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Postby Ghost » Thu Nov 08, 2012 7:59 am

And I doubt you'll correct your ways. You have opinions that are against anti-feminist men and want to hold on to them. And men here aren't going to buy it.
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Postby Ginger » Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:13 am

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Postby Taco » Thu Nov 08, 2012 10:18 am

Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


Speculations, generalizing, name-calling...tsk tsk tsk

How do you know what I can and cannot do? What if I tell you I'm living presently in Luzon but grew up at Visayas and Mindanao?

I underlined your grammatical errors btw.

And what makes you such an EXPERT on Philippine women?

Hmm

Please tell me more.

I bet I can out-cook your wife anytime, are you up for the challenge?

Why is the thread becoming like this? I used to think men are mostly logical.


Just remember, you won't be getting married anytime soon.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTy_JBx8DmE&feature=plcp
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Postby Ghost » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:00 am

Ginger wrote:
Ghost wrote:Everyone has the capacity for logic, and men excel with it. So technically, all of humanity is logical because the capacity and at least minor uses of it are present.

From my experience, a typical filipina is shy, concerned about a man she is interested in, i.e., asking me if I ate was common, shies away from anything aggressive, confrontational, or sensitive. Among other similar qualities.

Bitchiness is butting heads with men, arguing incessantly with them. Or in real life, that plus "cold" or standoffish behavior and negative body language towards men.


That is why I used the word MOST. I'm not employing the strict definition of what logical means either.

You are right, a typical pinay will be very passive when it comes to factual discussions, however do you know how passive-aggressive a typical pinay is? Example, instead of telling the guy it is over between her and him, she will just become less and less available and next thing you know, you are out of the picture and she has another dude. I call that cheating.

I do believe I am not pinay when it comes to being direct.

Well, yeah, if the guys bashing me are guys I am interested in, then I might let them win :P Fact is, I am not posting as a typical pinay, I am posting as a human being who happens to be located in the Philippines.

So you are saying I should keep my opinions to myself to be not bitchy? Arguing is not even negative as long as people do not take it personally, but most cannot handle the heat and resort to childish tactics (I am not immune to this).

Please read most my posts in this thread if you have time, I would like to request an analysis via PM if possible. I am only requesting this because you seem reasonable. Thanks. Edit: Screw this last paragraph here, see below:


Ghost wrote:And I doubt you'll correct your ways. You have opinions that are against anti-feminist men and want to hold on to them. And men here aren't going to buy it.



There goes the labels and assumptions again tsk tsk tsk...


I like directness, just not abrasiveness. I had a filipina do the "become less and less available and get another guy" to me. So I hate being indirect. It causes a lot of pain. See, the thing is, she was telling me she was having personal problems and that was why we couldn't talk. Then suddenly cut off all contact. I had another filipina I was developing a relationship with stop talking to me as much because she had problems. Finally she told me she was pregnant, but didn't want me to be mad, so she didn't tell me until I forced the issue.

All women have their inner feminist, and this is filipina-style feminism I guess. You should give yourself more credit posting from a pinay point of view. I appreciate those insights.
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Postby Ginger » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:21 am

Taco wrote:
Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


Speculations, generalizing, name-calling...tsk tsk tsk

How do you know what I can and cannot do? What if I tell you I'm living presently in Luzon but grew up at Visayas and Mindanao?

I underlined your grammatical errors btw.

And what makes you such an EXPERT on Philippine women?

Hmm

Please tell me more.

I bet I can out-cook your wife anytime, are you up for the challenge?

Why is the thread becoming like this? I used to think men are mostly logical.


Just remember, you won't be getting married anytime soon.

Luzon Women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTy_JBx8DmE&feature=plcp



Dude. Seriously. GET. A. GRIP.

Lets just agree to disagree okay.

There is NO WAY you can convince me most pinays you encounter wants to bed you or is flirting with you.

No way you can say you know how local women act compared to how well I know them (Heck, I am ONE of them).

No way I will allow you to say I am from Luzon based on whatever you are basing it on when you have no idea where I am from.

Seriously. What is wrong with you?

Ignore me from now on. Please. Just get a life, perhaps parade wherever in the Philippines you are right now and have yourself be drooled on by girls. You obviously need the validation.

What I cannot understand is I have seen post by some men here (and in other threads) contradicting other stuff you say, yet you choose to zoom in on me. Is my approval on what you believe in THAT important to you? WOW.

You do know how to make a woman feel special I must say. lol.
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Postby Rock » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:31 am

Taco wrote:
Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


Speculations, generalizing, name-calling...tsk tsk tsk

How do you know what I can and cannot do? What if I tell you I'm living presently in Luzon but grew up at Visayas and Mindanao?

I underlined your grammatical errors btw.

And what makes you such an EXPERT on Philippine women?

