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Real Day game in Anglosphere..must watch

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Real Day game in Anglosphere..must watch

Post by Banano » May 30th, 2012, 8:01 am




This reality of daytime approaching.
I watch and wonder hw the fuk we got to this point/what is wrong with society today?
Its been said many times over and over but part of me still cant comprehend what is really goin on.

How were things in 70s and 80s ;if you approached women back then..anyone old enough to rmbr?

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Post by Falcon » May 30th, 2012, 9:04 am

Here is the Simple Pickup crew appearing on ABC in New York City.

Watch at 2:10 as the female host accuses them of misogyny. :x And she claims that approaching women is "really making fun of women." Come on, what was that?


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Post by Renata » May 30th, 2012, 10:36 am

approaching a girl with a pickup line is kind of cheesy & it makes it awkward for both because what do you say after that?? I wouldn't know how to react to it either.

I'd rather you come over, say hi', say your name, ask me mine, & just chat. I'd even rather you approach me & ask for directions to some place ... & once we have a conversation going you could give a compliment, like, you've got nice eyes, or hair, nice blouse, nice dress etc. That way I'll know your agenda.

met my first bf kind of like that ... we met at a fun fair in north london, :oops: this was the first time I was out of my country ... wonderful days 8)
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Post by Banano » May 30th, 2012, 11:15 am

Saying just 'hi' still wont get u anywhere, as soon as you open yr mouth she is on a guard, bitch shield is already ON. I dnt blame them coz if they drop it for 5 min guess what happens?She gets hit on 20 times by horny n desperate guys, its no win situation for us men unless you are too good to pass,
I tried many times and succeeded abt 10 times in 10 years, prbbly 200 rejections; kinda fcks up yr self esteem; some of them were mental cases, certifiably mental, nutcases, or sluts or combination of both

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Post by shiryu400 » May 30th, 2012, 1:24 pm

I've never used pickup lines in my life and I get the same crappy result. The method doesn't matter: if they don't like you, they don't like you.

Renata, c'mon, the guy must have been attractive to you. If you didn't think he was attractive, his approach wouldn't have "worked."

The trouble is that it's a buyer's market in the Anglosphere: women have all the choices. If she doesn't choose you first, then you won't get anywhere. Some guys do get to choose, but that's because they choose from a pool of girls that have already chosen him.
''Actually, with those dirty movies, I find like, they're good for about fifteen, twenty minutes. I'm really interested. And, then, uh, there's one point, that all of a sudden I'm bored. You know? I-... I just lose interest completely and I feel deeply ashamed.''

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Post by green1976 » May 30th, 2012, 2:27 pm

The main part is that is not the problem of saying no,it's how they say it.

Normaly a woman should at least show some tact in the rejection,of course it implies the man to be polite.

Also it should be noted,that even as males are different compared to females and tend to be more on the hunt,it should not be only males who make desesperate approach.

In societies where things are more balanced,males would be more active but females could still make the first move.

This video just denotes how women there are just fed up of men.
They feel entitled and don't want to be bothered outside there conception of what is feasible or not.

The reality at the end fell to this:They are not really attracted by men.

They have been fed in considering males as not worth to take them as equal.

The thing is their mother are not the only responsible for this situation,their father too are on the game.

If a man doesn't consider this fact as normal,he wouldn't them date them,he woudn't marry them not speaking about having kids of course.

For your information i would feel totally unconfortable even having these types of women around me because i know how i'm a less than nothing for them and automatically i just want that this kind of people f**k off form my life .

They don't deserve even to see me,and me i don't deserve to lose my precious time life being surronded by them.

Maybe it will sound contradictory,but the rejections we saw on these videos are not particulary aggressive.
It could have being worst i can tell...they even dared for some of them to reply lol

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Post by lavezzi » May 30th, 2012, 2:38 pm

Banano wrote:Saying just 'hi' still wont get u anywhere, as soon as you open yr mouth she is on a guard, bitch shield is already ON. I dnt blame them coz if they drop it for 5 min guess what happens?She gets hit on 20 times by horny n desperate guys, its no win situation for us men unless you are too good to pass,
I tried many times and succeeded abt 10 times in 10 years, prbbly 200 rejections; kinda fcks up yr self esteem; some of them were mental cases, certifiably mental, nutcases, or sluts or combination of both
You mean your conceptual self-esteem. Consciousness is infinite, it can never be changed or hurt. If you identify yourself as it, you are invincible even in the face of real danger, never mind approaching a few women.

Surely in Australia there's many Asian tourists/workers/students? Have you tried approaching them?

