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One of the members on here wanted me to make a thread about the differences between black women and white women. Note: this is my experience, so take it for what it's worth (a billion-fafillion-killjillion dollars!). Other note: I have never dated or had sex with a black woman (never will) and my experience is day-to-day operations and friendships with black women.

Friendliness/Social Skills

White women are the most friendliest to me. If I say hi to a white girl, 99.9% of the time, she is going to say something back. Black women don't even give me the time of day. White women, even if they do not like me sexually, will still talk. Talking to a black girl is like talking to a brick wall with shit stains on it. Example: I used to live a block away from a nail salon and I was walking back home. I saw this cute brunette walking the opposite direction. She walked by me said "hi" first and I said hi back. If this were a black woman, she would have walked by like I wasn't even there. Example 2: The same area...This white woman had the nicest body I have ever seen in real life. She was jogging and she had on these tight ass black pants and a black tanktop with sunglasses on. She even said f***ing hi to me and she was huffing and puffing, walking to where she was about to go. Again, this is the norm for me.

It doesn't matter where I go, white women are like this with me. Another example I forgot about. I was was taking a public bus to Best Buy and I saw this fine ass white woman with dreadlocks across the street. I had that feeling that we were going to talk and we did. It is funny because her name was Rashad. Guess what we talked about? We talked about the Black Panthers and other things from the 1960s. She was very attractive. We sat by each other on the bus too and we were talking about Aerosmith and the Rolling Stones and baseball. Black women are not social at all unless she is twice your age. I went to Marshall's to buy clothes and this older black lady was commenting on how all of my clothes are blue. All the things I own are blue. I had small talk with her. This happens with older black women, but black women my age? *crickets chirping* Older black women talk to me, but the younger ones don't.

Example that I told a member on this forum: I went to Walmart to buy some hygiene products and there was this white guy in front of me and an older lady (I think she was Indian) was behind me. The black girl was ugly as f**k, but still lol. The black girl talked to the white guy and asked him how he was and had small talk. When I put my shit on the counter, this bitch didn't say a God damn thing except how much my shit cost. It was like $12 and some change. Then I slowly walk away and this bitch is talking to the Indian lady saying, "Hi, ma'am, how are you today?"

This is more evidence that black women just don't give a f**k about me. You would think black women would be lining up to talk to me, but they are last in line or not even in line at all. Why are white women talking to me so easily like I am a white guy and this has been happening since I was born? Does this shit make any sense? I am glad this shit is like this though. Me and black women are like peanut butter and oil. Doesn't mix at all. Me and white women are like Oreos and milk. Perfect match. Funny how all of my black family members say I will end up with a black woman, but rhinos don't have wings and kangaroos don't know how to sing yet, so choke on that slapnuts! My attraction to black women is like my attraction to roaches, non-existent. Next..!


Approachability

White women win again. I usually don't even approach white women 99% of the time, they approach me or initiate. I don't even have to do much with white women. Example: This actually happened last weekend. I met another cute white girl and she introduced herself to me. She was with her friend (she was cute too) and they were flirting with me. All I had to do was basically talk. She introduced herself to me. I haven't met any girls in awhile so this was refreshing. This is the norm for me though. I try to talk to black women on occassion and they just brush me off. It is usually me being the invisible man. I do approach white women sometimes (99% of the time I don't have to because they initiate everything). I approach a white woman and I usually have a 5-10 minute conversation in a store or whatever. If I try with some effort, she gives me her number without me asking. Sometimes, I just ask right away and she gives it to me. Even the meanest, coldest white girl will still talk to me; they won't just pretend I am not in their presence.

Attraction Signals

Black women usually joke around too damn much. I remember I liked this black girl in high school and I thought I was going to do something with her, but it was just a f***ing joke. It is funny...This fine ass light skinned girl came up to me and I thought she was going to talk to me, but she was being a wingwoman for her friend. I was so pissed! I was in P.E. with this black girl and this so-called flirting was comical. It was more like bullying. That's what black women do. They don't really flirt. I will get back to this later. White women, they usually let you know in the first 30 minutes if they like you or not. If I know she likes me, I make a move immediately. I have a thing I do with women called the "magic hand." If a girl lets you hold one of her hands or she lets you massage her hand or both, she likes you. I do the magic hand before anything else because I like to make the move slowly.

Black women are harder to read as far as attraction. Since black women don't think I exist, I have no clue what signals they even give. If I do sense a black girl likes me, I know 99% of the time it is a joke and I should not take it seriously.

Flirting

White women do know how to flirt. White women are pretty easy to figure out. My friend told me about this place he goes to every Wednesday night and he wanted me to come. This was when I was 16. The first day I was there, this cute white girl sat on my table and we began to talk. She flirted with me and I was hooked on this place. Example: One of the girls I met at this place, she wore this rainbow tanktop and some booty shorts. She was a blonde. She had the most amazing blue eyes I have ever seen. She stared at me like she wanted to eat me up. Anyway, she said she had a bruise on her leg and she turned around and she asked me if I could see it. She was being a tease the whole night.

