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A "game" analogy which is entertaining to read:
Distant Light Wrote:
OF COURSE they want to be approached but we men are the dumb ones almost like babies with no self control...
The woman's world is abit more sad than men IMO because its almost as if they are in a "Resident Evil" or "Night Of The Living Dead" where its almost impossible to find another survivor. All day its abunch of zombies all TRYING to get her and she's waiting for the possibility of a human to land the helicopter and save her...
- Do you know how many girls I know who I hear always masturbates before they go out?
- Does a woman really go out to a million dollar club just to dance with her friends? They could have there SERIOUS CONVERSATION in there home over an epic lifetime re-run
Most women aren't living a fun life as they worry about all sorts of trival bs compared to us men. There LOOKS is going to go away as they get older which will make it even harder for her to find a human amongst zombies which will leave her to get bit by the zombie who was in the right place, right time, under the right circumstances. (That fun moment was nothing but a near death experience as the zombie bite into her hahaha) To a zombie, LOOKS is what is causing her to be hunted by zombies BUT if her looks decays then the human will never sense her presence UNLESS she spots him and charges at him. Imagine waiting on a high rise, maintaining your looks, to eventually get saved and put on a island of FUN TIMES. You don't know if you'll ever be saved and time is ticking.
What the hell is all this? Is this your trash lounge where you talk to yourself Billy? lol. I guess maybe that's a good thing, keeping your trash all in one thread so those who want to avoid your posts can do so without running into them in every thread. lol
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RE: What is YOUR purpose in life?
I'm sure other people have written some good advice, and maybe what I'm about to say is contradicted but, here's my take:
You have got to get rid of the fear of being alone. You have got to get comfortable in your own skin, you are stuck with you. No gf is going to make you feel better about yourself for very long. You will start driving her crazy with your self loathing and you will eventually run her off. I have the feeling you are thinking Waaaay too much.
You do not need someone to push around your wheelchair when you are older. Its unfortunate but, when you act too nice or are too much of the classic example of a gentleman, it will be interpreted as weakness by a girl. Women don't want a guy who is trying to make them their gf. They want a lion they can try and tame. A lion that is friendly but still wild. You have to change your mindset, I wrote you a while back about being "negative". All those things still apply to this post. You have to get control of your thoughts the same way you have control of your hands. Mixx calls that "inner game".
I'm an objectivist (the philosophy started by one of your former countrywomen Ayn Rand) it states that your highest MORAL calling is your own happiness, with reason as your only absolute, and rational productivity as the only way to achieve that happiness. All this banging of girls is like a bandaid that is a temporary fix. Thats why many of us go from girl to girl. When you are being productive on one of your own ideas, or in a job you like, then you will feel happy. A gf to share your life is not what you need. Two broken pieces do not make a whole. You have to complete yourself first and the first part of that is to get your inner game on point.
bugs and Thailand, lol
from Pattaya addicts:
. Among many other experiences outside the norm for most farangs. But seeing my future wife, a women of class from a very well to do family eating bugs took me way by surprise. For the sake of our non Thai speaking readers, I said if you eat those don't even think about kissing me for days. I will never use a toothpick to get at a grasshopper leg. Here we go, our first verbal joust, she said what? Your going to criticize me for eating bugs ( She hates me calling them bugs)? Do you eat pizza? I said of course. She said what do you think pizza looks like to Thai that has never ate it? I had to answer no idea. Said pizza looks like something someone already ate that didn't agree with them. She said just as you can find what you call bugs, & call me to get rid of, I can find pizza on the street, fresh & warm if we follow a drunk.
Tradition an modernity should be mixed creatively
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I know this is slightly of topic, but we may need it for the discussion of WinstonÂ´s theory about intelligence of the races.
This guys even know the IQs of dogs and wolfs. WTF. I am impressed.
Selfhelp gurus Steve Pavlina and Leo Baubata are truly helping themself
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Michael Bungay Stanier, author of Do More Great Work
I saw a t-shirt once about writing a PhD. It said â€œI know more and more about less and less, until finally I know everything about nothing.â€
Iâ€™ve come to the conclusion that there are two types of expertise. One is the type you already know â€“ content expertise, immersing yourself deeper and deeper in a subject, practicing for 10,000 hours and all of that.
But I think thereâ€™s a connection expertise too. That comes from going horizontal rather than vertical. Itâ€™s about knowing a little about a lot, and finding wisdom in how things connect in new and different ways.
Iâ€™m not sure about short-cuts to the first type of expertise â€“ Iâ€™m not an expert in anything, so clearly Iâ€™ve not found them if they do exist â€“ but the fast track the second type is about exploring the different tendrils of whatâ€™s interesting and what youâ€™re curious about. For instance, Iâ€™m reading about books that are non-fiction (neuroscience, media, gaming, biographies) and also fiction (Young Adult, Australian contemporary, classic Russian). And out of that eclectic combination arises a unique speciality, connections only Iâ€™ve made.
Little Girls Protest Iran Barbie Ban: Alternate Doll â€˜Ugly and Fatâ€™
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