1. take 2 guys who are equal in confidence, the taller better looking guy will have a bigger advantage
2. Looks matter especially in highly competitive environments (especially ONLINE and bars and clubs)
3. take 2 guys who are both good looking, the more confident guy will get the girl more. Confidence trumps looks
4. with the right looks or height, more women will take you seriously and view you as Non-platonic, and consider you dating material
5. If she doesn't "see you as her type" (looks+height) no matter what you say or do, no matter how confident you are, you won't get to "date" her(this is outside of your control)
6. looks account for roughly 25-30% with the exception of online dating and bars/clubs. Although looks are a small portion of "game" it still DOES play a role on what kind of women you will get.
7. Sure, there are exceptions out there (short ugly guys dating really hot girls) but these are just the "minority" or "exception" not the "majority"... Fact is, Majority proves the rule, not the exception. ALthough you will see a short ugly guy dating a hot sexy girl, that short ugly guy probably has a lot of ($$, social status, or the right social circle) that got him that girl.
This is part 2 of my 6,000 approaches.
I've approached roughly 6,000 women and a lot of "Pickup artist" theory will tell you that "money doesn't matter, your game does". Famous "PUA" tyler durden aka owen cook from Real social dynamics claim "money doesn't shit shit" "it's how you carry yourself that gets you the girl".Does Money matter?
after 6,000 approaches. I must say
MONEY DOES MATTER!!
If you are bill gates, the biggest nerd in the united states, bill gates can probably get ANY woman he wants just by having a lot of money alone! Without bill gates money, do you think gates will be as attractive? f**k NO! THis is one extreme example. However, if you are in the "middle class" or "working class" does money matter? I say yes it does. it matters in a context in which it implies.
WHICH MEANS, although you won't show your money up-front, it sub-communicates a lot of things about you. if you have money, you will give off
1. That you are financially secure about yourself
2. That you are financially responsible and independent
3. that you have something going for yourself
4. that you must be somewhat smart to have a decent job
5. by having money, you have a lot of compliance and power
6. women will respect you more if you have money
7. a great tool to "provide" in the future
fact is, majority of women in the united states prefer to date men who are financially secure. If a man has money, it implies a lot of things about him that makes him attractive (smart, financially secure, compliance/power, independent) all in which is a very attractive trait. Money itself won't get the girl, but the underlying meaning of having lots of money implies a lot of positive traits about the man. THis is why MONEY IS VERY IMPORTANT. This applies NOT JUST IN THE UNITED STATES, but IN THE WORLD! A hot sexy russian girl probably won't date you in the long run if you aren't financially stable.
downsides of having $ especially for meeting women. Some women "take advantage" of people with money for their personal gain. This is what we call "gold diggers"... If a woman never liked you in the first place, she will use you for your money. If you buy women clothing or any thing of that sort WITHOUT HER EARNING IT, you automatically lose your power as a man. So make sure she's "already earned it" such as (f***ing you already, or dated her in a certain amount of time) for you to buy her something.
In summary, Money does matter. It matters more on what it implies, not the money itself. Does money matter? f**k YEAH IT DOES!! Is it an important trait to get women? I Say yes! Even if women deny it nowadays (due to social conditioning), IT STILL MATTERS A LOT! That doesn't mean you have to be "RICH" or anything, just enough money so that you are financially secure.
Again, most of this is probably repetition; however, you can always learn a lot from repitition