Well, she sat by me the whole night. She invited me to a pool party, but my friend didn't want to go. I was pissed at this punk for a while because of this. I met her again the next week at this park everyone goes to. We had so much chemistry. It was insane. 2 weeks later, she was following me around like a sick puppy. I was going around meeting new people and she was right beside me like a magnet. One of the best girls I ever met. I would wait for her to come to this place and we would sit together and talk. We never did anything here except talk all damn night. I moved from this area a month or so later and I was a wreck.

Black women don't know what flirting means. I like to be a tease and I like to be goofy. White women eat it up, but black women don't play that shit. Black women, so f***ing stupid. White women are huge teases. They will do anything to make you laugh. White women usually touch you a lot, play with their hair and stare at you like you she is a lion and you are a zebra and she she looks away. In addition, white girls usually cling to you like a magnet and follow you everywhere you go. Those are the signs I know that she is interested. The main sign is her touching me like rubbing my head or touching my arms or wanting to hold my hand. It's on like Donkey Kong then.

Black women? You are automatically a brother, not the "I am black, a black man is a brother and a black woman is a sister." Not that bullshit, I am talking about the family member aka you are never sniffing my p***y. Watching a vacuum cleaner vacuum a floor is more engaging and entertaining than black women conversation. Conversation with a black woman is non-existent. It is usually one or two word responses.

Humor

White women always make me laugh. They also understand my humor. I play off of white women and they play off of me. It is a thing of beauty. Black women are funny too, but most of their humor is cursing. I curse a lot too, but black women want to be female Richard Pryors. If you make fun of a white girl,


Treatment of men

Never been with a black girl so I don't know. This is just my experience with white women. My best friend is a white girl and she told me when I first met her that she would never drive a guy around town. She wanted the guy to drive her around. Now, I hate cars and I don't even have a license and guess what this girl did when we hung out the first time? She picked me up, took me to the store, bought me shit there and then after we did the sexual hokey pokey, she drove me back home. I didn't even have a job at the time either. So there goes the "you must have a car, money and a job to even get a girl." You guys know me well enough and you know I am not an asshole. I am just me. I am nice, polite, generous, etc. but I don't take anyone's shit. I know what I want. I know when to say no. I know what I don't like. I have zero tolerance for bullshit. White women have treated me well for the most part. Oh yeah, I never have to pay for me and her. It is usually dutch. I don't ask or anything. I don't even pay half of the time.

I call the girl up and she usually picks me up with no problem. I have lived in Illinois most of my life and I have lived in Arizona from 2006, 2007 and moved here permanently (until I leave America) since 2008. I used to be on MySpace like a mad man meeting white women. This one white girl I wanted to f**k lived like 100 miles or so from Phoenix and she said she would pick me up just to take me over to her house to f**k her. This didn't work out because I texted her one day and some black dude said he was dating her or something. I dropped that shit, but I do regret not f***ing her. She was that banging. She was 33 years old, but she was fine as hell. She did send me some X-rated pictures so I didn't lose! I usually ask a white girl if she wants to hang out and she usually says yes. I haven't really gotten a no answer. Yes, I have been rejected, but most of my rejections were before I changed my appearance to the way I look now (check the Facebook profile!).

I met a MILF online and she lived two states away. She was coming down to Phoenix anyway to visit someone (I forgot who) so she drove all the way down here just to f**k me. I told one of the members of this forum this on Facebook about this.

Intelligence

White women I usually talk to are not bimbos. They have a brain. I don't have to teach them how to do shit or whatever. I have intelligent conversations with them all of the time. Black women don't know shit besides black people stuff. I don't want to talk about that shit. Have a decent conversation. I am not talking about plate tectonics or anything, but I usually have engaging conversations with white women. Black women are stupid and the only thing they know how to do is boss you around.

Treatment of men out in public

White women treat me like I am the leader. She asks me what I think or what I want to do. The day is pretty much mine for the taking. If I want to go to Sonic, she takes me immediately. A black girl? Ugh...She acts like your mother and she must boss you around. You must do what that black girl wants to do. I usually just become a rebel and do my thing. I can't imagine dating one of these creatures; this is just hanging with a black girl. White women always want to hold my hand and be affectionate in public. Black women want you to be behind them. This is what my mom does and why do I want a black girl treating me like I am her son? White women, I can make all of the decisions or we can come up with something to do. Black women? I have to make blueprints of what movie we need to go see or something stupid. White women don't make me feel embarrassed being in their presence. Black women make me want to run for the hills because they are making you feel like a moron.



Conclusion

White women think it is cool if you listen to Avril Lavigine. Black women call you a sellout for listening to the Rolling Stones. The biggest white girl that is a bitch will still talk to me.

