It was a rehab center in Fremont, CA, with a big nice swimming pool, volleyball courts, gym, arts and crafts room, etc. It was a lot more like a resort, not the padded cells institution you see in the movies. That's why I liked it. And the staff were fun to talk to too. And it was an escape from the hell I experienced in high school. So what? I was never really insane. I just couldn't deal with the prison of public school so I escaped into OCD rituals. That's all. But I'm over it now. You aren't, apparently.)

As I wrote before, he's relatively harmless and entertaining, so
that is why I let him hang around as long as he did. I thought he
could change, but no. It had worn very thin by the start of March,
and throughout this month I basically spent my time writing nasty e-
mails to him, pointing out his many faults in the hope of shocking
him into change.

When I found this forum, just after kicking him out, I read all of
the threads in which he was involved and saw people writing EXACTLY
the same stuff that I had written to him. Now, how mentally
disturbed or narcissistic do you have to be not to make changes when
multiple sources (some of which, such as myself, you strongly
trust/admire) say the very same things?

Before I go, here's another story. While still in Hawaii, we were
both chatting on Yahoo to several ladies. One of them challenged him
to chess, and he promised to send her $50 if she beat him. And...
she did! It took him 3 or 4 days before he (partially) lived up to
his promise, having initially come up with numerous reasons why he
wasn't obligated to send the money. When even he could see that his
arguments were without merit, he tried to send $10 (not $50), but
had to send $25 because that was the minimum that the service would
let him send.

(Comment: Correction, she beat me in checkers, not chess. And if you think that a lowlife Filipina asking for money online can beat me in chess, the game I'm best at, then you are a dunce to think that, even though you are not a dunce at playing chess (you just aren't as good as I am, that's why I beat you 9 times in a row as you mentioned above). Also, I didn't bet her a specific amount, only promised that I'd send her money if she won. I wasn't going to jip her. I just wasn't sure how much I'd send. There's nothing wrong with sending her $10, why should I send her more? She said she needed money to use the internet to write me, which costs about 50 cent an hour, so why would I need to send $50? Just cause you like to get used and play the sugar daddy card, doesn't mean I do. But yeah, with Xoom.com, you have to send a minimum of $25 unfortunately.)

So, aside from being the most insensitive human being you are ever
likely to meet, he IS the biggest tightwad you will ever meet,
GUARANTEED. But then you knew that.

(Comment: Just cause I'm not stupid enough to send money to online cam girls like you do, doesn't make me a tightwad. I don't owe them anything. And I have the right to be frugal in areas that I need to. It's my common sense. Not letting others use you or take advantage of you is not the same as being stingy. But people like you and Fuller will eternally be unable to understand this, which I've been explaining to you for years.)

It must be disturbing for you that the Wu is so close to you now.
Fortunately for you, Australian women wouldn't give him the time of
day, even if he could afford to go there.

(Comment: You're a dunce if you thought that I went to Australia. No one said I did, and you seem to fabricate in your mind another strange fact.)

Before I go, I would like to add that your fake news releases about
Winston had me rolling on the floor... especially when I saw that
they were convincing enough that his father actually believed them.
He obviously holds his son in high esteem! Winston is looking
forward to showing his father Fields Avenue... he has no plans yet
for what to do with his mother here.

Best regards from someone Wu's had enough!

-Stefan

(Comment: Again, it doesn't say good things about you that you derive pleasure in hearing lies and fake press releases. Shows what kind of person you are, yet again. All your words above incriminate you and reveal you to be exactly what I've described at http://www.happierabroad.com/Stefan_Muth_Diagnose-Me.htm. Plus the fact that you would throw rocks at innocent people and make an enemy of someone like me who never did you any wrong at all, speaks volumes about your madness and insanity.)

Stefan Muth’s long response to this webpage, followed by my response

Here is Stefan’s long response to this webpage, giving his side of the fiasco in which he lost all his workers, followed by my response:

"How appropriate, your message was sent to my 'spam' folder!

Wow, you managed a reasonably civil communication (well, ignoring the words 'scum', 'fucked' and 'fucking'), without even attempting to threaten me with a "lightning kick". Congrats.

We will never agree on whether a bet ever existed: As you may recall, the deal was that we would both give $2,000 to a neutral third party before the bet came into force. That never happened, because I changed my mind BEFORE the bet, and chose not to enter into it. No bet ever EXISTED, therefore no bet could ever be won or lost. Or... is reflecting on the wisdom of a bet prior to entering into it somehow a crime in the Court of Wu?