Hmm

Please tell me more.

I bet I can out-cook your wife anytime, are you up for the challenge?

Why is the thread becoming like this? I used to think men are mostly logical.


Just remember, you won't be getting married anytime soon.

Luzon Women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTy_JBx8DmE&feature=plcp


Taco, not all Pinays, whether from Luzon, Visayas, or Mindanao, are as desperate as the ones you generally see on the arms of white foreigners. A decent looking or better professional and middle class type will get pursued by attractive and often well-off local suitors and sometimes young professional expats too.

Did you ever think that those country girls you believe are going gaga over you in the markets may not have other attractive options for a reason? Take a hard look and see whether or not each one fits into the mold I painted in another post.

No offense meant towards those who have paired-up with Pinays they find attractive by their own standards. I'm just describing what I've observed during my own travels in the Phils. Mileage may vary.
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Postby Rock » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:45 am

Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


Speculations, generalizing, name-calling...tsk tsk tsk

How do you know what I can and cannot do? What if I tell you I'm living presently in Luzon but grew up at Visayas and Mindanao?

I underlined your grammatical errors btw.

And what makes you such an EXPERT on Philippine women?

Hmm

Please tell me more.

I bet I can out-cook your wife anytime, are you up for the challenge?

Why is the thread becoming like this? I used to think men are mostly logical.


Just remember, you won't be getting married anytime soon.

Luzon Women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTy_JBx8DmE&feature=plcp



Dude. Seriously. GET. A. GRIP.

Lets just agree to disagree okay.

There is NO WAY you can convince me most pinays you encounter wants to bed you or is flirting with you.

No way you can say you know how local women act compared to how well I know them (Heck, I am ONE of them).

No way I will allow you to say I am from Luzon based on whatever you are basing it on when you have no idea where I am from.

Seriously. What is wrong with you?

Ignore me from now on. Please. Just get a life, perhaps parade wherever in the Philippines you are right now and have yourself be drooled on by girls. You obviously need the validation.

What I cannot understand is I have seen post by some men here (and in other threads) contradicting other stuff you say, yet you choose to zoom in on me. Is my approval on what you believe in THAT important to you? WOW.

You do know how to make a woman feel special I must say. lol.


Keep in mind, this is a guy who chose to marry a Pinay who is a single mother nearing middle age even tho he is just of similar age if I remember right (correct me if I'm wrong here Taco). What's the point of searching for a mate in Phils if that's all you want? That can be achieved about anywhere, even in the States. And in some medium income countries, you can find that or even much better without all the inherent financial risks you get in a poor country like Phils.
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Postby Ginger » Thu Nov 08, 2012 11:54 am

Rock wrote:
Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Ginger wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


Speculations, generalizing, name-calling...tsk tsk tsk

How do you know what I can and cannot do? What if I tell you I'm living presently in Luzon but grew up at Visayas and Mindanao?

I underlined your grammatical errors btw.

And what makes you such an EXPERT on Philippine women?

Hmm

Please tell me more.

I bet I can out-cook your wife anytime, are you up for the challenge?

Why is the thread becoming like this? I used to think men are mostly logical.


Just remember, you won't be getting married anytime soon.

Luzon Women
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=RTy_JBx8DmE&feature=plcp



Dude. Seriously. GET. A. GRIP.

Lets just agree to disagree okay.

There is NO WAY you can convince me most pinays you encounter wants to bed you or is flirting with you.

No way you can say you know how local women act compared to how well I know them (Heck, I am ONE of them).

No way I will allow you to say I am from Luzon based on whatever you are basing it on when you have no idea where I am from.

Seriously. What is wrong with you?

Ignore me from now on. Please. Just get a life, perhaps parade wherever in the Philippines you are right now and have yourself be drooled on by girls. You obviously need the validation.

What I cannot understand is I have seen post by some men here (and in other threads) contradicting other stuff you say, yet you choose to zoom in on me. Is my approval on what you believe in THAT important to you? WOW.

You do know how to make a woman feel special I must say. lol.


Keep in mind, this is a guy who chose to marry a Pinay who is a single mother nearing middle age even tho he is just of similar age if I remember right (correct me if I'm wrong here Taco). What's the point of searching for a mate in Phils if that's all you want? That can be achieved about anywhere, even in the States. And in some medium income countries, you can find that or even much better without all the inherent financial risks you get in a poor country like Phils.


Maybe it's love

Maybe it's because even single-moms from where he is won't give him the validation and attention he needs.

