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Postby NorthAmericanguy » Mon Jul 18, 2011 7:11 pm

fox wrote:
Sexter wrote:there are pros and cons for every thing.

Although most women expect to get hit on at clubs and bars, their bitch shields are higher too. Their friends are also more protective(cockblocks), and the music makes it harder for you to build rapport with them... LOTS OF COMPETITION by other men too.

Gaming in america is like a double edged sword. game girls during day game, it's inappropriate and women claim your creepy or weird. game girls at night game, expect a lot of cockblocks/competition/bitch shields. I honostly think it's a double edged sword, i don't think Either is easier than the other, gaming women is always gonna be hard. The only good thing about night game is that there's an abundant of single women that go there, moreso than day game.

PS

most guys who you see holding hands with a hot girl in america, mostly met through social circle/same organization. not through day game cold approach or bar and club game. Only 8% of couples met at bars. the vast majority met through social circle.

You are right about that. In bars and clubs the women's bitch shields are very high most of the time and for some women it's like a sport to reject guys or just to see how many guys hit on them (but they are not looking for anyone)
I have rarly met couples who met in a bar or night club.


I can't remember where I found this out but I was once told by a girl that when they want to boost their self esteem they go out clubbing and ruthlessly reject any male advancements to help feel better about themselves.

Anyhow, sure you CAN meet a girl at a club and bring one home and get laid, but I would submit that many girls who go to the club have boyfriends and that the most a guy is getting at the club is a cock tease. Girls go the club to DANCE, guys go in hopes of getting laid.
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Postby fox » Mon Jul 18, 2011 7:25 pm

Phoenix Sosa wrote:Do any of you know if these PUA "gurus" have drop dead girlfriends or wives?


Zan- is divorced (he was married a long time ago I don't know how his wife looks like)

AFC Adam Lyons - is married. Some say his wife is good looking (I think so too) but people who met her say she is cold, materialistic and kind of slutty. I saw some pictures of her - in the pictures she looks slutty. She also doesn't seem very
intelligent (from the videos I saw of her).

Owen Cook (aka Tyler Drden) from RSD- has a mexican girlfriend maybe they are married now. Not so good looking but not ugly. There was a rumor that she is from a poor part of Mexico and went with him mostly for the Canadian passport and his money (don't know if that's true but anyway- she is not that good looking).

Johnny Soporno is in a relationship with a porn star who still f***s strangers on Camera for money :roll:
she is decent looking but still in the porn Bizz.

Hypnotica- got married, his wife is good looking. But I know nothing about her personality or what she does for aliving.

David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....
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Postby Sexter » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:04 pm

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MrPeabody wrote:I think the original idea of picking up women in the daytime has been entirely lost, perhaps the wrong impression has been given by incompetent teachers. You were never suppose to just go up to a woman on a side walk and approach her with zero context or sensitivity to the situation. Men who were successful at this would choose situations to approach women that fitted their personality and in areas where they were competent


I agree, we have to remember that Mystery - the one who started it all was a magician and was in the entertainment Bizz before he started to use it on pick up. So he already had experience as an entertainer and he just
adjusted it for pick up.

Most guys don't come from the entertainment Bizz so for them it's not easy like it was for Mystery.

Also the seduction stuff was an underground thing before the book 'the game'. After the book 'the game' when everything was exposed and so many people started to do it everywhere- women now see it for what it is.


add in for the fact that mystery is 6 foot 5 and has a background in magic. He's teaching his students how to use his Pickup techniques because it works for him, not because it works for other people.

If mystery taught a dude who's also 6 foot 5 who has a background in entertainment, i'm sure mystery's method would work for him. However, if mystery is teaching a 5 foot 5, asian guy, who's an engineer, it probably wouldn't work for him.

PS.

those "field reports" PUas post on internet, most are either exaggerated or validation seeking. most people lie in their field reports to boost their own ego. Sure, some people are truthful, but most PUAs would stretch the truth to make it seem like PUA works. For example, i know a dude who f***ed a prostitute from tijuana, and he claims that he picked her up in the club for a "same night lay" even though he paid for her sex. Another example is a dude who got a make out from the club, but instead of posting about a make out, he lied that he got a "same night lay".

