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Another Online Dating Experiment (I´m speechless)

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Postby FREEDOM1 » Wed Apr 11, 2012 11:42 pm

Hi Fellow Men
very Interesting
i joined Cherry Blossoms about 3 mths ago - which is mainly Phillipino women
and Thai love links about 2 weeks ago
On cherry Blossoms i have around 100 emails that i have yet to answer
i have deleted so many as i cannot reply to all
I have had about 40 emails in 2 weeks from Thai love links and i actually havent
even joined with a paid account yet
I have at leat 20 women who have added me on yahoo messenegr , it is out of control
love it haha - so unreal compared to what im used to in Australia
I am 6 feet 2, athletic build and financially stable - but cant find an aussie girlfriend
It seems that a western man in Asia has a lot more value
Don t waste your time with anglo skanks, even if she looks good, very few have down
to earth personas , and reek of entitlement attitude and arrogance which i despise
They have big egos, cos p***y whipped anglo men kiss the ass of these 4/10 tarts
Anyway ill be overseas soon- no doubt i will be having the time of my life
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Postby Someone » Thu Apr 12, 2012 1:29 am

conquerall wrote:I wouldn't consider the girl below average or average at all. I've seen better looking women but you could've used someone that looked a hell of a lot worse. What men consider attractive is subjective. She passes my eyeball test.


Wait, are we talking about the same girl, the one in blue? Her face is ugly. She's relatively young and not too fat, but the face is not attractive. She's a 6 at best.
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Postby Jester » Thu Apr 12, 2012 4:53 am

lavezzi wrote:A media-induced casual sex culture in the West is causing a huge part of the imbalance.


Good point. I sure have gotten a LOT pickier since I decided not to do casual sex anymore. Pickier on looks, age, children, intelligence, classiness, femininity, more. Won't go out with old wingman anymore. Not interested in low-value targets.

Looking for a keeper makes you stop and think.
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Postby jamesbond » Fri Apr 13, 2012 7:59 am

Domino_Dominguez wrote:Hi guys!

I'm a female.

I used to be on one of these sites and I had to delete my account because I got so many messages! The first time I made my page, I got 13 messages. I am a simple girl and my parents taught me the ins and outs about what I should like in a man and what not to like and most of the men on the dating site were looking to get laid. I wanted a relationship like a real one. I don't believe in ONS (one night stands). I believe in true love. I would never use another online website again. It is a waste of time for me and for men too. I got 161 messages on average and it was too much for me.

One of my guy friends was on the same site and he could barely get one message in 3 months but I got at least 20 in my first hour on the site. It is better to meet in person. That's how we have been doing it since the dawn of time.

This is interesting, here we have a female member who verifies the fact that she got bombarded with men sending her messages from her online profile. She said she got at least 20 messages in the first hour that she put her profile up! :shock:

Her male friend on the other hand, only got one message in the 3 months he used an online dating website! :shock:
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

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Postby zboy1 » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:11 am

Domino_Dominguez wrote:Hi guys!

I'm a female.

I used to be on one of these sites and I had to delete my account because I got so many messages! The first time I made my page, I got 13 messages. I am a simple girl and my parents taught me the ins and outs about what I should like in a man and what not to like and most of the men on the dating site were looking to get laid. I wanted a relationship like a real one. I don't believe in ONS (one night stands). I believe in true love. I would never use another online website again. It is a waste of time for me and for men too. I got 161 messages on average and it was too much for me.

One of my guy friends was on the same site and he could barely get one message in 3 months but I got at least 20 in my first hour on the site. It is better to meet in person. That's how we have been doing it since the dawn of time.


Well, it's not surprising considering you're a pretty attractive girl. For guys--unless he's rich, famous, or incredibly good-looking-- will have a much more difficult time in getting responses from girls than the other way around. Girls are much more picky and selective than men from my observations.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:43 am

How depressing. This is why I have given up on internet dating, especially in Anglo countries.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:49 am

jamesbond wrote:This fake female profile was an excellent experiment, it's hard to believe how much attention a below average looking female can get in the west. If this same girl was in Ukraine, Russia or Germany she would hardly get any replys at all.


As a comparison, someone should create a fake profile of an average woman from Germany and see how many messages she gets. That would be VERY interesting. Anyone feel like doing it? You'll have to play down the english to make it sound genuine.

Just imagine if this woman in the fake profile was hot looking? Then she would be getting hundreds of responses a day from guys! I think I am going to stop pursuing American women, there is just too much competition. I am just going to save my money and learn German and wait until I am able to travel to Germany before I ask out any more women.


