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HAPPIER
ABROAD Why Dating, Social Life and Mental Health are Better Beyond
Happier Abroad Ebook
Table of Contents
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Photo Collage (Russia,
Europe, Mexico, Philippines)
Quotes about me from
readers, fans, and advisors
- How I was “saved abroad” once
before
- Why we can’t look to the US media for
truth about a better life abroad
A BIG SECRET I
want to share with you!
Why America is bad for
Social Life, Dating and Mental Health
New! Why people
leave
- Four major things in
New! What America is good for
and what it isn’t
Social culture and
people
· Highlights of general differences
· Bland cookie cutter
architecture vs. rich stimulating one
· Meeting
people - clique restrictions vs. free-flowing
· Isolation/exclusive
vs. communal/inclusive mentality
- Strange contradiction
in
· Talking to strangers -
· Only in
· “Breaking the
ice” – Proof that Americans are uncomfortable talking to strangers
· Why I am incompatible with the American social environment
· New! Closed cliquish
business cultures vs. Open passionate social cultures
· Study shows that more money = less social (validation of my claims)
· Americans by their actions love being lonely workaholics
· Updated! Documented proof of
anti-sociality in America in one of the worst places
- Visual proof of
isolationist social environment on ferry ride vs. the opposite
· Identity determined by cliques vs. who
you are
· Friendships
- US vs. most countries
· Interconnectedness vs.
Separateness: Why Americans overinflate themselves
and try to "fit in"
- a) Why Americans tend to overinflate
their ego/confidence/attitude
- b) The conflicting oxymoron of trying to
"fit in"
- Some offshoot effects of “separateness” in America
· New! Fragmentation vs.
Wholeness: Why you feel alone and insecure in America
· Family
harmony vs. Fight for control
· Artificial smiles/greetings vs. sincere ones
- Study shows that fake smiles/greetings can lead to bad health
- "How are you?" - How Americans reinforce fake optimism on each other
· Social
communication style - artificial/plastic front vs. natural/relaxed
· American laughter -
constrained/inhibited vs. Foreign laughter – free-flowing/uninhibited
· Lack
of intellectual curiosity in
· Cultured Foreigners vs. Uncultured Americans (specific examples)
· Intellectuals
young and old
· Persecution
of geeks and nerds –
· Being
different or a misfit = alienation in
· Blacks and Asians - Inferiority complex vs.
wholesome integration
· Why immigrants don’t assimilate well in
· Rich inner life vs. total emphasis on
outer
· Letters
from typical American vs. European youngsters – evidence in their own words
· Young
people - empty bags of air vs. depth
· Nightlife:
· American
Culture/Life = Hype + Consumerism
· Propaganda vs. Real Life
in America
· New! Debunking the Myth of Freedom and Democracy in America (with Facts and Overseas Experiences)
· New! The Big Lie: Why America is all about Control and Conformity, not Truth or Freedom
· New! Four Catch-22’s in America you’re not supposed to see
· Updated! What immigrants and foreigners say about America that you never hear in the US media
- 10 Surprises for foreigners who think America is "open, wild and free"
· The US media’s negative coverage
of other countries - Misportrayal vs. Reality
· Careers
and the workaholic mentality in America
- Attitude toward work: American/Oriental vs. European/Australian/Latin
- Parable of The Fisherman and The Investment Banker
- How YOU can live in freedom and pleasure abroad, the simple SECRET!
· New! The True Purpose of Education
in America: Indoctrination, Buffer Class, Dumbing Down
· New! Will you be a Robot, a Bum, or something else?
- Here's a quick way out of the system
· Ideas about freedom and security:
· Updated! Why American
pop culture is dumb and our Education system is so bad
· Film and Media: Entertainment vs. Art
· Inverse
between social atmosphere and paid friendliness
· Fragile/high
strung egos vs. thick skin/carefree attitude
· Bragging and competitiveness of male ego
vs. brotherly camaraderie
· Pseudo-confidence and paranoia - 2 elements of
American personality
· Studies that show America
to be the most dysfunctional in the industrialized world
- Highest prison population in the world
- Higher homicide rates than other industrialized
nations
- Increase
in wealth failed to increase happiness for Americans
- Poorer countries having happier people than
America
- Highest rates of mental illness in the world
- Studies show loneliness
and isolation to be national epidemics in America
- Biggest obesity crisis in the history of the
world
- The
most unhealthy and sick population among industrialized nations
- US slips down
development index
· Comparing quality of life:
· Europe safer for lone female
travelers than America
· The rigid compartmentalization of
American life - Is it freedom?