Most PUAs field reports are utter bullshit. That or it's a way for them to BOOST their ego. Whenever I read a PUA guru's field report, I NEVER take it seriously or believe in it. It's a way for him to promote his material or boost his ego.

The guys who ACTUALLY get laid, don't need to tell people they get laid or write stupid field reports about it.
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Postby Sexter » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:06 pm

fox wrote:
Phoenix Sosa wrote:Do any of you know if these PUA "gurus" have drop dead girlfriends or wives?


Zan- is divorced (he was married a long time ago I don't know how his wife looks like)

AFC Adam Lyons - is married. Some say his wife is good looking (I think so too) but people who met her say she is cold, materialistic and kind of slutty. I saw some pictures of her - in the pictures she looks slutty. She also doesn't seem very
intelligent (from the videos I saw of her).

Owen Cook (aka Tyler Drden) from RSD- has a mexican girlfriend maybe they are married now. Not so good looking but not ugly. There was a rumor that she is from a poor part of Mexico and went with him mostly for the Canadian passport and his money (don't know if that's true but anyway- she is not that good looking).

Johnny Soporno is in a relationship with a porn star who still f***s strangers on Camera for money :roll:
she is decent looking but still in the porn Bizz.

Hypnotica- got married, his wife is good looking. But I know nothing about her personality or what she does for aliving.

David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....


i have seen their girlfriends. AFC adam's/johnny saporno's GF is pretty cute. The rest of those gurus have average girlfriends.

however, those GURUs claim they pull "super models" or pull "hot waitresses" when in reality, they mostly get with average girls. That's what I hate about those dudes, they say something, to only prove that they can only pull something else.
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Postby fox » Mon Jul 18, 2011 8:36 pm

Sexter wrote:i have seen their girlfriends. AFC adam's/johnny saporno's GF is pretty cute. The rest of those gurus have average girlfriends.

however, those GURUs claim they pull "super models" or pull "hot waitresses" when in reality, they mostly get with average girls. That's what I hate about those dudes, they say something, to only prove that they can only pull something else.


AFC adam's wife is: cold, materialistic and slutty. She might be good looking but not such a good marriage material.

johnny saporno's GF is pretty cute yes, but she is still in the porn Bizz :roll:

How many guys do you know who would want to taste some other dude's cum when they kiss their girl? or that 100 differnet guys are still doing their girlfriend on camera :roll:
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Postby NorthAmericanguy » Mon Jul 18, 2011 11:58 pm

fox wrote:How many guys do you know who would want to taste some other dude's cum when they kiss their girl? or that 100 differnet guys are still doing their girlfriend on camera :roll:


Actually, there are a good amount of guys who are into that^^ I read some CRAZY stuff on this forum: http://www.swingersboard.com/forums/index.php
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Postby Sexter » Tue Jul 19, 2011 12:24 am

fox wrote:
Sexter wrote:i have seen their girlfriends. AFC adam's/johnny saporno's GF is pretty cute. The rest of those gurus have average girlfriends.

however, those GURUs claim they pull "super models" or pull "hot waitresses" when in reality, they mostly get with average girls. That's what I hate about those dudes, they say something, to only prove that they can only pull something else.


AFC adam's wife is: cold, materialistic and slutty. She might be good looking but not such a good marriage material.

johnny saporno's GF is pretty cute yes, but she is still in the porn Bizz :roll:

How many guys do you know who would want to taste some other dude's cum when they kiss their girl? or that 100 differnet guys are still doing their girlfriend on camera :roll:


these guys are really bad examples and archetype of what Real PUA is.

Yeah they have girlfriends, but does PUA work on the average guy they teach? If it only works 5% of the time, then PUA doesn't work, especially in the USA

neway, as an ex-pua myself, i'm glad i found this site and i'm glad that it wasn't "ME" who's the problem but the location. Sure, i can improve my loooks, lose some weight, and improve my game. However, if i don't have the same problem in another country, then it isn't me... just the f***ed anti-social society we live in.
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Postby MrPeabody » Tue Jul 19, 2011 2:26 am