Amen brother. Save your time and money for REAL women. You might have to wait, but it will be worth it.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:57 am

FREEDOM1 wrote:Hi Fellow Men
very Interesting
i joined Cherry Blossoms about 3 mths ago - which is mainly Phillipino women
and Thai love links about 2 weeks ago
On cherry Blossoms i have around 100 emails that i have yet to answer
i have deleted so many as i cannot reply to all
I have had about 40 emails in 2 weeks from Thai love links and i actually havent
even joined with a paid account yet
I have at leat 20 women who have added me on yahoo messenegr , it is out of control
love it haha - so unreal compared to what im used to in Australia
I am 6 feet 2, athletic build and financially stable - but cant find an aussie girlfriend
It seems that a western man in Asia has a lot more value
Don t waste your time with anglo skanks, even if she looks good, very few have down
to earth personas , and reek of entitlement attitude and arrogance which i despise
They have big egos, cos p***y whipped anglo men kiss the ass of these 4/10 tarts
Anyway ill be overseas soon- no doubt i will be having the time of my life


Wow man, that sounds awesome. I am also from Australia and I know what you mean. I haven't been able to find a decent woman over here either.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:59 am

zboy1 wrote:Well, it's not surprising considering you're a pretty attractive girl. For guys--unless he's rich, famous, or incredibly good-looking-- will have a much more difficult time in getting responses from girls than the other way around. Girls are much more picky and selective than men from my observations.


Very true. As i've said before:

Male celebrity who is a billionaire = average looking american woman.

Basically to get the same level of attention as the average american woman, you need to be a celebrity who is a billionaire.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:07 am

It would also be interesting to make two profiles with different ages. Have one being early 20's (say 23), and another one who is 32. I bet you the 23 year old gets about 10 times as many messages.

This is why I tend to go for older women in their early 30's. Once they reach 30 there is far less competition.
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Postby ssjparris » Fri Apr 13, 2012 8:18 pm

This always baffles me about women.

They got over 160 messeges and have the biggest problem in the world about to many men talking to them. He wants sex with her its a problem. He says the same things as other men its a problem. You flirt flit is a problem.

Then the girl wants to delete the profile. What the hell ?

Now contrast this...

On a dating site I get over 90 interests from women. They send around 60 messeges. I love it. And can't answer them all.

They send normal messeges that usually guys send on dating sites. Like hi how are you. Your cute. You know similar things. Come visit me. That kind a thing.

Do I feel like deleting the profile because to many women show interest or to many messeges. Hell no. I soak that shit in.

I love it so much. I would never delete my profile. Personally I despise why women would delete their profile after so many responses. They hate it for some hidden reason. It's not because their talking about sex. Or because to many men. It's something else.

A female friend of mine from canada told me women are worried that they'll be seen as a whore if to many men approach them. It's about how other women will feel about them. They whole world will come crashing down. If everyone sees her as a whore. So they delete their profile. Or they get angry at you for showing interest in them because of the whore thing.

This is why I stick to dating sites with foreign women. Because its private. And no one will know how many guys she is talking to that she wants. If I send her a messege after she should me interest she sends one really fast back so Its better for me.

Just my rant.
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Postby Taco » Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:09 pm

In the first 2 weeks I joined Date In Asia I had recieved over 1000 messages, I had trouble opening my e-mail account. Also, I joined Christian Filipina two years ago and I still get 3 or 4 messages a day from that site. You have to be delusional to want to date in the US.
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Postby OzGuy » Fri Apr 13, 2012 9:56 pm

Taco wrote:In the first 2 weeks I joined Date In Asia I had recieved over 1000 messages, I had trouble opening my e-mail account. Also, I joined Christian Filipina two years ago and I still get 3 or 4 messages a day from that site. You have to be delusional to want to date in the US.


Holy shit dude. Why do asian women love Anglo men so much? Are you sure they are legit and not just wanting to move to another country by marrying a man?
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Postby WuFan » Fri Apr 13, 2012 10:08 pm

Taco wrote:In the first 2 weeks I joined Date In Asia I had recieved over 1000 messages, I had trouble opening my e-mail account. Also, I joined Christian Filipina two years ago and I still get 3 or 4 messages a day from that site. You have to be delusional to want to date in the US.

I call complete and utter bullshit on that. 1000 messages??????? Why don´t you take a screenshot of your inbox?

I created an Asiandating.com account with a fake pic of a 7-8/10 white guy and I received only 3 messages within a couple days from ugly chicks. I´d even do better on PoF.

That´s the pic I used...


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Postby lavezzi » Fri Apr 13, 2012 11:31 pm

WuFan wrote:I call bullshit on that. 1000 messages??????? Why don´t you take a screenshot of your inbox?


I've now seen a few guys on here say or imply they've received 1000s of messages on DateInAsia (or other such sites) in a short time span without having even been active on the site, which is a physical impossibility even if you're a member of Westlife (every young Filipina's idols). The world is full of compulsive liars and the internet magnifies this by 1000. Be entirely skeptical of anything and everything you read on the internet, especially on this site because it focuses on the topic of foreign women in which everything is subjective so guys use this as an opportunity to lie heavily about their experiences in order to boost their e-egos.
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