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Day Game + College Town = Success?

Postby spinaroonie » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:09 pm

I'll relate my experience. In my online dating days I'd hunt for girls 18-24 on POF. I noticed a disproportionate share of hotties from a neighbouring town, college mostly college girls from a small campus that's 80% female - no exaggeration. WTF, why would these cute, nice, seemingly normal girls be on a dating site looking for men? Because they're stuck in an articially closed environment without enough guys. They can't find guys to date and f**k.


So for a few weekends last year my buddy and I hit up this town to scope for girls at the bars and clubs, expecting a poon nirvana. Much to our dismay, the ratios were 50-50. Moreover, guys were DRIVING IN from OTHER towns and the big city with the same expectations and f***ing up the ratios. And we saw the same dynamic played out in the clubs in this town as in the big city - excessive texting, loud music, big mixed social circles, Jersey Shore douchebag roid monkeys everywhere etc. - making it challenging to run pickup game. At the end of the night, I noticed none of the guys were pulling girls home unless it was girls they already knew.


So where were all the excess college girls? There was the epiphany - a lot of these girls were sick of the night scene and staying home. And given the skewed ratios, a huge number of these girls were sleeping alone or resorting to online dating. Owing to today's broken dating and mating scene, there's a lot of tight young p***y not getting tapped. Such a shame.


The fact is every college has a surplus of girls. And for every attention-whoring sorority slut gyrating her b***y at the local frat bar on a Saturday night, there are three "nice girls" sitting at home watching Twilight, or nerding it up at the library, or hanging out with the sisterhood bitching about how there are no good men left.

There's a huge reservoir of cute girls that don't get a lot of attention and don't a lot of play. These are girls in arts majors in 90% chick programs like psychology, sociology etc. These girls aren't used to getting a lot of attention from dudes because they're not meeting dudes. They're not meeting a quality guys. A lot of these girls are horny and lonely. They WANT to MEET guys to date and f**k. Theyr'e not.


So what happens when these girls hit up what was USED TO BE the primate grounds for the mating dance - the local the bar/club? They get hit on by guido douchebag roid monkeys. Or awkward dorks with bad game. Or wallflower creepers staring them down from the sidelines. And though they'd like to meet and get to know guys, the loud "ra ra" autotune crap blasting at high decibels makes conversation unbearable. And when she does start chatting with a quality guy - the guy with the professional career, the car, the pad - whom she feels she has a connection with, the mother hen shows up and her jealous friends invariably end up cockblocking.


Most girls want to be in relationships, but think of the sheer number of single college girls out there. A lot of girls are too picky, but most are simply not meeting calibre men. And a lot of the quality cerebral guys whom these girls SHOULD be dating have dropped out of the game altogether, resorting to video games and porn as a quick fix.

Someone's gotta f**k these girls.

But most guys don't have the tenacity to tough it through. Most guys have way too much of a fragile ego to overcome the inevitable sea of rejections that will come when first starting out. And they're frightened off by social shaming terms like "creeper" and "stalker" used by chicks (and cockblocking dudes) to scare beta guys from approaching during the day. So there's no competition.

This is why for the enterprising DAY GAME PLAYER IN A COLLEGE TOWN, there's a bounty of b***y to be had. Even moreso for a young professional dude just out of school who could pass for a college kid yet won't need to worry about a bad rep scarring him on campus.
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Re: Day Game + College Town = Success?

Postby jamesbond » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:30 pm

spinaroonie wrote:So for a few weekends last year my buddy and I hit up this town to scope for girls at the bars and clubs, expecting a poon nirvana. Much to our dismay, the ratios were 50-50. Moreover, guys were DRIVING IN from OTHER towns and the big city with the same expectations and f***ing up the ratios. And we saw the same dynamic played out in the clubs in this town as in the big city - excessive texting, loud music, big mixed social circles, Jersey Shore douchebag roid monkeys everywhere etc. - making it challenging to run pickup game. At the end of the night, I noticed none of the guys were pulling girls home unless it was girls they already knew.

