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Is it possible to find the perfect soul mate overseas?

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Is it possible to find the perfect soul mate overseas?

Postby Émigré » Tue May 15, 2012 8:50 pm

To make this short.

I am 26 and I have been waiting until marriage for sex. It's been difficult to find a suitable girl who would be relationship material. To meet my standards she would have to be a Christian or willing to be a Christian, share similar moral beliefs or interests, be caring and warmhearted, waiting until marriage (a virgin until we're married), and be as attractive as I am. I heard that marriage is still valued in Eastern Europe and the girls still get married 18-20 which is what I'd like.

Are there any countries where I could find such a soul mate?

-Attractive
-Christian (or willing to be one)
-Waiting until marriage (virgin)
-Kind, warmhearted
-Loyal and values marriage

Without the drama, dating games, extreme competition, and lack of tradition that is found in America and Western Europe. Premarital sex is 100% related to all the broken families, divorce, STD, and why unhealthy relationships are more common. I'd rather be single forever than date a used trashy whore. I will never humiliate myself and go for some slut that has had a lengthy sexual history and lack of morals. I have self-respect and a sense of dignity.

I am white so I'd prefer my soul mate to be white but I would be open to Asians because I find them attractive. Any recommendations on countries where girls have the qualities I listed and without all the "games and competition"?

Don't recommend:
North America-I had enough with the dating games as found in the US. All of North America has the same culture.
West Europe- Same as North America. dating is no different. too much premarital-sex and promiscuity
The Caribbean-just like US, it can't be any different being in the North American sphere of influence
sub-Saharan Africa-I already said I am only attracted to Whites and Asians. I am attracted to the whiter skinned races
Jewish countries-a marriage is healthier with two people of the same religion. I'm Christian.
Islamic countries-a marriage is healthier with two people of the same religion. I'm Christian.

Please have a relevant answer. If you disagree with my opinions please keep it to yourself. If you enjoy the "dating games" or were lucky in all your relationship then you were suited for it. If you are ok with dating a girl with a sexual history because you have one too or you were waiting but settled I respect your decision but don't think you can disrespect or change my decision. This isn't an invitation for a debate. This is asking a question related to finding happiness abroad. There isn't anything more valuable than having the perfect soul mate complete your life and you their's.

I know porn and premarital sex is everywhere but the demographics are different. While 95% of all American and Western European girls have had at least 1 sexual partner by age 18 and only 2% of those are attractive; only 80% of Russian girls might have 1 sexual partner by age 18, and 40% of all Chinese girls have 1 sexual partner by age 18. As we can see the odds are better in Russia and China. Not to mention that American men are still seen as desirable to many girls in the developing world.
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Postby Taco » Tue May 15, 2012 9:16 pm

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Postby boycottamericanwomen » Wed May 16, 2012 9:33 am

Yea I was gonna say the same. Sounds like the Phillipines is perfect for you. They are Christian also.
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Re: Is it possible to find the perfect soul mate overseas

Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Wed May 16, 2012 11:20 am

Émigré,
I do have an answer that is relevant. Women can not be your soul mate. Get over it. You are lucky. You are 26, not married, no kids. I did not find out that little factoid until AFTER I had two kids. It is a LOT different when you find out that factoid, I can tell you.

I recommend you read this book. It was written for the likes of you.

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Now. If you want a woman in your life and you understand that she will not be loyal and will not be you soul mate and you want her anyway?

My experiences with eastern european women have been first class. Of course not ALL of them.....but they are 100x better than feminised women. My favourite two women have been from the Ukraine and Czech republic. The Czech woman was devoutly religious, very beautiful, blonde, white as snow, very fit with an hour or two if in line skating each day in the summer and skating in the winter. When we went swimming at out hotel she could swim like a fish and out did me easily. At the hotel she would make me come and do 30 minutes on the treadmill......the incentive was she would run on the treadmill next to me...and that was QUITE an incentive!! LOL!!

We would then swim for nearly an hour, spa, sauna...relax off the exercise and then head to dinner.

