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I went to the moon once and the chicks were awesome I had sex with 500 of them and I am the king of spain and I went to Atlantis and I have sex with 1000 girls and one alpaca and then I went to saturn and the chicks were not so good maybe its the acidic atmosphere or something...
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How to deal with newbies that talk much but do little.
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Cool story, bro.
Well, i know how americans are in Brazil so i can give you some tips when you fellow north-americans come here or other countries.
American men are very polite but are sometimes naive. They seem too impressed with beautiful women, so you end up being submissive, it's sad to see. You seem to be affraid of a woman's confrontation. Also, you ask too many questions to them, you don't talk about yourselves. When you are with a woman you can grab her ass, kiss in public, hold her and kiss out of nowhere in the middle of the street, they like that, people don't really care. You need to be more sexual. In Brazil you french kiss first then you go to have sex after 2 ou 3 more dates. The kiss is very important, if a woman doesn't like your kiss, you are done. They evaluate you sexually by your french kiss, to see if you have "chemistry together", so give your best shot. Touch and hold her hips, slide your hands in her back, YOU NEED TO DO THAT, they EXPECT you to do that, if you don't do that they will think you are a wimp. Yea.
In Brazil it pays to dress a little better, americans sometimes dress poorly, i already noticed that.
You make women curious, you are very educated, you traveled a lot, you have a little currency advantage (1 dollar = 1.7 real), so you can use a little economic power to make things easier. Even middle class women here just want money (from you americans and from us natives).
Hope it helps. This can be used in every country you go.
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I object. This cannot be used in every country you go. If you go to India, and start kissing an indian girl in public and grabbing her ass, especially being a white man, you are CERTAIN to attract a LOT of attention, and quite possibly a LOT of very angry indian men who will be ready to beat the living shit out of you.
That may work in Brazil, but Brazil is quite liberal compared to middle east and India/Asia.
American men are world renown to be sensitive, caring, and we actually listen to what women have to say...unless they are feminists then we just laugh at them.
America men also tend to be less drunken and less capable of beating the ever living shit out of women.
It is not merely a matter of money or prosperity. Although we American men may not view such things as important, or we simply take such traits for granted, foreign women see us as a great catch.
That said, keep in mind we learn everything through comparison. Put simply, the average America guy with a decent job may not see himself as anything special, but when his competition is drunk 5 days a week and beats his wife 2 days a week, and has 5 different girls he cheats on his wife with, American guys start to look pretty damn awesome.
Again, through comparison. But rest assured, as American men, we are among the best in the entire world, and that is a point not lost among the foreign ladies.
How to deal with newbies that talk much but do little.
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yeah right grunt american men you will be a good provider which is what local men lack but do not forget that physically these women are still attracted to their men because of their masculinity..do not fall in the trap of being soft or you'll find yourself with a woman who uses you for money while she is f***ing her brazilian/local brothers cause they smack her ass really good. so I agree with crazyaboutabroad a MAN must not bow down to any woman because they themselves do not fell attracted to submissive men; he must remain in charge and hard but he must be a good provider
The best combination in brazil and possible elsewhere = A GOOD PROVIDER WITH RESSOURCES/INTELLECT WITH A BADASS HARDCORE ATTITUDE
this my brothers will get you any woman outside of the US of course.. like you are intellectual, you earn money/resources and at the same time you are not afraid to smack their asses..
sometimes I am surprised to see some folks here think that foreign women are goddess ..I aM FOREIGN GUY living in the stats and and i have travelled to many other countries and foreign women are not all that ...they are still attracted to their men that is why they make babies with them but the downside is that local men are not good provider which AMERICAN MEN are..but their downside is that they are PUSSIEWHIPED and foreign women know that ..How do i know ? because my sisters tell me that all the time..she dates the weet foreign guy for money while she has her sweet local childhood boyfriend who SMACKS her ass as she likes it AHHHHAHHHAHH and you the american naive guy you think that she is sooo in love ... guys I am not trying to be hard on you..I just want you to face the truth. if you want to date outside you need to keep being a good provider (which local men lack) + an badass attitude ( which you do not have cause you are a gentleman )..