I think its more important to focus on being a good person, then to single out one activity in your life, like PUA. For example, if you can reduce your general level of anxiety and fear, this effects your mind and thus your entire life, and not just one small slice of it. It's good to do anything you can to reduce shyness, which is a form of fear, because it screws up your entire life, not just romance, but also your career. When you become more truthful, you free up alot of free energy, and you are stronger and less vulnerable to attack because you have no false image to prop up, and lose the fear of exposure. When you let go of anger, you stop alot of unnecessary suffering, and free up energy that can be used to solve problems. From an Eastern philosophy perspective, we have an original pure nature, but by the time we are adults it gets covered over with a mountain of crap. The meditation cure, is to not change things, but to let go of all the crap. This is basically also the same as the deconditioning process described by Pavlov - the crap is a result of small and big traumas etched into the brain by classical and operant conditioning. If you have a serious meditation practice, you will only need six hours of sleep, because the reactivity of an untrained mind takes up a significant amount of energy requiring more sleep. If you can reduce the tensions in your mind, your entire life works better.
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Postby fox » Tue Jul 19, 2011 7:45 am

Sexter wrote:these guys are really bad examples and archetype of what Real PUA is.

Yeah they have girlfriends, but does PUA work on the average guy they teach? If it only works 5% of the time, then PUA doesn't work, especially in the USA

neway, as an ex-pua myself, i'm glad i found this site and i'm glad that it wasn't "ME" who's the problem but the location. Sure, i can improve my loooks, lose some weight, and improve my game. However, if i don't have the same problem in another country, then it isn't me... just the f***ed anti-social society we live in.


yep, BTW here is a nice artical by Cameron Teone. He used to be a part of the community and I think he was also featured in 'the game' (book). But he stepped away from the commnunity because he said that the dating Gurus are lying, misleading and that the seduction community is mostly a SCAM.

here he talks about Mystery, Zan, Brent, Neil Strauss, David d. And the real factor of their success:
http://attractwomenanywhere.com/blog/20 ... ge-do-you/

He says for example that Brent looks like a male model and that's the main reason of his success and what you said about Mystery......
good artical
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Postby jamesbond » Tue Jul 19, 2011 4:17 pm

fox wrote:David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....


Here are some pictures of his wife. You would think that for a "pickup artist" he would do much better than this! Come on, I've rejected girls at bars who came onto me, who were better looking than his wife! David Deangelo teaches guys how to get "hot women" and he can't even get an average looking woman himself! :shock:


http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=8784
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
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Postby MrPeabody » Tue Jul 19, 2011 5:04 pm

jamesbond wrote:
fox wrote:David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....


Here are some pictures of his wife. You would think that for a "pickup artist" he would do much better than this! Come on, I've rejected girls at bars who came onto me, who were better looking than his wife! David Deangelo teaches guys how to get "hot women" and he can't even get an average looking woman himself! :shock:


http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=8784


The big limitation is that these guys are choosing women from the United States. And good luck finding a good looking woman in the US who isn't stark raving crazy and good marriage material. All their skills don't get them a good wife because they have arbitrarily restricted their fishing to one poorly stocked pond. And what's with those nails? She looks like Vampira. Her poses look so artificial and unhealthy. The ladies who gave me their e-mail addresses in Thailand had a natural looking beauty and there was a flowing grace in their movements.
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Postby NorthAmericanguy » Tue Jul 19, 2011 8:06 pm

jamesbond wrote:
fox wrote:David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....


Here are some pictures of his wife. You would think that for a "pickup artist" he would do much better than this! Come on, I've rejected girls at bars who came onto me, who were better looking than his wife! David Deangelo teaches guys how to get "hot women" and he can't even get an average looking woman himself! :shock:


http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=8784


I think what guys forget sometimes when they disagree with a buddies choice of lady is that:

1. Some girls can have a unique charm that makes them very desirable.

2. Some girls are really good in the bedroom and are open to doing anything.


Looks are not the ONLY factor all the time.
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Postby gsjackson » Tue Jul 19, 2011 9:12 pm

I know, different strokes for different folks, and all that, but I just don't see how you work up a modicum of lust for a bag of bones like that. And really decadent looking too. Who cares how versatile her sexual repertoire is? Just as long as she does it with someone else and I don't have to watch.

Of course, my taste is on the other end of the spectrum -- women with enormous racks. I'm not pleased with this predilection, as it is kind of a stupid fetish and very limiting, but I bonded with a poster of Jayne Mansfield in a bikini I saw in the drug store at the beginning of adolescence, and haven't thrown it off since.

