That city-data forum is full of denial and rationalizations of women's dysfunctional behavior patterns.
Here's my confession ... I'd admired the late great British actor Basil Rathbone, original Sherlock Holmes, because of his portrayal of a quick-witted genius ... excellent and inspirational acting for classic films.
I admired Kurt Russell, as Snake Plissken in 'Escape from NY/LA', when I was a kid because he was a bad ass and hard cored individualist, an American hero.
I also looked up to to American founding fathers, Ben Franklin & Alexander Hamilton, because if our nation had more of them, we wouldn't be in the mess we're in today.
In none of the aforementioned examples, do I want to boink any of these men. I'm straight, not bi-curious or what have you. These Yankee CLCs are just a bunch of BS artists who want Melissa Etheridge to stick a silicone dildo in them.