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HAPPIER ABROAD Why Dating, Social Life and Mental Health are Better Beyond
(Image of me from my story in the Lithuanian magazine
Antre Puse)
Quotes
about me from Readers, Fans, and Advisors
(Sources linked where possible.)
“People can be divided into three groups
Those who make things happen
Those who watch things happen
And those who wonder what happened
You are in the first group Winston”
“Despite all the flak you get you are certainly an interesting
character and probably the most famous (or infamous) self-made asian on the
internet” – Rob, USA
"Most
Asians don't think for themselves. They simply follow the pack. You are one of
the exceptions."
-
"You're
probably the most atypical Asian male I've ever met."
- Peter, an old Scottish traveler I met
in
“Winston, you are a
White man trapped in an Asian man's body. All the characteristics I
associate with Asian men seem to be the opposite of you. You do not do
what society tells you to do. You do not work hard just for the sake of
working hard. You find White women attractive.” –
Jean,
Colorado
“As far as you being a banana – a white man trapped in an Asian body - I would like to qualify that you are not an American white man inside an Asian body but a
European Existentialist - a Frenchman, Italian or Spaniard trapped in an Asian body. You are certainly not a modern Anglo-Saxon trapped in it.” - Ladislav, my Expat Advisor
“Winston you are now an Asian American Moses, and you
are leading your people out of the “captivity” of boredom, loneliness,
lovelessness and datelessness to the various promised lands of milk and honey,
many honeys that is and milk is to come later. Lol.” - Ladislav, my
Expat Advisor
“I would say that yes, I have not seen
even one Asian person like yourself. There are rebellious types and these are
women often, and they rebel by joining the American mainstream. Same with Asian
guys who start acting “American”. But for an Asian to rebel not only against
“Hey Winston...I see you’re famous. Maybe
not quite receiving the positive feedback that you might have been hoping for
but nevertheless, you can see how much your stories of your adventures and
thoughts have affected others. As I always say, the show must go on.”
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
“Your tenacity is astounding. All the stuff
you went through. Most people would have given up.”
– From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=364
“Winston, even though i don’t agree with
all you are doing there, I do support your adventures and would to commend you
for doing what many guys are far too chickens*** and cowardly to do ..so my hat
is off to you and I would like to hear more about your times abroad.”
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
"I love rebels and free spirits, I
really do. And that's why I like Wu so much.
There
are so many people who turn into depressed potatoes in the
- From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=91
“To be honest with you Winston, I think almost all of the girls
you hit on (and many of them you scored) are all very hot. This makes me
wonder how you did it, especially the fact that you're an oriental. I
know some guys who have a lot more than you, but they can't do anywhere near
what you did (in terms of girls of course).”
- Fan Mail,
referring to the Photojournals
“Winston, I am amazed at your ability to attract women that are
much more attractive than yourself. I wish I had more of your
magic. I consider myself much more attractive than you, but you seem to
do better with the ladies. What is your secret?”
- Fan Mail,
referring to the Photojournals
“I dont know how you do it, but whatever it might be
(wit, charm, outgoing personality, etc.), i think you've got game (by that i
mean confidence). Frankly, I think you
just have an uncanny outgoing personality.”
- Howard, USA,
referring to the Photojournals
“You are a
monster asset for meeting women.”
- Peter, expat living in
“Photos prove everything they backup the
talk. You walk the talk so to speak and very few of these other men on these
Blogging sites can ever claim this not even the agency owners whom many are
scamming many men.”
“Wu-man,
I got to give it to you. You have surrounded yourself by everymans passion.
Hundreds of beautiful women. All thru history men have surrounded themselves
and fought over the presence of women. Could there be any better reason to
fight over. For whatever reason you have accomplished that feat. You have
surrounded yourself by beautiful women… P.S. I believe that you can prove your
point anytime.” - Fan Mail
“After reading all
your ebooks and following your advice to visit
“Just thought I’d say hi and tell you how much your
writing inspired me... I think people “need” to read what you’ve written” – Joan, USA
“I enjoy your writing and you are one of
the most inspiring dudes around. Main thing is you don't give a shit what other
people (especially white) say about you - highly unusual, unfortunately, for
any race of people, Chinese especially.
So your stuff is absolutely awesome.” – John, USA
“No B.S., you're a big, big inspiration and i'm glad
to hear you're doing good in
“The stuff you recommend, winston, has always managed
to utterly CHANGE MY LIFE. Thank you for being an inspiration. You will never
know how much it means to me!!!”
- Elizabeth,
Orange County, CA
"I visited your website, happierabroad.com, and
I agree with everything you write. You are my hero! You have spoken truths
that many men do not understand. You have broken ground that many men have
not... You are an inspiration!" – Mark,
Washington DC
“You are a hero for the underdog, proving
that with balls and determination you can find fun, sex, love, and
happiness…..”
“Winston the reason you are successful is that you admitted there was a
problem and went outside the box to get what you want. Most people settle for
what life puts right in front of them.”
