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I told you guys this would happen.

I TOLD YOU.

Many threads I disagreed with LO and I mentioned many times the patterns that guys like him have when posting and he has filled them to a 'T'.

I told you guys that CT posts and topics would begin to pollute the rest of the forum and piss off members and scare off the rest of the readership.

I predicted that this would happen..

My vote?

Ban him.

I need more. Linux Only is probably a gov agent trying to get this site shut down. Another CT Ha

DaRick wrote:

Adama wrote:Erik, I always liked your posts until you used the "go get laid" you guys are too negative line. You're still locked in the Matrix, bro.

Agreed - the amount of sex you have does not dictate the quality of your arguments. If it did, then Emmanuel Kant may as well have been an LSD-taking pothead.

We all wonder why Anglo girls have insurmountable egos? It is because too many men pedestalise them for offering sex. Do what they ask and judge them as human beings. That way, we'll all be so repulsed by them that we won't want to have sex with them anymore.

It's a feminist line taken right out of their books. You are a loser because you can't get laid. If your friends are the ones saying that (the brothers on this board), then who needs enemies (the feminists who hate men who marry abroad)???

The only way to have a healthy relationship is to have one with someone who is mentally healthy. This is not possible with Anglophone women. How can anyone recommend that we go out to have sex with mentally unstable women as a way for men to become more mentally healthy? This defies logic.

I can say that this will not solve any problems even when it is possible. It will only cause more problems in our lives, in the long run.

Besides that, many of us would prefer sex with one woman who is a good woman, rather than trashy single mothers who are getting banged by 3 other guys that week.

ErikHeaven wrote:I need more. Linux Only is probably a gov agent trying to get this site shut down. Another CT Ha

A male feminist and a known anti-conspiracy theorist. Those hardly count for much.

I never said anyone was a loser for not getting laid. Please dont put words in my mouth. I said its a stress reliever and some of you could have your stress relieved.Some are taking this hate the American woman thing a little too far. I will post something tonight addressing this.

ErikHeaven wrote:I never said anyone was a loser for not getting laid. Please dont put words in my mouth. I said its a stress reliever and some of you could have your stress relieved.Some are taking this hate the American woman thing a little too far. I will post something tonight addressing this.

I just have a little question: I know everyone has their opinions about sexual encounters with Western women. The general consensus on this board is that sex with a Western woman, under ANY circumstance, is a no-no.

My question is: I legitimately womnder is it alright to just, as the popular saying goes, "hit it and quit it"?

Personally, I am not the kind of man who "hits it and quits it" (if I even touch a girl, I at least have to like her-- that is my personal code), but a relationship with a Weastern woman is obviously a no-no...

The_Hero_of_Winds wrote:

ErikHeaven wrote:I never said anyone was a loser for not getting laid. Please dont put words in my mouth. I said its a stress reliever and some of you could have your stress relieved.Some are taking this hate the American woman thing a little too far. I will post something tonight addressing this.

I just have a little question: I know everyone has their opinions about sexual encounters with Western women. The general consensus on this board is that sex with a Western woman, under ANY circumstance, is a no-no.

My question is: I legitimately womnder is it alright to just, as the popular saying goes, "hit it and quit it"?

Personally, I am not the kind of man who "hits it and quits it" (if I even touch a girl, I at least have to like her-- that is my personal code), but a relationship with a Weastern woman is obviously a no-no...

Do what you feel is right. Just keep in mind that there are prices to pay when interacting with AWs, as you will soon learn if you succeed in that. The price is your sanity and mental well-being.

Adama wrote:

The_Hero_of_Winds wrote:

ErikHeaven wrote:I never said anyone was a loser for not getting laid. Please dont put words in my mouth. I said its a stress reliever and some of you could have your stress relieved.Some are taking this hate the American woman thing a little too far. I will post something tonight addressing this.

I just have a little question: I know everyone has their opinions about sexual encounters with Western women. The general consensus on this board is that sex with a Western woman, under ANY circumstance, is a no-no.

My question is: I legitimately womnder is it alright to just, as the popular saying goes, "hit it and quit it"?

Personally, I am not the kind of man who "hits it and quits it" (if I even touch a girl, I at least have to like her-- that is my personal code), but a relationship with a Weastern woman is obviously a no-no...

Do what you feel is right. Just keep in mind that there are prices to pay when interacting with AWs, as you will soon learn if you succeed in that. The price is your sanity and mental well-being.