As for Joe, Leo and fat Michael, you are entirely within your rights to listen to only one side of the story, as you generally do before forming your opinions about innumerable subjects that you know nothing about. I know that the words truth, evidence and reality don't appear in your dictionary. Just like Joe, Leo and fat Michael, you might consider working to improve your situation in life rather than bitching and griping about how badly you have been treated.

Joe? He was paid $72,072 for 8 months work, including a $45,000 interest-free unsecured loan being made by me to him on day 2 of his employment. Sure, call that unfair - I know you would never consider doing 4 hours of easy work per day for such a pittance. I'm just plain nasty. I'm a real bastard to insist, in exchange for employing him in return for generous remuneration, that he be accountable to me, his boss, and run the business the way he was supposed to. I mean, for that kind of money he should be allowed to screw up as and when he pleases, not listen to his employer, and not respond to simple, civil questions. Entirely reasonable behavior to you, I'm sure. Viewing this kind of employer-employee relationship as being normal might explain why you have never held a decent job for any length of time.

It also explains why neither Joe, nor Leo, nor fat Michael have a job worth squat, or any job at all. Doesn't that tell you something? People who go through life without any/proper work are in general UNemployable. Joe: Puts it all on the credit card and will eventually declare bankruptcy rather than get a job or behave properly towards an employer. Leo? He'll continue leeching off women, as he has done, is doing, and will do again. Just see how fast he drops my ex as soon as he's helped to spend her money. Michael? A suicidal ex-con with (self-diagnosed) avoidant personality disorder who can not hold down a job.

Now, I know you hold these people up as shining beacons of guiding light. Go ahead and follow that light, as you are doing -- don't listen to people like me who pay more tax in a week that you earn in a year (wanna bet?)

And I sure did mistreat you, paying you thousands of dollars while you hoared all night, slept most of the day, and didn't even know how to connect a pipe fitting or whom to ask about tax advice. As with most people, I paid you to do work that, in the end, I had to do if it was to be done right or at all. Let you loose on my business system? You must be kidding when you complain of "not being allowed to work"! You would have turned my business into the same success as you have turned your web site, by losing 99.9% of my revenue! I mean, can you show me ONE other web site with an orange background, a crayola color scheme, graphics created with MS Paint and 'facts' pulled out of thin air that is successful?

Leo? Well, he was paid $23,000 to maintain my Hawaii base during the 7 months that I was away. I came back to a complete and utter indescribable mess, which had Rosa in tears within minutes of arriving. I can show you the list of about 20 items that I sent him, along with his written APOLOGY; the list included a box of moldy, rotting vegetables next to the stove; a drying rack full of dirty dishes with weeks-old dried-on food; my tools outside in a wet cardboard box that had 6-inch mushrooms growing out of it; grass uncut for weeks and months; old hard-cover books moved out of the house into a damp shed 2000 feet away....... Finally, after $20K in improvements and lots of work on my part, Rosa was happy.

Now, what awful deed did I do to Leo? I'm sure you know his version of the story better than I do, but being the leech that he is (takes one to know one, I guess), he was miffed that his co-habitation with my ex-wife deprived her (and therefore him) of $1,500 per month in alimony payment. I also refused to pay him for his last 2 weeks up at the property since he obviously hadn't been doing anything for weeks if not months up there. He in fact admitted such, offering in writing to GIVE BACK all money paid to him from the start of July. So yes, I suppose I was totally unfair to take 2 weeks' pay away for his leaving the place in a complete, rotting, filthy disarray in which both the lawnmower and weedwhacker no longer worked (and hadn't been used in weeks). Even 300-pound fat Michael couldn't start or use them. What a bastard I am to expect a guy to keep a place neat and tidy for slave wages averaging $3,000 per month, eh? I mean, that's gotta be worth $30K a month minimum, or I couldn't possibly expect a decent job, right?

As for fat Michael -- what Joe and Leo probably didn't tell you (I wonder why?) was that he stole two trucks from me, worth $20,000. Yes, they left out that teensy weensy detail, right? Again, what a bastard I am to let a 300-pound ex-con, hired by the man who had a thing going with my wife before we divorced, steal two trucks from me. And then trespass onto my property after being warned by police not to, stealing numerous tools and even a dog. How could I be so mean to the guy? I should have handed him two trucks, $1,000 worth of my possessions and a dog so that he didn't have to work so hard in stealing them, right? Gee, what a bastard I am. I see it now. And how could I possibly be angry at Leo and my ex-wife for harboring this criminal and refusing to give up his whereabouts to the Sheriff who was seeking to serve him with court documents? How could I?

