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Re: ANSWER

Postby publicduende » Sun Nov 11, 2012 11:26 pm

davewe wrote:
Rock wrote:
Davewe, Taco, Lad, and others, please take note. She just admitted to the elephant in the room which most Pinoys and Pinays are too polite or too 'asian' to talk about in front of you. Take a good hard objective look at that Pinay on your arm under harsh daytime sunlight and without the benefit of beer goggles.


Another classy remark, Rock. You're really on a roll. What you failed to mention here is that we were in PI at the same time a few weeks back and you texted me frequently about your search for the mythical 5'10" white Pinay with a big a**. When I had the audacity to wish you good luck and suggest that such girls barely exist in PI, you pulled the same "work hard to find a needle in a haystack" bullshit.

One of the tactics people who are unsuccessful in life (or at least a particular aspect of life) use is setting the bar to a place that success is unlikely. For example the unemployed man who says "I won't take any job that doesn't pay me 100k" which allows him to not confront the fact that he cannot get a decent job. On HA there are many men who go womanless in life but proclaim that they won't accept a girl who isn't rated to their requirement. Then to feel better such people attack the guy who has a job (albeit one that doesn't pay 100k) or the guy who has a girl (because the girl isn't a 10). It's a childish strategy and one associated with losers.

Such losers cannot stand anyone who has a happy life or some level of success. So the unemployed guy rails on the dirty pig of a capitalist who has a corporate job. And some posters on HA (like our fearless leader) whine about the impossibility of finding a girl who meets their requirements and attack those who are capable of doing it, saying the girl can't really be good enough.

Rock - I suppose if you had ever met me or the girls I have been with your critique might be a little bit fair. You could say "I've met Dave and his gf, and she's not to my taste" or whatever. But you have not met me or the women. As to the desperate women I have had relationships with in Phils all 3 were college educated, 1 was in law school in Manila, only 1 was truly poor, 1 was actually quite middle class. All three were young and attractive (at least by my standards, which are the only standards I care about), 1 was actually tall with the Chinese blood you lust for.

Bottom line is this: while I am being loved by a fine girl who wants nothing more than to be with me and see me happy, you are seeking your mythical girl who you cannot obtain. While I am receiving another BJ, you are hanging out in Manila and talking to one of the few Pinays who buys into your nonsense. I can't speak for Taco, Lad or any others you've called out, but I ain't trading places with you.

As to the posters/readers on HA, I get nothing from whether you believe me or not. I know there are great women to be had in Phils. Whether you come to Phils and experience it or not does not benefit me one bit; I'm a software engineer, not a travel agent. But ask yourself this - does your staying away benefit the losers? I believe it does. If 50 guys from this site visit Phils and most meet nice gfs, or meet potential wives, or just meet cute girls to have sex with, it completely repudiates the losers. Think about how desperately Winston wants you all the believe that the Philippines and now Taiwan sucks. That's not to give you valuable information - it's to validate his failures.

So don't listen to me. I got no problem with that. But do listen to guys like Outwest, a guy who has lived in Phils for many years and has a pretty young wife, or Pete who has married the girl of his dreams. There are many many similar stories you can hear if you're smart enough not to listen to the losers or whoremongers.


OK, a premise: I like Rock and have nothing against him. If anything, you too seem to admit his over the top posts are quite rare. I did resonate with quite a lot of what you said above, though. Despising what one won't (or cannot) reach as unworth the effort is something innate in human behaviour. That was the theme of famous Aesop's fox and grapes fable, last time I checked. http://www.taleswithmorals.com/aesop-fable-the-fox-and-the-grapes.htm

I personally think there's an additional twist, in the story of the young loveless man who will rather wait for the unattainable exotic girl, than learn to date people with a heart/soul and a personality and be extra happy if they also have the great looks. It's the sense of entitlement that comes with the extra effort, or leap of faith so to speak, of looking in a far away, second or third world country. In financial parlance, it's the higher expected return due to the perceived higher risk associated to a more exotic investment (not much of a metaphor: travelling to SEA does involve more time and money than dating locally). In plainer words, it's the "I'm American, and since I am bothering travelling all the way to the Philippines (Thailand, Vietnam, etc.), I must be rewarded with a limitless flow of easily available girls of incredibly beauty, who I can f**k and chuck as I please" attitude.

