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So what should an unstereotypical short skinny black guy do?

Post by Maki » September 12th, 2011, 2:01 pm

What about young black men who aren't rich, not tall, thin, and have geeky hobbies do? Most black women are turned off just looking at this breed of black guys. Women women won't even give them the time and day.

Would he be better off in lets say Japan if he is already into the REAL culture (Not just anime lol)? Please be honest with me.

About the black guy
-Short as in 5'5
-Not a stereotype
-Not rich
-Skinny because well, just how his body is. If I'm a naturally skinny guy why can't American society let me be happy with it?
-Have geeky hobbies (This turns many girls off because I'm into Japanese culture. They just get freaked out seeing a black guy speaking Japanese.)


What sucks even more is when other black people say "your not acting black". That comment alone can drive a black man to hate his own.

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Post by aozora13 » September 12th, 2011, 2:50 pm

I would say what type of women do you want? This would be either White, Latina, and/or Asian. You will be okay in Europe and possibly in Asia. You should check some threads since this has been discussed by many people.

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Post by Maki » September 12th, 2011, 3:40 pm

aozora13 wrote:I would say what type of women do you want? This would be either White, Latina, and/or Asian. You will be okay in Europe and possibly in Asia. You should check some threads since this has been discussed by many people.


I'm into asian women mostly Japanese. Been learning Japanese for some time now so I'm hoping that's a good place for me. I really love the structure of the land there.

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Re: So what should an unstereotypical short skinny black guy

Post by NorthAmericanguy » September 12th, 2011, 4:23 pm

Maki wrote:What about young black men who aren't rich, not tall, thin, and have geeky hobbies do? Most black women are turned off just looking at this breed of black guys. Women women won't even give them the time and day.

Would he be better off in lets say Japan if he is already into the REAL culture (Not just anime lol)? Please be honest with me.

About the black guy
-Short as in 5'5
-Not a stereotype
-Not rich
-Skinny because well, just how his body is. If I'm a naturally skinny guy why can't American society let me be happy with it?
-Have geeky hobbies (This turns many girls off because I'm into Japanese culture. They just get freaked out seeing a black guy speaking Japanese.)


What sucks even more is when other black people say "your not acting black". That comment alone can drive a black man to hate his own.


Really? Not sure how old you are but when I look at the black people in the age rage of 14-25 they are actually trying to emulate the 1980's nerd stereotype where the guys are skinny and they wear tight pants along with glasses and so forth. They also embrace nerdy hobbies... They don't seem to have a problem getting girls either.

The band/rap group N.E.R.D epitomizes the culture.

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Post by NorthAmericanguy » September 12th, 2011, 4:27 pm

Maki wrote:
aozora13 wrote:I would say what type of women do you want? This would be either White, Latina, and/or Asian. You will be okay in Europe and possibly in Asia. You should check some threads since this has been discussed by many people.


I'm into asian women mostly Japanese. Been learning Japanese for some time now so I'm hoping that's a good place for me. I really love the structure of the land there.


Don't get your hopes up about Japan, not only is it a extremely expensive place to live, but they are dealing with a nuclear problem that probably wont be solved in your lifetime due to Fukushima. So in other words, look to move somewhere else.





"Tens of thousands of people have evacuated a 20 km no-entry zone around Fukushima Daiichi. In addition, the Japanese government has told residents living between 20 and 30 km away from the facility, and in so-called radiation “hot spots� beyond that, to leave their homes. Some may never return.

“The two-kilometre region is highly polluted, so I think it will be very difficult for people to go back,� Sawada says.

Then there are the concerns about the food supply. Unsafe levels of radioactive cesium, which has a half-life of about 30 years, have been detected in beef, milk, vegetables and tea leaves. Tokyo’s tap water was deemed dangerous for infants at one point. Sludge containing radioactive materials is building up at sewage facilities across Japan. And contaminants have been found in sandboxes at dozens of parks and school playgrounds in eastern Tokyo."


http://www.cbc.ca/news/world/story/2011/09/09/f-vp-dale-japan-six-months-after-tsunami.html

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Post by Maki » September 12th, 2011, 5:09 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Maki wrote:
aozora13 wrote:I would say what type of women do you want? This would be either White, Latina, and/or Asian. You will be okay in Europe and possibly in Asia. You should check some threads since this has been discussed by many people.