Now, in your mind I come out the villain in all this. Black is white, war is peace, whores are girlfriends, unprotected sex is safe, and Stefan is wrong to expect anything in return for his money, right Winston? There is at least one thing that you have in common with Joe, Leo and fat Michael: You all expected me to dole out money in your directions in return for little, nothing, or substandard work. Here's a novel idea for all of you: Develop a work ethic, as I have, grow up and get freaking jobs!

If I owe anyone money, they are MOST welcome to sue me. I haven't seen any lawsuits yet. Don't you think Joe would sue me, if I really had stiffed him out of the paltry sum of $10,000? Do you really think I would run the risk of prosecution? Well, I suppose in your Bizzarro World anything can be true. Don't hold your breath while Joe puts his case together.

For someone who is always claiming that your detractors are "always wrong" or "90% wrong", you certainly don't let facts stand in your way, do you? Show me just one piece of evidence that I am a thief or a crook. Just one. And by evidence, I mean evidence that would stand up in court, not just hearsay from some disgruntled ex-employee with psychological issues. You yourself admitted that I was generous to be giving you what I did, considering what little you were doing in return. Your main beef was that I was giving the same to others! What a bastard! Committing the crime of giving money to girls who needed and appreciated it. There should be laws about this sort of thing.

Assuming you can't provide any evidence what-so-ever of thieving or crookedness, how about making a retraction? No? There you go, hypwucrite!

Moving on to naked pictures... if you don't mind me posting them, and want to send more, then feel free. When I have the time, I'll be happy to augment my web site with nearly endless material to be read (not least) by any future employer - amongst others. When your father's money runs out, how are you going to support your family? Not worried about that? Maybe when you're 50 years old, with no money, no job, no prospects of a job... and the knowledge that Social Security is broken, you might kick yourself. Meanwhile, just continue whoring your little money away. I'm sure little Angelo will bail you out in your old age, just as your father did... like father, like son!

Oh? You don't believe that Social Security is broken, and that you will get exactly nothing by the time you are of retiring age? The rantings of a madman -- just like his crazed rantings that gold was a wise investment. You know, if you check your facts, you will see that since you posted your rant on how "nuts" I was to store assets in gold, my assets have risen 46% while yours (like all those pegged to the almighty US Dollar) have fallen 20%. That's... lemme see... a 66% difference in what you could have done compared to what you have done. Yes, Winston, just keep on listening to the sages on your e-mail list for advice on investment, the Universe and everything else. Keep on forming your own groundless opinions, and backing them up with 'facts' pulled out of your butt crack. My assets (note: just the assets, excluding property and income) rose by over $250,000 in value in the past year. And yours? Wu's the fool now?

If you'd like, we could save eachother lots of time by taking down our negativity, and behave like the adults that we are supposed to be (happy 35th, by the way). If you persist, however, I will too.

The only difference between my site and yours is that yours is based mainly on speculation, and mine on fact -- your own words and your own photos. But let's not let facts get in the way of our realities.

(By the way, if you would care to explain exactly why you were not present at the birth of your son, nor informed that his mother was going into labor, do feel free. Any plausible, fact-based explanation will be published, unedited, on Winston-Wu.com).

See attached screenshot of where your whoring photos were taken from. As you can see in the URL, "user=guest&mode=guest". Hardly a "private" URL, if anonymous "guests" are allowed, with no login or password required! Is that your idea of privacy?

Exactly how did I steal photos from your Yahoo account? Another incorrect assumption based on 100% pure speculation and 0% evidence. Illegal? What exactly? Why not sue me for damages, since I did something illegal and you need the money so badly. After all, hacking is punishable by up to 5 years in prison and $250K in fines. Could it be that I haven't in fact done anything illegal, and you have no evidence whatsoever about who exactly did what exactly? How about Winston "I don't lie" Wu maybe starts telling the truth for once instead of simply making libelous statements?

Again, I am too busy for this crap, but I will continue to give as good as I get. Wouldn't you prefer to spend your time bringing your income up from $2 per day to $2.50 instead of blathering on about your "sworn enemies"? No? Well, that's your choice.

As I said, it's not what you write that raises my ire, since any reader with two brain cells to rub together can see the ranting loon behind it. No, that does not matter. What matters is the sentiment behind your rants -- your intent to deliberately cause damage to my reputation. I know that your reputation can not be damaged any further, but at least I can make sure that people get an even bigger laugh out of you, and take you less seriously, than they already are. Again, your choice: I'll give as well as I get. Kind of like the family vendettas of 16th century Italy.

You don't know the size of your own dick? There we go, another false statement on your part. Do you recall that when we first met, you told me that you don't (like to) lie? It seems you have changed a lot in the past year: Ranting, swearing, threatening and lying as easily as a bear dumps in the woods. You're on a downward spiral into the country known as Absurdistan.