She was the sweetest woman I have ever met....if you could find a 20 year old version of her you would be a very lucky man...but she is not going to be your soul mate...she is going to be your woman and all that means....you are sell advised to step up to alpha to control your woman.

My Ukrainian lady friend does not have as "sweet" a personality...they are "harder" or "more down to earth" or "more realistic" it seems. She is dark skinned and dark haired but unbelievably beautiful......she says there are "many more like me at home"......She is more aggressive and more willing to hold her ground or launch what I now call an "attack" which is very nominal compared to my feminized wife. This is fine now I am alpha because when we are back in private I give her back as good as she gave with extra so she knows who the man is around here.

Her own comment was "when a woman misbehaves the man but stop on her and put her in her place. If he does not she will fight with him until he does." So that is how I handle her. She is also devoutly christian, the orthodox Ukrainian kind. She was very disappointed I renounced my christian faith as such but we still have much in common in that area.

You should take note of her words when I asked her "But dont you want a man in your life to love and adore you?"

She laughed and said "Peter, women do not want to be loved and adored by a man. They want to be paid for by a man."

This is the true nature of women. You are better off to know it when you are 26 than 48.

"Love" is a story to enslave men to women. Women are not capable of "love" like we understand it.

Now I have learned all this myself I do not see it as "bad"...I just see it as the truth.

A relationship between a man and a woman is best based on mutual benefit rather than lies like "marriage" and "love".

PS. I am not too sure on the whole "no sex before marriage side". I am not dating women in your age range as I am 48. I date in the 30-35 range and obviously none of those women are any closer to being a virgin than I am. So I can not comment on young women from Eastern Europe and how chaste or otherwise they are. I can only comment on my limited experience which has been first class.
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Postby C.J. » Wed May 16, 2012 3:08 pm

Émigré, you have quite a life ahead of you! But if you wish to settle down with a woman, that's an understandable life choice.

The southern Philippines are your best bet for the women you're looking for. You will find the woman who might meet all your specifications there, and then some!

But I would not advise you to look for your "soulmate". Your soulmate is YOU(you're the only one who can complete yourself)! You need to look for someone who makes your life better, a modular upgrade to it(that you can disconnect if it becomes defective!), not someone who you think "completes" you. Finding a foreign bride is a good choice of partners, but as someone else said, no one can be your soulmate, your perfect other half. One, no MANY people will be close to that though. :)
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Postby xiongmao » Wed May 16, 2012 4:03 pm

Many Chinese women have been my soulmate, but I'm not sure I've met The One yet.

It's not too hard to find Christian Japanese or Chinese women. And there are plenty of 30-35 virgin women out there, especially in China. They tend to be fairly clueless and are quite hard going if you like bedroom action.

It's also possible to find women who are the complete opposite. These women are much more fun to visit! At the same time they will look after you and treat YOU like a god!!!
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Postby Renata » Wed May 16, 2012 4:17 pm

aw, I hope u find her good luck 8)
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Postby Billy » Wed May 16, 2012 6:13 pm

peter, please stop your boring stories :) Just kidding :). Yes I have the same opinion. Never trust a woman. :)
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Thu May 17, 2012 1:30 pm

Billy wrote:peter, please stop your boring stories :) Just kidding :). Yes I have the same opinion. Never trust a woman. :)

Billy, young men learn through such "boring stories". If you do not want to read them then you know where the scroll bar is.
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Postby boycottamericanwomen » Thu May 17, 2012 2:50 pm

"you are sell advised to step up to alpha to control your woman. "

Best line I've ever read.

We all need to stop being such pussies, and grow some balls.
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Postby zacb » Sat Oct 13, 2012 9:26 pm

I personally think from what I have read that the Philippines or EE would work best. They are both religious, and not bad looking might I add. EE tends to be better if you are more intellectually inclined, while the latter is great for the looks department. And if you plan on living in the country, EE would be better (at least for most people).
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Postby ladislav » Sun Oct 14, 2012 12:28 am

The Philippines meets your requirement on all counts. Virgins in EE are harder to come by except maybe in Poland.
The thing with EE is that they do not speak English for the most part.
You may also like Colombia and Costa Rica.

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