The financial metaphor is quite apt, as it turns out that such exotic, riskier investments are more often than not missold and will yield nothing like the expected results. Since I joined this forum I have seen this attitude in a great number of posters, even those who have never been to thos places and keep daydreaming of trading their miserable social/love life for that Asian harem utopia. I have never been to the Phils but had a very good time with Pinay friend in Zhuhai (a teacher with a degree from the prestigious Cebu Normal University) who looked nothing like the plain, unattractive, boring and virginal young lady Rock is hinting at. My wife is from Colombia, another emerging country and I am prepared to bet both my kidneys that is exactly the same story as in the Philippines: there may well be a score of poor girls whose only objective in life is find the financial security needed to support themselves and their family. When somebody doesn't have the resources to eat 3 meals a day, a good degree or the privilege of sipping cocktails in a trendy Makati bar loses much of its importance.

It is a fact, though, that few of those young ladies who have a chance to promote themselves to a higher socio-economic-cultural status, will give it up and continue to bum around at home, watch crappy local TV and wait for the Western old man for their deliverance. Perhaps it's too early to say, but I think our new member Ginger may fit this bill, and has all my respect for that. Another "close encounter example": Maria our cleaning lady, 5 kids and 3 jobs here in London, didn't miss the chance to send the two elder daughters to De La Salle in Manila. They come from a poor background and heaven knows how hard it has been for her to work 6 or 7 days a week for 15 years in order to give her kids the kind of quality education that would make her not just financially, but culturally more independent and complete. Even my wife Monica is a shiny example of that, coming from a poor (in fact impoverished, after her granddad lost his fortune on a case of fraud) family who luckily never lost the beacon of what is really important in life. She worked very, very hard to obtain scholarships and loans all the way to her Masters degree. She is indeed good looking and that's a big plus for me (and my testosterone :) ), but believe me if I say I would have still actively sought her companionship and friendship even if no attraction had developed on my side.

So, moral of the story. Instead of talking poor girls vs. middle class girls, I would rather shift the focus to the idea of lower-middle class (or poor) girl with enough soul and brains to desire that level of intellectual involvement and independence which can only come from a strong personality, self-esteem, a well-meant sense of pride and probably a good family upbringing. Those girls would probably be too smart to fall in the "white Westerner = whoremonger" or the "white Westerner = saviour in shining armour" mental traps. Like Dave, I personally found one Pinay like that in Zhuhai and still cherish her as a friend, even though we haven't spoken for a good while now. If two plus two is four, I believe such girls can indeed be found in the Phils, just like they are not so hard to find in Colombia and other emerging countries I am slightly more familiar with.
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Re: ANSWER

Postby Rock » Sun Nov 11, 2012 11:49 pm

djfourmoney wrote:
davewe wrote:
Rock wrote:
Davewe, Taco, Lad, and others, please take note. She just admitted to the elephant in the room which most Pinoys and Pinays are too polite or too 'asian' to talk about in front of you. Take a good hard objective look at that Pinay on your arm under harsh daytime sunlight and without the benefit of beer goggles.


Another classy remark, Rock. You're really on a roll. What you failed to mention here is that we were in PI at the same time a few weeks back and you texted me frequently about your search for the mythical 5'10" white Pinay with a big a**. When I had the audacity to wish you good luck and suggest that such girls barely exist in PI, you pulled the same "work hard to find a needle in a haystack" bullshit.