Back to the point: Now you are claiming that you have *no idea* about the size of your most prized and pampered organ! Do feel free to redeem your manhood's reputation. A photo of your erect endowment up against a ruler will be published, in order to dispel any myths, I promise. Your failure to submit such a photo, I presume, means that what we have so far is accurate. (By the way, your penis is clearly NOT inside Mary Ann in the photo. There is no "hole" at that location of the female anatomy, dumbass (as you would say)!)

At least we have one thing in common: We have no patience for scum. The only difference is that whereas I define 'scum' as an adulterating, cheapskate, irresponsible, leeching, unhygienic, work-shy playboy-wannabe bum, you appear to define 'scum' to be a hard-working, faithful, responsible, clean-cut, generous (even to you, Joe, Leo and fat Michael) family man. To use one of your favorite words, that's how 'twisted' your mind is.

You say you have "everything going for you". Go on, name a few things that you have going for you. Can you name 3 things that any other man would value?

How do you "live well" every day? Hmmm... off your father's donations of course. If you are living off your own hard work, then please feel free to present evidence of your income (screenshot of your Adsense account?), and I'll be happy to post it on Winston-Wu.com to your credit. Now, you know you can't do that, right? You are living solely by the good graces of your father and Dianne's family, since even you can't live on what you earn each day. Without both of those benefactors, you'd be earning as much as the average Filipino ($2-3 per day). Right? Come on Mr. Honest!

Our baby looks like a demon? Which photo exactly are you referring to? I don't recall sending you any -- nor have you even seen her! Mr. Hypwucrite is at it again, making up "facts" out of thin air while claiming it is others who do so! If you would like to propose a fair way for our babies to be judged head-to-head, then sure I'll enter into a bet. How much money have you got to bet? $10? It's no contest. Again, feel free to weasel out if you wish: Unlike you, I don't call a bet a 'bet' until both parties actually agree to it, so I won't hold you to it.

"I've got everything I want now, except my freedom". Freedom to adulterate and delegate your responsibilities to your family? Is that the freedom you long for? Whaddaguy! If only all men were like you, what a lovely world this would be. How would you have liked it if your father had behaved as you do? Endlessly adulterating, shaming his family, risking the lives of you and your mother, and shirking responsibilities towards his partner and son? Where would you be today?

But yes, you do have the freedom to live in substandard housing for the rest of your life, eating cheap food for the rest of your life, not being able to do everything you want to for the rest of your life, ignoring your child and his mother for the rest of your life, and leeching off her family and a Third World country's welfare system. Free at last, free at last!

So, I "look" like a guy who would shoot people with a shotgun, eh? More words of wisdom on your part? Or just more ranting diarrhoeal babble? You mean just like your penis resembling a thimble and your head a pumpkin makes you highly useful to Cinderella? That kind of wisdom and truth?

Finally, I don't hate you Winston. I simply pity the women and most other people who have the misfortune of crossing your path in this life -- and look forward to the day when you either change your ways or are taken off the streets one way or another, never to fornicate, leech or creep people out again.

Enjoy your life. I have my popcorn and a cold one ready for enjoying the show. And boy, does your self-reporting constitute a show!

-Stefan"

My response:

"Dear Evil Muth,

It will take me quite a while to answer your long email, but I'm glad you are willing to listen.

The bet did exist because you VERBALLY agreed to it. You agreed to the amount and agreed to pay if I can prove my point, which I did.

You also forgot to give me the 1000 pesos for the trike ride that you promised too.

Can I ask you a hypothetical question? Try to answer it literally.

Suppose you were living with someone who was paying you. And suppose this guy started verbally abusing you and accusing you of things that you knew 100 percent were not true and made no sense even. Would you humor this guy who was paying you by pretending to agree with him, or argue with him and stand up for yourself at the risk of losing your business relationship with him? What would you do, really? Assuming that you were 100 percent sure that he was wrong on many things, and there was no pleasing him cause he found something wrong with everything?

Now, back to answering your points.

Do you mind if I post your version of events below in my Forum?

Anyhow, why would Joe and Leo get so mad that they would want to fight you, if they were only jipped of a little cash? If they did not do their work properly, they would accept some deductions from their salary, but if they got so mad that even a new age hippie like Leo lost his temper, then you must have done something very wrong.

I still have to give Joe more credibility than you based on what I know of his personality/character, and yours. He does not show any sign of delusion or making things up about others. And he is not a hateful and negative person like you either, finding faults in everyone. He seemed like a hard working disciplined guy with honesty and integrity. He did not exhibit signs of mental instability dysfunction like you did. You had unrealistic expectations of others, verbally abused others for UNJUSTIFIED reasons, and blew your temper over little things like how we opened the screen door. You have to admit that normal healthy adults don't do that sort of thing.

