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What i am saying is they like your look yet you are not thuggish so no go with you. Good for all of us.

ErikHeaven wrote:I have said it so many times and the biggest deniers are black women themselves. Every single job i worked at the so-called "Educated" classy dressing black women had some thug take her car when she showed up for work. I mean some nasty junk yard dog looking brother with gold teeth in the mouth, Tim's on all year round and he does not work construction, 50 different hoodies and at least 100 pairs of sneakers.
You would hear her BF got shot to death or is doing 10 years in jail for drug dealing. She would just go out and find another thug to make a baby with.
I would say 95% of black American women are not marriage material or long term relationship material.
I gave up on them years ago.

What do you mean "Junkyard Dog"? Are you talking about the former WWF/WWE wrerstler?

Phoenix Sosa wrote:

ErikHeaven wrote:I met this nice African American female on Youtube. I am attracted to her and i became her friend. I do not want anything more than her friendship as i gave up on Black American women a long time ago. We had a recent conversation and she expressed some interest in me. She started off with the basic any man i like has to have his anchor in "Christ". So that is the major reason i do not like Black American women as they are caught in the Matrix of Christianity. Its funny as most black men do not believe in Jesus anymore yet they keep holding on to that religion. Most of them are looking for Phoenix Sosa who goes to church and earns six figures, and loves the LAWD!. Most of them will die man less and miserable.

LMAO. They aren't looking for me! I am their kryptonite, f***ing idiots those women are. Don't find them attractive physically or mentally. They worship the sky genie and I don't. Even if I did like black women, they will be ultra religious. One thing in this world I am proud of is the fact that I am a proud atheist. The whole world could be atheist and blacks would still be in church. The church could finally be exposed and they would still praise the lord!

Ray Ray and Pookie are waiting for them, not Phoenix Sosa. I want nothing to do with black women. Like Grunt said, I am lucky that black women don't know I exist. Doing me a huge favor.

Not me, brother-- even though most of my family, let alone the females in my family, ARE religious. I admit that even though there are some religious aspects of me that i still have trouble giving up TO THIS DAY, I do not buy any of it anymore-- I just have to pretend like I do for the time being.

Grunt wrote:Please rename this topic to "12 reason why black men should thank their lucky stars that american women are so utterly repulsive".

Thank you.

You have an uncanny resemblance to IHateRegistering from Mancoat. Grouchy but nevertheless still anti-feminist and pro-male-independence. I have to respect that game about you, man.

You're right; American women are doing virtuous Black American men a favor so they should leave them for dead.

ErikHeaven wrote:What i am saying is they like your look yet you are not thuggish so no go with you. Good for all of us.

I knew what you meant, Erik. I just wanted to be an ass and add my 2 cents in. They like my look, but don't like me is going to be something I am going to use in the future. Thanks for that one. I look the part, but don't act the part.

@ OTB

It's funny you mention that friend of yours said she could never see you with a black girl, because you are not thug enough, because I get the same response from most black women! One girl said I smile to much and seemed too happy! She also said you date white girls don't you. I think most black women suffer from inferiority complex and dating cultured and educated men shows how flawed they are. So they go for thugs who are below them to boost their self image. That's why they love drama and bashing black men. They know what they are in for dating men like that. They just want someone to take out there frustrations on and it is easier to so with a thug. I use to think because thugs seemed to be more masculine than educated men why black women would always go for them, but in actuality black women don't feel they deserve good men. Don't by into the hype that educated black women can't find a good man. Underneath the I'm a independent, strong, confident black women flamboyant persona is a insecure frail and damaged psyche of years of institutional racism they feel that they are not on par with white women(beauty etc.) Bashing black men deflects black women from there own faults. Having a good black man would expose their faults and they can deal with it. The truth of the matter is 95% of the African American Women will never have a success relationship because they haven't dealt with this issue that poisons relationships!

ErikHeaven wrote:I have said it so many times and the biggest deniers are black women themselves. Every single job i worked at the so-called "Educated" classy dressing black women had some thug take her car when she showed up for work. I mean some nasty junk yard dog looking brother with gold teeth in the mouth, Tim's on all year round and he does not work construction, 50 different hoodies and at least 100 pairs of sneakers.
You would hear her BF got shot to death or is doing 10 years in jail for drug dealing. She would just go out and find another thug to make a baby with.
I would say 95% of black American women are not marriage material or long term relationship material.
I gave up on them years ago.