I myself already have the attitude but I came in the USA for the money ... Crazyaboutabroad so brazilian women love the french kiss good damn I can't wait to go there ...
they like men that are in control of the relationship and in control of them. but they want him to be a romance type too. especially foreign women. its pretty easy getting a japanese or a russian but all women are different in every country. so you have to ask the guys that are local how to get the women to open up and so forth.
i met a brazilian lady here in L.A. straight off the boat. i asked her to be my girlfriend. she LOVED it so so much. blushed and giggled. she truly appreciated it. ah man i LOVED pursuing and she really enjoyed the pursuit. brazilian love it when you kiss them on the hand, kiss them on the cheek, and love it when your in control of them.
but again...women are different in every country. i personally perfer bulgarian and serbian due to my fantastic experiences with them online. ciao.
ssparis how are bulgarian women ? just like you said foreign women love men in control so please guys be real men ... don't be afraid to turn down the bitches because there bitches in every country ..american/western men destroyed rio de janeiro because of their crazy spending , costa rica same thing ..we need to stop these manginas with no balls before they mess things up in the philippines et so forth
I have never lived in another country, but I just want to point out that in my experiences with Mexican men made me realize that in comparison to American men, Mexican men are not necessarily more aggressive, manly, or outgoing, but rather they don't have any inhibitions when speaking with random women because it's built into their culture that it's a normal way of life. A real Mexican woman is also VERY friendly, somewhat shy and is not afraid of men.
It's funny actually because Mexican men are very short, many of them are poor and ride bicycles and most don't even lift weights or workout so they are not buff/big like American men, but yet, they will have no fear of walking up to the hottest Mexican chica to try and talk to her. At the very least they will stand and stare at her like a piece of meat from the sidelines with no fear that she will call the cops or anything. I seen it all the time when I use to shop at a place called La bodega.
So what I'm trying to say is, the American man is rather pussfied due to growing up in such a masculine repressed culture that also has unfriendly American women who try and tear them down and vilify their manhood at every angle to boot.
it is all about the attitude ..i have seen gorgeous mexican women in the hands of short , out of shape , fat mexican guys but the differennce was their attitude ..those were confident - not pitiful . they looked like they were in charge ..and that make all the difference ..do not got in foreign countries and treat women like princesses because i feel like guys here worship foreign like they were perfect..
So here is the million dollar question.... how dose one bridge the gap between putting the p***y on a pedestal and being an in-charge bad ass with a good heart. I know myself and many of my friends have done what we can to keep an AW only to have your confidence scattered and trampled. This being said can a turn be made? Can a man that has dated in the U.S. for sometime be the "man" with a foreign woman the way she need to be able to respect him. Just thinking out loud...
"Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity"!!!
Yea, that's true.^^
And on a side note, many of those guys have 2 wives/gf's... One here and one in Mexico.
This is one reason I'm going to live somewhere like The Philippines for awhile after I retire next year (Navy). I need to live somewhere where the shoe is on the other foot. After 37 years of no success, very few relationships, no engagements/marriages, etc...my confidence is completely shattered. I need to live somewhere where I will feel wanted, to hopefully give me some confidence/manhood back. NOT just visit. It needs to be more long-term to let the effects do their work.
I will have to make the conscious effort to not use any pedestals. I have a lot of years of conditioning to reverse.
Just want to add one more thing: In regards to American men, what I hate most about them is that they are willing to settle with any piece of p***y that comes along; and for many American guys, the girl they married was the first girl that gave them access to p***y.
It's ridiculous, I go to the malls and shopping centers and I'm just blown away at the women these American guys have MARRIED and had kids with. I'm talking about fat, nasty women who are practically waddling around as they are looking to buy the next box of dozen donuts.
To make matters worse, American men look like hostages (you can see it in their eyes) and they never seem to get any time away from their women unless they go to work! No wonder why their women don't respect them, American men willingly sign up for permanent slavery all for some p***y.