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LinuxOnly wrote: American kids are horrible, like a monster from hell (no Winston, your son is on you!)

Adama wrote:I'm not interested in single mothers from any country for any reason. That's just me. If I am to provide my resources and time, it will be for person(s) I created, not trying to further some other man's offspring. That is an evolutionary disadvantage and outright crazy. Exception being you can't have children of your own due to sterility or you prefer not to make your own children.

Anyhow, my last couple of years on AOL, after it went to shit, pretty much all of American women were like that one in the OP. Not single mothers. Just there were always excuses as to why they couldnt make time to come see me or to visit. Or even worse, they'd tell me they were coming to visit me and then flake out. I think they never had any intention of visiting, they just wanted male attention. This is a sick culture in which women dont have any respect for men and take great pleasure in flirting and otherwise leading men on for their enjoyment.

The_Hero_of_Twilight wrote:

Adama wrote:I'm not interested in single mothers from any country for any reason. That's just me. If I am to provide my resources and time, it will be for person(s) I created, not trying to further some other man's offspring. That is an evolutionary disadvantage and outright crazy. Exception being you can't have children of your own due to sterility or you prefer not to make your own children.

Anyhow, my last couple of years on AOL, after it went to shit, pretty much all of American women were like that one in the OP. Not single mothers. Just there were always excuses as to why they couldnt make time to come see me or to visit. Or even worse, they'd tell me they were coming to visit me and then flake out. I think they never had any intention of visiting, they just wanted male attention. This is a sick culture in which women dont have any respect for men and take great pleasure in flirting and otherwise leading men on for their enjoyment.

That is your opinion and you are definitely entitled to that. However, I will say that, as long as a woman is sweet and can respect a man and not treat him like dirt, then, in my opinion, it does not matter whether she is a single mother or not, provided that she does not expect me to support her child/children.


That's just how I see it. I am not trying to cut you down, Adama. I believe that everyone deserves a chance. However, American/Western Women are those kinds who act like they do not want it, and if they do not want it, then I will not give it to them.

The_Hero_of_Twilight wrote:Here is an email I just sent to her...



I have been thinking over the past few weeks, and I have decided that, not only will I not be coming up there to see you, I will just cease communications with you altogether. The reasons I have come to this conclusion are as follows:


1) Whenever we talk, you always vanish for weeks on end and I hear nothing from you. Yes, I respect that you work and have other responsibilities to take care of. I do not expect you to talk to me all day, every day. However, here's the kicker: You have no reason to just not talk with me for weeks, even if they are working you 24/7 at your job. I may not know about the medical field, but I do know enough to figure out that they CAN NOT work you that many hours at once. Federal labor laws (and AMA policies) prohibit that, to the best of my knowledge. Even when I am extremely busy myself, I do my best to make time for someone, not just disappear for weeks. You have done this to me about 2 or 3 times over the last year, and that tells me this: You are simply playing games with me, and that is something that I will NOT tolerate. If I may be blunt with you, the only game I play is my PlayStation.

2) The fact that you refuse to come see me. If I really meant as much to you as you say I do, you would make some kind of (reasonable) effort to come visit me. Yes, I respect that you have children, but I also have a hunch that you know someone that could watch your children for you. Granted, your job may not let you (because of vacation policies or whatnot), but, like I said, if you really wanted to come and see me, you would have made a reasonable effort to.

If I may be blunt with you once more, there are tons of women who would KILL for a man like me, and I refuse to waste my time on someone who is not serious about me. If you were serious, you would make a little more effort than what you have made.

iI am very sorry, but I must say that, with that said, we should go our separate ways. Maybe you will not treat the next man like this.

swincor__ wrote:

LinuxOnly wrote: American kids are horrible, like a monster from hell (no Winston, your son is on you!)

LOL I like how you made an exception in Winston's case.

Yeah, nice job with kicking her to the curb, although I myself would have been just a tad harsher. For example, none of this "I'm sorry, but..." or "If I may be blunt..." or "Maybe you will not treat the next man like this." After all, why bother with niceties when you're ripping her a new asshole?

But overall, good job. American women need to be treated like this. It's good for them.

Adama wrote:

The_Hero_of_Twilight wrote:

Adama wrote:I'm not interested in single mothers from any country for any reason. That's just me. If I am to provide my resources and time, it will be for person(s) I created, not trying to further some other man's offspring. That is an evolutionary disadvantage and outright crazy. Exception being you can't have children of your own due to sterility or you prefer not to make your own children.

Anyhow, my last couple of years on AOL, after it went to shit, pretty much all of American women were like that one in the OP. Not single mothers. Just there were always excuses as to why they couldnt make time to come see me or to visit. Or even worse, they'd tell me they were coming to visit me and then flake out. I think they never had any intention of visiting, they just wanted male attention. This is a sick culture in which women dont have any respect for men and take great pleasure in flirting and otherwise leading men on for their enjoyment.

That is your opinion and you are definitely entitled to that. However, I will say that, as long as a woman is sweet and can respect a man and not treat him like dirt, then, in my opinion, it does not matter whether she is a single mother or not, provided that she does not expect me to support her child/children.


That's just how I see it. I am not trying to cut you down, Adama. I believe that everyone deserves a chance. However, American/Western Women are those kinds who act like they do not want it, and if they do not want it, then I will not give it to them.

Definitely agree to disagree. I wouldnt knock you for your choice. It is your life.

Truthville wrote:Hero?

Two things:

1.) The best thing about acting with class and honor, I find, is that one can sleep at night knowing that they did the right thing. You, and I know you know this, did the right thing. I admire people whom at least TRY to do the right thing. Sometimes it's easier to do the wrong thing than the right especially when it looks (and/or seems) easier to do the wrong thing. Lord knows, I've lowered myself a few times.

2.)Did you ever hear back from her? I'm just curious IF she would even respond, instead of just blowing you off which seems to be in "style" these days.

TruthVille

LinuxOnly wrote:don't f**k around on the internet. meet real women face to face. don't waste your time with this e-life/2nd life b.s.
remember that you're in your 20s, not in your 40s with a full-time job.

trade your ps3 for a psp and go out more