Hilarious!!!

The_Hero_of_Men wrote:Have you any idea what you are talking about? Did you know that CHRISTIANITY was the religion of our OPPRESSORS (Caucasian slave owners)? Most Bible-believing, "Spirit"filled Christians beat/killed slaves, raped their women-- BUT WERE CAUCASIAN!

Why the ^&%# do black people, as a general whole, embrace the religion of their oppressors??

Did you figure this out all by yourself, or did you have to be taught that in college?

Talmudic Judaism was and still is the religion of your oppressors. Jews ran the slave trade. The majority of the slave owners of the south were Jews. Jews started the Ku Klux Klan. "Great" Jewish men like Albert Pike fought for the Confederacy. You would know this if you studied history instead of spending the prime years of your life playing faggoty video games. You are your own oppressor!

How perfect, white Christians are your enemy. Who else? Maybe German Nazis, or Muslim terrorists. Or Mexicans.

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You are right in a way though. Christianity is "the religion of our oppressors" because Jews wrote the bible. You are certainly no threat to them by following the pre-packaged version of Christianity you get in America.

odbo wrote:

The_Hero_of_Men wrote:Have you any idea what you are talking about? Did you know that CHRISTIANITY was the religion of our OPPRESSORS (Caucasian slave owners)? Most Bible-believing, "Spirit"filled Christians beat/killed slaves, raped their women-- BUT WERE CAUCASIAN!

Why the ^&%# do black people, as a general whole, embrace the religion of their oppressors??

Did you figure this out all by yourself, or did you have to be taught that in college?

Talmudic Judaism was and still is the religion of your oppressors. Jews ran the slave trade. The majority of the slave owners of the south were Jews. Jews started the Ku Klux Klan. "Great" Jewish men like Albert Pike fought for the Confederacy. You would know this if you studied history instead of spending the prime years of your life playing faggoty video games. You are your own oppressor!

How perfect, white Christians are your enemy. Who else? Maybe German Nazis, or Muslim terrorists. Or Mexicans.

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You are right in a way though. Christianity is "the religion of our oppressors" because Jews wrote the bible. You are certainly no threat to them by following the pre-packaged version of Christianity you get in America.

look, Odbo, you don't know anything about me, so please do not make false assumptions about me, because all it does is make YOU look like a bumbling IDIOT, and not me.

For your information, I learned that little tidbit of information over the years. So what if I like playing "'faggoty' (as you put it) video games" in my spare time? So what if I am in college? So what if I learned that tidbit of information in college? You have your views on college and playing video games, and that is your right. However, like they say, "The right to swing your fists... ends at my face." What I mean by that is, you have the right to not like college and video games, but that does NOT give you the right to tear someone down that actually likes video games , is in college, or just someone that does not conform to your (narrow) worldview in general. The only thing that does is make YOU look like a narcissistic, self-absorbed, insecure little child-- you need to tear someone else down just to make yourself feel superior-- You're supposed to be a man, not a little boy.

@junglecat78

I think most black women suffer from inferiority complex and dating cultured and educated men shows how flawed they are. So they go for thugs who are below them to boost their self image.

That my friend I would say is an accurate call. I think you hit the nail on the head with that one.

I wish ODBO wasnt so abrasive. Ignore that part. What he says is very correct though.

And I wish to note for everyone here that white women have all the same complexes. The outside is a little prettier and they aren't in your face bitches, but the inside is the same. I work around these women on a daily basis. I'd say that white women are only slightly less evil on average than black women, and that is due to socialization.

I'd also like to note that some of the most despicable people I have met (in fact all of them) were Bible Thumping Christians. At a certain point it is no longer about religion. It is more about having a weapon to proclaim they are better than someone else while committing the same sins they condemn in others.

I'd go so far as to say that being American and Christian at the same time are mutually exclusive. It just isnt possible to be of this culture and to be a true Christian.

I've noticed a large proportion of black and Asian guys here on this forum, and the stories and experiences shared by both groups are strikingly similar. It's a combination of the American social environment and covert racism as well.

