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Women from former Soviet nations, Mongolia and Kyrgyzstan included, are attracted to Western men. They see us as good husband material. Mostly due to the fact that Western men are hard workers, responsible, and tend not to get drunk and beat them shit out of our women. We are also less likely to cheat, and we actually listen to them when they talk, for the most part.
How to deal with newbies that talk much but do little.
Pics or it didn't happen.
Cool story, bro.
As the saying goes "This Thread Is Pointless Without Pictures"
Like I said, can you as a Black Man pull a average to good looking Japanese woman? Yes, with a caveat: They are sort of looking for a Black Man. The majority of the female population is not interested in you and if they are interested in Westerns in general they'll pick a White Man first as that's more acceptable to their family though that's still seen as taboo in Japanese culture. Most of the girls will come from middle to low middle income families, let's not play around with the facts in this case. You'll find in most cultures that high society women are not available to Black Men unless you as a Black Man are famous/rich yourself.
Most men don't care about a woman's economic background. Mainly on how she looks. I think that's everywhere mostly that the native women will prefer their own race, not just Japanese women. The majority of Japanese women also don't want a white man either. I don't care about a high class woman as long as she looks good and treats me right. I would say that even if a white guy is poor he too will have difficulty pulling a high class woman of any race. You have a growing number of japanese women who love r&b, hip hop, jazz and blues as it's going to surpass the united states as the largest music market within the next decade.
Did you read Black passenger, the author who is a dark skinned jamaican was pulling women from different economic pools and he is not even 'high class'. He dated a lady who owned her own condo as I remember and he even went out with a lady whose father was Yakuza. He even dated a lady who was either a scientist or an engineer, I forget. He slept with japanese women who were managers of schools.
Even if they do choose white men first, there is a sizable culture or sub-culture who do date black men. Numerous black men who teach English there have confirmed the same thing. The bottom line is that a decent looking black man won't have a problem getting with a japanese woman in japan regardless of the fact if most of the women don't date black men.
The author of Black Passenger even stated in his own words that 'some' japanese women do in fact prefer white men, some prefer black men, he was turned down by women but this guy within a 7 year period that he worked as an engish teacher easily slept with over 30 women who were not prostitutes.
Here's a thread where the author of Black Passenger and other black men confirm the same thing that they have to fight off japanese women in japan. Yall think white men are so superior that they just have black males in a state of dating confusion. http://www.topix.com/forum/afam/TOFGSR5RD60KO8DL0
I remember reading on another where where a white dude was saying how black guys don't do well in Brazil. Well I have seen pictures and videos that say otherwise.
Now I will agree that Asians can be real funny when it comes to dating black men but in Japan, the black men imho have the most success with asian women. The author of Black Passenger rarely dated women who were low class. You'll have to post your own pics doc or search for them yourself.
As an American black man, I have NEVER went out with an asian woman that was low class. As a matter of fact when I was a in college, I was attracting asian women left and right. I even attracted an chinese lady from a prestigious family whose father owned apartments and a japanese woman who was a music teacher. Another married chinese woman whose husband was Italian even had a crush on me. So please and I wasn't even wealthy in college.
You're also confusing Japanese who live in Japan with the ones who live in western society. Both japanese groups are different in how they see race. Black men who live in Japan are seen as unique since there are so few compared to japanese people. That's why you see such a large gap of japanese women who like white men as opposed to liking black men in America. Like the author says, when japanese women come to western society, they have more men to choose from.
I encourage more black men to go to japan, they won't be disappointed. I'm trying to hit up Japan next year.
If you have Yellow Fever you can go to Japan or China and pull, you can also pull in P.I, Cambodia and Vietnam, all over the SE Asia.
I didn't say you couldn't date women from good backgrounds, I was just saying the majority of women available are not from that sort of background. They make up a smaller portion of society as a whole, which means that many women won't be available to you anyway.
I come from the position of only needing one and no I didn't read dude's book, I'm not much of a book reader but I listen to his interview with JunebugObama on You Tube. I understand his position and I agree with it. He has a Japanese wife, still lives in Japan and has Mixed Race children. That's great for him and a good example for other Black men who have succeeded.
Black Men should travel anyway a majority don't and make funky excuses. If you stopped dating local women and changed some things around, you could travel as much as time allows, though you only get typically two weeks paid vacation.
Asian women just don't do it for me, I'm fairly sure what I would want wouldn't match what was available.
Oh and I know Black Men do well in Brazil... Again with a slight caveat; Black Brazilians would be the easiest to pick up, almost too easy. If you don't look like Shriek then they'll be saying Hola to you not the other way around. As the skin color goes lighter, that's when the problems start. While racism isn't big a deal there as say in Colombia there is a class divide there and most of the Black People you're going to find in poorer areas of town, not always but the majority in Rio, yes. I am not talking about Favala's either.
Now you being African-American and not a local you have a slight advantage and yes you can pull White Brazilians, as well as the other even Japanese/Brazilian women....
Argentina is almost NEVER talked about, but I got a friend down there now and he's stacking them deep and selling cheap.
Now that I got some intel on Argentina I am looking forward to going down there maybe next year.
I've heard good things about Argentina too and want to go there. I actually prefer latinas over asian women overall but I feel that Japanese women are the best looking in Asia. I also have read good things about Bolivia as well.