I always find it funny how men on here say black women are friendly, nice, etc. I am talking about the white and Asian men. I don't know why it is so reversed like this. If all the women in America died out except black women and black men were the only ones left too, I would still not get attention from black women. I actually prefer it this way because I don't find black women attractive at all. Yes, there are exceptions like Gabrielle Union, Meagan Good, Beyonce, etc., but the majority of black women don't even look like that in everyday life. The best looking black women are usually light skinned or mixed with something.

White women interaction with me is amazing. It just happens. I don't really have to do anything, but talk and make a move. As long as I don't f**k anything up. I might as well say this shit now. I went to visit my parents last week and I took a Greyhound bus back. I wanted to prove to all of you that white women are not that bad. I met so many fine ass white women on this trip that it was insane. I feel bad because I didn't really try to talk to them. I did talk to them, but I didn't really care. All of them were approachable. All of them carried a conversation. I am still thinking about this brunette that sat in front of me. Man, she had long black, curly hair.

Her body was so tight and she had the cutest face. There was this other white girl that talked to me. She was the same height as me, 5'10, she had dirty blonde hair. She was funny as hell. Not only the white women on the trip, but I met some Latinas and this fine Asian chick. I wasn't even in the bus station for 5 minutes and I saw this Asian girl on the other side. She walked up to me and started talking to me. I like Asian women, but I never live in an area where they are populated so this was a surprise. The whole bus trip was nice. I wish you guys that hate white women would have been on this trip.

I always said that American women aren't that bad, especially the white women, but I have always had success with white women anyway. This has been like this since I was in 1st grade. Bitch named Jamie, she would throw her hair in my face everyday and she was like, "I like you!" I didn't want to be with her lol. 1st grade and shit...Wow. So, yeah, the white girl thing has been part of my life since I was a kid. White women are the first ones to approach and the first women to talk to me before anyone else.

I have talked to teenage white girls, white women my age, and MILFs. I have talked to the EMO white girls, the ivy league white women, you name it, I talked to all types of white women. It's the same shit. This happens everywhere I go. I used to live in Hawaii and I didn't even do shit there while I was there and I even pulled a white girl there. Well, she actually followed me down the street and she talked to me. It was crazy. I took her back to my room and we hung out. She was from Washington and we didn't hang out that much, but I never had a girl pretty much stalk me on the street.

This is just my experience, not a scientific theory. I can say the same thing with European women. The women that I talk to online that blow me away are European women. I am talking to women from these countries right now: Russia, Denmark, and Slovenia and some other European countries that you guys don't recommend. I have known the European women I met on MySpace for years. I used to talk to this girl from Ukraine, but I lost contact with her. I wouldn't say I haven't had luck, but Filipinas and women from countries you guys recommend in South America is not clicking. I have more success with European women. I like Latinas too and I find Paraguay to be my favorite place in South America I want to visit. Is this a coincidence or is this just the way it is with white women and myself? American white women like me a lot and European women do too (even the evil, vile Western Europe! I have the most success in Denmark).

Almost forgot about Canada and Australia. Canada is one of my favorite places to talk to white women. I had a lot of success in Canada. I almost moved there in 2006 because the girl I met blew me the f**k away. She was the cutest thing ever and she had one of the best accents I ever heard. I only talked to a couple of Aussie girls, but the one I used to talk to the most was super cool. Denmark and its women are pretty much a match made in hell. It is too delicious. My personality meshes far too well with Danish women. I love American white women because of their goofiness and quirks, but Danish women are this times a million.

Sorry for being a babbling Brooke! I am done writing.

@P-Sosa,

You definitely want to keep your arse out there in the southwest because here in NYC, Black, westernized Afro-Caribbean and westernized African women run city and state public sectors (from welfare to public hospitals to public shelters to customer service to telemarketing, et. al).

See, this is why I will I have to go above and beyond the lower-rung/public sector to an I.T. temp agency/recruiting agency, and make sure I'm not dealing with any Black nor African westernized women or else they will go out of their way to keep me stumped from advancing via that company for a job or to maintain my job.

But go full-court press on the European women, my dude.

Don't wife up any American woman..I don't care how pro-Black she is. That's real [advice], man!

I noticed another thing. Does anyone notice if you're an African American men and you're holding hands with a Caucasian woman or a woman of another race, you'll get stares from some African American women and some African American men?

In America, if there is interracial dating, men or women of a particular race will stare because they're jealous and want what someone has. For example, if an African American women is dating a Caucasian men; there are jealous African American men. I wouldn't get jealous though because i'm not that insecure about myself. Jealously=insecurity. I believe you should date whoever treats you right.

I think America is one of many countries where men or women are openly jealous because someone of their skin color is dating someone else not their skin color.

The OP's post sounds like an EXACT description of the difference eg. between a typical white American female and a typical Russian one. So it seems there's a gradient of women.

Phoenix,

You are definitely right about the difference between white and black women in America. I do agree with members on how there are issues with women (white + black) in America. However, I had some good experiences with white women that made me wonder if I just met a good person who I clicked with really well.

