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Why
You Will Have A Better Love and Life Beyond
The Big Lie: Why
In
Basically, you are taught
to believe whatever you are told by authority, the media, and the consensus,
even if it doesn't make sense and even if those sources have been proven to be
pathological liars in the past and agenda-driven. In other words, you are not
supposed to "think for yourself" in the "land of the free"
protected by the First Amendment. Such is the irony and hypocrisy.
For example, whoever the
elite corporate cabal pick as President and Vice President, (under the illusion
of the voting process) are your public leaders, and your duty is to listen to
them. Even if they are obviously pure evil scumbags with no credibility, such
as Vice President Dick Cheney, you are still supposed to believe whatever they
say and trust them as though they were moral paragons of truth and justice! In
other words, you are to treat all figures of authority as moral paragons of
credibility and integrity, even though they have NEVER earned or proven
themselves to possess such attributes! And even if their record and actions
show quite the opposite!
Now, you wouldn't hold an
unknown stranger to be a paragon of truth would you? So why should you trust
any stranger who suddenly becomes President of the United States, handpicked by
the cabal, just like that, whether it's Obama or Bush or anyone else? It
doesn't make sense and is illogical. Yet when you turn on the news, your
President is already speaking to you as though you and everyone sees him as a
paragon of truth and credibility, as though it were a given, simply because he
is the leader and you are the follower. That's ludicrous!
It's a total disgrace and
insult to your intelligence of course, but again, in
In America, people are
also taught to keep each other in line, so if you get out of line and do not
follow the hive mentality of authority/media = truth, then you are ostracized
and psychologically attacked by your peers. In that sense, the elite have a
perfect form of mind control whereby the masses keep each other in line for
them, without the need for martial law or troops. And your TV of course, is the
technological instrument which makes it all the more easy for them.
So basically,
It's all mind control and
psychological warfare.
Specifically, you are
expected to CONFORM to the following behaviors, in order to fit in and be
considered
1) You live to work, are a workaholic, and tie your identity to your
job, organization and culture. "You are what you do" in other words.
And you have no identity outside of that. You are a happy slave who is glad to
give your life to the economy in corporate servitude. This gives you purpose
and contentment. It is what you strive and live for. After all, everyone is
striving for that, so you'd better too!
2) You consume endless junk with your hard earned money, junk that you
don't need which advertisers sell you, in order to fill the emptiness within
you, and enjoy your life, while helping out your economy at the same time. So, you seek your
pleasure in consumerism, both for your benefit and in your patriotic duty to
help the
3) You confine your social interaction within closed cliques that you
established early on in high school or college. You only communicate
with strangers for business related purposes (e.g. customer service, business
transactions, professional sales, etc.).
You are not comfortable
socializing or befriending strangers because you are paranoid of them, for
every stranger out there is to be feared as a potential psycho, creep or
criminal. This is the attitude that your media teaches you and is the social consensus.
(never mind the fact that
Thus, you live in fear and
paranoia for your own safety, since everyone else does too. You are taught that
fear and paranoia are healthy protective attitudes to have. And as a
conformist, you follow the media and their consensus of course. Your safe
refuge is in the safe structured environment of your home, routine, job, and
closed clique of friends.
Now, if you didn't
establish any lifelong friends or cliques early on in life, then you're
basically F***ed and a loser, so you'd better not draw attention to it or
complain about it, lest you be seen as a loser and told that "you're the
only one". Instead, be quiet and live in denial about it, while focusing
on your civic duty to work and consumption (ala #1 and 2) to make yourself
useful to society at least. Winners never complain about loneliness or
lovelessness, only losers do.
Furthermore, since you are
basically seen as a business resource in
In fact, the local news
projects the assumption onto everyone that relationships and friendships are
not even a problem or issue in
4) You believe whatever you are told by authority, your corporate media
and the social consensus (or manufactured consensus rather). Authority = Truth.
Consensus = Truth. Might makes right. Truth is whatever you are told by the
proper sources of authority, such as the government and corporate media, not
what actually is. You believe whatever you see on TV, especially if it's from
the respected corporate media (ABC, NBC, CBS, Fox, CNN, etc.)