So where were all the excess college girls? There was the epiphany - a lot of these girls were sick of the night scene and staying home. And given the skewed ratios, a huge number of these girls were sleeping alone or resorting to online dating. Owing to today's broken dating and mating scene, there's a lot of tight young p***y not getting tapped. Such a shame.

The fact is every college has a surplus of girls. And for every attention-whoring sorority slut gyrating her b***y at the local frat bar on a Saturday night, there are three "nice girls" sitting at home watching Twilight, or nerding it up at the library, or hanging out with the sisterhood bitching about how there are no good men left.

There's a huge reservoir of cute girls that don't get a lot of attention and don't a lot of play. These are girls in arts majors in 90% chick programs like psychology, sociology etc. These girls aren't used to getting a lot of attention from dudes because they're not meeting dudes. They're not meeting a quality guys. A lot of these girls are horny and lonely. They WANT to MEET guys to date and f**k. Theyr'e not.

So what happens when these girls hit up what was USED TO BE the primate grounds for the mating dance - the local the bar/club? They get hit on by guido douchebag roid monkeys. Or awkward dorks with bad game. Or wallflower creepers staring them down from the sidelines. And though they'd like to meet and get to know guys, the loud "ra ra" autotune crap blasting at high decibels makes conversation unbearable. And when she does start chatting with a quality guy - the guy with the professional career, the car, the pad - whom she feels she has a connection with, the mother hen shows up and her jealous friends invariably end up cockblocking.

Most girls want to be in relationships, but think of the sheer number of single college girls out there. A lot of girls are too picky, but most are simply not meeting calibre men. And a lot of the quality cerebral guys whom these girls SHOULD be dating have dropped out of the game altogether, resorting to video games and porn as a quick fix.

Someone's gotta f**k these girls.

But most guys don't have the tenacity to tough it through. Most guys have way too much of a fragile ego to overcome the inevitable sea of rejections that will come when first starting out. And they're frightened off by social shaming terms like "creeper" and "stalker" used by chicks (and cockblocking dudes) to scare beta guys from approaching during the day. So there's no competition.

This is why for the enterprising DAY GAME PLAYER IN A COLLEGE TOWN, there's a bounty of b***y to be had. Even moreso for a young professional dude just out of school who could pass for a college kid yet won't need to worry about a bad rep scarring him on campus.

I have been checking out college towns since I graduated from college. I did get some phone numbers but the thing is, this particular college is 2 hours from where I live. So I couldn't date these girls because it's just too long of a drive but this is the closest college town to where I live.

I have seriously considered going back to college, not just to meet girls but to further my education. Man, I do love college girls, they are at their peak physically and are actually kind of friendly and open. Another reason I would like to go back to college is make some new friends. It was a lot easier to make friends with people in college than it has been since I graduated from college.
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Re: Day Game + College Town = Success?

Postby spinaroonie » Sat Apr 14, 2012 2:44 pm

jamesbond wrote:I have seriously considered going back to college, not just to meet girls but to further my education. Man, I do love college girls, they are at their peak physically and are actually kind of friendly and open. Another reason I would like to go back to college is make some new friends. It was a lot easier to make friends with people in college than it has been since I graduated from college.


This.

Almost every college campus has more girls than guys. On a campus that's 60% female, at least 1/3 of girls are sleeping alone. Find that 1/3.

Lots of guys think every hot 20 year old is surrounded by a huge social circle of frat guys and athletes trying to holler at her. This might be true of the peroxide blonde party girl at a huge state school with a big hookup scene but it’s not true for every girl.

There are a lot of somewhat shy, lonely young college girls because they don’t go out much. They major in 80% chick programs like psychology and don’t meet a lot of new guys. Assuming you’re better than any of the single guys in her immediate social circle, these are fish easy to net.

