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Getting A Pretty Girl Abroad vs. in USA

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Postby terminator » Sun Dec 23, 2012 1:48 am

Reading this thread, I'm wondering what is the difference between American Women and Men? We both are trying to get the top 20% of the opposite gender. Just because we are complaining about AW doing this, doesn't mean we can also do it too and when we do it it's OK because it's been done to us. I think the answer is for both men and women to lower their standards. This happens anyway as we get older/uglier.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:01 am

Falcon wrote:Both of us had gotten very pretty Latina women abroad. Both on the inside and outside.

It's still quite dependent on the person though. It's hard to tell unless they actually go there and experience it for themselves.

By the way, it's even more important to find a NICE woman who is respectful, generous, and wise. This has primarily been my focus.


The first time I heard someone here mention the importance of a woman's inside.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Sun Dec 23, 2012 2:05 am

terminator wrote:Reading this thread, I'm wondering what is the difference between American Women and Men? We both are trying to get the top 20% of the opposite gender. Just because we are complaining about AW doing this, doesn't mean we can also do it too and when we do it it's OK because it's been done to us. I think the answer is for both men and women to lower their standards. This happens anyway as we get older/uglier.


Agree. It takes guts to admit a flaw.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby Andrewww » Sun Dec 23, 2012 5:07 am

terminator wrote:Reading this thread, I'm wondering what is the difference between American Women and Men? We both are trying to get the top 20% of the opposite gender. Just because we are complaining about AW doing this, doesn't mean we can also do it too and when we do it it's OK because it's been done to us. I think the answer is for both men and women to lower their standards. This happens anyway as we get older/uglier.


What's the difference ? What's the difference ? Really ?

Let me put it this way: a man in America wants a big house, a nice car, a good paying job, a hot wife and a couple of kids. A woman in America wants a big house, a nice car, no job, no kids, a rich guy whose finances she can control and a couple of douchebags she can use for sex. Even that might not be enough.

You might be able to lower your standards in places like Russia where even a 6 or 7 has a nice body at least. If you lower your standards in America you'll settle with a fat cow with an attitude.
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Postby Rock » Sun Dec 23, 2012 5:36 am

[quote="marklambo"]Believe it or not, there are actually many "hidden hotties" in America. Meaning that there are many girls who are obese or just chubby but if you look closely at their faces, they could potentially be very hot, like a solid 8-9+ IF they were slim. But because of the extra size, it really distorts the hidden beauty. Just like what others say is true about women looking hotter abroad and has a lot to do with how they take care of themselves. Excessive weight plays a role in how a person looks overall. Being that America has a huge obesity rate, it's obvious why the majority of women here are gross.[/quo

For me, USA has many somewhat overweight girls who I consider hot. Many guys I know will just summarily write off girls like that but for me, there's a huge different between a fat girl with nice curves and a great face vs. a poorly shaped one with a regular face. But as we know, most of these so called BBWs are extremely picky, even the least attractive ones.
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Postby Rock » Sun Dec 23, 2012 5:45 am

drealm wrote:If you accept that there's a bell curve in every country, then logic dictates beauty is scarce everywhere. Being born in one hemisphere or another doesn't naturally result in a higher percentage of genetically attractive women. Women may dress more feminine or have a different diet, but on a fundamental level a woman cannot alter her facial structure or cup size just by happenstance of being born in another country. No person can do this. If this was the case people would migrate to hotspot countries to give birth to their children. So this is purely self delusion.

The difference if anything is just that you'll be able steal women from a country over her own countrymen because you have a higher income. But this isn't confronting the issue, this is just compensating. It's pretty ridiculous for most men to think here that if they're unattractive in America they'll be considered more attractive abroad. There's universal standards for beauty that don't budge.

As a test a while back I put two profiles on a Chinese dating site. One was of myself and one was of a male model. The male model got 10 to 1 interests vs my profile. This wasn't an American dating site, it was from women in the heartland of China. Many women I approached online wouldn't even respond to me. These same women went out of their way to approach this male model.

This may sound like a bitterness rant but it's not. Just like everyone else, I'm enjoy looking at more attractive women. Why should I be irritated with pickiness when I'm picky myself?

Young attractive women are an extremely valuable commodity everywhere in the world.


Focus on the margins. USA is a country with relatively more attractive guys and less attractive women plus an oversupply of single men vs. single women. Look for countries which are the opposite of this and where you're particular race and type are more appreciated. Then you might realize enough handicap to achieve the following:

- Attract and date women who rank 1-3 points out of 10 higher on the 10 point scale than u can in USA (assuming mid-low range middle to lower end of bell curve guys)

- Attract and date women who are 10-20 years younger than the ones u can in USA (assuming u r 30s or more)

- Attract and date a much higher quantity of women in a given time frame than u can in USA

This is what I believe is highly possibly for someone who strategically and methodically maximizes HA advantage to its fullest.
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Postby mguy » Mon Dec 31, 2012 2:44 am

I think it boils down to money.

Abroad it is your money that differentiates you. Your money translates to social rank which translates to a lifestyle. With this lifestyle you are in close proximity to attractive girls who are more open to you than in the USA.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:11 am

Andrewww wrote:
terminator wrote:Reading this thread, I'm wondering what is the difference between American Women and Men? We both are trying to get the top 20% of the opposite gender. Just because we are complaining about AW doing this, doesn't mean we can also do it too and when we do it it's OK because it's been done to us. I think the answer is for both men and women to lower their standards. This happens anyway as we get older/uglier.


What's the difference ? What's the difference ? Really ?

Let me put it this way: a man in America wants a big house, a nice car, a good paying job, a hot wife and a couple of kids. A woman in America wants a big house, a nice car, no job, no kids, a rich guy whose finances she can control and a couple of douchebags she can use for sex. Even that might not be enough.

You might be able to lower your standards in places like Russia where even a 6 or 7 has a nice body at least. If you lower your standards in America you'll settle with a fat cow with an attitude.


I want a small house, a motorbike (or maybe a van or something for child transport), and an average or above looking wife. It's the people who are important. House sizes have grown huge in the past few decades as families have grown smaller. Small families, each member in their own little bubble in far off corners of giant houses. It's really sad and isolating. I guess I'm not American enough, but I might have been half a century ago.
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Postby Rock » Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:16 am

mguy wrote:I think it boils down to money.

Abroad it is your money that differentiates you. Your money translates to social rank which translates to a lifestyle. With this lifestyle you are in close proximity to attractive girls who are more open to you than in the USA.


Perhaps in much of LatAm / Caribbean / CIS. But not so in countries where your pull is more due to exotic appeal or cultural preferences - ie black guys in Germany or white guys in Taiwan.
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Postby lone_yakuza » Mon Dec 31, 2012 3:28 am

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Postby mguy » Mon Dec 31, 2012 4:49 am

Rock,

Where is this place where Asian guys have a cultural appeal physically?

White guys can smash abroad because of their physical traits. Asian guys have an exotic appeal but will not turn heads. There was a chinese guy from china here during an event and the buzz was over him rather than 30+ foreigners (mostly anglo), and this due to the fact that china is super power and we have latinos learning mandarin.
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Postby mguy » Mon Dec 31, 2012 5:15 am

terminator wrote:Reading this thread, I'm wondering what is the difference between American Women and Men? We both are trying to get the top 20% of the opposite gender. Just because we are complaining about AW doing this, doesn't mean we can also do it too and when we do it it's OK because it's been done to us. I think the answer is for both men and women to lower their standards. This happens anyway as we get older/uglier.


The premise of happier abroad is to harness market conditions, specifically, internationally to gain leverage in procuring the goods in question.
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