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[quote="The Arab"]Outwest has got to be high on some serious pharmaceutical Grade A stuff, with talk about "The Other" and "True One and Only" and other pseudo-mystical gibberish.
First half of the paragraph was unintelligible, then became intelligible later on.[/quote}
Sorry, I should have qualified it more. "The Other"" is not mystical gibberish, but refers to the philosophical
ability to acknowledge paradigms beyond one's own perspective and experiences, even when one is
not familiar with them. It thus holds absolutism in check, a kind of humility based on the finite nature
of one's own perspective.
Reasoned, experienced men will not accept extreme portrayals of all Arabs or Islam. Muslims are a significant
minority in my area, and I often have dealings with them. You seem pushy and narcissistic to me, but
at the same time, I might think think otherwise if I knew you It's just an internet forum. I will not let it
ruin my day. I too have a tradition of hospitality. If you were in my town I might strongly disagree with you,
but could still invite you to my house for great food and some of the best locally produced coffee, served
by a lovely girl. The universe is more than we know. A hat tip in that direction now and then is a good idea.
How did I lose credibility ? Are there many successful black/russian marriages and flings ?
I got the vibe that most Russians aren't "ok" with the idea, especially the men. There is a strong racist current, not necessarily with the women, but them men and overall culture.
I am all ears and if you can convince me otherwise, I am willing to hear you out, and if you have personal experiences of your own , even better.
Trust me, I am far from being "pushy and narcissistic" in real life. I agree with the main ideas and opinions on this forum, regarding U.S culture and women, and the soullessness of U.S. culture.
Many blacks don't even travel, so that statistic probably doesn't exist. I am sure Russian women are dying to be with Arabian men more than blacks...yeah. Many blacks do want to go to Russia, but many of them get false information like skinhead attacks or some other racist baggage bullshit that makes them flake out, so they don't even bother visiting there.
Yeah, I do have some experience with women from Russia. My best friend, who is 25 and has lived in Russia her whole life, I have known her since 2008 and she said she would date me if she didn't have a boyfriend. I have the most success with Danish women. I have talked to women from Western Europe the most and they have never said anything about me being black. In addition, they never said being black was a bad thing. I am moving to Denmark permanently in December.
Many white men used to tell me not to even go to Europe because of this so-called racism, but I said, "f**k that shit. I am highly attracted to white women so I am going." I date mostly white women in America, so why should I have a problem in Europe? America is just as racist as anywhere else.
I find it funny how you are the only Arab that has made statements like this. The Internet is a huge place and I have never heard anything about foreign women liking Arabs. I am not saying it isn't true, but you make some outrageous claims.
You're a relatively good-looking 2Pac clone (no homo), so I don't doubt you could generate interest amongst certain circles for the exotic factor.
But can that lead to marriage ? I'm sure you could be successful in Russia and Western Europe, but marriage is something else. A lot of these women will fling with black men, but no marry them (especially Russia.)
But regular black men unaffiliated with hip hop and lacking defined musculature wouldn't stand a chance.