You are a follower and
conformist who follows the "herd mentality" that is engineered and
conditioned into you. And at the same time you chant that you are living in a
country full of freedom, free speech and democracy, while the rest of the world
is under fascism and oppression.
Anyone elected to be your
leader by the cabal, under the illusion of the voting process, is someone you
automatically trust as a moral paragon of truth and integrity. They don't have
to earn your trust or earn their credibility. It's an automatic given. They are
your leader, and you are a follower, so your trust and faith in them are a
given. For example, someone like Obama can come out of nowhere and become
President, if the elite cabal wish it. Even though he has done NOTHING to earn
your trust or establish himself as a paragon of truth or integrity, you are to
treat him as such, because he your LEADER and YOU are a FOLLOWER, and that's
that. Forget the fact that it's illogical to trust a man brought up and groomed
by a proven evil corrupt sociopathic elite cabal. You do not serve the truth.
You serve authority and consensus. Got it?
And you are NOT to use
your freethinking mind to doubt or challenge any of this. Instead, you are to
use your "mind" to ridicule and ostracize anyone who doesn't agree
with the system, hive mentality or social consensus. That is your duty. You
find nonconformists as repugnant.
5) You must agree with all consensus opinions (no matter how unjust and
untrue) and avoid any taboo topics (no matter how true), aka adhering to
"political correctness". In other words, you are psychologically and
socially forced to agree with what you're told and what the consensus is, yet
you must also believe that you live in a society that protects "freedom of
speech". Another case of "double think".
From youth, you are
psychologically conditioned to believe that conforming is "cool" and
not conforming is "uncool". So much for free speech and freedom of
thought.
This especially applies to
"special" groups that are protected and given a special status of
unaccountability in
What this means is that
they are totally shielded from judgment and criticism, and can get away with
anything. In that sense, they are basically infallible and unaccountable, for
it is totally taboo to criticize them. Doing so will result in one being
socially attacked as a "racist or sexist".
Therefore, these groups
are shielded, which invites them to abuse or mistreat others, and get away with
crimes even. That is plain wrong and unjust. But of course, you are not allowed
to complain about it or expose it.
Now, I want to make it
clear that I do NOT advocate hatred toward any group, minority or gender. I am
not a racist or sexist. I am merely pointing out the TRUTH and reality that
when you shield any person or group from any accountability, criticsm or
judgment, it will naturally invite them to misuse and abuse their special
protected status and allow them to get away with anything. They can and WILL do
it. (I could give so many examples, but it might be best not to lest it be used
against me). This is especially true in societies like the
An example of a manufactured
media image that promotes inequality and false gender stereotypes is in modern
TV shows and movies (especially those that focus on relationships) where men
are portrayed as "dumb, immature, and dishonest" whereas women are
depicted as "honest, sane, and mature". See this movie poster as an
example:
http://thecia.com.au/reviews/g/images/grown-ups-poster-2.jpg
Now this stereotype is
often not true and promotes male bashing. But of course, you aren't allowed to
argue with it since it's a consensus opinion. Doing so will draw condemnation
and brand you as a "sexist" or "misogynist". It's one of
the biggest taboos. So taboo in fact, that not even the right of free speech can
protect you from it.
That's why even
freethinking leaders who oppose conformity and mind control (Alex Jones, David
Icke, Michael Tsarion, etc.) and alternative media will not touch this issue or
expose the inequity of it, for it would cause them to lose their female fans,
which is a large base to them. Only Men's Rights groups will, and they get
little or no coverage in mainstream media.
It's a bigger taboo than
talking about UFO's or conspiracies even. While the subject of UFO's, psychics
and conspiracies are professional taboos that can cause one to lose
professional credibility, this taboo is a social one that carries far bigger
consequences, which includes social and emotional hatred directed at the
violator. Exposing it will put you in the same category as a Neo-Nazi or
Anti-Semite. It's the mother of all taboos.
One reason is because
there is an unspoken rule in
In fact, women are
portrayed in the modern culture as princesses who can do no wrong. They are in
the judge's seat and can never be judged themselves, for they are shielded and
given a special status of unaccountability. This has turned them into
entitlement queens who do not need any social skills or to behave decently. All
the burden of proof and accountability are on the men. It's an unspoken truth.