E, is right. Do not marry an American girl (any ethnic group). I remember you said you are practicing your Danish. Keep trying and try to go to Denmark. Possibly since I will at least be in Europe until May next year, I am sure we can meet up since the good thing about Europe is different cultures are near by.

Okay from my experience white women will be friendly for like one minute literally. It is a very convincing friendliniess then they immediately shut off. and come up with some excuse not to conversate any more. They are very very anti-social indeed.

I live here in L.A. so my experience with white women is different. They do pass off perm-a-scowl's ( courtesy of E_Irizarry ) those nasty angry looks. not to approach them.

I talked to a white lady from minnesota. she was only here in L.A. for couple of weeks. she gave this friendly thing for one minute literally and said " well...i have to go and do my work now. " just don't want to socialize for at least 10 mins. hahahhaa. over there in central usa they are a little bit more open. but it seems to me it's the same anti-social mentality.

I hung out with a visiting mexican lady here in L.A. she hung with me for more then an hour long. now THAT is what i call friendly open and social. It was so easy with her. big BOOBIES TOO. !!!. she had to leave the next day but before she did. she came up to me wrapped her arms around me and pressed those boobies up against my chest. hahaha.

but back to white american women. if these women like you. they CANNOT and WILL NOT give you their number. they will stare at you and sneak peeks at you but still don't want to date. or give you some boyfriend excuse without you ever asking for her phone number.

black women are even worst hands down. hahahaaaha. and i am a black guy too !!!.

all in all i am finished with american women. don't marry them. don't do anything else with them. go and live in another country. its better.

i ACTUALLY love the white women from europe. such as norway, serbia, ukraine. you name it. i have it really good with them out there. can't wait to leave !!!.

Everything you said is right and exact. The older Black Women my mother's age 67 talk to me all the time. The younger black women like around 20-30 only want to engage in a conversation with some Little Wayne Wannabe nigga or Waka Flocka type nigga. White women are so open and happy all the time. Even when they are sad they still want to connect with you. I am tired of the typical screaming black woman in public on her cellphone threatening to kill somebody.
I get asked for my phone number all the time by white women.
I once had a black women tell me that she had a crush on me for a whole entire year. I told her "I could have saved you your year sorry im not attracted to you".
Yes they do not flirt, you would never even know if they like you, they never ask you out. Well when i used to live in NYC the fine sistas would ask for my number and when i visited Atlanta the same thing. Never anywhere else.

Quit playing brother and go cop you a snow bunny for real! What you waiting on man? I love white women too and if i was not engaged to my filipina i might be with one now!

Phoenix Sosa wrote:Disclaimer: This initial post is a novel, so get your Kindle or Nook, popcorn, Diet Coke or whatever you like to eat and enjoy the show! In layman's terms, this shit is long!

Thanks. I'll get my Kindle 3! I'll skip Diet Coke though since I don't see the point of killing my brain-cells with aspartame (splenda) to swallow a sugarless version of poison (coca cola). Diet is even shown to make people fatter than if they had the one full of sugar.

my dealings with white women have been very much different i don't get black men sometimes they think white women like you and they don't trust me.im black and separated from a white women i had one boy with her and she was the bigest bitch ive ever seen.i understand what hes is saying in a way because blackwomen didn't give me any play in high school only white women did because i was into skateboarding an all that shit and rock music.but what i notice is that white women are pretty racist even when they are f***ing you they still dont see as equal dumbasses.they usually give they're best to white men when they are on there asses they f**k black men as a back up when they can't get white men.most white women will f**k us but don't take dateing us seriously i have yet to see a black man married to a white women say 5 10 years you havent seen it.i know many white men with quality white women the ones we usally don't eve get have been with there white men this long and went thru hell or high water with him.now i know what you're saying about black women but why don't you guys consider black women from other nations.my fiancé is a black brasilian women who is cute and acts nothing like black american women very reserved and has old school values and no kids.white women also can't relate to a black man in my opinion they have this every thing is great, racism doesn't exist what is every one complaining about mentality which makes it hard to confide in them.they never really have you back when it comes to them being white.what shocked me was when the mother of my own child called me a nigger and i was only just trying to take care of my son and her dumb ass.i still see my son hes 5 now but only for summers because she has all the control over my child she lied to the cops got me locked up on a false domestic violence claim.i say f**k em and keep it moven if you must have a white chick ,but whether we like it or not the only people that can look out for black people is black people.its f***ed up how the bm dog the shit out of black women and its f***ed up how black women ignore black men and give them the bull shit.

Phoenix Sosa wrote:Disclaimer: This initial post is a novel, so get your Kindle or Nook, popcorn, Diet Coke or whatever you like to eat and enjoy the show! In layman's terms, this shit is long!

One of the members on here wanted me to make a thread about the differences between black women and white women. Note: this is my experience, so take it for what it's worth (a billion-fafillion-killjillion dollars!). Other note: I have never dated or had sex with a black woman (never will) and my experience is day-to-day operations and friendships with black women.