Nor do they join wooweasel list either!

Why don't you ask yourself why you find fault in everyone and eventually part with everyone in your life on negative terms? Surely it can't be everyone's fault? It is more than obvious that you have horrible people skills and terrible communication skills as well. Do you deny that?

About my work ethic, you cannot comment on it because you never gave me any real work. You asked me to find unrealistic things for you and would not be reasonable about it.

I don't think you even realize something. Like you, I am a perfectionist and hate mistakes too. Hardly anything goes wrong in my life unless other people's wills are involved. So we have more in common than you think. I constantly yell at Dianne for being late, putting things off til later and ruining the plans for tomorrow, not following through on promises, being lazy and irresponsible, etc. When I'm in control of everything, nothing fucks up, unless there's a good reason. I hate unnecessary mistakes that are preventable. She's lost two cell phones that wouldn't have been lost had she listened to me. I've never lost any cell phones, or keys, or anything. Things don't go wrong when I'm in control.

Just look at my writing and grammar and you will see that I'm a perfectionist too.

Thus, if you had given me the marketing research job you promised, I would NOT have fucked up like you thought I would. When I do make a mistake, it's usually for a good reason. So in short, YOU WERE WRONG ABOUT ME! Just wanted you to understand that.

I HATE MISTAKES and I rarely make them. I can be anal retentive too, and I am very responsible when I'm in control. But a lot of your behavior and instability caused me to be uncomfortable around you, which contributed to the gap between us.

I am definitely not unemployable. Again you are only seeing what you want to see. Most of my employers did not have a problem with my work ethic. Here is my online portfolio. It contains references with phone numbers and emails of past employers and people I've worked with. You are free to contact my references and ask about my work ethic.

www.happierabroad.com/Portfolio.htm

If you do, you will find that I have a good performance record, am reliable and dependable, and very efficient and accurate. I always get a job done.

And if I don't, then there is a good reason that's usually NOT my fault.

I am not the lazy bum you make me out to be. That I know. Just admit that your assessment of me was wrong.

Now, how about I contact your past employers? I'll bet they have some negative things to say about you. Your personality is very unpleasant at the core, evidenced by all your bad relationships with your workers, so the probability that you have had bad relationships with your past employers, is VERY HIGH.

But the bottom line again is, I NEVER did anything wrong to you. I never stabbed you in the back, like you did to me. So how was your hatred of me ever justified? You never answered this question.

You have no legit arguments or complaints against me, so you focus on my dick size. Go figure. That is a very shallow thing to do. Oh and yes it was in Mary Ann's hole. Every girl's hole is in a slightly different place down there, so you cannot say for sure where her hole is! My God. Plus that photo is too far away for you to see much detail anyway.

The reason I see you as a villain is because I know how you are to people and how you are to me. All I know 100 percent is that you verbally abused me for UNJUSTIFIED reasons. You did not behave reasonably at all. I was not born knowing how to change a pipe. It was not logical for you to expect me to know things I don't know. And you were not clear about what you wanted. Other bosses are clear with their instructions. You weren't. And you asked for a map of the Philippines with extremely detailed topographical information, which probably didn't exist. Every government office thought I was crazy for demanding such a thing. It was an unreasonable request. Sane people would not have asked for such a thing. Yet how was I to break it to you? Had you ask me to infiltrate a group as a spy, I would have done far better, for it would be far more reasonable of a task. It's also not my fault that getting info in the Philippines is hard because people don't answer questions very well or provide detailed answers, forcing me to dig and probe more and more.

Joe didn't sue you cause in a civil case, the one with more money usually wins, and he knows he doesn't have as deep pockets to risk as you.

How come you gave Rosa's sister free money without expecting anything in return? Cause they're girls? Gee what a logical reason.

You calling me cheap was pointless too. In the Philippines, almost everyone is cheap and a kuripot. So me being one was normal. I have a right to spend wisely and not waste money. If I was lazy and reckless like you think, I would spend recklessly, but I didn't. None of my actions or behavior fit what you say about me.

You are a crook cause when you decide to part ways with someone, you jip them as well. You didn't pay me the 1000 pesos you promised, or for the rides on the amusement park you promised even. Or for the bet. And you stole the pictures from my yahoo account. If you didn't, then tell me exactly how you obtained them. No, they are not public property. Go to http://pictures.aol.com and tell me step by step exactly how you can find that album of me and mary ann from that link alone. Sure there is a URL link to it, but you can't find it unless I share the album with you, or someone else I shared it with, gave it to you. Since I NEVER shared that album with anyone else, it must have been stolen from my email account. Someone definitely had access to my Yahoo account. There was no other way it could have been obtained.