One of the tactics people who are unsuccessful in life (or at least a particular aspect of life) use is setting the bar to a place that success is unlikely. For example the unemployed man who says "I won't take any job that doesn't pay me 100k" which allows him to not confront the fact that he cannot get a decent job. On HA there are many men who go womanless in life but proclaim that they won't accept a girl who isn't rated to their requirement. Then to feel better such people attack the guy who has a job (albeit one that doesn't pay 100k) or the guy who has a girl (because the girl isn't a 10). It's a childish strategy and one associated with losers.

Such losers cannot stand anyone who has a happy life or some level of success. So the unemployed guy rails on the dirty pig of a capitalist who has a corporate job. And some posters on HA (like our fearless leader) whine about the impossibility of finding a girl who meets their requirements and attack those who are capable of doing it, saying the girl can't really be good enough.

Rock - I suppose if you had ever met me or the girls I have been with your critique might be a little bit fair. You could say "I've met Dave and his gf, and she's not to my taste" or whatever. But you have not met me or the women. As to the desperate women I have had relationships with in Phils all 3 were college educated, 1 was in law school in Manila, only 1 was truly poor, 1 was actually quite middle class. All three were young and attractive (at least by my standards, which are the only standards I care about), 1 was actually tall with the Chinese blood you lust for.

Bottom line is this: while I am being loved by a fine girl who wants nothing more than to be with me and see me happy, you are seeking your mythical girl who you cannot obtain. While I am receiving another BJ, you are hanging out in Manila and talking to one of the few Pinays who buys into your nonsense. I can't speak for Taco, Lad or any others you've called out, but I ain't trading places with you.

As to the posters/readers on HA, I get nothing from whether you believe me or not. I know there are great women to be had in Phils. Whether you come to Phils and experience it or not does not benefit me one bit; I'm a software engineer, not a travel agent. But ask yourself this - does your staying away benefit the losers? I believe it does. If 50 guys from this site visit Phils and most meet nice gfs, or meet potential wives, or just meet cute girls to have sex with, it completely repudiates the losers. Think about how desperately Winston wants you all the believe that the Philippines and now Taiwan sucks. That's not to give you valuable information - it's to validate his failures.

So don't listen to me. I got no problem with that. But do listen to guys like Outwest, a guy who has lived in Phils for many years and has a pretty young wife, or Pete who has married the girl of his dreams. There are many many similar stories you can hear if you're smart enough not to listen to the losers or whoremongers.


I totally agree with you Dave, bravo...

You only listen to those who have failed to learn from their mistakes.


Which mistakes? Did I marry an Ameriskank one or more times and get taken to the cleaners? Did I waste any of my adult life slaving in the States while getting abused by the women and the system? You forget that I have spent my whole adult life so far "Happier Abroad". Davewe is just getting warmed up with micro trips to PI every few months or so and already he's preaching about it.

Perhaps I have never dated or been intimate with my "mythical 10". Cus 10s don't exist in the real world. You may see someone who you think is one. But if you look at her long and hard enough, she will become more like a 9. Perfection does not exist in this world. But guess what. I've had a hell of a time dating and being intimate with girls who mostly range from 5-8 in my own book. I've had many long term relationships, some which involved living together. And I've not had children by conscious choice so you can say I've had all the potential benefits of marriage without the downsides. Marriage doesn't usually seem to make much sense unless perhaps you wanna start a family. So again, where is my mistake?

This lifestyle was by design, living exactly where and how I chose. At times, I was in monogamous arrangements and at other times, I was poly-amorous as Lad calls it. It depended on me and how I felt. The only period I've lived under forced celibacy and datelessness was during most of the time I grew-up in the States. So perhaps my 'mistake' was not being born and raised in the Ukraine or Russia. But I had no control over that so again, its not really a mistake.

So if I'm one of the losers Davewe is talking about, then what's the point of this movement - to pursue being a loser??? After all, I've pretty much lived at least one version of the HA lifestyle to a tee.
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Re: ANSWER

Postby Rock » Mon Nov 12, 2012 12:18 am

djfourmoney wrote:
Wouldn't it make sense to go where tall Asian women exist if that's what you want?

