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How do you feel about having vasectomy? Okay lets say you'e had a couple of kids and dont want anymore, would you get a vasectomy why or why not?
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Last edited by kangkana on May 17th, 2012, 12:29 pm, edited 2 times in total.
If you have kids already and are single, I would get the vasectomy. Ethically speaking, you should tell the women you date at some point that you have had a vasectomy. I don't know when the best time to do this would be...case by case, I suppose.
Whether or not I have had a vasectomy is not a topic that has ever come up with any women I have been dating. I'd bring it up if I did have one though. Your vasectomy could be a dealbreaker with many women, particularly where having kids is an expectation (Latin America comes to mind).
But hold all those aforementioned thoughts! There is supposed to be a male birth control method coming out soon in the USA, and is available in India now. It is reversible within two or three months (if you change your mind). Check this out: http://www.huffingtonpost.com/2012/04/0 ... 00708.html
I've been following RISUG for years and you are misinformed. In India it's still in clinical trials (for local men ONLY), and clinical trials in the US have not even started.
I'm already on the contact list if it makes it to clinical trials, but if not this year I may just get a vasectomy.
My friend got one and then he met a Filipina that wanted to have kids, it eventually became a problem in their relationship. She was always bugging him about having kids which he did not like and he ended up dumping her after a few years of dating. However, at 37 yrs old he wasn't mature enough to be a responsible father so in his case it was the right decision.
I've never wanted kids and I had the snip aged 33. I have never regretted it for a split-second, but that's me. It totally took away any worries I had about getting a woman pregnant, and my long-term partner never had to use contraceptives. It has never seemed to affect my sex drive - still plenty juice in the tank years later. Obviously I still use condoms when I'm unsure about a woman's sexual health (i.e. 99% of them!). Best thing I ever did. YMMV
I was dumped once because of it, but only in the very early stages of a relationship, so no worries. Six months later she got married - baby rabies or what?? Haha. She was THAT age.
I guess I'm not going to be very popular with young Filipinas, except for short-term flings. Oh dear ....
And you imagine your guvment wont use your sperm and send you the child support bill?
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