Anyway, for women of that type, the Czech Republic is quite good. And the women who have enormous tits here have very different builds than most of the women in the US who do. In the US, they are usually just big blobs. Their legs are enormous appendages of flesh, with no discernible muscle development at all. They are almost always extremely unhealthy, and that's ultimately a turn-off when you get their clothes off. But in the Czech Republic, these women wear tight jeans that show off their legs, and, while they are not petite women by any means, and not athletic looking, they all have very clear hamstring development that you don't see in American women -- I suppose because over here they walk all the time. Really ramps up their sex appeal to my eye. They also don't appear unhealthy, and to me are just way sexier than their American counterparts.
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Postby Sexter » Tue Jul 19, 2011 10:54 pm

Northamericanguy wrote:
jamesbond wrote:
fox wrote:David Deangelo- got married his wife is Not good looking at all. Not that looks is everything but for a dating Guru he should have done much better....


Here are some pictures of his wife. You would think that for a "pickup artist" he would do much better than this! Come on, I've rejected girls at bars who came onto me, who were better looking than his wife! David Deangelo teaches guys how to get "hot women" and he can't even get an average looking woman himself! :shock:


http://www.puahate.com/showthread.php?t=8784


I think what guys forget sometimes when they disagree with a buddies choice of lady is that:

1. Some girls can have a unique charm that makes them very desirable.

2. Some girls are really good in the bedroom and are open to doing anything.


Looks are not the ONLY factor all the time.


you are not getting the point.

these are pickup GURUs, the same guys who claim they pull "supermodels" or "hot waitresses" or "strippers" in their internet marketing.

Their girlfriends are average at best, claiming that you teach PUA and claim you pull "hot models" and "sex objects" is utter bullshit. it's a way to hype their marketing techniques to boost their business. From my experience, i've never ever seen a PUA guru pull a super model or a solid "10"as much as they claim Or at all.

and yes, i use to hang around with PUAs, most are either socially inept or weird. Most guys who get into PUA have a 80-90% fall out rate. WHY? because it's so difficult to get laid from cold approach, expecially in america
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Postby Sexter » Tue Jul 19, 2011 10:58 pm

gsjackson wrote:I know, different strokes for different folks, and all that, but I just don't see how you work up a modicum of lust for a bag of bones like that. And really decadent looking too. Who cares how versatile her sexual repertoire is? Just as long as she does it with someone else and I don't have to watch.

Of course, my taste is on the other end of the spectrum -- women with enormous racks. I'm not pleased with this predilection, as it is kind of a stupid fetish and very limiting, but I bonded with a poster of Jayne Mansfield in a bikini I saw in the drug store at the beginning of adolescence, and haven't thrown it off since.

Anyway, for women of that type, the Czech Republic is quite good. And the women who have enormous tits here have very different builds than most of the women in the US who do. In the US, they are usually just big blobs. Their legs are enormous appendages of flesh, with no discernible muscle development at all. They are almost always extremely unhealthy, and that's ultimately a turn-off when you get their clothes off. But in the Czech Republic, these women wear tight jeans that show off their legs, and, while they are not petite women by any means, and not athletic looking, they all have very clear hamstring development that you don't see in American women -- I suppose because over here they walk all the time. Really ramps up their sex appeal to my eye. They also don't appear unhealthy, and to me are just way sexier than their American counterparts.


in other words, america has fatter chicks.

This is the problem we have in america, tehre are so many fat chicks and so few hot thin chicks, that you see a surprlus of guys getting at the same woman. If you want a fighting chance to get laid, get at girls who don't have much of a competition (fat chicks).

In russia or the ukraine, thin/hot chicks are the norm there. Hence, they won't put themselves in a pedestal because there's so much of a suprlus there. Go to america, there's a scarcity of thin/sexy hot chicks, and because there's a scarcity, most of these girls will put themselves on a pedestal more(due to more guys getting at them).

I know a female friend of mine, she's thin and has a pretty face. Whenever i hang out with her, she has like 4-5 guys emailign her or sending her messages on facebook. IT's sickening but it's true. If you dont' believe this, why don't you go to a dating site, get a picture of a fairly attractive thin girl, you will get at least 50 emails in a few days.
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