- Jeff,
"Winston you're one of the few people who will
tell it like it is, even if it makes yourself look bad. I give you that. Most
guys brag and BS and deny their faults. Like Dwight (our mutual friend) if you
say something happened, it happened. And like him, you don’t just talk about
it, you DO IT."
- Jeff,
“I'm
currently 17 years old and like you I am a Chinese American. I love the ebooks
you have online and I really enjoy hearing about your success with white women
abroad. I have a research paper on "my
hero" and I choose to do my report on you and your success.” – Joseph,
USA
“Winston, YOU ARE MY HERO. Nobody can understand you and your noble quest
unless they have lived in
- From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
“YOU ARE MY
HERO TOO. Here I am with clinical depression feeling like I'm wasting my
year after college and its honestly giving me hope browsing your photo collages
and seeing that happiness is definitely possible, no matter who you are.”
“You are a champ. Most of us, even if we
did find the holy grail would either be too selfish or more likely shy and
embarrassed to ever come out publicly the way you have. Your generosity of
spirit is truly amazing.” – John, New
Zealand
“This guy is a legend… Read his long story and the photos (including the
albums) and you will be amazed… my hero”
- Reference from http://www.freewebspace.net/forums/showthread.php?t=2189614
“Listen, you’re the man!” – Rick, USA
"You are AWESOME!” - Fan Mail
“You inspire me! Never change!!”
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
“Your ebook was refreshing. I thought I was the only
one who thought this way about American social climate.” - Fan Mail
“Your website truly is a treasure! It's making
me more self-aware in areas that I may have been slipping into "typical
American mode" in, and is opening my mind even more.” – Megan, Wyoming
“Dear Winston, I have just read your
article Propaganda vs. real life in
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive2.htm
“I cannot
express in words how impressed I am by your work and how accurate and true you
are to yourself. I have lived in the
“Everything you wrote in your treatise is
precisely to the point… It took me a while to realize that there was a chasm of
difference between the media picture of
“I am from
“A GREAT WEB SITE! Thanks for the many
hours of work it took to put together. Also I curse you for the many hours I’ll
spend reading it all. ;) Thanks again.”
- From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive2.htm
“Sir, first off, let me tell you in one word what I
thought of your e-book... OUTSTANDING!!!!!!!!!!
I'm currently reading it right now and it is great!!!” – Darryl,
NY, Retired Air Force
“I have been reading the stories and
adventures of Winston, and like the rest of you I'M IMPRESSED!!!... I am
striking out on a BOLD and NEW path for my life such as Winston did… I love how
he persevered and finally got the girl of his dreams. WAY TO GO WINSTON...“
- From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=444
“Winston - what a fantastic site. Your
trip to
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
“Winston, as I was watching your adventures, I
was thinking what a lucky person you are to have experienced so many things -
regardless if they were positive or negative. You did this on your own,
and you should be proud of yourself. Most of your enemies simply sit and
write behind a computer, but you have lived it - which means a lot more.
Think of how many men in the
“Winston keep up the good work. I really
feel you are one of the more intelligent and insightful individuals out there
on the internet. I’m sure there are lots of American men of all backgrounds who
agree with your articles. Ignore the naysayers and bitter Americans out there
who want to bring you down to their level. Be yourself and be happy with life.
Life is short and sometimes that’s all we can do is just be.” - David
“Cheers Winston, Keep the faith! As Teddy
Roosevelt said, ‘The only man who never makes mistakes is the man who never
does anything.’ You live your beliefs while your critics just sit back and
second guess you...Godspeed!”
-
From my Guestbook: http://www.happierabroad.com/Guestbook_archive.htm
“I like Winston's style because he lets
it all hang out and that allows others to make objective observations. Winston
blitzes into the unknown with his hair on fire and, for better or worse, allows
others to live vicariously though his exploits. Some may not agree with
Winston's modus, among other things, but nobody can deny Winston is a
trailblazer.”
- From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=3392
”Winston talks the talk, and he walks the walk. Thats more
then can be said for most. Kudos Winston.”
- From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=3392
“I tell ya
Winston, you are gathering quite the little fan club… Well, its like the old
World War II motto goes; "If your taking flak, you must be over the
target."
–
From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4020
“After months and months of observing your views and
actually reading through your articles, and experiencing various American
people, I made a conclusion that you are correct and I fully agree with your
views on Asian/American mentality vs European/Latin/Australian mentality. I
would rather be happy and live life to the fullest than rot my life in bad
quality with large money that cannot buy happiness. Thanks for your
enlightening articles.”
- From a former critic of mine
"I
thank you Winston from the bottom of my heart for showing me and other lonely
men THE WAY to
"Thank
you Winston for all of your help. Your knowledge and experiences are
inspirational and GOLDEN and you are well liked and honored by MANY. Do not let
the HATERS get you down. Because these
types of people will not do for themselves, than to bash you all day in B.S.
topics and post. Why don't they step outside the matrix and go abroad to be
happy also? Keep up the good work my
friend. You're doing EXCELLENT !!!"