South Korea, China and Japan all field moderately successful Olympic Women's Volleyball Teams and Basketball Teams. PI, not so much.

As long as you aren't in your mid to late 40's and chasing women around half your age you shouldn't have much difficulty.


How do u know all this? Have you ever been in my shoes or even traveled once to any of those countries? Every person's experience is different. And the HA situation in countries often changes over time too. I've never gotten anywhere with Japanese girls. But I have tried and been rejected quite a few times by them. Maybe you as a decent looking black guy would fare a lot better in Japan or perhaps even S. Korea.

I've dated 3 Korean girls and even lived with one for a short time. But that was when I was young. S. Korean girls were picky then, have gotten pickier, and most are generally not into foreigners. More importantly, why bother with Japan or S. Korea when i can find same physical types in Taiwan or even China where I have the language edge? But after 20s, those markets get a lot tougher so your rejection rate goes way up. Plus, the types I go for in China have gotten a lot pickier with the flood of newly rich local guys and a lot of Taiwan girls seem to have changed somewhat too post Facebook age.

Also, I'm not looking for giants. Just girls who are reasonably tall or at least not too short, preferably with some good curves. Phils is certainly worth exploring in spite of all the drawbacks and pitfalls discussed here before. And I've already met a lot of interesting people there and had a some great times. Anyone remember Pinay Teacher? She's another example of a Pinay forum member I met from a modest middle class background who was very well spoken in English. There are actually a significant percentage of these types to be found, predominantly in Metro Man, many of whom never attended the 3 elite schools which Mr. S brought up in another post.
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Re: ANSWER

Postby OutWest » Mon Nov 12, 2012 4:23 am

Ginger wrote:
OutWest wrote:
Rock wrote:However, I still do believe there are cherry picking opps in the PI for certain foreigners who are willing to put in hard work and have the patience to not behave so desperately. Some of the more attractive local girls (at least in the local PI context which prolly means someone who might rate a 4-6 in Ukraine or perhaps a 5-7 in China) would still be open to dating a white foreigner in spite of the stigma given some of the advantages you bring to the table - favorable genes, often higher than PI middle class income and wealth, usually taller than the average Pinoy, and perhaps the belief that once you marry, you tend to be more faithful than most local guys.

Now there are some guys on this forum who claim to have found their dream girl in the Philippines (unfortunately our figurehead leader is not one of them, lol) and I applaud their success. I don't think they are part of the group I am referring to above so please don't take offense. After all, even some of these guys have said they can't stand most of the white expats they see in PI.



So I was a cherry picker huh? LOL Most of the white expats I see here are pretty low grade, whore-mongers and other forms of low life ...and I would say a pinay has to be pretty desperate to put up with them...

We do have one couple we know that we had over last week and they are on the surface quite ordinary. His wife is petite and fit, but rather plain and now wears braces. However, when I first talked with her it was quickly obvious what a gem she is...a truly gentle and noble soul who really understands what devotion is, and is able to understand about any topic under discussion...and a smile that would melt even hardened hearts. However you critics might rank her, she is a gem and her husband is very happy with her, for good reason.

How many of YOU ALL are doing as well as that? Not many I suspect.

Outwest



hey finding a wifey isn't the same as finding a female of the same specie (or another lol) to bed for a night...joking aside, yeah majority of the pinays (not all) you see with equally desperate foreigners (not applicable to all) are simply desperate. With that said, hey don't be too quick to label the girl you saw as plain, for all we know she could be the most beautiful woman the guy has ever laid eyes on (beauty is subjective, exceptions are the universally ugly).