Dude, I've used AOL Pictures for years, and I know how it works. You can't fool me! The album was private, not in a public area of AOL pictures, and I never shared it with anyone else. The link to it was ONLY sent to my yahoo account, therefore someone who had access to my yahoo account obtained that link!

That's the bottom line. It can't be any clearer. Are you still claiming otherwise? If so, then come clean and explain EXACTLY how you obtained that URL to the sex album with mary ann.

Plus, I uploaded that sex album weeks before the birth of my baby. It was only sent to my email the day after the birth, using the share feature, which is when the hacker found it. So, if it was public property all along, as you and Shane try to lie about, then WHY didn't you find it weeks ago when it was first uploaded?

Explain!

My site is not speculation. I told the story of what you did with real examples. It was all truth. For example, when you took Rosa and Ann shopping for their birthday when we all first met, you spent around $200 on them in baby clothes. That's what you told me. It was a factual event. I never made up anything about you. There are many specific examples of what you did or said on my page about you. Your page is all about opinion. And you spread the lie that I was whoring when my baby was born. The others already retracted that lie, including Dave Fuller.

As I already explained, Dianne and I had an argument on the morning that she was to give birth. So she left and went home to cool off for a while. It wasn't until 6pm that I got a call from her saying that she was in labor. Not my fault. What do you expect, that I'm omnipotent? There you go again with unrealistic expectations.

Our doctor had told me weeks prior that I would NOT be allowed in the delivery room, due to sterilization procedures, so there was never a chance that I could be there while she was giving birth anyway. Do you understand? Or do I have to repeat this?

It was only later that I found out that Dianne had been in labor for hours before I arrived. At first, she told a white lie and said that she didn't call me cause her phone had no battery left. When I asked why she didn't borrow a phone or use the hospital phone, she ran out of explanations and just shook her head. Later she said she didn't want me to see her in labor pain. Her explanations were weird and didn't make sense, but that's usual in the Philippines. It's just like how you can't understand why Rosa takes off in the mall and goes somewhere without even telling you. It makes no sense, but she does it. People don't like to explain things here. I have a million examples of this already.

Does this answer your question about the mystery of why I wasn't there when she was in labor? Actually, technically I was there when she was giving birth. It's just that she was giving birth in another room that I wasn't allowed to enter, so I had to wait to see her and the baby.

You can publish that explanation, if you like.

By the way, since you're putting up a website about me and expanding on it, aren't you going to need all 5000+ of my photos on 3 CD's? If so, feel free to order them from me hehehe

I don't believe you about social security because you are a pessimist who likes to see the worst in everything, and predict the worse, even when you are wrong. A pessimist is not right most of the time. Everyone I know gets their social security payments.

There is nothing wrong with being frugal and wanting sex with girls. You think that makes me a bad person, but that's your opinion only. Sex is a natural desire.

There's no way you can expose me the way that I expose you. I have done nothing wrong that you've cited, while you have shown yourself to be an asshole, highly unstable, verbally abusive, and a nasty person. The facts are clearly on my side. You are also no match for me in strategy. I can easily outdebate you and you know it. Just like I can whip you in chess. You don't think as deep as I do, nor do you see clearly the big picture.

I never said that a scum was someone who was "hard-working, faithful, responsible, clean-cut, generous". Again, you hallucinate and make up shit. Show me where I ever said that. I did say that you have a nasty personality and are clearly delusional, for many reasons.

Yes I can name three things I have going for me that any man would value:

1. A hot girlfriend who is beautiful, pretty, tall and sexy.
2. Freedom to do what I want everyday, being well traveled.
3. I've laid around 70 or 80 girls in my life.
4. I have great writing skills and have a great website (in content at least, I never claimed to be a webmaster).

You could have listed all those yourself, but since you are a nasty person who NEEDS to believe the worst about others, you are blinded by that and therefore can't see the obvious. That's another reason why you're insane.

You forget that I have savings from years of hard work. So what? Rosa is living and leeching off you too. She is lazy and doesn't work. Why are you not blasting her about that? Cause she's your girlfriend? Sorry that doesn't excuse her.

I saw your baby's photos on Rosa's Yahoo IM as her avatar photo. She put it there.

How come when I saw Rosa or Ann in SM she looked at me with a delightful expression, whereas she looked unhappy the moment she saw you? You are not a likable person. And how come everyone can see that her smiles with you and toward you are so fake, but you can't see that?

