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Teamsatan wrote: From what i saw the conclusion has to be that given the money and conditions to choose, filipina's will choose their own kind over anglo or local men almost everytime.

And there is nothing wrong with that because to mate with a person from a different race is a big deal, and in some respects self annihilation.

I think to a certain degree you are correct with your observations but there are always exceptions to this rule. My wife and her sisters are a good example. She tells me that when she was growing up, all three of the sisters knew that one day they'd be married to white guys. Well guess what? All three of them are married to white guys.

So from a numbers stand point, the Phils has 1/3 of the population of the US. So if only 10% of the women prefer white guys, that's still a very big number in the dating pool. Also do not discount that message that is sent out by Filipino TV. Almost all of the actors are half filipino/half white. So they are barraged with this message because unlike USA, filipinos have limited forms of entertainment so watching tv is it for them. So, young filipinas grow up dreaming about giving birth to a tall good looking mixed child that will star in soap opera one day.

Sure a given filipina might end up with another filipino but it's only because she hasn't met you BTW, I also know quite a few filipinas that date AAM as well.

Not all Filipinas in the US become Americanized. Overall, they are still nicer than the average white American, even if they grew up in America.

I had a best friend in high school who was Chinese-Filipino.

And when I first got on AOL in 1996, I met this Filipina American girl (she was so gorgeous and cute) who was very friendly and nice to me, who taught me everything I needed to know about how to use AOL. I called her my "Little Master". I wish I could find a way to get in touch with her again and see what she looks like now.

She was the only girl I knew online who still liked to talk to me after seeing my picture. She was very cute, sweet and nonjudgmental. That's a rarity.

The friendliest filipina demograhic that I've encountered is single filipina moms from Southern Philippines over the age of 30. These women have been dumped by there boyfriends and are not too eager to have a filipino boyfriend again, they also are competing for men against younger women with no kids. In addition, there libido is at its peak so every cell in there bodies is telling them to make babies. I'd say, the libido of 30 year old single filipina mom is about the same as a 20 year old guy, if she likes you and chances are she will if your nice to her.

Taco wrote:The friendliest filipina demograhic that I've encountered is single filipina moms from Southern Philippines over the age of 30. These women have been dumped by there boyfriends and are not too eager to have a filipino boyfriend again, they also are competing for men against younger women with no kids. In addition, there libido is at its peak so every cell in there bodies is telling them to make babies. I'd say, the libido of 30 year old single filipina mom is about the same as a 20 year old guy, if she likes you and chances are she will if your nice to her.

Are you for real about this?

Why would you go overseas to find a bride with a kid by a local man and who expects you to raise them and take care of her if you get involved?

These women might be fine to have sex with but there's always an expectation there and you can always fall into this trap for emotional reasons.

It seems like a silly and unnecessary risk with plenty of downside.

Repatriate wrote:Why would you go overseas to find a bride with a kid by a local man and who expects you to raise them and take care of her if you get involved?

These women might be fine to have sex with but there's always an expectation there and you can always fall into this trap for emotional reasons.

It seems like a silly and unnecessary risk with plenty of downside.

Relationships with any woman have plenty of downside, I think single filipina moms are underated in terms of what they bring to the table. Lots of them are smokin hot, have life skills, not demanding, their impossible to get rid of and they'll screw the hell out of you.

Taco wrote:

Repatriate wrote:Why would you go overseas to find a bride with a kid by a local man and who expects you to raise them and take care of her if you get involved?

These women might be fine to have sex with but there's always an expectation there and you can always fall into this trap for emotional reasons.

It seems like a silly and unnecessary risk with plenty of downside.

Relationships with any woman have plenty of downside, I think single filipina moms are underated in terms of what they bring to the table. Lots of them are smokin hot, have life skills, not demanding, their impossible to get rid of and they'll screw the hell out of you.

Whatever floats your boat. Personally I think it's a losing proposition from the start to be a daddy to anyone else's kid especially financially speaking. There has to be other compelling reasons than a woman's potential "magic" p***y.

There are a handful of situations in which i'd consider it..

Well off single mom with kid who is financially independent and willing to maintain it that way. Probably as rare as the chupacabra.

Model looking mom with stellar personality who had an unfortunate run in her prior relationship. Possibly easier but it's hard to separate the wheat from the chaff. A lot of single moms will be compliant in the beginning no matter.

Widow. This sounds morbid but this actually is the best option because you know the man isn't coming back into the picture and you know the prior relationship ended for legitimate reasons. I'm sure there's all sorts of emotional issues though.

Repatriate wrote:

Taco wrote:

Repatriate wrote:Why would you go overseas to find a bride with a kid by a local man and who expects you to raise them and take care of her if you get involved?

These women might be fine to have sex with but there's always an expectation there and you can always fall into this trap for emotional reasons.

It seems like a silly and unnecessary risk with plenty of downside.

Relationships with any woman have plenty of downside, I think single filipina moms are underated in terms of what they bring to the table. Lots of them are smokin hot, have life skills, not demanding, their impossible to get rid of and they'll screw the hell out of you.

Whatever floats your boat. Personally I think it's a losing proposition from the start to be a daddy to anyone else's kid especially financially speaking. There has to be other compelling reasons than a woman's potential "magic" p***y.

There are a handful of situations in which i'd consider it..

Well off single mom with kid who is financially independent and willing to maintain it that way. Probably as rare as the chupacabra.

Model looking mom with stellar personality who had an unfortunate run in her prior relationship. Possibly easier but it's hard to separate the wheat from the chaff. A lot of single moms will be compliant in the beginning no matter.

Widow. This sounds morbid but this actually is the best option because you know the man isn't coming back into the picture and you know the prior relationship ended for legitimate reasons. I'm sure there's all sorts of emotional issues though.

I think the ladies child has to accept you as its father, if this doesn't happen then I agree your asking for problems. In the Philippines, the father never comes back because theres no law requiring men to pay child support.

Check out this filipina mom.

http://www.dateinasia.com/khulet28.html

Here's a link a filipina mom sent me yesterday, she wanted know which position I liked the best.

http://www.cosmopolitan.com/sex-love/positions/