Friendliness/Social Skills

White women are the most friendliest to me. If I say hi to a white girl, 99.9% of the time, she is going to say something back. Black women don't even give me the time of day. White women, even if they do not like me sexually, will still talk. Talking to a black girl is like talking to a brick wall with shit stains on it. Example: I used to live a block away from a nail salon and I was walking back home. I saw this cute brunette walking the opposite direction. She walked by me said "hi" first and I said hi back. If this were a black woman, she would have walked by like I wasn't even there. Example 2: The same area...This white woman had the nicest body I have ever seen in real life. She was jogging and she had on these tight ass black pants and a black tanktop with sunglasses on. She even said f***ing hi to me and she was huffing and puffing, walking to where she was about to go. Again, this is the norm for me.

It doesn't matter where I go, white women are like this with me. Another example I forgot about. I was was taking a public bus to Best Buy and I saw this fine ass white woman with dreadlocks across the street. I had that feeling that we were going to talk and we did. It is funny because her name was Rashad. Guess what we talked about? We talked about the Black Panthers and other things from the 1960s. She was very attractive. We sat by each other on the bus too and we were talking about Aerosmith and the Rolling Stones and baseball. Black women are not social at all unless she is twice your age. I went to Marshall's to buy clothes and this older black lady was commenting on how all of my clothes are blue. All the things I own are blue. I had small talk with her. This happens with older black women, but black women my age? *crickets chirping* Older black women talk to me, but the younger ones don't.

Example that I told a member on this forum: I went to Walmart to buy some hygiene products and there was this white guy in front of me and an older lady (I think she was Indian) was behind me. The black girl was ugly as f**k, but still lol. The black girl talked to the white guy and asked him how he was and had small talk. When I put my shit on the counter, this bitch didn't say a God damn thing except how much my shit cost. It was like $12 and some change. Then I slowly walk away and this bitch is talking to the Indian lady saying, "Hi, ma'am, how are you today?"

This is more evidence that black women just don't give a f**k about me. You would think black women would be lining up to talk to me, but they are last in line or not even in line at all. Why are white women talking to me so easily like I am a white guy and this has been happening since I was born? Does this shit make any sense? I am glad this shit is like this though. Me and black women are like peanut butter and oil. Doesn't mix at all. Me and white women are like Oreos and milk. Perfect match. Funny how all of my black family members say I will end up with a black woman, but rhinos don't have wings and kangaroos don't know how to sing yet, so choke on that slapnuts! My attraction to black women is like my attraction to roaches, non-existent. Next..!


Approachability

White women win again. I usually don't even approach white women 99% of the time, they approach me or initiate. I don't even have to do much with white women. Example: This actually happened last weekend. I met another cute white girl and she introduced herself to me. She was with her friend (she was cute too) and they were flirting with me. All I had to do was basically talk. She introduced herself to me. I haven't met any girls in awhile so this was refreshing. This is the norm for me though. I try to talk to black women on occassion and they just brush me off. It is usually me being the invisible man. I do approach white women sometimes (99% of the time I don't have to because they initiate everything). I approach a white woman and I usually have a 5-10 minute conversation in a store or whatever. If I try with some effort, she gives me her number without me asking. Sometimes, I just ask right away and she gives it to me. Even the meanest, coldest white girl will still talk to me; they won't just pretend I am not in their presence.

Attraction Signals

Black women usually joke around too damn much. I remember I liked this black girl in high school and I thought I was going to do something with her, but it was just a f***ing joke. It is funny...This fine ass light skinned girl came up to me and I thought she was going to talk to me, but she was being a wingwoman for her friend. I was so pissed! I was in P.E. with this black girl and this so-called flirting was comical. It was more like bullying. That's what black women do. They don't really flirt. I will get back to this later. White women, they usually let you know in the first 30 minutes if they like you or not. If I know she likes me, I make a move immediately. I have a thing I do with women called the "magic hand." If a girl lets you hold one of her hands or she lets you massage her hand or both, she likes you. I do the magic hand before anything else because I like to make the move slowly.

Black women are harder to read as far as attraction. Since black women don't think I exist, I have no clue what signals they even give. If I do sense a black girl likes me, I know 99% of the time it is a joke and I should not take it seriously.

Flirting

White women do know how to flirt. White women are pretty easy to figure out. My friend told me about this place he goes to every Wednesday night and he wanted me to come. This was when I was 16. The first day I was there, this cute white girl sat on my table and we began to talk. She flirted with me and I was hooked on this place. Example: One of the girls I met at this place, she wore this rainbow tanktop and some booty shorts. She was a blonde. She had the most amazing blue eyes I have ever seen. She stared at me like she wanted to eat me up. Anyway, she said she had a bruise on her leg and she turned around and she asked me if I could see it. She was being a tease the whole night.