· Disadvantageous American
quirks not shared in other cultures
- Advantageous qualities of America not shared in other cultures
· Why hippie counter-culture
groups aren’t the answer to my ostracization
in America
· Fattening processed food vs. wholesome natural food
- A simple way to lose weight that the US media is completely oblivious to
· Public transportation - USA vs. Europe
· Healthcare in America –
The most expensive and unaffordable in the world
Women and dating
· Why Global Dating works for any average decent male
- 7 Useless cliches given to dateless men in America
· Meeting and dating women
· Holding conversations with women
· European/Russian
women having a combination of the best qualities
· Fear
of rejection becoming unnecessary
· Surplus
vs. shortage of attractive mentally healthy single women
· Beauty and brains common vs. rare
· Personal ads and New Age groups –
- Why personal ads in the
· Admiration
vs. hatred for men
· The “men are creeps” attitude of American women
- Weird paranoid fantasies about "stalkers"?
· US Feminism = female dominance, male bashing, double standards
· Updated! Misportrayal
of men in
- A fantastic politically incorrect revealing discussion about women on Craigs List
· New! Feminism - The Destruction of Feminine Energy and Harmonious Relationships
· The most anti-social, unapproachable,
and paranoid women in the world
· Updated! Unapproachable force
field/bubble vs. giggle/blush (visual proof)
- Visual proof:
Pictures of approachable female faces abroad
- What guys don’t
understand about the fear of approaching women
· Reaction from women: Hatred/Antisociality vs. Enthusiasm/Attraction
· Public eating places -
· Hypocritical arousal and restraint of desires in our society
- The myth of sexual freedom in
· Women have it WAY easier in the
social/dating scene of
· Why
· The sad lonely life of a typical single
man in the
- Statistical research shows that the singles scene in America sucks
· Great news for lonely sexually
frustrated men about Asia, Philippines and Thailand
· How a normal guy can have a lifestyle
like Hugh Heffner (and I mean in REAL LIFE not in theory)
· Asian men perceived as asexual and undesirable in
- Why USA is the worst place for Asian men who like white women
- Some elated responses from Asian American men
· Great news for Asian and Black men about Europe
· The
best solution to the Asian American man’s dating dilemma (an expose by my
consultant)
· Dating advice from mono-national who thinks INSIDE the American box vs.
mine
- Response
from my Expat Advisor to the mono-national advice
- Response
from Asian American intellectual in
· 8
reasons why Asian men have a better social life in
· Never
“in the game” vs. always ”in the game”
· Why American women don’t make good wives - narcissistic and sociopathic
· Lions and hyenas = Me and American women?
· 10 reasons why I’m
forced to look for love beyond America
- Logical reasons why my standards are not “too
high” in America
· Aren’t foreign women
just after your money and a green card?
· Far
less risk abroad for men marrying women half their age
· Updated! Hear from others who
testify that dating is all about location, location, location!
· Why
many American men now prefer foreign women (other perspectives)
· New! Why PUA
doesn’t really work but Global Dating does
Personal psychological issues
· The
social status factor for me
· Collective will/consciousness -
metaphysical effect on social status
· Having the life of a popular person
- From little fish in big pond to big fish in small pond
· Confidence and mental/emotional
maturity accelerated to positive levels overseas
· The
reverse culture shock of knowing that you had it better abroad
- College
students in reverse culture shock
· Synergy vs. stagnation with
life, people, environment
· Default loneliness/isolation
vs. Perpetual connection/bond with people/environment
- Forced loneliness vs.
never having to be lonely
- Am
I too negative or hateful about America?
- The sad truth about my negativity and deep resentment
- Am
I a loser? Is this site for losers?
· New! The
alternative to going abroad – Why it’s inferior
· Frequently Asked Questions and Objections
· I’m not alone - Letters from fans
and supporters
· Concrete
visual proof of my claims from thousands of photos and videos (with electrified
responses from viewers)
· New! Disadvantages of being outside
the
Conclusion
· Wrapping it up
- The bottom line
- A final warning
- What I hope to accomplish with this
· Register and Participate
in my Happier Abroad Discussion Forum
· New! Learn from my Expat Advisor – Visit his Blog
· Suggestions for relocating and working
overseas
· Travel Services / Expat Links and Resources
· International Dating Sites and Global Dating Links
· Addendum: Excerpts from a groundbreaking book -
“The European Dream: How
UPDATE, October 2006: Slight revision of my observations after
touring more of the USA
UPDATE, December
2006: Perpetual ecstasy in the
Philippines!
UPDATE, March 2007: Why I like Filipinas the best - as lover,
playmates and best friends
UPDATE: Fascinating observations of the pros and cons of Filipino characteristics
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