Guys just need to choose their targets wisely. Don’t chase after the varsity athletes or the sorority sluts and social butterflies. For every attention-whoring peroxide blonde skanking it up at the clubs every weekend, there’s just as many girls spending their weekends working on their lab report or staying home watching Twilight. They don’t go out much because they’re sick of immature frat dudes and lame inexperienced dorks. They hop on the bus, go to their 80% chick lectures, study at the library, get involved in a club or play some intramural sport, and hop on the bus back home.

These girls aren’t meeting a lot of new guys. They’re the cute innocent “good girlsâ€￾ with tight little 20 yr old bodies who haven’t grown calloused (yet) from being pumped and dumped by multiple players. Some of these girls are looking for boyfriends, and all these girls WILL drop their panties for a smoothtalker with game. These are the girls you want to meet through cold approaches.
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Re: Day Game + College Town = Success?

Postby jamesbond » Sat Apr 14, 2012 3:03 pm

spinaroonie wrote:Almost every college campus has more girls than guys. On a campus that's 60% female, at least 1/3 of girls are sleeping alone. Find that 1/3.

Lots of guys think every hot 20 year old is surrounded by a huge social circle of frat guys and athletes trying to holler at her. This might be true of the peroxide blonde party girl at a huge state school with a big hookup scene but it’s not true for every girl.

There are a lot of somewhat shy, lonely young college girls because they don’t go out much. They major in 80% chick programs like psychology and don’t meet a lot of new guys. Assuming you’re better than any of the single guys in her immediate social circle, these are fish easy to net.

Guys just need to choose their targets wisely. Don’t chase after the varsity athletes or the sorority sluts and social butterflies. For every attention-whoring peroxide blonde skanking it up at the clubs every weekend, there’s just as many girls spending their weekends working on their lab report or staying home watching Twilight. They don’t go out much because they’re sick of immature frat dudes and lame inexperienced dorks. They hop on the bus, go to their 80% chick lectures, study at the library, get involved in a club or play some intramural sport, and hop on the bus back home.

These girls aren’t meeting a lot of new guys. They’re the cute innocent “good girlsâ€￾ with tight little 20 yr old bodies who haven’t grown calloused (yet) from being pumped and dumped by multiple players. Some of these girls are looking for boyfriends, and all these girls WILL drop their panties for a smoothtalker with game. These are the girls you want to meet through cold approaches.

Yes, those would be the type of girls I would love to meet through "cold approaches." I did use cold approaching a few years ago and got 2 phone numbers in one day. I asked out 4 girls and got 2 numbers. The first 2 girls gave me their number, the second two told me they have a boyfriend. That's a 50% conversion rate, pretty good I guess.

The thing is, I currently live about 2 hours away from any college towns. If I moved to a college town I could approach girls on a regular basis. Also, the cost of living is a lot lower in a college town than it is in a big city and their is less traffic and the people are nicer to.

I am telling you, every time I visit a college campus the good memories I had when I went away to college come flooding back. I just visited my alma mater last month, that school is now 60% girls and only 40% guys. When I went there, it was 53% girls, so the ratios are even better now for me! :D

I wouldn't mind going back to the school I graduated from, it's a 3 hour drive from where I live now. I could move there and rent an apartment for $450 a month. I would throw parties and try and invite as many college girls I could. It would be my goal to make friends with as many college students as I could and try to meet girls through them. It worked for me the first time I went to college, no reason why it wouldn't work again! 8)
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Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby Jester » Mon Sep 01, 2014 7:29 pm

Abroad, in the Latin world anyway, gyms seem much friendlier than in the U.S.

Some young muscled guys will talk with you, if you break out a bit of Spanish. No roid ragers. Girls make eye contact.

If you make friends with a trainer, he will introduce you to people.

People are quite "upscale", so there are some cuties.

Some people know a bit of English they like to show off.

And so on.

HOWEVER:
The gym is not particularly close to me, so I don't want to have to send 3 weeks working out different days and times. I like a routine. I just want to establish a routine that will give me the best eye candy worth flirting with.