All of the following hold true for many single Asian guys too:

1. They keep meeting women with unrealistic expectations for what they want in a man. CHECK
2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type". CHECK
3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man. CHECK
4. They keep meeting black women who don't respect them just because they "are" black men. CHECK (replace with "Asian")
5. They keep failing women's Girlfriend Approval Test. If the woman's friends don't like them, then that woman won't give them a chance either. CHECK
6. They keep meeting women who are not interested in them, but only in how much money they make. CHECK - but even wealthy Asian guys are turned down!
7. They're nobody until somebody else loves them. Not enough women see them as a prize unless they see a lot of other women chasing after them first. CHECK
8. They meet too many women who don't really know what they want. CHECK
9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good black men are "too good to be true". CHECK (replace with "Asian")
10. They're the right man at the wrong time. CHECK
11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one. CHECK
12. They don't promote all the great things about themselves boldly or consistently enough to enough women. CHECK, but taking off #12 won't help much.

Despite all the hype about how black men are marrying out more and more, American women still don't like them very much - and I'd say about the same as Asian men. Truth is, those Hollywood stereotypes have got to be taken out of American women's minds.

Some have already taken the "Happier Abroad" option:

zboy1 wrote:The fact is African American women have way too high expectations of their potential husbands i.e. must be over 6'2 tall, must make six figures, must be good looking and own a nice looking car, etc. They are the most pickiest women in the world imo. Plus, with most black men either in jail or not doing well academically, black women now make way above what most black men make. So, its no wonder black men turn towards white women as an alternative. The ones that do not wind up lonely or go seeking a foreign women instead.

They have been an alternative for quite awhile. This is because White Women have taken over the roll of what traditionally Black Women have been to Black Men, which is supportive, loyal, maybe even submissive wives and mothers of their children. As I have said before and I will cover it in my thread when I make it; but White Women's demands on Black Men are much lower than they are on men of their own race. This is likely because they want a husband in the classical sense and not many men today provide that for them.

These are my opinion and observations, you may not agree. I have never worked a "great" job and haven't dated a Black Woman since the very early 90's. This is hardly ever held against me by White Women. These are middle class White Women as well not working poor though some where in the past struggling single mothers.

Frankly this is no different than those same types of Black Women dating thugs, though many Black Women wouldn't date me because they think I'm "White Washed"

But I agree with 2Fly that this is a Western Culture problem. I was cock blocked in all places - Kiev, Ukraine by some Danish students when one of their friends DRAGGED me on the dance floor when I was minding my own business talking to a friend, talking about "Dance with me". She was cute, so I did. Then one of her friend dragged her back to their table and I went back over to my friend, only for her to return and grab me again... This went on for about 15 mins

Her friends were just butt-hurt that she drank a little bit and went after what she wanted - ME

Try that at home...

Falcon wrote:I've noticed a large proportion of black and Asian guys here on this forum, and the stories and experiences shared by both groups are strikingly similar. It's a combination of the American social environment and covert racism as well.

All of the following hold true for many single Asian guys too:

1. They keep meeting women with unrealistic expectations for what they want in a man. CHECK
2. They keep meeting women who put them in the wrong category by writing them off too quickly as not being "their type". CHECK
3. They're not wanted because they're not needed. Too many women have told them that they don't "need" a man. CHECK
4. They keep meeting black women who don't respect them just because they "are" black men. CHECK (replace with "Asian")
5. They keep failing women's Girlfriend Approval Test. If the woman's friends don't like them, then that woman won't give them a chance either. CHECK
6. They keep meeting women who are not interested in them, but only in how much money they make. CHECK - but even wealthy Asian guys are turned down!
7. They're nobody until somebody else loves them. Not enough women see them as a prize unless they see a lot of other women chasing after them first. CHECK
8. They meet too many women who don't really know what they want. CHECK
9. They meet too many women who believe that single, good black men are "too good to be true". CHECK (replace with "Asian")
10. They're the right man at the wrong time. CHECK
11. They meet too many women who don't recognize a good man when they see one. CHECK
12. They don't promote all the great things about themselves boldly or consistently enough to enough women. CHECK, but taking off #12 won't help much.

Despite all the hype about how black men are marrying out more and more, American women still don't like them very much - and I'd say about the same as Asian men. Truth is, those Hollywood stereotypes have got to be taken out of American women's minds.

Some have already taken the "Happier Abroad" option:

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djfourmoney wrote: [youtube]http://youtu.be/ud6Z4qoJpU0[/youtube]

Now listen to these Brazilian girls' comments about American women.