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Re: Real Day game in Anglosphere..must watch

Post by jamesbond » May 30th, 2012, 4:52 pm

Banano wrote:


This reality of daytime approaching.
I watch and wonder hw the fuk we got to this point/what is wrong with society today?
Its been said many times over and over but part of me still cant comprehend what is really goin on.

How were things in 70s and 80s ;if you approached women back then..anyone old enough to rmbr?
All that rejection must bruise a man's ego at some point. Towards the end of the video, I believe it was the asian guy who appeared in a wheel chair and he started talking to a girl and asked her out. She rejected him! :evil:

You can see how cruel some women can be. Some pickup artists like David Deangleo and Mystery tells guys to ask out at least 30 girls a month, which is 360 girls a year. How the hell can can you do that after the first 10 or 20 rejections?

This video further proves the point that women in the US DON'T want guys cold approaching them. They only want to meet guys through their friends. However, this is not the case in all countries. For example, in the Philippines, Russia and in eastern Europe, women don't mind if guys approach them in public.

It's only women in anglo countries who are "offended" if a guy was to approach them in a public setting.
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Post by Blue Murder » May 30th, 2012, 5:07 pm

This video is funny! I'm subbing 'em on YouTube.
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Post by Renata » May 30th, 2012, 9:25 pm

shiryu400 wrote:I've never used pickup lines in my life and I get the same crappy result. The method doesn't matter: if they don't like you, they don't like you.

Renata, c'mon, the guy must have been attractive to you. If you didn't think he was attractive, his approach wouldn't have "worked."

The trouble is that it's a buyer's market in the Anglosphere: women have all the choices. If she doesn't choose you first, then you won't get anywhere. Some guys do get to choose, but that's because they choose from a pool of girls that have already chosen him.
you are right there shiryu400, ... after we parted ways he didn't know it but I was already his lol :oops: :oops:
Approaching people is hard work, & the rejection you get is no motivation either... can't say I've ever approached a guy, but I have smiled at a few; that's my passive approach, the next step is his to take.
Obviously not every guy that comes up to you, you can entertain, so I politely say I have a bf already if they ask me out. I'm never rude. Caribbean girls like the attention & are very flattered by guys that show an interest in them but if you are rude or sleazy you'll get the worst rejection of your life.
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Re: Real Day game in Anglosphere..must watch

Post by All_That_Is_Man » May 31st, 2012, 5:07 am

Banano wrote:This reality of daytime approaching.
I watch and wonder hw the fuk we got to this point/what is wrong with society today?
Its been said many times over and over but part of me still cant comprehend what is really goin on.
At least they are creating a little humor with it. Hey, men are gonna get rejected anyway the minute we talk to women in America; might as well add humor to it. Not like they were gonna say "yes" to their approach in the first place. It's the same result for us "above average" looking men, too. Day by day, I'm starting to fully accept that I won't have even a feasible dating life until I travel abroad.
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Post by Banano » May 31st, 2012, 8:20 am

if they just reject you politely it wouldnt be an issue, I have been rejected in TH,PH,Sth America but they are so nice when they do it, almost apologizing for not being able to go with you coz of bf or whatever.
In Oz you get the worst rejection man can get, it could be that they are fed up with so many man wanting them so they are simply reacting to it.
Approaching 100s of women is ludicrous in my opinion, Imagine your ego after first 30 rejections, your enthusiasm level would be drained, soul crushed and eventually you would have to do inevetable, to lower standard(going after older,fat,less attractive women).
Still no guarantee you d get anything consistent and worthwhile.

Yes we do have asian students here but for some reason they are not easy like they are back in their homeland. Even filipinas are challange to get in bed, Chinese and Japanese are out of question.

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Picking Up Females is Outdated

Post by OutsideoftheBox » May 31st, 2012, 1:30 pm

Chasing females is outdated.

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Post by lavezzi » May 31st, 2012, 2:10 pm

How can we call others manginas if we ourselves are looking for personal gratification from sex with multiple women? There's nothing 'naturally masculine' about it that either like I've heard some on this site claim. Cavemen did it for sexual gratification not to inflate their egos as they were not insecure.

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Post by ethan_sg » June 3rd, 2012, 9:40 am

I don't think most men here want to do it to boost their egos, they're doing it to get sexual gratification. Come on you're a man you should understand.
lavezzi wrote:How can we call others manginas if we ourselves are looking for personal gratification from sex with multiple women? There's nothing 'naturally masculine' about it that either like I've heard some on this site claim. Cavemen did it for sexual gratification not to inflate their egos as they were not insecure.

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