I'm into asian women mostly Japanese. Been learning Japanese for some time now so I'm hoping that's a good place for me. I really love the structure of the land there.


Don't get your hopes up about Japan, not only is it a extremely expensive place to live, but they are dealing with a nuclear problem that probably wont be solved in your lifetime due to Fukushima. So in other words, look to move somewhere else.





"Tens of thousands of people have evacuated a 20 km no-entry zone around Fukushima Daiichi. In addition, the Japanese government has told residents living between 20 and 30 km away from the facility, and in so-called radiation “hot spots� beyond that, to leave their homes. Some may never return.

“The two-kilometre region is highly polluted, so I think it will be very difficult for people to go back,� Sawada says.

Then there are the concerns about the food supply. Unsafe levels of radioactive cesium, which has a half-life of about 30 years, have been detected in beef, milk, vegetables and tea leaves. Tokyo’s tap water was deemed dangerous for infants at one point. Sludge containing radioactive materials is building up at sewage facilities across Japan. And contaminants have been found in sandboxes at dozens of parks and school playgrounds in eastern Tokyo."


http://www.cbc.ca/news/world/story/2011/09/09/f-vp-dale-japan-six-months-after-tsunami.html


From people living in Japan, they tell me it's over hyped by the fear mongers in the media.

NorthAmericanguy wrote:
Maki wrote:What about young black men who aren't rich, not tall, thin, and have geeky hobbies do? Most black women are turned off just looking at this breed of black guys. Women women won't even give them the time and day.

Would he be better off in lets say Japan if he is already into the REAL culture (Not just anime lol)? Please be honest with me.

About the black guy
-Short as in 5'5
-Not a stereotype
-Not rich
-Skinny because well, just how his body is. If I'm a naturally skinny guy why can't American society let me be happy with it?
-Have geeky hobbies (This turns many girls off because I'm into Japanese culture. They just get freaked out seeing a black guy speaking Japanese.)


What sucks even more is when other black people say "your not acting black". That comment alone can drive a black man to hate his own.


Really? Not sure how old you are but when I look at the black people in the age rage of 14-25 they are actually trying to emulate the 1980's nerd stereotype where the guys are skinny and they wear tight pants along with glasses and so forth. They also embrace nerdy hobbies... They don't seem to have a problem getting girls either.

The band/rap group N.E.R.D epitomizes the culture.


Many blacks in the us are into thuglife ghetto culture. If anything they hate nerds and geeks like myself so I have no clue where you're coming from :roll:

Anyways, this area seems good for smart blacks. This Mix/black guys life got better when he came to the Philippines
Black Guy in the Philippines?!

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Post by Greetercb » September 12th, 2011, 5:14 pm

The Kind of Foreign Country I Recommend for a African American like yourself is
Brazil. And The Part of Brazil I Recommend for you as a African American is The State of
Bahia & There The City of Salvador And/Or the Rural parts ear there at all the Black Communities.

I Hope the above will help any.

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Post by Maki » September 12th, 2011, 6:16 pm

Greetercb wrote:The Kind of Foreign Country I Recommend for a African American like yourself is
Brazil. And The Part of Brazil I Recommend for you as a African American is The State of
Bahia & There The City of Salvador And/Or the Rural parts ear there at all the Black Communities.

I Hope the above will help any.


Thank you but I have no interest in blacks or women of African descent.

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » September 12th, 2011, 6:31 pm

You need to start taking trips out of the US to determine your niche of countries. It sounds like Japan is high on your list, but I would not just visit Tokyo, I would visit Kobe, Osaka, and some of the other cities that might suit you better in terms of social life.

Some African Americans suffer from a collectivist mindset regarding their own people. Usually the lower the class, the greater the likelihood for this mentality. I know first hand about this.

Stay away from people like this even if it is your own family. You are an international man who is greater than the box some would have you dwell in.

Travel to Central and Eastern Europe also and you will never think about black women again.
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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » September 12th, 2011, 6:36 pm

Greetercb wrote:The Kind of Foreign Country I Recommend for a African American like yourself is
Brazil. And The Part of Brazil I Recommend for you as a African American is The State of
Bahia & There The City of Salvador And/Or the Rural parts ear there at all the Black Communities.

I Hope the above will help any.


Fail! I do not recommend Brazil for the globally minded African American man like myself. I recommend Central and Eastern Europe, and Japan. The only South American country to consider is Argentina.