Well, she sat by me the whole night. She invited me to a pool party, but my friend didn't want to go. I was pissed at this punk for a while because of this. I met her again the next week at this park everyone goes to. We had so much chemistry. It was insane. 2 weeks later, she was following me around like a sick puppy. I was going around meeting new people and she was right beside me like a magnet. One of the best girls I ever met. I would wait for her to come to this place and we would sit together and talk. We never did anything here except talk all damn night. I moved from this area a month or so later and I was a wreck.

Black women don't know what flirting means. I like to be a tease and I like to be goofy. White women eat it up, but black women don't play that shit. Black women, so f***ing stupid. White women are huge teases. They will do anything to make you laugh. White women usually touch you a lot, play with their hair and stare at you like you she is a lion and you are a zebra and she she looks away. In addition, white girls usually cling to you like a magnet and follow you everywhere you go. Those are the signs I know that she is interested. The main sign is her touching me like rubbing my head or touching my arms or wanting to hold my hand. It's on like Donkey Kong then.

Black women? You are automatically a brother, not the "I am black, a black man is a brother and a black woman is a sister." Not that bullshit, I am talking about the family member aka you are never sniffing my p***y. Watching a vacuum cleaner vacuum a floor is more engaging and entertaining than black women conversation. Conversation with a black woman is non-existent. It is usually one or two word responses.

Humor

White women always make me laugh. They also understand my humor. I play off of white women and they play off of me. It is a thing of beauty. Black women are funny too, but most of their humor is cursing. I curse a lot too, but black women want to be female Richard Pryors. If you make fun of a white girl,


Treatment of men

Never been with a black girl so I don't know. This is just my experience with white women. My best friend is a white girl and she told me when I first met her that she would never drive a guy around town. She wanted the guy to drive her around. Now, I hate cars and I don't even have a license and guess what this girl did when we hung out the first time? She picked me up, took me to the store, bought me shit there and then after we did the sexual hokey pokey, she drove me back home. I didn't even have a job at the time either. So there goes the "you must have a car, money and a job to even get a girl." You guys know me well enough and you know I am not an asshole. I am just me. I am nice, polite, generous, etc. but I don't take anyone's shit. I know what I want. I know when to say no. I know what I don't like. I have zero tolerance for bullshit. White women have treated me well for the most part. Oh yeah, I never have to pay for me and her. It is usually dutch. I don't ask or anything. I don't even pay half of the time.

I call the girl up and she usually picks me up with no problem. I have lived in Illinois most of my life and I have lived in Arizona from 2006, 2007 and moved here permanently (until I leave America) since 2008. I used to be on MySpace like a mad man meeting white women. This one white girl I wanted to f**k lived like 100 miles or so from Phoenix and she said she would pick me up just to take me over to her house to f**k her. This didn't work out because I texted her one day and some black dude said he was dating her or something. I dropped that shit, but I do regret not f***ing her. She was that banging. She was 33 years old, but she was fine as hell. She did send me some X-rated pictures so I didn't lose! I usually ask a white girl if she wants to hang out and she usually says yes. I haven't really gotten a no answer. Yes, I have been rejected, but most of my rejections were before I changed my appearance to the way I look now (check the Facebook profile!).

I met a MILF online and she lived two states away. She was coming down to Phoenix anyway to visit someone (I forgot who) so she drove all the way down here just to f**k me. I told one of the members of this forum this on Facebook about this.

Intelligence

White women I usually talk to are not bimbos. They have a brain. I don't have to teach them how to do shit or whatever. I have intelligent conversations with them all of the time. Black women don't know shit besides black people stuff. I don't want to talk about that shit. Have a decent conversation. I am not talking about plate tectonics or anything, but I usually have engaging conversations with white women. Black women are stupid and the only thing they know how to do is boss you around.

Treatment of men out in public

White women treat me like I am the leader. She asks me what I think or what I want to do. The day is pretty much mine for the taking. If I want to go to Sonic, she takes me immediately. A black girl? Ugh...She acts like your mother and she must boss you around. You must do what that black girl wants to do. I usually just become a rebel and do my thing. I can't imagine dating one of these creatures; this is just hanging with a black girl. White women always want to hold my hand and be affectionate in public. Black women want you to be behind them. This is what my mom does and why do I want a black girl treating me like I am her son? White women, I can make all of the decisions or we can come up with something to do. Black women? I have to make blueprints of what movie we need to go see or something stupid. White women don't make me feel embarrassed being in their presence. Black women make me want to run for the hills because they are making you feel like a moron.



Conclusion

White women think it is cool if you listen to Avril Lavigine. Black women call you a sellout for listening to the Rolling Stones. The biggest white girl that is a bitch will still talk to me.

I always find it funny how men on here say black women are friendly, nice, etc. I am talking about the white and Asian men. I don't know why it is so reversed like this. If all the women in America died out except black women and black men were the only ones left too, I would still not get attention from black women. I actually prefer it this way because I don't find black women attractive at all. Yes, there are exceptions like Gabrielle Union, Meagan Good, Beyonce, etc., but the majority of black women don't even look like that in everyday life. The best looking black women are usually light skinned or mixed with something.

