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Postby NorthAmericanguy » April 22nd, 2012, 6:23 pm

WuFan wrote:I believe reading on another forum once that a guy created a profile with an average looking female that said "I have genital herpes and AIDS so we should take things slowly..."

She still received tons of messages.

For a woman to have sexual options all that is required is that she´s alive. She can be fat and dress like shit. All she has to do is hit the clubs/bars or sign up on PoF and have her inbox flooded by decent guys way out of her league.

Actually scratch that.

There is always necrophilia.

Even an ugly dead girl gets laid more than the hordes of decent looking guys that prowl the nightclubs on any give weekend.

In the western world a dead woman has more value than an average looking guy.


I have no doubt in my mind that there are various shady sick morticians who have sex with female corpses as soon as they are brought in. Especially if they are famous women like Marilyn Monroe.
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Postby gsjackson » April 22nd, 2012, 6:29 pm

WuFan wrote:
gsjackson wrote:
Banano wrote:This is actually depressing to look at


That's the idea. He's a vicious little troll. Go ahead and take his advice and leave the house to observe. If you find men and women invariably paired up with their physical counterparts (according to his standards of judgment), then Oz is a very different place than the US.

As for the point about f***ed up women these days sometimes responding to sexual directness, that point was made here a couple of months ago far more compellingly by a cartoon video. If you want a quick toss with one of those skanks, yeah, it's strictly a matter of whether she likes your looks, and best to be direct. But you won't see them walking around together. They can't stand each other's company for any longer than it takes to f**k
.

Looks like I flipped a switch.

Being bold isn´t the reason why it works. It works because the fake profile guy is incredibly good looking. I did the same experiment with an ugly guy and only got rejections: "You are creepy ,etc..."

While my ugly persons profile got a whopping 0 messages my male model guy received dozens of messages from hot girls



"They can´t stand each other"

Typical defense mechanism. I can tell by your frustration that you´ve been rejected countless times.

Face it.

If this guy showed up and asked your girl out on a date she´d leave you within 5 seconds. He wouldn´t even have to open his mouth.




Image


Again, tell me how to post a pic, so you can tell me what my chances with women are.
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Postby Fenix » April 22nd, 2012, 10:06 pm

gsjackson, could you please post your picture in this thread....! Prove a point!
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Postby Dogboy86 » April 22nd, 2012, 10:16 pm

Improve your self; ie read a book, work out, take a college course, karate, yoga, bjj, cross fit, learn a language... all this is for you and you alone, not women. Build yourself and your confidence grows... better yourself... because even the most open minded foreign women dosnt want to be with a hateful little troll...
"Never underestimate the predictability of stupidity"!!!
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Postby OzGuy » April 22nd, 2012, 10:31 pm

NorthAmericanguy wrote:Yea, and what's f*** up is that the only effort a western woman has to put in to receive bids from the top western men is a 25$ dress from Wet Seal and a pair of 60$ shoes from ALDO.

http://www.wetseal.com/catalog/category ... goryId=104
http://www.aldoshoes.com/us/women/sandals

On the other hand, western men must spend years (or decades) in school, or building up a business, and spend thousands of dollars buying cars, clothes, and real estate just to prove that he's worthy of female company.


Give me a break! I'm all for a man proving that he's healthy, loyal, and that he can take care of himself. This is the case down through the ages.

But the problem now is that it's acceptable for women to come to the table with NOTHING (or even in debt AND prior bastard kids!), but now men must come to the table with significantly more wealth then ever before.


Edit:

Look at it this way guys, western women get a HUGE return on their investment when they seek relationships with men. They get kids, early retirement or retirement from work altogether, they get a house or at least they get to move in rent free, they get to capture status from a man who worked all his life for it (i.e, oh you're married to NBA Laker so and so! wow!), they get to enjoy being the center of attention around all American holidays, they get help paying their bills/debt, and they get sex whenever they want.....


Yep, this really annoys me. I hate it when women say "we have it a lot harder than guys, we have to go to all the effort of putting on makeup, dressing nicely etc". I have argued with women about who has it easier with dating before. I have told them that all they have to do is sit back and select which guy they want. Their argument? "well at least you guys get to CHOOSE which girl you want to approach, we have to sort through all the losers and creeps".
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Postby gsjackson » April 22nd, 2012, 10:57 pm

PhxSosa wrote:gsjackson, could you please post your picture in this thread....! Prove a point!


I'm waiting for someone to tell me how -- I don't know. Then WuFan, the expert, can let me know how hopeless the situation is. And I'll be happy to do the same for him.
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Postby Fenix » April 22nd, 2012, 11:04 pm



^^^You have to put your picture on imageshack.us and then paste the link in between the [img] tags.
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Postby NorthAmericanguy » April 22nd, 2012, 11:15 pm

OzGuy wrote:Yep, this really annoys me. I hate it when women say "we have it a lot harder than guys, we have to go to all the effort of putting on makeup, dressing nicely etc". I have argued with women about who has it easier with dating before. I have told them that all they have to do is sit back and select which guy they want. Their argument? "well at least you guys get to CHOOSE which girl you want to approach, we have to sort through all the losers and creeps".