For some reason, Brazil is touted as an ideal "black destination" but most of us are beyond that comfort zone of black travel.

Thanks but no thanks.
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Post by Fenix » September 12th, 2011, 8:37 pm

I am not a stereotypical black male either. My favorite music is alternative rock. My favorite bands are Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, etc. I listen to music many blacks wouldn't even touch. I am into a lot of things blacks don't care about. I hate BET. I don't find black women attractive. They don't find me attractive either. I get along with black men much better. Black women? Too much of a hassle. I have been called "sellout," "white boy" and I have heard this phrase a million times "stop talking proper English/stop talking white." I know how it feels. I like white women the most, but I like other races of women too. Something is wrong with black people. I try my best not to associate with them (this is not hard to do). When a black person like myself is "different," I am self-hating or some other bullshit. We can't win. You have to go your own way like Fleetwood Mac.

If you are interested in Japan, go there. I used to have this fearmongering bullshit going on with me and Europe because white men keep telling me not to go. I said f**k you. I am going because I love women of European descent. I can't help what I am attracted to. I am sick of feeling guilty about this. If you don't like your "own women" especially if you are black, you need serious help. I doesn't make sense. It's okay to not like other races, "Man, I prefer black queens. I don't like white women." The moment you say you like Asian women more than black women...124356uhejfinwjkesdfinjb!!!!

I know how you feel, man. It is torture. You can't be different in the black community. If you are you will be called a sellout or something else. You must speak Ebonics. You must sag your pants. You must have gold or platinum in your mouth. You must have a criminal record. You must be in a gang or affiliated with one. You must listen to gospel, rap, r&b, and reggae. I can do this shit all day. Anyway, I know how it is on a daily basis. Oh yeah, don't be non-religious either because that's more bullshit you have to go through. I am atheist too. World of hurt.

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Post by Contrarian Expatriate » September 12th, 2011, 9:19 pm

Phoenix Sosa wrote:I am not a stereotypical black male either. My favorite music is alternative rock. My favorite bands are Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, etc. I listen to music many blacks wouldn't even touch. I am into a lot of things blacks don't care about. I hate BET. I don't find black women attractive. They don't find me attractive either. I get along with black men much better. Black women? Too much of a hassle. I have been called "sellout," "white boy" and I have heard this phrase a million times "stop talking proper English/stop talking white." I know how it feels. I like white women the most, but I like other races of women too. Something is wrong with black people. I try my best not to associate with them (this is not hard to do). When a black person like myself is "different," I am self-hating or some other bullshit. We can't win. You have to go your own way like Fleetwood Mac.

If you are interested in Japan, go there. I used to have this fearmongering bullshit going on with me and Europe because white men keep telling me not to go. I said f**k you. I am going because I love women of European descent. I can't help what I am attracted to. I am sick of feeling guilty about this. If you don't like your "own women" especially if you are black, you need serious help. I doesn't make sense. It's okay to not like other races, "Man, I prefer black queens. I don't like white women." The moment you say you like Asian women more than black women...124356uhejfinwjkesdfinjb!!!!

I know how you feel, man. It is torture. You can't be different in the black community. If you are you will be called a sellout or something else. You must speak Ebonics. You must sag your pants. You must have gold or platinum in your mouth. You must have a criminal record. You must be in a gang or affiliated with one. You must listen to gospel, rap, r&b, and reggae. I can do this shit all day. Anyway, I know how it is on a daily basis. Oh yeah, don't be non-religious either because that's more bullshit you have to go through. I am atheist too. World of hurt.


I can completely relate! The only thing I would add is that most white Americans feel the same as those blacks in your ear, they are just less vocal about it. You touched on it when you alluded to the white men trying to dissuade you from going to Europe. The mentality you speak of is American as apple pie.

Have you seen these two articles:

http://unspokenethnictruths.blogspot.com/2009/10/to-be-successful-male-and-black-common.html

http://unspokenethnictruths.blogspot.com/2009/07/unspoken-detriment-to-black-men.html
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Post by ssjparris » September 13th, 2011, 1:39 am

Phoenix Sosa wrote:I am not a stereotypical black male either. My favorite music is alternative rock. My favorite bands are Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, etc. I listen to music many blacks wouldn't even touch. I am into a lot of things blacks don't care about. I hate BET. I don't find black women attractive. They don't find me attractive either. I get along with black men much better. Black women? Too much of a hassle. I have been called "sellout," "white boy" and I have heard this phrase a million times "stop talking proper English/stop talking white." I know how it feels. I like white women the most, but I like other races of women too. Something is wrong with black people. I try my best not to associate with them (this is not hard to do). When a black person like myself is "different," I am self-hating or some other bullshit. We can't win. You have to go your own way like Fleetwood Mac.