You wanna bet on our baby's photos? Ok sure! Our baby is probably the cutest in the world! Several people have told me that most babies are ugly but ours is definitely genuinely cute. Who will be the judge of our bet? My list? my Forum? Is there a hot or not website for babies?

BTW, I have you beat in the following ways.

1. I have around 70 or 80 girls on my scoresheet, while you have only 5.
2. I have a girlfriend a thousand times hotter than yours.
3. People say that me and Dianne look like Ken and Barbie, while you and Rosa look like sugar daddy and sugar baby.

Did you ever see the quotes about you from others on my page about you? They are so spot on!

A few more key points to you:

- It is a PURE FABRICATION in your mind that me, Joe and Leo are looking for a salary in exchange for no work. No one ever said that. Only you did. We are all people with good work ethics, at least I am. You could have asked any of my past employers and they will tell you that I ALWAYS get a job done or finish an assignment. I take pride in saying "Mission Accomplished". And it is NOT true that I was useless to you. If it wasn’t for me, you would never have met your new wife. I was the one who diverted you from Russia to the Philippines, and introduced you to the asianbabecam.com website that you met her at!

- The truth is, I was willing to do any work for you that you wanted, but the problem is YOU WOULDN'T GIVE ME ANY FRICKING WORK, yet you kept chiding me for it?! WTF?! I've had many jobs and bosses before, as you know. Some I got along with, others I didn't. But until you, I've NEVER EVER had one that wouldn't give me any work, and then kept bitching at me for not doing any work. That is just plain INSANE, clear cut. Anyone who does that is messed up and has issues, and totally irrational. No question about it. You owe it to me to ADMIT that that was WRONG on your part! And you know it! If you continue to deny it, it only adds credence to your insanity and wackiness, which has been well documented to a complete certainty.

- Despite the fact that you are a verbally abusive asshole and control freak with no social skills who expects everyone to read your warped mind, and if they don't, you start name-calling them, you are also WRONG to blame me for not giving me any work. That was YOUR fault, and you know it. Yeah you are smart in computers, technology and business, but terrible in people skills. And when you blame others, you are often wrong, and often err in your accounts involving others. That much I do know.

Regards,

WuMaster"

Stefan Muth confesses that he delights in the suffering of other people!

Here is Stefan’s short and nasty response to my question about what I ever did wrong to him that justifies his hateful bashing, which he posted on the wooweasel list. As you can see, all it contains is hate and NEVER answers the question of what I ever did wrong to him. That right there says that all the shit is in his head only. Read the proof in his own words yourself. This is what he really is – a man who lives to hate, hate, and hate. He even calls himself “Two Face” after the Batman villain, indicating that he relishes being a “villain”. Says a lot about him doesn’t it? And note his last line about how seeing my life “spiral down” makes his “FUCKING day”, and ask yourself this: Do good people or even sane people say such things? Do they derive joy out of seeing another person’s life ruined or seeing other’s suffer?

(His rant begins below after “Poster’s comment”)

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Wutard asks:

"What did Winston ever do wrong that justifies bashing???"

He goes on to write,

"Ok so I've slept around with different women and have an obsession
for beautiful women and maybe a sex addiction problem. But so what? It
was all mutual and consentual, so what's the problem? Lots of guys do
the same thing, so why don't the bashers go after them? Why don't the
bashers go after someone more powerful, like Hugh Hefner for example?

Why me?

Ok so I'm frugal. But it's my money and I have a right to be. When I'm
making more money, then I'm more generous. And I have a right to deny
the attempts of scammers and leechers who do not deserve any
generosity anyway.

So what have I done wrong?!

Pretty much nothing as far as I can tell.

I don't even lie. If anything, I'm too honest for my own good and not
discreet enough.

I never claimed to be a perfect angel, but who is? But I have not done
anything wrong to deserve such enemies or bashing.

::::::scratching head:::::::::::::"

[Poster's comment:] I won't even waste my time commenting on the
inane idiocy of these comments. I see that not even his
fucked-in-the-head girlie-boy wanker wushippers can proffer supporting
words.

This dumbfuck deserves all that he gets a hundredfold. He is too
stupid to inhabit human form. If stupid was gravity, he'd be a black
hole. If idiocy were convertible into legal tender, Bill Gates would
be his butler. His corporal form is a waste of Newtonian Space. His
clitoris-sized brain is a waste of fat. If his dick size were the new
unit of measure, we'd all be living a lot closer to work.

His continued dumb-ness has reached the point where it is actually
annoying the crap out of me. To read his drivel, day-in day-out is an
insult to human intelligence. They say that watching TV lowers your
IQ... God have mercy on those of us who watch Wu.

