zacb wrote:Not right away. But with the exception of family should I eliminate any line of communication with former acquaintances once I leave the country? And btw, is it me, or does it seem like you (or me) tend to run into a lot of idiots? Or is it me?
Depends..that's case by case.
Will you have something in common when you leave the country or what are the common points now?
Speaking for myself,my few friends from the past are long gone.
Each people have made their own life.
The time of the university and student life is over.
I really don't know what's up in their life,i don't care and they don't care about mine too.
You know,just as life is moving,the society expect you to be in a certain position.
At mid 30,if the guy has not got his appartment,his car,his good job and of course his wife and maybe his children,he is considered a definitive loser.
I'm in my mid 30,and if my set of value regarding myself would be exactly what my society impose to me,i would be on the brink of commiting suicide or being totally depressed and feelling worthless.
This is also what is all about going abroad..i can still take a new departure even being not a youngster,i can still easily find a good lady,i can still make some money at home who will represent a lot more abroad and as i refused the rules at home,my self appreciation is not anymore what my society tells me to feel.
Probably for those who are reading my message,some people here will feel the same.
They are not taking the same train as almost all the others.
The outcome would be totally catastrophic by having no choice to only stay at home and being considered a loser,a loner,a weirdo and even a sociopath.
By going abroad,especially meeting women really worth your affection,you can start a new life by feeling more adequated to the environment.
Does i regret my past life,my ex friends?
Not at all..i've never felt so young to some extent.
The freedom now to be where i want to be,with whom i want to be,it's great i think.