If you are interested in Japan, go there. I used to have this fearmongering bullshit going on with me and Europe because white men keep telling me not to go. I said f**k you. I am going because I love women of European descent. I can't help what I am attracted to. I am sick of feeling guilty about this. If you don't like your "own women" especially if you are black, you need serious help. I doesn't make sense. It's okay to not like other races, "Man, I prefer black queens. I don't like white women." The moment you say you like Asian women more than black women...124356uhejfinwjkesdfinjb!!!!

I know how you feel, man. It is torture. You can't be different in the black community. If you are you will be called a sellout or something else. You must speak Ebonics. You must sag your pants. You must have gold or platinum in your mouth. You must have a criminal record. You must be in a gang or affiliated with one. You must listen to gospel, rap, r&b, and reggae. I can do this shit all day. Anyway, I know how it is on a daily basis. Oh yeah, don't be non-religious either because that's more bullshit you have to go through. I am atheist too. World of hurt.


yeah i am black myself. i handsome black man i get treated poorly by my age group of blacks ( 15-29 age group; i am 26) because i am different. i talk different. i am different. i talk like a "white guy" really proper. i dont sag ma pants. i walk like normal actually. i where glasses. i am very very intelligent. so they mess with me give me problems try to make me angry. ugh !!!.



by the way your very very special person. really unique powerful people stand out of the crowd. the don't always follow the herd they do their own thing and are like black sheep among white sheep. your one of those unique and special people. enjoy the power you have brother lover.

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Post by The_Hero_of_Men » September 13th, 2011, 2:20 am

ssjparris wrote:
Phoenix Sosa wrote:I am not a stereotypical black male either. My favorite music is alternative rock. My favorite bands are Nirvana, Led Zeppelin, Pearl Jam, Soundgarden, Alice in Chains, etc. I listen to music many blacks wouldn't even touch. I am into a lot of things blacks don't care about. I hate BET. I don't find black women attractive. They don't find me attractive either. I get along with black men much better. Black women? Too much of a hassle. I have been called "sellout," "white boy" and I have heard this phrase a million times "stop talking proper English/stop talking white." I know how it feels. I like white women the most, but I like other races of women too. Something is wrong with black people. I try my best not to associate with them (this is not hard to do). When a black person like myself is "different," I am self-hating or some other bullshit. We can't win. You have to go your own way like Fleetwood Mac.

If you are interested in Japan, go there. I used to have this fearmongering bullshit going on with me and Europe because white men keep telling me not to go. I said f**k you. I am going because I love women of European descent. I can't help what I am attracted to. I am sick of feeling guilty about this. If you don't like your "own women" especially if you are black, you need serious help. I doesn't make sense. It's okay to not like other races, "Man, I prefer black queens. I don't like white women." The moment you say you like Asian women more than black women...124356uhejfinwjkesdfinjb!!!!

I know how you feel, man. It is torture. You can't be different in the black community. If you are you will be called a sellout or something else. You must speak Ebonics. You must sag your pants. You must have gold or platinum in your mouth. You must have a criminal record. You must be in a gang or affiliated with one. You must listen to gospel, rap, r&b, and reggae. I can do this shit all day. Anyway, I know how it is on a daily basis. Oh yeah, don't be non-religious either because that's more bullshit you have to go through. I am atheist too. World of hurt.


yeah i am black myself. i handsome black man i get treated poorly by my age group of blacks ( 15-29 age group; i am 26) because i am different. i talk different. i am different. i talk like a "white guy" really proper. i dont sag ma pants. i walk like normal actually. i where glasses. i am very very intelligent. so they mess with me give me problems try to make me angry. ugh !!!.



by the way your very very special person. really unique powerful people stand out of the crowd. the don't always follow the herd they do their own thing and are like black sheep among white sheep. your one of those unique and special people. enjoy the power you have brother lover.


I more or less understand how you feel, since I am a black male myself, and I won't say that other blacks are hostile to me. Neither will I say that they are nice to me either. I also hate a lot of the things that a lot of black people like.
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