^ Yea, I have had woman tell me the same thing. Thing is, to some degree, guys actually believe what these women say simply because they're not women. But with the internet, men can now pose as women to unsuspecting males and gain critical insight as to what it must really be like to be a woman.


Anyhow, check this out, guys over here at this form came to the same conclusion:




"There is a disparate amount of effort required for a man to be considered "attractive" than for a woman.

What a woman has to do to look attractive to men:
Exercise moderately, possibly 3 hours a week to maintain a good figure.
Eat sensibly (no McDonald's, no A&W).
Wear a variety of nice looking clothes.

What a man has to do to look attractive to women:
Go to school for 20 years of your life to acquire degrees.
Work 40-50 hours a week for 20 years of your life to make a high salary
Build muscle mass by lifting weights minimum 5 hours a week.
Eat a diet that aligns with building muscle (not as easy as it sounds).
Gain political power and social status.
Look and dress like whoever is the current most popular male celebrity.
Spend your money on big ticket items (house and car).

It takes a minimal amount of effort for a woman to be attractive, yet the vast majority of women can't even do this.
From a physical point of view in the sense of being and looking healthy, I think there are more men than women. Women for the most part don't know how to take care of their bodies, they live by more of a "if it feels good then do it" attitude
."





"Spend money on things that have a guaranteed rate of return (i.e., they are guaranteed to make you happy). Spending money on pursuing girls right now has a miserable rate of return, maybe 0.01%, so it’s definitely not worth it."


http://www.mgtowforums.com/forums/mens- ... ingle.html
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Postby gsjackson » April 22nd, 2012, 11:21 pm

Image

Let's see if this works. Well, guess I need further instructions. Oh, Ok, I see it can be copied and pasted into the url. I'm old and a technophobe.

This is the only digital picture I have. It was at age 55. At 61, I look about the same, wearing hair a bit longer and the grey is a little more noticeable, but still not dominant. I never thought of myself as a loser who has no hope with women, but WuFan assures us that all of us here must be. So don't sugarcoat it, WuFan. Give it to me straight. And as I said, I'll be happy to provide you with a similar evaluation of your face, which, as you say, is the only thing that matters.
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Postby WuFan » April 22nd, 2012, 11:41 pm

gsjackson wrote:Image

Let's see if this works. Well, guess I need further instructions.

You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.
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Postby Falcon » April 22nd, 2012, 11:46 pm

WuFan wrote:You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


He looks completely fine, probably somewhat above average. Many people at his age are already nearly bald or in very, very bad shape. I don't see anything wrong with short sleeves either. A bit of weight loss could be good, but I don't see anything else wrong.

Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


Only if you're talking about stuck-up white-collar American women.
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Postby WuFan » April 23rd, 2012, 12:01 am

Falcon wrote:
WuFan wrote:You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


He looks completely fine, probably somewhat above average. Many people at his age are already nearly bald or in very, very bad shape. I don't see anything wrong with short sleeves either. A bit of weight loss could be good, but I don't see anything else wrong.

Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


Only if you're talking about stuck-up white-collar American women.

People are shallow everywhere in the world. It often happens subcosciously though.

While he won´t be banging 20 year old uber hotties, I´m sure he could find a decent looking Asian woman around his age or a little younger that´ll treat him well. It´s all good.
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Postby gsjackson » April 23rd, 2012, 12:25 am

WuFan wrote:
gsjackson wrote:Image

Let's see if this works. Well, guess I need further instructions.

You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


Thanks. Now you? Picture please.
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Postby WuFan » April 23rd, 2012, 12:27 am

gsjackson wrote:
WuFan wrote:
gsjackson wrote:Image

Let's see if this works. Well, guess I need further instructions.

You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


Thanks. Now you? Picture please.

lol, never gonna happen.
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Postby gsjackson » April 23rd, 2012, 12:35 am

WuFan wrote:
gsjackson wrote:
WuFan wrote:
gsjackson wrote:Image

Let's see if this works. Well, guess I need further instructions.

You are average looking. Not enough to turn heads, but it could be a lot worse.

Losing weight and dressing better would help you a little bit. You´d still be average though.

Don´t wear shirts with short sleeves. Wear button downs with long sleeves. Women associate short sleeve shirts with low level office workers who don´t have airconditioning.


Thanks. Now you? Picture please.

lol, never gonna happen.


Yeah, cause you'd have to climb out from under your troll rock and clean up. And that ain't never gonna happen.
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