I'm wondering though, what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?
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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby manly5000 » Mon Sep 01, 2014 7:32 pm

Jester wrote:Abroad, in the Latin world anyway, gyms seem much friendlier than in the U.S.

Some young muscled guys will talk with you, if you break out a bit of Spanish. No roid ragers. Girls make eye contact.

If you make friends with a trainer, he will introduce you to people.

People are quite "upscale", so there are some cuties.

Some people know a bit of English they like to show off.

And so on.

HOWEVER:
The gym is not particularly close to me, so I don't want to have to send 3 weeks working out different days and times. I like a routine. I just want to establish a routine that will give me the best eye candy worth flirting with.

I'm wondering though, what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?


Hey Jester, can you do me a favor?

Next time you're at the gym can you ask about foreigners working as personal trainers? Curious about any legal restrictions/opportunities/income potential... it's something I'm interested in as an alternative to teaching English.

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Postby Hero » Mon Sep 01, 2014 7:42 pm

I don't believe Spinaroonie for a second. I was a college student for a long time, and I know for a fact that even fat, hideous girls can get themselves high-quality BFs.
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Postby Ghost » Mon Sep 01, 2014 9:22 pm

day game + college town = still stuck in the U.S. with bitches
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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby Jester » Mon Sep 01, 2014 11:55 pm

manly5000 wrote:
Jester wrote:Abroad, in the Latin world anyway, gyms seem much friendlier than in the U.S.

Some young muscled guys will talk with you, if you break out a bit of Spanish. No roid ragers. Girls make eye contact.

If you make friends with a trainer, he will introduce you to people.

People are quite "upscale", so there are some cuties.

Some people know a bit of English they like to show off.

And so on.

HOWEVER:
The gym is not particularly close to me, so I don't want to have to send 3 weeks working out different days and times. I like a routine. I just want to establish a routine that will give me the best eye candy worth flirting with.

I'm wondering though, what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?


Hey Jester, can you do me a favor?

Next time you're at the gym can you ask about foreigners working as personal trainers? Curious about any legal restrictions/opportunities/income potential... it's something I'm interested in as an alternative to teaching English.

Gracias hermano!


Here in Mexico, you need a Mexican residence visa with work-permit endorsement. The work-permit is specific to the type of work. You can't always get one to do something that a Mexican can do. You might have to put a spin on it, to make it different from what local trainers can do. Like teaching Mexican trainers to train Gringo clients using English phrases". Or "creating English-language workout classes for Gringo retirees". Or "specializing in Pilates exercises for older people". Or "rehab". And of course have your act together. There is an Immigration office here in Ensenada, so they are obviously all over. Or a consulate up there could do it. Please note that they record conversations, no bribes, but being polite and asking for guidance could help.

But you know, come to think of it, when I had a trainer for a while, he worked for cash. Interesting. Yeah I wonder if his ID got checked in order to be on staff? I bet it did. Latins do love being official sometimes. PROBABLY it did, but yeah I will ask him when I get back into the gym.

I was paying him 500 pesos for a week, i.e. 5 days in a row. At the time that was $8 a workout. He was OK, not as hard as a US trainer, but affable and pleasant. He had plenty of clients, also went to school.

I talked to another trainer there, his charges were the same.

At my "privada" (private community) here at the beach toward the south end of town, one lady occasionally does aerobics/yoga/stretch classes in the morning. She gets 2 to 3 from the community, including me, who pay her 40 pesos each. This also goes on for a similar fee I think, down south of here on the Punta Banda (Bufadora) peninsula -- i.e., outdoor classes, so you don't have to pay for a venue. Weather here is conducive to that, especially (obviously) in the mornings.

I am not suggesting you depend on gringos here, though. Just an angle to get the permit.

And of course the locals you would have to be fluent in Spanish, and present well.

One interesting thing is that even young cute girls here have male trainers. Could be cool.
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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby Jester » Mon Sep 01, 2014 11:58 pm

C'mon someone, help me out here.