This is all very unjust and unfair. But you aren't allowed to complain about
it, or else. It's total social mind control. And you are obligated to agree and
conform to it.
Now I am not against
women. I LOVE women and treat them as princesses, and in fact many of my best
friends are females. I even enjoy non-sexual female companionship. But I am
just pointing the simple fact that when you give ANY group or gender a special
status of unaccountability, they can and WILL misuse and abuse it. This has
nothing to do with my feelings or biases. It's just a fact. And it goes both
ways.
These are all yet more
examples of why truth has no value or significance in
As long as you conform,
you are free to pay lip service to "truth and freedom". Thus you are
allowed to be a hypocrite if you want, but not a nonconformist!
Conclusion and Recommendations:
So, to be considered
"normal" in
Your duty of course, is to
conform, while at the same time paying lip service to "truth and
freedom", thus becoming a hypocrite yourself. Even immigrants are expected
to conform and become "Americanized".
Most do conform of course,
not due to the feelings of their heart, but out of fear, out of weakness and
insecurity, out of the need for acceptance, and out of their natural
inclination to follow others. You see, most people have no identity other than
the group, organization or culture that accepts them into it. They fear true
freedom and independence of mind and thought. (See Eric Fromm's "Escape
From Freedom")
Nevermind the fact that
the behaviors above are actually the complete antithesis to a wholesome sense
of self, passion, creativity and rich human connections, as well as freedom and
truth. Conforming to them, in fact,
leads to a life of slavery, materialistic values, repression, a false sense of
self, social segregation, an attitude of fear and paranoia, and a sheep-like
mind.
Nevermind the truth.
Because truth is what you're told, and as a conformist, it is YOUR job and duty
to follow authority, media and social consensus.
Nevermind the fact that
its society that is sick and dysfunctional, and therefore adjusting to it makes
you dysfunctional as well. As the Indian sage Jiddu Krishnamurti stated,
"It is no measure of health to be well adjusted to a profoundly
sick society".
Frederich Nietzsche noted
this profound truth:
"Insanity in individuals is something rare - but in groups,
parties, nations and epochs, it is the rule."
But of course, conformity
and mind control, while insane, are also deceptive in that it turns the tables
on truth. Instead of acknowledging its own insanity, it puts the insanity label
onto anyone who has trouble conforming. Psychoanalyst Eric Fromm describes it
this way:
"The sick individual finds himself at home with all other similarly
sick individuals. The whole culture is geared to this kind of pathology. The
result is that the average individual does not experience the separateness and
isolation the fully schizophrenic person feels. He feels at ease among those
who suffer from the same deformation; in fact, it is the fully sane person who
feels isolated in the insane society — and he may suffer so much from the
incapacity to communicate that it is he who may become psychotic." (Eric Fromm, The Anatomy
of Human Destructiveness)
How true, yet taboo. Michael
Tsarion, a brilliant alternative researcher on the Occult and Mass Media Mind
Control, quoting R.D. Lang in his "Age of Manipulation" lecture, sums
it up this way:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GjquqioRmZE
"Insanity is a perfectly natural adjustment to a totally unnatural
and negative environment." (R.D. Lang)
Even the Roman Emperor and
philosopher Marcus Aurelius realized the insanity of the consensus:
“The object in life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to
escape finding oneself in the ranks of the insane.”
Yet our society never
looks at itself. Instead, it looks for victims and dissidents to target and
scapegoat. No matter how dysfunctional society or the system is, YOU are the
one seen as dysfunctional and a loser if you don't fit into that sick system.
It's a case of the pot calling the kettle black.
But alas, it is taboo to
blame society or the system, for one's duty is to follow, not to challenge.
Instead, blame can only be directed toward individuals who refuse to conform or
who are maladjusted to the dysfunctional norms in
That's why
Now, if
The BIGGEST LIE is that
We all need to WAKE UP and realize that we are living in the "Borg
Collective", not in the "land of the free", and stop chanting
and raving about how free and democractic we are like mindless automatons. Only
when the spell over your mind is broken, will you be truly free. And that
begins with your mind. The rest will flow from there. Once you are attuned to
the truth, more truth will come as your consciousness seeks it out.