The irony of The RiDdLeR's avatar on Wu's forum -- that of a Wu-like
baby born without a brain -- goes way over Wu's head; even comparing
Wu to these babies in the first place is an insult to dead
anencephalic babies worldwide.

And his downward spiral just makes my FUCKING day.

-Two Face

Comment: As you can see, this nut case can’t even come up with ONE legitimate reason for hating me or bashing me. All he does is HATE, HATE and HATE without purpose or end. Cause that’s what he is deep down inside. I pity such a person blinded by hate to the point where he can no longer see any objective truth. Look at his last line above, where he admits that he derives pleasure out of seeing me suffer! What a sick fuck! Do you think that any sane mature mentally healthy adult would say that seeing my life “spiral down” (he’s seeing only what he wants to see of course) makes his “FUCKING day”?!

Furthermore, the guy can’t even answer a simple honest question. Any mature sane rational adult could have answered such a simple question honestly and fairly. But he’s nothing of the sort. It’s quite apparent that he’s delusional to the extreme, and the kind of guy normal people shouldn’t touch with a ten foot pole and should best stay away from.

Update! Stefan Muth plans to sue my parents now! Proof of his insanity and wickedness!

Look here! This is TOTAL PROOF that this man is a TOTAL FRUITCAKE! What kind of person would go after another man’s parents over a personal feud? Only a very sick individual would! Can he get any lower or more insane?! What a dumbfuck who should be locked away! Clearly he's not even a decent human being. My God. He says below that he plans to sue my father and also wishes him financial harm! Look!

Stefan Muth, evil owner of diagnose-me.com, writes on his attack site of me:

My response: Christ Jesus Stefan, I didn't even think that you would go that low as to wish financial harm to my father, who is one of the nicest people in the world! My God. You've just totally destroyed all credibility and character for yourself there. And to think you're dumb enough to write that publicly on your site?! God help you, you are a really really sick man, lower than a loser even. Even my bashers will gasp and be ashamed to have you on their side now.

Nevertheless, I'm putting up what you said into my web pages about you. Now the best you can hope for is that people give pity. You are truly the lowest person I've ever met, period.

FYI, my dad has stable income from several residual sources that have nothing to do with the stock market. But thanks for the kind wishes.

Furthermore, your big lie above that my former employers and those I've dated think I'm a loser with NPD is laughable given that I've posted actual words from so many people who know me vs. those that know you, here: http://www.happierabroad.com/stefan_vs_winston.htm

Clearly, all you have are lies from your own mouth, while I have facts, proof, examples, and testimonials. The site above is one example of that, and a mountain of examples at that.

And even if I am a sex addict who is poor and lazy, so what? Even then, I'm not even one millionth as bad as you. I don't harm others or do illegal things like you do. So many people have nasty words about you, your malicious insane behaviors, cyber hacking crimes, fraudulent impersonation attempts, etc. On the other hand, you've got nothing on me, so you resort to lies and cheap shots which make yourself look bad, not me, yet you have the gall to delude yourself into thinking that the whole world is going to agree with you, when in reality it doesn't. And that was one annoying thing about being with you, that you'd say the most insane thing and act like the whole world and law of reality agreed with you, when in fact you were showing that you were a nutcase in plain view.

Anyhow, thank you for revealing your true colors. Now we all know the real you. Your image is clearly done for.

Update! Stefan Muth’s new wife Rosa has finally left him!

As of March 2010, two sources inform me that Stefan Muth’s new Filipina wife, Rosa, has left him and returned to the Philippines. I have no more details as of yet. But if I do, I will post them here.

This is just as I predicted though. No girl, no matter how tolerant or lackadaisical, can possibly tolerate him, and even if she could, he makes sure that she won’t. What do you expect from a guy whom everyone has a horror story to tell about? Poor girl. She must have endured hell with him. I speak from firsthand experience too.

Again this is not about my opinion vs. anyone else’s. All the independent testimonials and evidence clearly and unequivocably point to the fact that Stefan Muth is a nasty insane hater who is highly imbalanced and so unpleasant and hateful that he ends up making enemies out of everyone who spends time with him. His recent break up is yet further confirmation of this, one more testimonial stacked on a mountain of evidence already.

She was never in love with him in the first place in fact. I saw their relationship develop. There was nothing between them from the start. She was just pretending the whole time. Her smiles and affections around him were totally fake. Anyone could see it. There was no true love, affection or energy between them. Her family forced her into it for the money. You could see it on her face and attitude toward him. It was too obvious. Plus, how can you love someone who is so unlovable?

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