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For Japan, things are different and more difficult for women in some ways. Any woman in her 30's (first girl) is pretty much over-the-hill and not dating/marriage material. I think it's also unheard of for the older woman/younger man thing (no real cougars that I have noticed.) Also, having a few extra pounds is a HUGE negative for women in Japan and guys will pretty much ignore them as potential mates (second picture).
I personally was in a relationship with a slightly bigger woman recently (pretty much my only semi-success I've found here). 130lbs and 5'3". I was her second boyfriend ever. She's 25 years old. She was super kind and fun to be with, but she could not handle being with a man who deploys (US Navy for 19 years) so she broke it off.
I think the guy in his 20's will be happy for while, but when she hits that age brick wall and suffers the serious deterioration of her looks while he is still an attractive young man, he may have regrets. But she will remain devoted to him and if he continues to look past the superficial, they will probably be quite happy.
The second one is a strange one. Tall white guys get serious play in Japan from young, thin, beautiful women. For all the "Japanese women love white guys" talk that has gone around, my experience is "Japanese women love TALL white guys." A guy who's 5'7" falls into the average or even slightly below average of even Japanese mens' height, so I don't get that much interest. Add to that my baldness, and they don't even look in my direction most of the time. My taller friends who came back married from their Japan tours of duty said I would come back married for sure. Well, I'm not having quite the success they promised.
I personally think height has just as big of a draw on people as race.
Only 3% of CEO's are 5'7" or less. 90% are above the average height. Taller men marry and procreate more often.
In the end, I want someone cute if it's at all possible, as I think that my looks can merit "cute". But I haven't been able to seal the deal with "cute" so far. I've been able to get "not so cute" but my own interest starts to wane, and that's a problem that I have in my own superficial desires, so I can't really fault the women for not showing interest in me when I have my own biases.
My big fear has been to find someone that I am happy with, but she ends up leaving me. I'm willing to work on a relationship and not give up, but I find that others are not so willing to work through their problems. If the guys above end up with a woman that is dedicated enough to work through any problems and if happiness can be had, then more power to them.
Could they have landed hotter from a physical standpoint? Most likely. But if they are happy and the women are happy, then that's the best thing.
Afinal, onde fica a foto da ela?? hahahaha Hay falta de lo que no me hagas una respuesta a mi.
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Yes, I would say height and race along with wealth determine the type of women you get. Don't let you lack of height get you down! Life is unfair in many ways, you just have to adjust the best you can sometimes. As for Japanese women, I never regarded them very highly to be honest. I think many of them are status seekers just as much as Western girls. Many of them seem to lack pride in their race and always seem to bowing down to foreigners while disparaging their own. Many Japanese also seem to be very insecure about themselves. I do appreciate their culture, but I think Westernization has not been good for the country.
Believe or not, I think the best Asian women are from North Korea. It sounds crazy, but I'm told North Korean women are fiercely loyal to their men, proud of themselves, and very family oriented. Feminism doesn't exist over there and Westernization is non-existent over there. Whenever I see pictures of North Korean women, they always look very feminine, strong, and classy--just they way Western girls were 50 years ago.
+1. You have a point. I knew that when I was 24 (I'm now 26), and wasn't yet in a serious relationship with a woman, I was pretty much f***ed (not in a good way either). My chances of being viewed as marriage material in here in the US had dwindled, especially with not being able to have children. I let go of the high school/college sweetheart notion after I had completed my undergrad in 07'. Career, bills and real life were ahead of me. Reality set in. I consider it a blessing however, now that I have woken up to the nightmarish hell of the AW/Femi-Nazi culture as you put it. I didn't drink the cool aid and act out of desperation like so many other men have. I'm not stuck in a job I hate, and anchored down by a child born with a wife that is the battle ax from hell.
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