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ABROAD Why You Can Have A Better Life and Love Beyond America
Great news for Asian and Black men about Europe
If you’re an Asian American
man attracted to white women, there is some great news for you from the
excerpts below about your chances in Europe
that will make the dating field for you there like paradise compared to
here. Unfortunately
though this fantastic liberating news for Asian men like us is still not that
well known among Asian American communities for some reason. (Perhaps
many Asian Americans have been conditioned to believe that America is the ideal standard for
everything, and that anything outside of it would constitute a step down) But oh what a difference location makes.
http://goldsea.com/Features/Parisasians/parisasians2.html
”The Asian Image
Asian males also enjoy a better social image than
their American counterparts. French women consider Asian men exotic, refined
and -- get this -- good lovers, according to Sanchez whose ex-husband is
Chinese.
"In the United States there is a lot of emphasis
on physical strength and appearance, so tall and muscular Caucasian men are
more appreciated than Asian men," says Mayako
Yamamoto, a Japanese student who lives in Paris
but has visited America
several times. "The values here are
different. You don't have to be tall and strong to be popular. They like you to
be gentle and understanding, and Asians are gentle. You also need to be
charming, intelligent, seductive, sensual and stylish.
I think that in the States, Caucasians always serve as the reference points.
You are always compared to them instead of being judged as you are or compared
to other Asians like in France.
That's why I feel more comfortable here."
Asian physiques don't appear as unusual because the
French are generally shorter and slimmer than Americans.
The French also differ from Americans in their
attitude toward interracial relationships. It is considered a natural process
for immigrants and their descendants, even of non-White races, to have French
spouses and meld into the mainstream of society. Whereas in America Caucasians
and Asians ponder the phenomenon of interracial marriages, the opposite is true
in France.
Many French interviewed for this article expressed surprise at the fact that
Asians tend to marry within their own communities.”
Here
you can read an account of going to Europe by an Asian American.
As you can see, it applies to blacks as well.
http://www.discovervancouver.com/forum/topic.asp?TOPIC_ID=10543
“I'm a single East Asian guy from Hawaii and am thinking about
going to grad school in Montreal. I spent a year in Rouen (France) and had something of
a revelation. French women really have a "thing" for tall & fit
Asian guys (I'm about 1.87m...6'2"). I got hit on (and scored) with so
many gorgeous French girls (blondes, brunettes mostly), I cried when my program
was over. Hell, even the girls in the Netherlands were all over me,
which was quite an experience since I don't really turn very many heads at all
in the U.S.
It explains my success in Rouen, but I also got
amazing responses from gorgeous French girls in Paris, Strasbourg, and Montpellier as well. The Dutch
girls were also really receptive (still fondly remember a blonde university
student asking me for my number on the train...and a very happy weekend
thereafter). I almost felt bad for my white travelling companions, who weren't
getting much attention at all. In Germany, my black friend also
got quite a bit attention, and we were the only ones who ended up hooking up
with some cute German girls from Heidelberg. I guess European
women prefer Asian and Black men because of the "exotic"
factor....similar to the large numbers of white men with an "oriental
woman" here in North America. Maybe it's time to
head back to Europe. I still remember black American GIs telling me Europe is "black
man's heaven"...but I have to say, it's "Asian man's heaven" as
well (as long as you're single and like blondes!)
I've found that it's much more difficult in North America to score, because
racism is "infused" into the sexual dynamics of society here. I've
still dated several of white girls here, but I met them in school and not in
bars/nightclubs. I actually talked to an Asian guy who lives in Paris, and he confirmed
that white French women LOVE Asian men. I guess movies like L'amant reflect the
sexual they have for us. Apparently, the French guys are starting to complain
that French women only want "ethnic" guys. Most of the Asians in the Netherlands are Indonesians. And
they do GREAT with the beautiful blonde Dutch girls. My friend is an Indonesian
from Utrecht and we seemed to have our pick of women in the
nightclubs. We even took a trip to Sweden and met some of the
hottest girls ever seen. It's just too easy in Europe if you're a tall
decent looking Asian guy.”
Likewise,
this East Indian who grew up in the states noticed the amazing difference that Europe made as well. He
relates to me:
"Hell for me started
in junior high school (I attended Sunnyvale Jr. High) in sixth grade.
It’s basically the same story as yours. I went to Fremont High
School in Sunnyvale for
freshman year, and it was a nightmare. I used a fake address to go to Homestead High
School in Cupertino,
and although it was an improvement (in terms of less barbarians), it was still
a nightmare. Almost everything you said about your high school experience
matches mine. There was not even one girl who had any interest in me.
Although I am an agnostic, when it comes to my romantic life, I like to
jokingly say that “Jesus saved me.” In 1999 (when I was 23), my parents,
who are Catholic, wanted to make a pilgrimage to the Vatican, as
well as travel around Italy and
France for
three weeks. They really wanted me to come along with them (for free!).