Jester wrote:
I'm wondering though, what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?

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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby gsjackson » Tue Sep 02, 2014 12:06 am

Jester wrote:what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?[/b]


In the U.S. it's always been 5-7 p.m., when the girls with jobs come by. Other hours you're more likely to get mothers who don't work. Problem is, the hours that the single women show up are the most crowded times, when it's a pain in the arse to get on the weight equipment. The women are usually on the aerobics machines, though, which is an unfortunate thing to do to a nubile female body. I recall one wag's comment about Jane Fonda in her hyper-aerobicized days: "you want to sand her down, not embrace her."
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Postby Jeremy » Tue Sep 02, 2014 1:55 am

The American college campus is possibly the HARDEST environment to get laid in. Yeah, the girls are all young and good looking, but so are the guys. When I was still in school I had to venture OFF campus to get any action (hookers and older pof whales).

Even if the ratio were 90 f : 10 m and the school was oddly isolated from the rest of civilization, the odds still wouldn't be in your favour. Girls would simply hold out for an even smaller number of guys. Chad/Brad/Thad the high LS (looks & status) rugby player would still slay, while the only thing your average accounting or STEM major would be tapping on Saturday night is his keyboard.
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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby Jester » Tue Sep 02, 2014 2:47 am

gsjackson wrote:
Jester wrote:what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?[/b]



In the U.S. it's always been 5-7 p.m., when the girls with jobs come by. Other hours you're more likely to get mothers who don't work.



Thanks. Its been so long since I have been on a 9 to 5 that I had forgotten that.

What days of the week would you say are best?

And what about girls who are in school? A lot here go to private gyms, rather than a campus gym, if they exist. (This was the same in Glendale California. Perhaps Glendale College didn't have a good gym.)
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Re: Meeting Girls at the Gym

Postby gsjackson » Tue Sep 02, 2014 3:03 am

Jester wrote:
gsjackson wrote:
Jester wrote:what would normally be the best days of the week, and best hours of the day, when young single girls tend to work out?[/b]



In the U.S. it's always been 5-7 p.m., when the girls with jobs come by. Other hours you're more likely to get mothers who don't work.



Thanks. Its been so long since I have been on a 9 to 5 that I had forgotten that.

What days of the week would you say are best?

And what about girls who are in school? A lot here go to private gyms, rather than a campus gym, if they exist. (This was the same in Glendale California. Perhaps Glendale College didn't have a good gym.)


Any weekday, weekends much less so. Chances are they're on a MWF schedule, if they're regular (and probably the great majority of women who use gyms aren't). A lot of them come for a brief while, then drop it.

Don't know about college girls in Mexico. In Tucson the U of Az has a good one, and I guess most of them use that.
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Postby droid » Tue Sep 02, 2014 3:06 am

spinaroonie wrote:Much to our dismay, the ratios were 50-50. Moreover, guys were DRIVING IN from OTHER towns and the big city with the same expectations and f***ing up the ratios.

Haha no surprise there! I was about to say "three seconds from your post, the place is gonna be ruined already".

Hero wrote:I don't believe Spinaroonie for a second. I was a college student for a long time, and I know for a fact that even fat, hideous girls can get themselves high-quality BFs.

Yeah, the only girls in college that were receptive or approached me weren't that cute. The better looking ones were snake-cold.

Jeremy wrote:The American college campus is possibly the HARDEST environment to get laid in. Yeah, the girls are all young and good looking, but so are the guys. When I was still in school I had to venture OFF campus to get any action (hookers and older pof whales). Even if the ratio were 90 f : 10 m and the school was oddly isolated from the rest of civilization, the odds still wouldn't be in your favour. Girls would simply hold out for an even smaller number of guys. Chad/Brad/Thad the high LS (looks & status) rugby player would still slay, while the only thing your average accounting or STEM major would be tapping on Saturday night is his keyboard.
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