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Postby Killhoffa » Sun Jan 06, 2013 5:00 pm

Winston wrote:The Secret and Law of Attraction has some truth in it, but it is taken too far by people and results in an UNFAIR victim-blaming mentality. See my article about it here:

http://www.debunkingskeptics.com/LawofAttraction.htm


As soon as I read the first couple of sentences in Maker55's post I went oh. He just discovered "THE SECRET", which I have a dvd copy of somewhere, but I believe if we actually feel it as oppose to thinking it, it has more of a natural affect, soooo. You don't have to talk about it, but you still carry it with you, its still in your mind, every time you cross those same patterns in peoples behavior you are sub-contentiously reminded of those feelings and those thoughts re-occur. I think its good to practice, but one has to work on feeling it with in, not playing mind games with themselves and sikeing themselves out all the time, pretty soon you'll become sick of yourself
A WOMAN'S THOUGHTS DO NOT DEFINE A MAN; NOR DO HER EXPECTATIONS DICTATE HIS LIMITATIONS!
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Postby ladislav » Sun Jan 06, 2013 6:31 pm

MLK and Malcolm X bravely accused the racist establishment of the US and the segregation and blamed them for their problems and they were right.

And they kept blaming and protesting until Civil Rights were passed. They were not blaming themselves.

Revolutionaries in Europe blamed cruel kings and rapacious selfish aristocracy for serfdom and exploitation. They kicked their ass. Well done!
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jan 07, 2013 2:02 am

Ppl, the so-called "The Secret", is a reincarnation of Vincent Peale's "The Power of Positive Thinking" or perhaps his peer, Earl Nightingale's, "The Strangest Secret".

It's all been said and done, however, perhaps the biggest thing here is the ---Art of Proactive Thinking---, where one is scrounging for better opportunities, with a positive frame of mind, vs sitting around and complaining about being handed a lump of coal. And that's pretty much what I got out of those aforementioned authors.

"The Secret" is not a new thing.
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Postby Dark_Sol » Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:30 am

I think the Law of Attraction works to an extent. Mostly with meeting people who are interesting. Some examples is a guy I know now who was part of the team who designed and help produced the F-14 Tomcat, one who ran for Congress, but lost(now he just travels around the world teaching about economics and business, goes to mostly Asia) One who knew the maker and owns part of Nike when they started to do shares. So much more guys, but women, no. It doesn't matter how much you reinvent or become out going. It doesn't matter to them. I have yet to meet a women(around my age) having friends like them.

I have burned bridges with guys who were around my age, cause I found that they were just keeping me down on purpose. They hated knowing that I was coming out on top on the "Social Ladder" with these old guys. Cause I viewed life and went by my own set of rules. In the end though, you can only keep up your positive attitude for so long when AW and douchebags are f***ing up your groove and sabotaging you. That's when you state you are leaving the country and your new friends ask why, you just say the truth and they understand. But the AW and douches try to shame you.

f**k em I say, they are jealous. The women are butthurt and can't stand the thought of me getting a younger, hotter and more sophisticated woman. Guys, do it, tell people around you. You will instantly know who is a true friend and those who are not. You will see the real personalities of AW when they find out.
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jan 07, 2013 4:10 am

Dark_Sol wrote: f**k em I say, they are jealous. The women are butthurt and can't stand the thought of me getting a younger, hotter and more sophisticated woman. Guys, do it, tell people around you. You will instantly know who is a true friend and those who are not. You will see the real personalities of AW when they find out.


Dark Sol, you are engaged in my take of Nightingale and Co ... the Art of Proactive Thinking.

Since AWs and Douchebags/dirtbags are basically a bunch of negative people, being around them only lowers your own level of achievement. Thus, flicking 'em the bird is actually a positive thing because you're not allowing negativity into your sphere.
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Postby Billy » Mon Jan 07, 2013 1:46 pm

i think positive thinking is a very difficult thing. i prefere positive psychology.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Mon Jan 07, 2013 6:02 pm

The_Hero_of_Men wrote:You have my gratitude, if not my respect ILBAW, for your respectful disagreement with my statement.


Thank you Hero.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Mon Jan 07, 2013 6:17 pm

Maker55 wrote:To ILoveBlackAmericanWomen, I'm officially giving you a virtual b***y slap.