Prior to this, I had never truly been out of the USA (I
went to India for
two weeks when I was 15, but stayed in a family friend’s home the entire time,
so I didn’t get to interact with the Indian people much). While in Florence, I
went into a bar by myself. It was somewhat empty, and there were many
empty tables around the one I was sitting at. I saw a beautiful blonde
girl with her two cute friends (a redhead and brunette), and made eye contact
with her. We kept exchanging glances, she seemed so happy that I was
looking at her, and her friends were happy about it, too. The redhead
came over to my table and asked if she and her two friends could join me.
So they all joined me. They were from Sweden.
Keep this in mind... I am not passive. I am an extrovert who goes up and
talks to women I am interested in. This got me absolutely nowhere in the USA up
to that point.
In Lourdes, France (a
Catholic tourist destination), sexy locals were checking me out. Then I
get back to the USA,
and nothing happens romantically for me. Not even a single date.
One year later, in the summer of 2000, I decide to try a personal experiment...
I want to know if there is something wrong with me, or with America and
American women. I get on a plane to Sweden and
stay in Stockholm for
two weeks. The second day I’m there, a girl asks me out on a date.
The next day in a club, a girl is very interested in me and tells my
close friend (a Swedish guy who was an exchange student and the only friend I
had during my senior year of high school) that she was disappointed that I left
early. A few days later, in a queue for a club, a hot blonde starts
hitting on me, and asks me to join her and her friend. She sits on my lap
in the club while we drink. (I know Sweden is
a very feminist country, and I am 100% opposed to feminism in all its forms,
but even so, you can still see how big of a difference there is between Sweden and
the USA
when it comes to getting dates).
I come back to the USA,
and despite my constantly approaching and chatting up girls, I go without sex
for two years."
An elated Asian American man in Minsk, Belarus
wrote:
"Hi Winston,
Wow, what a great news!!!
Winston, you are a pioneer. You are inspiring Asian American men
everywhere to take the plunge and travel to Russia (or Ukraine
or Belarus.)
Yesterday I went to see
Nutcracker Ballet with a beautiful 26 year old Minsk girl I have been writing emails
to. She held my hands and treated me most tenderly. Almost like a
boyfriend she loves. Wow!!! Imagine that. I am a 46 year old
Asian American guy who had NO American girlfriends, no sex with white American
girls and of course no marriage and no family in all my life in USA.
I could scarcely believe I was not dreaming throughout that date. It was
so unreal that this beautiful girl treated me so well.
The plain fact is that
most Asian American men are treated so shabbily by American girls. We are
simply zero to them. And most Asian American men are totally discouraged
IMO (in my opinion). They think they have absolutely no chance dating a
beautiful girl of their dreams. Well, Winston, you have shown that it can
be done. Not in USA of
course, but in FSU (former Soviet Union)
countries. Here, it just feels so good to be treated as a man for a
change! And you don't have to be a great looking investment banker
guy. Some women here just appreciate tender attention. For some
women, even just companionship is enough!
I consider coming to Minsk to be one of the
very best decisions I have ever made in my life. And hopefully, I will
not go back to USA.
I like to marry a beautiful Belarussian girl and live
here permanently."
On an internet forum about the sex life of Asian
American men, one poster wrote regarding my stories and photos:
http://www.asianrelations.com/cgi?bin/yabb/YaBB.cgi?board=
;action=display;num=1131368826;start=15
“Re: Photo collage of 100's
of girls I dated in Russia
« Reply #17 on: Feb 11th, 2006, 2:06am » Quote
Modify
Hey folks, even the
"top" Asian PUAs (who claim to be the
antithesis of WW - by relying upon " " and self-defined realities)
live in the EU (or moved there). WW
bagged all these babes in Russia. And even if some of them were gold-diggas - look at him - there's no way in hell he could even
come close to getting any gold-diggas like that in
the USA! So, obviously, the bell curve is vastly
shifted over in favor of AMs in the EU! Face the facts and give this guy some credit,
people!
Look at Rick for god's sakes
- most of his "partners" are all from the EU AS WELL! Face it folks, EU = man-loving AM
HEAVEN! USA = man-hating AM
HELL! No way around that one...the
evidence is just overwhelming.”
And this Asian bro from New Zealand
echoed my thoughts and sentiments exactly:
“Its a perennial topic for discussion
among Chinese guys like myself - and yes I agree with you 1000% - there is
something really fucked up about the attitudes of not white people in general,
but Anglo-Saxon societies in their attitude to Asian men. Even 100% non-sexual
communication between white woman and asian
man is often a fraught affair - however with foreign European women at work it
is never a problem - whether they find me attractive or not is beside the point
- they just treat you as another human
being.”
In regards to the above
phrase I bolded, deep down, isn’t that what many of us Asian American males
just want? It’s not much to ask for,
really.
I would really urge those
reading this to pass this great news on to other disgruntled Asian Americans
that you know. Doing so can result in
life-changing inspiration for them, as in the case of this teen Asian American
teen who wrote me:
“Winston, I'm currently 17 years old and
like you I am a Chinese American. I love the ebooks
you have online and I really enjoy hearing about your success with white women
abroad. I have a research paper on "my hero" and I choose to do my
report on you and your success. I would really like to possibly chat with you
online and just ask you simple questions for my report. You are an inspiration
to Chinese Americans such as myself.”
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