"It's
such a wonderful time in my life and YOU are the person I thank for this
guidance and for making HappierAbroad.com and giving lonely guys everywhere a
chance at solutions and cures to datelessness and hope to having a life that is
fullfilled overseas. I'm so excited and so happy now Winston."
"Hi
Winston, your site and stories are excellent. I think your detractors are
envious and secretly admire you as well.
Ken."
- From my Guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414
"Having
been in band, I've done well with women in
- From my Guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414
"Hi,
I've not just read your advice, but I've followed it too! I'm so glad to leave
the West because of all the heart-ache and problems with women who really don't
want or need a man, so theres no use trying.
- From my Guestbook: http://www.ultraguest.com/view/1200586414
"Winston's
blogs and photojournals are epic! I have a new internet hobby now: reading
Winston's stories.
I'm
moving to
- From my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4278
“You are an infinite inspiration to me and I
feel tremendous admiration to the fact that you actually put your dream into
reality!!!”
“SWEET website. WOW! Inspiring,
useful, fun. Fascinating to see the reactions of your readers!
As one pointed out, you really are a
leader. Unusually truthful and courageous.”
“To sum it up, Winston Wu has just
become my new inspiration, my new god, my new role model, my hero, my icon.
Seeing so many ****ing pics of him with harems of chicks kissing and hugging
him makes me feel like a ****ing poor sap. I need to learn how to be a real man
who gets to **** real girls from this guy. I think I seriously lack a good male
role model in my childhood years though I had a father.”
- From my
forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4700
“I want everyone on this site to know that Winston is
100% right. I have lived abroad and seen the difference in my social life, in
how it made me feel inside; and I've also seen the antisocial lame-ass dating
scene in the
- From my
forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4580
“man - you are the man - i have looked through very briefly on your
site - but i want to walk in your footsteps man - i'm depressed here in the U.S
- no action - absolutely no satisfaction - i see some of your fotos - all of
the girls look hot to me. i don't
even have any chances with the ugly girls here in the U.S - sucks.” - Dave
“I would recommend this website to anyone,
HappierAbroad.com, created by Wu, a genius at any rate. He’s someone who’s actually gonna show you
proof. All these other websites you go to, they really don’t show you
anything. His ebook has changed my view
of American culture 180 degrees.”
- From Kairosan’s video review of Happier Abroad: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=w_mtDro7dRY
“Your book has exposed
me to a paradigm shift with regard to dating. My collection of dating/seduction
books is now merely a repository of rubbish.”
"I
appreciate Winston doing this site because frankly, I know he's right. Before I
moved abroad my social life in the
- From
my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=4742
"I've
never been to the
- From
my Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=2412
"I
believe in Wu. Wu was right about the Polish girls and them being really
friendly and giggling and blushing. Wu was right about being able to go over to
the girls' tables and immediately go and sit with them. Wu was right about the
society being more open in
- From my
Forum: http://www.happierabroad.com/phpBB2/viewtopic.php?t=118
"You
are the man, Winston!... I recommend your website and YouTube videos to
everybody... Your personal accounts of women (and people in general) being more
approachable, friendly, and caring in other parts of the world serve as hope to
those of us living in the frigid, hostile U.S.” - Ghostforever,
Happy Bachelors Forum
"I've
been through your site before and I admire your courage in going out there,
actually taking action and sharing your experiences... Most people don't even
get out of their own bedroom door, for you to actually go out and do it, and
then share with everyone else what you learned earns you a ton of
respect." - Kestral,
Happy Bachelors Forum
"Winston,
Your analysis of the social scene in the
"Dude
you are awesome... Happierabroad, nomarriage, and the-niceguy gave me hope!
Your like.... the justice league? or something!" - EstevanMusic,
YouTube comment
"You're
the man Winston! Fabulous channel! I wish I was in your shoes." - RussX5Z,
YouTube comment
"Your
a genius Wu and a pioneer for waking up your fellow countrymen to REAL WOMEN
overseas the women in my country are about as bad. American men are good and
decent and deserve better than the feminist nightmare there being offered in
their own country." - Jimmy27Paul,
YouTube comment
“I never write to a public space as am
very private. But what got me in your site that
it is very deep; it looks at a problem of insanity (again, stated by those who
are from abroad, or Americans who
tasted life/cultures abroad; Americans themselves
are in a delirious oblivion about themselves and their "culture")
of Americans, their life style and
"culture" at every angle, in depth, diagnosing the insanity, looking
at the possible causes of it, and offering suggestions to cure. It was by far
the most comprehensive and cumulative work I've ever encountered on the
subject. Big thanks to you for
that, for devoting your life to this cancerous world's problem. At first I
thought that emphasis on dating is a bit shallow and might repel some thinking,
deep people, but the more I looked at it, I came to think that it might just do
the opposite...” -
Tatiana
See Also:
Testimonials that Dating
is all about Location!
Letters from Expats who
are Happier Abroad
10 Unique and Outstanding Things about Winston Wu
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