White women interaction with me is amazing. It just happens. I don't really have to do anything, but talk and make a move. As long as I don't f**k anything up. I might as well say this shit now. I went to visit my parents last week and I took a Greyhound bus back. I wanted to prove to all of you that white women are not that bad. I met so many fine ass white women on this trip that it was insane. I feel bad because I didn't really try to talk to them. I did talk to them, but I didn't really care. All of them were approachable. All of them carried a conversation. I am still thinking about this brunette that sat in front of me. Man, she had long black, curly hair.

Her body was so tight and she had the cutest face. There was this other white girl that talked to me. She was the same height as me, 5'10, she had dirty blonde hair. She was funny as hell. Not only the white women on the trip, but I met some Latinas and this fine Asian chick. I wasn't even in the bus station for 5 minutes and I saw this Asian girl on the other side. She walked up to me and started talking to me. I like Asian women, but I never live in an area where they are populated so this was a surprise. The whole bus trip was nice. I wish you guys that hate white women would have been on this trip.

I always said that American women aren't that bad, especially the white women, but I have always had success with white women anyway. This has been like this since I was in 1st grade. Bitch named Jamie, she would throw her hair in my face everyday and she was like, "I like you!" I didn't want to be with her lol. 1st grade and shit...Wow. So, yeah, the white girl thing has been part of my life since I was a kid. White women are the first ones to approach and the first women to talk to me before anyone else.

I have talked to teenage white girls, white women my age, and MILFs. I have talked to the EMO white girls, the ivy league white women, you name it, I talked to all types of white women. It's the same shit. This happens everywhere I go. I used to live in Hawaii and I didn't even do shit there while I was there and I even pulled a white girl there. Well, she actually followed me down the street and she talked to me. It was crazy. I took her back to my room and we hung out. She was from Washington and we didn't hang out that much, but I never had a girl pretty much stalk me on the street.

This is just my experience, not a scientific theory. I can say the same thing with European women. The women that I talk to online that blow me away are European women. I am talking to women from these countries right now: Russia, Denmark, and Slovenia and some other European countries that you guys don't recommend. I have known the European women I met on MySpace for years. I used to talk to this girl from Ukraine, but I lost contact with her. I wouldn't say I haven't had luck, but Filipinas and women from countries you guys recommend in South America is not clicking. I have more success with European women. I like Latinas too and I find Paraguay to be my favorite place in South America I want to visit. Is this a coincidence or is this just the way it is with white women and myself? American white women like me a lot and European women do too (even the evil, vile Western Europe! I have the most success in Denmark).

Almost forgot about Canada and Australia. Canada is one of my favorite places to talk to white women. I had a lot of success in Canada. I almost moved there in 2006 because the girl I met blew me the f**k away. She was the cutest thing ever and she had one of the best accents I ever heard. I only talked to a couple of Aussie girls, but the one I used to talk to the most was super cool. Denmark and its women are pretty much a match made in hell. It is too delicious. My personality meshes far too well with Danish women. I love American white women because of their goofiness and quirks, but Danish women are this times a million.

Sorry for being a babbling Brooke! I am done writing.

i hope you do know you're supporting white supremacy which is why blacks are f***ed up in the first place in america. this uplifting white women over black women is just crazy.get a black women over seas shit they act different as hell. shit even im stilly supporting white supremacy thru my biracial son the chances of him geting with a black women is slim to none so what will my grand children look like probably nothing like me in fact they will probably hate me and spit on my kind. my own son may see his light skin as better than other blacks further keeping blacks at the bottom.i'm not saying don't date white girls just i wouldn't marry nor have kids.

Stephen,

Possibly you are right about black women in Brazil/Africa are better. Phoenix (and other people; including myself) like European women and Asian, Latino women. You are correct in that black women in other areas of the world are better. Usually though because of 'brainwashing' I am more attracted to European women. Usually, I just cannot stand American women (of any ethnicity). It is really annoying to explain how White American women are so annoying at times and how black women in America have permanent (I hate all men) face.

I think that Phoenix is correct and how usually white women are usually nicer although many are closet racists. I still do not think American women are worth the time.

This race-baiting is tedious, I am bailing out of this thread.