Now, there is nothing
inherently wrong with getting things, buying things, or with TV itself. It's
what those things are USED for that make them destructive to the human psyche.
They are used to MANIPULATE people, brainwash them, and control them, inducing
a materialistic herd mentality and attitude of fear and paranoia which conforms
to a manufactured consensus. They are used as substitutes to replace a healthy
self-esteem, human relationships, social connection, spirituality, truth,
freedom, passion, creativity, expression and freethought, all of which are
suppressed.
Rather than teaching us to
cultivate a healthy sense of self that is spiritual, intellectual, truth
seeking, aware, conscious, creative and geared toward happy healthy
relationships and deep social connections, the system represses such things.
Instead, we are conditioned to focus on materialism, corporate slavery,
segregation, selfishness, fear and sheep mentality.
All that leads to a
screwed up sense of identity, relationships and society, as well as a perpetual
state of fear, stress and fragmentation, both inner and outer.
You are not supposed to
see the dysfunction in society of course. One is only allowed to blame oneself
if one fails to conform, for one is always expected to look happy and positive.
And of course, one is expected to ridicule others who complain or expose all
this as well.
That's the tragedy and
illusion of this state of affairs.
Moreover, the corporate
elite have a vested interest in limiting your social relationships, family
life, and creativity or passions, for if you have too many friends, good social
connections and/or spend too much time cultivating your passions and creative
pursuits, then you will have less time for industrious work and productivity,
which America sees as the purpose of your life. You see, your life is a
business resource to
So what can you do about
that? Well you can expose it and bring awareness to it (like I'm doing here).
And you can tell yourself everyday "I am a human being! Not a business
resource!" But the most important thing is for you to place yourself among
groups, movements or cultures that are conducive to life of freedom, passion
and rich human connections and relationships. There are alternative, counter
culture and hippie-type movements in the
Or you can go to overseas
cultures where passion and camaraderie are still regarded as the focus of life,
rather than cold hearted business and closed cliquishness. There are many
cultures abroad that are far more open, relaxed and inclusive, where people are
not segregated by "ice barriers" or paranoia. I've experienced many
of them and can vouch that they are a world of difference. But the
But you'd better hurry
though, cause
On the other hand, if you
do not thrive in cultures that are set up to be socially closed, cliquish,
repressed, where people are robotic followers who live in fear and idolize a
workaholic lifestyle devoid of passion and creativity, you might want to also
avoid these countries besides America: Canada, Japan, Taiwan, Hong Kong, Korea,
Finland, Norway, etc.
Of course, other cultures
lie somewhere between both these categories. And everyone will have different
experiences in different cultures, so experiences will vary.
But the important thing is
that you choose a culture or atmosphere where your INNER matches your OUTER
environment. In other words, if you are shy, conservative, socially closed or
cliquish, as well as a workaholic, you would vibe best in cultures that reflect
such qualities (e.g. Japan, Taiwan). But if you are open, passionate, sociable,
relaxed and carefree, you'd fit best in cultures dominated by such traits (e.g.
The important lesson here is that authority does NOT equal truth, as we
are conditioned to believe from childhood. Truth is not their job. Their job is
CONTROL you, and they will do whatever it takes to accomplish that, including
propaganda, lies, pressure to conform, mind control, psychological warfare,
fear mongering, punishment and ostracization, deprivation, and even murder. Also,
the job of the media is NOT to inform or educate you, or to make you wiser and
more knowledgeable. Their job is to keep you a happy slave who works, consumes
and obeys, while dumbing you down with trashy content to keep you living in
fear and paranoia. Such is the grim reality and sad state of affairs. But once you make
truth your aim and passion, rather than conformity, you are SET FREE, first in
your mind and consciousness, and then in your lifestyle. As they say, "The
truth shall set you free."
Therefore, question
everything. Don't take anything on faith. Check and research every important
issue and decision in your life. You will find that when you dig deep, a lot of
what you are told are lies or exaggerations. The rabbit hole goes deeper than
you can imagine, and gets deeper as you dig.