Maybe it's destiny

Maybe they can meet each other's needs, whatever those needs may be

Oh the speculations

...but I would like to think they did find love and home with each other, that's why they chose to be together. Yey :)
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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 08, 2012 5:52 pm

Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


:lol: :lol: :lol: Ha, ha, ha in a "general" sense this is so true. I don't know why everyone's got to bash Taco's statements cause actually he is more aware of Filipinos as a foreigner then most on this forum are led to believe. I've been living in PI now for 8+ years, traveling to all the major cities and interacting with the various cultural PI groups from all the regions. I would have to say I also agree with his opinion about hooking up with Visayas or Mindanao women. Language has a lot to do with it. You'll notice that Tagalog is forced upon other parts of the Philippines and the locals from Visayas and Mindanao do not generally speak it unless they have to. Thus, their brain will be wired different then Luzon Tagalog speakers. This will account for variances in their overall demeanor. I personally have had the best luck with Visayas region girls and to a lesser extent ones originating from Mindanao. I've had the most conflicts with Luzon originating women. Essentially, the closer to a true Tagalog native the more of a pain in the ass they are cause they think they are superior to other Filipino nationals. Tribal cultural warfare is alive and well in the Philippines for sure. Luzon speakers also have worse English then their Visayas and Mindanao counterparts.

I don't know where Ginger is originally from but she sounds just like many of the "higher educated" Filipino women I work with who get bent out of shape when you start challenging them directly about various issues concerning Philippines from a Westerner point of view and experience. They supposedly know everything and you have to cow-tow to their educated brilliance cause they are a UP, Atenao or LaSalle graduate or professor. They act all nice and friendly to you but they are really just as bad or worse than Western women is some cases. Imagine having to come home to this everyday parading how brilliant she is and how stupid and inane your judgement is regarding your everyday experiences. That's why most Western guys would rather hook up with a regular girl or one from a hard life background then deal with this kind of sarcastic passive aggressiveness BS everyday. A majority of these higher end girls think their shit don't stink and that they should be held up on a pedestal above their own people and yourself. Yeah, they may appear more feminine and act like a real women but their minds and opinions are f***ed up for the most part. Remember, generally women hold the power in relationships within the Philippines once they rope a guy; they will attempt to cuckold Westerners as well. Many won't realize it until it's too late and they are engaged or married and realize there is no divorce in Philippines or they take them to their own country and the woman is smart enough to know how much she will get in a possible divorce. The educated ones are the really sneaky "snake in the grass" ones. You can have intellectual conversations with them and hang out occasionally but I would never get seriously involved with one. If you are an independent minded guy who is more A-male type, it's generally not a good fit. She will wear you down until you give up and submit, they don't back down.

Go with the simpleton minded girls who can be educated and trained up by you, yourself, that's your best bet for a happy long-term relationship in the Philippines. The educated girls here are generally just too high-maintenance and already brainwashed with various BS and they will eventually cuckold you into submission. When I say educated I mean the top 3 tiered universities, a poor girl who earned a nursing degree is not who I'm talking about. There may be exceptions to what I've stated but for the most part THROUGH MY EXPERIENCES I've discovered this to be true with higher educated Filipinas.

This is my opinion based on experience so don't get all bent out shape and wet yourself trying to defend all your "fellow Filipina sisters" who have now been desecrated by the ignorant Western foreigner who just wants to destroy all female Filipino credibility, righteousness and dignity. :lol:
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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 08, 2012 6:04 pm

BTW, yes it's an easy place to get laid. However, if you want sex outside of the missionary position you will have to go through a whole lot of Filipino women. Ones who would even consider the thought of having sex outside of just lying there passively are few and far between. The nasty bad girl in the bedroom hasn't really caught on yet. So if you are a really horny guy or you have sexual fetishes you may want to just stick to bar girls, at least you have a better chance at getting your sexual desires fulfilled with one of them then a regular girl. It's just most bargirls are f***ed in the head so you have to deal with that shit if you want to bang them more then a few times and create some kind of "friends with benefits" scenario. IMO, Thai girls are 100% better in bed than Filipino women and will do porn star type stuff. Ugh, Filipino women will speak English and some will look really good but they tend to be bores in the bedroom, that's why guys want to have multiple sexual partners while living here. Most guys will only stick to one girl when he finds the secret porn star or all he cares about is finding a good girl for a family so he doesn't care about the sex so much. It's hard to find both in this country. Basically you either get a whore or a good girl, difficult to find a good girl on the outside and bad one in the bedroom.
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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 08, 2012 6:10 pm



I bet those girls graduated from one of the 3 top uni's in PI. Their English is too good, probably from rich families or lived part time in the states.
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Postby Dragon » Thu Nov 08, 2012 7:37 pm

Mr S wrote:
Taco wrote:
Banano wrote:Ginger

You sound like feminized American woman


Thats not typical Filipina Winston described


Ginger's need to give her retarded opinion on every topic is very typical of Luzon women, their always ready for a fight and they can't cook. That's why I only recommend Filipina's from the Visayas or Mindanao.