I do believe that she is a gem as you say, if she is as devoted and as gentle to her husband and can hold decent convo, then I'm all for ranking her as a divine being...and her hubby is equally a gem as she is for seeing that in her :)



The girl I am talking about is just as you say, I might have said "Most might consider her plain looking" ...her husband Scott sees her for exactly what she is- a genuine catch and a woman with a heart of gold. "Devoted and gentle to her husband..." I like that phrase...
most women really underestimate how powerful that trait is...

My wife rates very high in that department...devoted without doubt...gentle...oops, not always, when she is the tigress in heat mode LOL...then she is the maniac...

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Postby ladislav » Mon Nov 12, 2012 4:51 am

Mr S wrote:Negros Occidental/Oriental area's have a little bit of everything and most annoying typecast tourists don't go there that often, mainly just regular expats and guys in the know. You can start off at Bacolod/Dumaguete and go from there. I find Visayan Filipinos to be more fun to hang out with and they have the best nightlife overall. Luzon and Mindanao Filipinos seem to be more anal retentive about things, um I mean more reserved...yeah, that's the ticket...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negros_Occidental
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negros_Oriental
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dumaguete
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bacolod_City


I dunno. Just about every Ilonggo I met was sullen, silent, arrogant and talked non stop shYt about foreigners and about Americans.
Visayans are often friendly but they cal swing the other way and become rude and disrespectful. Tagalogs and other Northerners are colder and more distant but they also have civility and respect. You would not see a Tagalog in the back of a truck sticking fingers at you, jumping up and down, guffawing and barking- Americano, Americano! Visayans can do that.
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Postby Jackal » Mon Nov 12, 2012 6:47 am

There might be better places, but if so, the guys there certainly won't tell about them. I think the key is to be adventurous and to go and find these hot spots for oneself.
Knowing a foreign language is almost certainly necessary for this. I don't think that guys who are too lazy to even learn Spanish are going to discover any new international dating hot spots! lol
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Re: ANSWER

Postby Ginger » Mon Nov 12, 2012 8:24 am

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Postby lavezzi » Mon Nov 12, 2012 9:00 am

a filipina messaged me on DIA saying shes in dublin and looking for a friend or lover to give her a tour around. she also gave her mobile number. this is strange. i could understand this if it was a poor filipina in the phillipines but why would one whos able to travel and stay in one of the most expensive cities in the world be so direct? i have certain personal principles and truth seeking obligations namely living in complete unattatchment, so i will not be persuing this opportunity to know the truth of the subject of this thread as id rather know the truth about the nature of reality. oh well, i assume she left the same message on several other profiles of guys from here so at least for some other desperate 'mangina' out there christmas will have come early this year :D
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Postby Ginger » Mon Nov 12, 2012 9:21 am

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Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 12, 2012 10:09 am

publicduende wrote:
Ghost wrote:Feminism is much more than just "amazonian freak show." It's a female's rejection of her femininity from the inside out. It manifest physically, but it isn't primarily about how she looks. And I do think all women have inner-feminist, and it is up to a healthy, rational, patriarchal society to channel it into something good. Hypergamy for instance, is a natural female instinct, and part of a woman's inner-feminism, but it can be channeled.

The problem is, in feminist societies, like the U.S., women become amazonian freak shows because that inner-feminist is told to burst out and parade around, denigrate men, and be an unrestrained beast.

And yes, I see the passive aggressive, deceptive personalities to be awful too. In my mind, there is easily a balance between deceitful and brash. But good luck to any man seeking it in a woman, I guess.


What you mean by "inner feminist" is simply a woman's legitimate need to express herself: her talents and skills, her opinions, her desires. I continue to be baffled why some of you mistake something that is inherently good and natural with a fringe movement for "social liberation" that, hower influential in specific contexts, never really had such a big footprint in history. Hyperhamy and polygamy are concepts more akin to anthtopological and sociological research than the discourse about modern men and women. A good man knows how to control his instinct and be faithful to only a handful of women in his life. Equally, a good woman knows it's pointless to aspire to somebody bigger and better than the man she currently has. And even then, there's always this "little" unknown in your life equation that keeps eluding you: love. Reducing human relationships to a matter of repressive patriarchal societies, dominant males and submissive females equates to blatantly ignore centuries of social battles and progress.