I understand that very well. I do intend to go overseas, but that is not going to be for another few years, however.

You keep your sanity when you just hit it and quit it.

ErikHeaven wrote:You keep your sanity when you just hit it and quit it.

The problem is that "hitting it and quitting it" conflicts with my code of honor. Yes, i know that most AWs will take advantage of that at the drop of a hat, but therein lies my dilemma.

You do have a point, however, Erik.

Masturbation just does not cut it at least for me. I need some breasts in my mouth and the other stuff. It makes you feel good and a man. Jerking off is so cold and mechanical.

ErikHeaven wrote:Masturbation just does not cut it at least for me. I need some breasts in my mouth and the other stuff. It makes you feel good and a man. Jerking off is so cold and mechanical.

If I told you I never jerked off before, would you believe me?

Why don't you guys conduct a poll? lol Just kidding.

Anyway, we can't just ban someone just because "you hate him and find him annoying". There has to be a legitimate reason, and warnings should be issued first.

This forum should not be run with mob rule, like a democracy. That was tried in ancient Greece and failed. We should run it like a Republic, which is what America was founded as. Republic means "rule of law".

There aren't many laws here, except a few basic ones - no deliberate lying, no unwarranted hostility toward others, etc.

But I don't see clear evidence of LinuxOnly having repeatedly violated them.

The_Hero_of_Winds wrote:

ErikHeaven wrote:Masturbation just does not cut it at least for me. I need some breasts in my mouth and the other stuff. It makes you feel good and a man. Jerking off is so cold and mechanical.

If I told you I never jerked off before, would you believe me?

Don't start, it leads to nothing good. I didn't jerk off until after I was 20. I didn't have a "moral" dilemma, I simply thought it was for losers. The fact that 90%+ of American guys aged 14-35 jerk off on a regular basis didn't bother me. The reason I tried it was in an effort to cut down on stress. Bad idea. Ejaculation raises blood pressure. It's like drinking an expresso to calm down. And once you start it's hard but not impossible to stop. The more you have sex the higher your sexual drive becomes and thus the more you're compelled to do it, so it's a perpetual cycle, except with masturbation you don't even need to put any work into finding a woman. It's an addiction but even stronger than smoking.

Like other pastimes which start off fun and leave you a broken man, just stay away. In my opinion your brain doesn't work as well when you live the life of a sex maniac. It's not particularly healthy either, you lose a lot of vitamins. Male pattern baldness can be triggered or accelerated by routine ejaculation. Has to do with testosterone and your level of stress. If you're living la dolce vita in the Philippines it probably won't affect you much. If you're in your own hell here in the USA combined with jerking off in the closet, ya it will affect you. I'll go as far as to say that if everyone magically became a monk for a year, baldness in young men would be almost non existence and those with receding hairlines might even grow much of it back. Sperm has beneficial effects for women, but only if it actually goes in their vagina, not in their face or mouth.

-Don't date robots
-Don't masturbate
-Kill your stress before it kills you

LinuxOnly wrote:Like other pastimes which start off fun and leave you a broken man, just stay away. In my opinion your brain doesn't work as well when you live the life of a sex maniac. It's not particularly healthy either, you lose a lot of vitamins. Male pattern baldness can be triggered or accelerated by routine ejaculation. Has to do with testosterone and your level of stress. If you're living la dolce vita in the Philippines it probably won't affect you much. If you're in your own hell here in the USA combined with jerking off in the closet, ya it will affect you. I'll go as far as to say that if everyone magically became a monk for a year, baldness in young men would be almost non existence and those with receding hairlines might even grow much of it back. Sperm has beneficial effects for women, but only if it actually goes in their vagina, not in their face or mouth.

Well, I'm lucky because as soon as I re-enter the USA, my sex drive diminishes. Upon re-arriving in [ fill-in-some-other-country ], it goes up again.

Next, I have a full head of hair and I'm in my thirties. I've gone from masturbating once per week to once per day and back to the baseline; I didn't notice my DHT levels changing as a result (I guess Saw Palmetto is in one of my vitamins ) & since I'm not a martial artist (ala require high qi levels at all times), it didn't affect my workout routine either. So far, aside from drinking w/ clients and friends, I haven't found too many other addictive substances or patterns.

And yes, alcohol is a strong one and requires a lot of discipline, not to get hooked esp given the fact that pretty much everyone around me gets wasted all the time.