:lol: :lol: :lol: Ha, ha, ha in a "general" sense this is so true. I don't know why everyone's got to bash Taco's statements cause actually he is more aware of Filipinos as a foreigner then most on this forum are led to believe. I've been living in PI now for 8+ years, traveling to all the major cities and interacting with the various cultural PI groups from all the regions. I would have to say I also agree with his opinion about hooking up with Visayas or Mindanao women. Language has a lot to do with it. You'll notice that Tagalog is forced upon other parts of the Philippines and the locals from Visayas and Mindanao do not generally speak it unless they have to. Thus, their brain will be wired different then Luzon Tagalog speakers. This will account for variances in their overall demeanor. I personally have had the best luck with Visayas region girls and to a lesser extent ones originating from Mindanao. I've had the most conflicts with Luzon originating women. Essentially, the closer to a true Tagalog native the more of a pain in the a** they are cause they think they are superior to other Filipino nationals. Tribal cultural warfare is alive and well in the Philippines for sure. Luzon speakers also have worse English then their Visayas and Mindanao counterparts.

I don't know where Ginger is originally from but she sounds just like many of the "higher educated" Filipino women I work with who get bent out of shape when you start challenging them directly about various issues concerning Philippines from a Westerner point of view and experience. They supposedly know everything and you have to cow-tow to their educated brilliance cause they are a UP, Atenao or LaSalle graduate or professor. They act all nice and friendly to you but they are really just as bad or worse than Western women is some cases. Imagine having to come home to this everyday parading how brilliant she is and how stupid and inane your judgement is regarding your everyday experiences. That's why most Western guys would rather hook up with a regular girl or one from a hard life background then deal with this kind of sarcastic passive aggressiveness BS everyday. A majority of these higher end girls think their shit don't stink and that they should be held up on a pedestal above their own people and yourself. Yeah, they may appear more feminine and act like a real women but their minds and opinions are f***ed up for the most part. Remember, generally women hold the power in relationships within the Philippines once they rope a guy; they will attempt to cuckold Westerners as well. Many won't realize it until it's too late and they are engaged or married and realize there is no divorce in Philippines or they take them to their own country and the woman is smart enough to know how much she will get in a possible divorce. The educated ones are the really sneaky "snake in the grass" ones. You can have intellectual conversations with them and hang out occasionally but I would never get seriously involved with one. If you are an independent minded guy who is more A-male type, it's generally not a good fit. She will wear you down until you give up and submit, they don't back down.

Go with the simpleton minded girls who can be educated and trained up by you, yourself, that's your best bet for a happy long-term relationship in the Philippines. The educated girls here are generally just too high-maintenance and already brainwashed with various BS and they will eventually cuckold you into submission. When I say educated I mean the top 3 tiered universities, a poor girl who earned a nursing degree is not who I'm talking about. There may be exceptions to what I've stated but for the most part THROUGH MY EXPERIENCES I've discovered this to be true with higher educated Filipinas.

This is my opinion based on experience so don't get all bent out shape and wet yourself trying to defend all your "fellow Filipina sisters" who have now been desecrated by the ignorant Western foreigner who just wants to destroy all female Filipino credibility, righteousness and dignity. :lol:



http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=TAryFIuRxmQ

By the way Mr. S, since you mentioned that you had the best experiences with women in the Visayas or Mindanao, which specific cities/areas do you recommend for the best combination of recreation (beaches, restaurants, etc) and women?
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Postby Mr S » Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:31 pm

Negros Occidental/Oriental area's have a little bit of everything and most annoying typecast tourists don't go there that often, mainly just regular expats and guys in the know. You can start off at Bacolod/Dumaguete and go from there. I find Visayan Filipinos to be more fun to hang out with and they have the best nightlife overall. Luzon and Mindanao Filipinos seem to be more anal retentive about things, um I mean more reserved...yeah, that's the ticket...

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negros_Occidental
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Negros_Oriental
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Dumaguete
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Bacolod_City
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Postby davewe » Thu Nov 08, 2012 8:42 pm

Rock wrote:Keep in mind, this is a guy who chose to marry a Pinay who is a single mother nearing middle age even tho he is just of similar age if I remember right (correct me if I'm wrong here Taco). What's the point of searching for a mate in Phils if that's all you want? That can be achieved about anywhere, even in the States. And in some medium income countries, you can find that or even much better without all the inherent financial risks you get in a poor country like Phils.


Not a classy response, Rock. Honestly, you can do better than this. If Taco has a woman he loves and is happy with, we should pat him on the back with congrats. It's more than most men have. Whether or not she meets someone else's standards is irrelevant.

Most mature men don't go abroad to look for a wife because they can't find a woman in their home country. Hell, I was married twice. They do it because they realize the difficulty of finding a good woman in their home country.
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