Feminism is hardly a woman's need to express herself. Feminism is a modern name for a much older phenomenon; it is nothing new, and includes the glorification of the worst of female nature: hypergamy, greed, narcissism, parasitism, and so on. Women do know to "aspire" to a better man than she has. Modern society glorifies it and it helps along so much misery. Our history comes with us and cannot simply be dismissed to textbooks on anthropology and sociology. The human condition can be monstrous when set loose unto chaos, or can be channeled into a beautiful thing. Modern societies ignore human nature at their own peril.

Take your rottenness and go sell it where they'll buy your bullshit.
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Postby Ghost » Mon Nov 12, 2012 10:18 am

Ginger wrote:
ladislav wrote:Laying bad girls is easy in the Philippines, laying good girls is hard.

The majority of Filipinas ( over 50%) are virgins before they get married. I have read estimates in newspapers that it was actually 85% at least 10 years ago. Things are different in Manila and Cebu but the level of virginity is still very high. Also, virginity before marriage is the norm in most developing countries for the majority of the unmarried young female population. I am not saying all- I am saying the majority.

Most girls in colleges and offices will not just put out unless there is a serious relationship looming that leads to marriage. Most Filipino guys do not want a non virgin and most fathers do not want her daughter to hanky-panky because it ruins the family reputation.

Now, there are always exceptions to the rule but exceptions do not a rule make. I personally met good girls who had lost their virginity and most were f--ked up in the head and very emotionally affected by it.

In smaller towns most girls live with parents and have a curfew. It does not mean you cannot date them - it just means that she will have a chaperone. Again, it is like that in the majority of cases.

Now, if getting laid means just getting a female for sex, there are many that you can get but they will not be cream of the crop. These are the girls that I see most Westerners with- either hookers from bars or single moms over 27. And these are available in most big cities.


We did a sociology study about virginity before marriage (1000 respondents, 20 rural and remote locales, 50 respondents per locale). Less than 30% are virgins before they are with the guy they are currently married to or living with.

I've had patients who said they were virgins and lo and behold, I found out they are pregnant. Miracles are quite common here it seems, as immaculate conceptions are taking the medical field by storm :P

Maybe they give answers on what society expects them to be, but hey that 50% estimate is seriously wrong.

In some cases, a province girl may have gotten too comfortable with a boy in as early as 12-13 then just pretend it didn't happen to save face, family honor and all.

I love my country but I am a realist, I can get in trouble for saying this but so be it.


This is a good insight. And this is essentially why I now have no desire to ever get married or do the family thing. I doubt 30% is even accurate. Just hard for me to believe nowadays. Slut culture has really infected the entire planet. So I gave up on it.

Ah, well. Men might as focus on getting laid. At least that is a goal that can be accomplished. And the Philippines apparently has no defense against the encroaching cultural rottenness. So if it is easiest to get laid there, then so be it I suppose. As always, I appreciate insights from insiders.
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Postby lavezzi » Mon Nov 12, 2012 10:44 am

dont become disheartened ghost. i've been through a similar perspective and it can look a nightmare but there is much light to be found if you just remain true to yourself and what you beleive in. getting laid is the shallowest of pesurits and is only adamently sought by those who have given up on deeper meaning to life. like attracts like without exceptions, thats whats important to remember.
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Postby leavingusa » Mon Nov 12, 2012 11:43 am

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leavingusa wrote:First of all you are a p***y whipped PC little mangina, that's obvious to everyone here. You barely qualify as a man and yet you come here to argue against the basic premise of this forum and tell guys to believe you instead of their lying eyes.

