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Women want gender equality, so why do most of them still refuse to ask a man out? Doesn't true equality mean taking on the less desirable things too? I mean us guys have to face anxiety, fear, rejection, humiliation, insults, and sometimes even risk a lawsuit just to ask a woman out. Women really have no idea how hard it is for us. It makes me so angry that some women even attempt to argue this point. They usually give the same argument "well we have to sort through all the losers and creeps and men who only want sex". Are they serious? So basically they are saying that women have it just as hard because they get hundreds of offers and have the luxury of choosing the best? What a joke!
If you want women to ask men out, there is only one way - go on strike. If all the men had some sort of global strike not to ask any women out, eventually women would be FORCED to start asking men out.
Imagine how nice it must be to go out at night and get hit on by at least 10 women! (apparently this is the average for most women). Also imagine getting SWAMPED with hundreds of messages from women on dating sites. This is what women experience all the time. There is simply no such thing as loneliness if you are a woman.
Although a global strike is unlikely, we can all do our own part by simply not asking women out. If every man spread this to other men, then slowly things would become more balanced and hopefully women would start asking men out.
Last edited by OzGuy on May 3rd, 2012, 1:01 pm, edited 1 time in total.
I have been thinking the same thing for years now. In these anglo-countries, the men are very aggressive and approach LOT'S of women when they go to bars and clubs. Then, you have guys doing "daygame" and asking out women in bookstores and grocery stores.
So, women in anglo-nations are getting asked out at least a few times a week and some might be getting asked out every day! It's no wonder why women in the anglosphere are so damn picky about what guys they date, they have a shit load of options!
Wouldn't it be nice if women were to ask men out? How would you like to go to a bar or club and have 10 women ask you for your phone number? How about having women approach you in bookstores and grocery stores? That would be heaven on earth for men, them MEN WOULD BE ABLE TO DO THE CHOOSING for once!
The way it is now, women do all the choosing in anglo-countries and most of them are only interested in guys who are rich, tall and good looking. The nice thing is, in some countries, women do approach men like in the Philippinies, Ukraine, Russia and Germany. I am going to visit at one or two of those countries as soon as I can.
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