The whole you have to get a black woman thing is a control tactic used by our mothers and aunties and grandmothers. You are free to mate with and marry whomever you choose. Black Americans are f***ed up in America because my people make stupid choices. Many of us choose crime over education. Many of us choose Rap entertainment over reading a book. Many of us choose to go to the library and watch worldstarhiphop videos instead of hitting the law library.
I have problems i stay in the law library section by the way.
This whole Black Family stay with Black Women is just plain bullshit!
Also the black family is f***ed up because many black women love thugs over nice brothers. Also many brothers choose big asses over character so that is why they are f***ed up.
Real talk many black women treat black men like shit and you know it. I would not care if the woman is blue as long as i am treated with kindness and respect.
Color is such an outdated construct.

skateboardstephen wrote:my dealings with white women have been very much different i don't get black men sometimes they think white women like you and they don't trust me.im black and separated from a white women i had one boy with her and she was the bigest bitch ive ever seen.i understand what hes is saying in a way because blackwomen didn't give me any play in high school only white women did because i was into skateboarding an all that shit and rock music.but what i notice is that white women are pretty racist even when they are f***ing you they still dont see as equal dumbasses.they usually give they're best to white men when they are on there asses they f**k black men as a back up when they can't get white men.most white women will f**k us but don't take dateing us seriously i have yet to see a black man married to a white women say 5 10 years you havent seen it.i know many white men with quality white women the ones we usally don't eve get have been with there white men this long and went thru hell or high water with him.now i know what you're saying about black women but why don't you guys consider black women from other nations.my fiancé is a black brasilian women who is cute and acts nothing like black american women very reserved and has old school values and no kids.white women also can't relate to a black man in my opinion they have this every thing is great, racism doesn't exist what is every one complaining about mentality which makes it hard to confide in them.they never really have you back when it comes to them being white.what shocked me was when the mother of my own child called me a nigger and i was only just trying to take care of my son and her dumb ass.i still see my son hes 5 now but only for summers because she has all the control over my child she lied to the cops got me locked up on a false domestic violence claim.i say f**k em and keep it moven if you must have a white chick ,but whether we like it or not the only people that can look out for black people is black people.its f***ed up how the bm dog the shit out of black women and its f***ed up how black women ignore black men and give them the bull shit.

@SkateboardStephen,

Thank you for your post, but it was hard to read due to the lack of punctuation. Anyway, I will do my best to reply to your post here.
1) Not all, but too many Black American men feel that the White American woman is the epitome of female mate & the answer to their utopian-seeking prayers, and that is not always true.
Remember, White women are American too, and if anything, they used to be the spearheads of the feminist movement until the Black women
were granted access to corporate America tenfold, then Black American women took the, what we say in spanish, "las riendas" (the reindeer-Santa Claus reins).
from them running over, through, on top of and all around men whom are stuck in the lower rung of society (e.g. like I am).

DO NOT EVER BECOME HOMELESS AND RELY ON THE PUBLIC CITY AND STATE SECTOR BECAUSE AS A MAN OF COLOR WHOM IS PERCEIVED AS A BLACK MAN, IT SUCKS. THE BLACK WOMEN LITERALLY BEND BACKWARDS TO KEEP ONE STUMPED AND MAKE NO APOLOGIES FOR DOING SO. THEY DO NOT LOSE SLEEP OVER BEING A POIGNANT, BELLIGERENT FEMALE TYRANT. WHILST THEY PRAY TO THEIR JESUS MAKING THEM ORGASMICALLY CUM ON THEMSELVES HENCE NOT NEEDING A MAN. THESE BLACK AND WESTERNIZED TYPES OF AFRO WOMEN ARE THE NEW WHITE SUPREMACISTS. PLEASE RECOGNIZE ALL OF WHAT I'M MANIFESTING HERE. EVADE WORKING IN HEALTH CARE, THE LAW, CUSTOMER SERVICE. THE I.T. SECTOR IN AMERICA IS STILL PRETTY MUCH UNSCATHED BY THOSE CHARLATAN TYPES OF CUNTS BECAUSE I.T. REQUIRES TOO MUCH APTITUDE AND MENTAL ENERGY AND IT WOULD PREVENT THEM FROM GETTING THEIR HAIR "DID".

THANK GOODNESS FOR I.T. E-BOOKS. I HAVE CONFERRED WITH SEVERAL I.T. RECRUITERS, AND THEY TOLD ME THAT THEY ARE LOOKING FOR SELF-STUDY PEOPLE WHOM WOULD BE AN APPLICABLE FIT FOR ENTRY-TO-MID-LEVEL I.T. POSITIONS. SHIT, I'D BE HAPPY WITH 65,000 USD ANNUALLY BEFORE TAXES IN THIS DAY AND AGE.

Everyday I have to fight my way out of the bigots' quicksand. I'm called a "brother" or "bro" every f***ing day, although I wear a Wall-St.-esque business suit; I own 5 of them. I converse; I do not conversate. If I were you, not if I was you. Double-negatives = a positive, therefore I just outright use one negative per sentence. One sentence = one complete thought. The list goes on and on.

aozora13 wrote:Phoenix,

You are definitely right about the difference between white and black women in America. I do agree with members on how there are issues with women (white + black) in America. However, I had some good experiences with white women that made me wonder if I just met a good person who I clicked with really well.

E, is right. Do not marry an American girl (any ethnic group). I remember you said you are practicing your Danish. Keep trying and try to go to Denmark. Possibly since I will at least be in Europe until May next year, I am sure we can meet up since the good thing about Europe is different cultures are near by.

I am not practicing Danish, budd. lol However, thanks for acknowledging that I said that one should never marry a western woman!!