He did not say he was focusing on the hottest girls, quit putting words into peoples mouth. He should not have to settle for a fat ugly girl and there are plenty of girls shorter than him, a 5 foot tall girl does not need a guy who is 6'2. They do it because they have daddy gov and make work jobs supporting them so they can afford to be picky. Most guys have very few options because of this.

Second, the ugly ones have shitty personalities because they get rode hard and put away wet every weekend by guys 3 and 4 notches above them. If a girl is a 5 she goes out with 8s because being an 8 here gets you a cup of coffee.

They don't want to settle for a guy on their level because in their minds that's what they think they deserve. Of course they end up as miserable cat ladies but in the meantime Joe average isn't getting squat.


Firstly, dear Leaving a**, the basic premise of this forum is in itself quite debatable, as his main proponent (Winston) is anything but happier abroad. Secondly, where have I told LY to go for fat and ugly girls? I was simply advising him not to focus on looks but on personality. You could have a perfectly feminine, nice girl who is also chubby (not necessarily fat as in "obese") and fine with it. See, even your few statements above keep confirming me how wrong this attitude is: always there giving yourselves and people around you numbers. A "5" who goes out with an "8", a male "8" who will be rejected by "6"'s. Perhaps you're too locked in your self-referential "go for the best" world to understand how childish and pathetic you sound to anyone who's not from the US of A. This forum might have a bias on US members, yet this doesn't mean you and your culture of appearance and material wealth is all there is in the world.

Let me tell you something, just to settle this debate for good. Any permutation of inner and outer beauty, any mix of good personality and good looks is permitted by nature. There is absolutely no point arguing that a fat girl will have a shitty personality because she will have been everybody's slut: it might be right in a few cases, and completely off the mark for all others. If you actually had a life outside this forum, by now you would have probably met gorgeous girls with a good personality, ugly girls with an irresistible personality, stuck-up hotties and even stuck-up uglies. You wouldn't probably be much happier than you are now, but you would have at least a wider sample of women on which to base your narrative.


Knock off the mealy mouthing and back peddling..

All you do is give people a hard time over nothing and split hairs to promote your anti-male, cock blocking agenda.

Leaving your hair splitting bullshit aside, you told that guy he had to settle for a fat ugly troll because he's 5'6 and Asian. He was not going for the best, he wants a girl that doesn't make him sick, don't put words in people's mouths.

You also said because he's Asian he has to lower his expectations.

Maybe you can explain for the class why Asian men don't deserve attractive women? I want to hear it.
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Postby lavezzi » Mon Nov 12, 2012 7:38 pm

i decided to ring the filipina seeing as how it was just such a coincidence that she messaged me the day my korean gf went back home. turns out, she works and lives in my very area! im telling you all, you are going about things the wrong way. you cannot change the world outside yourself and find happiness. if you change inside by raising your consciousness, you will draw things into you. i had read that after the spiritual awakening experience, one always draws very specific experiences into their life to clear out all their old accumilated conditioning and desires. i was skepticle about this even after i met my first gf days after i had mine, but now its looking to me like there is some kind of law of attraction the world operates under.
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Postby ladislav » Mon Nov 12, 2012 8:41 pm

. Less than 30% are virgins before they are with the guy they are currently married to or living with.



Thanks for the info. I guess I was mislead by the newspapers. This is scary. You may have proper girls with chaperons dating you and then you will be paying for the chaperon's food and mother's food, but that girl had already given her cherry to a guy who did not do anything for her. And you will be suckered into a marriage with a 'virgin', pay for all the wedding expenses while there is a guy laughing away at you somewhere.

I had dated a girl who would not even hold my hand and who would bring her mother with her. Later, she told me that she had an improper relationship with her stepfather (!)Lol. And her mother did nothing as it went on. Un-freaking-believable. A mother and a daughter sharing a man.

Happens quite a lot there, actually. Not even with stepfathers but with real fathers. They always publish cases in newspapers and all. Some get executed, some get away with it.
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