It takes courage and a
higher sense of awareness/consciousness to rise above the system, to shed
yourself of programming and mind control, and free yourself of these
psychological shackles, so that you can seek truth and passion, and not care
what others think.
As Frederich Nietzsche
notes:
"The individual has always had to struggle to keep from being
overwhelmed by the tribe. If you try it, you will be lonely often, and
sometimes frightened. But no price is too high to pay for the privilege of
owning yourself."
Remember that the first step to true freedom begins in your MIND and
consciousness. To do that, you've got to develop a thinking that is separate from the
hive, one that can recognize all this "double think" mind control for
what it is, and the insanity and dysfunction of it all. And one that refuses to
live in fear, but instead lives in love, truth and freedom.
From there, the rest will
flow naturally. The universe will bring events and other people in your life
who are on a similar path to teach and help you as needed, or join/ally with
you in your journey and purpose. No matter the distance, people who resonate on
the same frequency will be drawn to each other one way or another.
Truth is not something you
arrive at. It's a search, a journey. As an old Chinese proverb says, "The
journey of a thousand miles begins with one step."
So the question is: Will
you take that first step? Or will you remain with the hive?
Thank you for reading.
To learn more about mass
mind control in
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See also:
Propaganda vs. Real Life
in America
The Industrial Culture of
America and Automaton Populace
Debunking the Myth of
Freedom and Democracy in America
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- “A
masterpiece, you've truly outdid yourself this time! It's all there, everything
gathered in a great paper. I'm definetly going to reread it over and over, so
that it will be memorized. It's all truth, there are also a few other good
people to listen to. I've recently found him yesterday, he is a really awesome
individual. His name is Alex Collier, he talks about being in contact with
extra terrestrials, but that isn't his only concern. It's us as individuals,
how we need to break free and look at the world around us, his talks, lectures,
and interviews are incredibly inspiring, one thing I will never forget.
"Why do you have to pay... to live on a planet you where born on?"
That will stick with me forever, what the "Aliens" preach is really
astounding, what he says he was told. I am skeptical, but the morals that he
preaches are inspiring.
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=uR46QjXjLH0
But yeah, everything you stated in this
article is mind blowing. It will open everyones eyes, when they truly apply and
question their lives. I think this is a definite must read! I'm going to get
links to your site, and save them. It will hopefully change peoples
perceptions.
Mind if I use some of these things in a
Presentation video? It's a video me and a couple friends are going to put
together for kids at our school. Were going to talk about Social Division,
Education, Money, The current future of humanity, and the solutions. (The Venus
Project)
Thanks for posting this, I still don't know why
people don't post! D;
Great job, you should really venture into making
videos about this stuff! Like what Peter did with Zeitgeist! Yeah, just a idea.
Great job, and keep up the good work!”
- “Very good read, though I must honestly
say I felt like I was re-reading my own thoughts, which is probably not a bad
thing. It can be very hard once you break out of the hive mentality to try to
fit into our sick society. I have felt so much isolation because of it. Most of
my old friends think I am crazy and my family tends to look the other way when
I try to discuss things like you wrote. That is the curse of being a free
thinker I suppose, or blessing depending on your point of view. Before I
"woke up" if you will, I had many more friends and much better appreciation
from my family. Then again, I was living in almost total oblivion.
I have been out of work for well over a year and
honestly I have no desire to return to the workforce. I am not even so sure I
want to finish going to college. Hell, I can't pay for it anyway. So many
people seem to think that life is all about working, going to school, getting
married, and having kids to do the same exact thing; just pumping out more
units. It is so sad. Life is about BEING, not doing.
To greater society I am a loser and a piece of
shit, but to me I am a beautiful being of light just like everyone else. We
have the power within us to create positive holistic change in the world. I
believe that although we do need to be AWARE of the more negative ways of our
current society, we need to focus on the positive, on love and the creative
power of our consciousness if we are to make the change happen. For the longest
time I thought that getting a job was the first and only first step I could
take to being successful. Now, in the wake of economic collapse, getting a job
will not be an option. We must all free ourselves of this materialistic prison
cell and remember who we truly are.
So, good essay, as you can see it inspired me.
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