Where are all the submissive / traditional women?

[publicduende]

Another thing that just occurred to me. These girls have parents. Where does the dad or the mum of a decent woman hang out and socialise? What jobs do they tend to have? Maybe if I knew, I could chat to them and try and get them to introduce me to their daughters.

I want their daughters now.

I see where you're coming from and I know you're in absolute good faith, but I think UK society is a bit too evolved for what you advocate (walk into a random household and ask the parents for their daughter's hand). Even if a girl were bound to obtaining their parents' permssions before accepting your proposal of engagement/marriage, she would still have to meet, get to know and, most importantly, get to choose you.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

The world would be a better place when men stop looking for vaginas and start looking for wives to love unconditionally. When men work hard to provide for a family, learn to unconditional love himself and a woman, when women start having higher standards, stop having sex with men who don't want to commit to them,KNOW THIER WORTH, and be humble and know how to LOVE THEMSELVES and a man then this world would be a better place.

[S_Parc]

I think in the near future there will be an increasing overlap of rejection to sensory overload. Happier Abroad is itself a manifestation of that.

On the contrary, HA exists do to an incomplete sensory experience. In other words, many ppl here are annoyed by constant audiovisual cues on American women (meeting, dating, and falling in love with them) but find that actually having an American women, is another story altogether. Thus, having 90% audiovisuals and 1-5% actual tactile interactive sensory experience is a partial experience, born out of the TV multimedia age, starting in the 1950s.

When I was a toddler, shows like below gave me an audiovisual cue on what that perfect American woman was ...



If some kid in let's say 2030, comes across a similar show, he'd be able to get his supercomputing X-Box to re-create the above experience, with him singing besides her instead of the Frog; and when the teenage hormones kick in, even have a sexual relationship, since it would be a full body suit. Chances are ... that kid will now never join HA or any other anti-AW website, since his sensory needs would be satisfied in the safety of his bedroom. HA will be like the dance halls in Shanghai, legendary for their time, but were all gone by the 1940s.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

I believe if American men would not tolerate anything less of being the best man they could be and not putting up with any negative qualities in women then women would straighten up soo fast. If all men would shame a loose woman instead of sleeping with them, American women wouldn't dare be whores. If American men would stop dating American women with no skills women would be desperate to learn to cook,clean and etc. Women see how whipped American men are over sex so women use it as power but when men put thier foot down and tell these loose women you are not worth much if all you have to offer is sex. Strip clubs would go out of business,porn would be history. All you would have is wholesome American girls and women. I believe it starts with men. Women see how men react and feed off it. Also if women start putting their foot down and saying I know I am worth more than how I can please you sexually and I will not have sex with any man until he commits to me then we would have a great North America. Men would straighten up and respect women and girls more and vice versa.

[S_Parc]

I believe it starts with men. Women see how men react and feed off it. Also if women start putting their foot down and saying I know I am worth more than how I can please you sexually and I will not have sex with any man until he commits to me then we would have a great North America. Men would straighten up and respect women and girls more and vice versa.

Yes, I've heard the same stuff from my sister, with histrionic personality disorder. And yes, she didn't sleep around in HS but has had a failed career and continually abuses her husband all the time.

So I woefully disagree. It starts with women and how she treats her family, immediate and extended. Then, men can normalize and start to become equal partners again.

If anything, the only thing my sister has proved is that she's worth nothing, to the world around her.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

But men are the leaders so it starts with men. Men lead..women follow.

[S_Parc]

But men are the leaders so it starts with men. Men lead..women follow.

Then you don't know my sister. In her world, women lead, men follow orders.

You're simply trying to use reverse psychology when it's clearly not the practice of the land.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

Why do you keep mentioning your sister? She is just one woman and I was only giving my view on how America would be better nothing wrong with that....

[S_Parc]

Why do you keep mentioning your sister? She is just one woman

That's right, my sister is the sole armchair Feminist in the world. Thus, the other 20-40 women, who hung around her, were impervious to her thought patterns.

Everyone else is a 'Little House on the Prairie' gal, who's waiting for a John Landon character to show up and provide her the road map to life. But instead, douchebags are her role models and once again, this is all American men's fault.

Why is it that I don't buy into that framework?

If anything, modern American women have either driven away the John Landons or have manipulated them into providing 50% their income in palimony/alimony. Women are not the innocent parties here.

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

I never said women are innocent and men were guilty. If you read all you would see I clearly stated women need to stop being loose and raise their standards and things would be better yet you only focused on the part I mentioned men.... It's a two way street. Both men and women need to do better. Pointing fingers solves nothing.

[S_Parc]

Both men and women need to do better. Pointing fingers solves nothing.

Since society has appointed women, as cultural leaders, then the role of leadership is in the hands of both genders. It's no longer the "Bonanza" style patriarchy (with Landon & Greene) but a society where women also need to say, 'yeah, as co-leaders, we can do better than this.'

[ILoveBlackAmericanWomen]

Yea

[Teal Lantern]

Serious answers please.

I'm talking about where they go, what they do, what jobs they're likely to have, where they congregate, what associations they're members of, etc etc.

I want to know where I can hang out.

Can't fault you for asking, though.

[Fallouts]

They don't make it out of college without a boyfriend, that's where.