That's right people.

To all of my african people on this website,

If we were ruled by other blacks it would be worse for us than it is right now with whites.

Remember how brutal the Africans were with us when they sold us to the Europeans???

The Africans became just as viscious and brutal to their OWN people as much as the Europeans were.

That makes sense, because I've actually had better white friends than black friends but I still love my people regardless.

And I still love my curvacious, big b***y black women!



Wow Maker lol. At first I read the b***y slap part wrong I thought you wrote something else I was about to say "Oh no he didn't" haha. But I agree Black people hate themselves (many not all). We need self love.. we need self pride without thinking we are better than any other race of course. Like you said many Black Americans experience racism within their own race more than any other race. I haven't experienced racism with any other race other than a few petty comments from a few White men like one said to his friend "That's a sexy n.i.g.g.e.r" one day and one called me a Black slut when he passed me by in a car. I just roll my eyes and don't let that get to me but racism of Black people makes me just shake my head with sadness. However nothing can make me hate my Blackness. It's all about loving the skin you're in.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby skateboardstephen » Mon Jan 07, 2013 10:12 pm

ILoveBlackAmericanWomen wrote:
Maker55 wrote:To ILoveBlackAmericanWomen, I'm officially giving you a virtual b***y slap.

That's right people.

To all of my african people on this website,

If we were ruled by other blacks it would be worse for us than it is right now with whites.

Remember how brutal the Africans were with us when they sold us to the Europeans???

The Africans became just as viscious and brutal to their OWN people as much as the Europeans were.

That makes sense, because I've actually had better white friends than black friends but I still love my people regardless.

And I still love my curvacious, big b***y black women!



Wow Maker lol. At first I read the b***y slap part wrong I thought you wrote something else I was about to say "Oh no he didn't" haha. But I agree Black people hate themselves (many not all). We need self love.. we need self pride without thinking we are better than any other race of course. Like you said many Black Americans experience racism within their own race more than any other race. I haven't experienced racism with any other race other than a few petty comments from a few White men like one said to his friend "That's a sexy n.i.g.g.e.r" one day and one called me a Black slut when he passed me by in a car. I just roll my eyes and don't let that get to me but racism of Black people makes me just shake my head with sadness. However nothing can make me hate my Blackness. It's all about loving the skin you're in.
you ever noticed how every one else has solidarity but us.But that seems to be ok. A Mexican could wave a Mexican flag all day in the air in the U.S. but that is just pride in being Mexican but as soon as blacks address this topic among blacks you get accused of being a radical "kill whitey" black panther to shut you up and deflect from addressing the issue.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Mon Jan 07, 2013 11:54 pm

I agree Skateboard. It's sad.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby Maker55 » Tue Jan 08, 2013 12:00 am

I feel a bond with ILBAW and skateboardstephen.
You're where you're at in life because of your thoughts.

What you think about the most is what you will eventually manifest in your life.
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Postby ILoveBlackAmericanWomen » Tue Jan 08, 2013 12:39 am

Maker55 wrote:I feel a bond with ILBAW and skateboardstephen.


Black love Maker..it's Black love haha.
To be white or black - is to not be a human, but a living definition and label. To be a slave to definition, to fashion, to the industries that market us like cattle, emptying our pockets like the udders of the cow, being paid to cut our bodies for cosmetics, benefiting off of putting harsh chemicals on our heads, making money off of us choosing to live and participate in the reality they created. Don't be "black", don't be "white", don''t be "Asian", don't be "Latin." Destroy the illusion, become human.
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Postby All_That_Is_Man » Thu Jan 10, 2013 2:49 pm

skateboardstephen wrote:
ILoveBlackAmericanWomen wrote:
Maker55 wrote:To ILoveBlackAmericanWomen, I'm officially giving you a virtual b***y slap.

That's right people.

To all of my african people on this website,

If we were ruled by other blacks it would be worse for us than it is right now with whites.

Remember how brutal the Africans were with us when they sold us to the Europeans???

The Africans became just as viscious and brutal to their OWN people as much as the Europeans were.

That makes sense, because I've actually had better white friends than black friends but I still love my people regardless.

And I still love my curvacious, big b***y black women!



Wow Maker lol. At first I read the b***y slap part wrong I thought you wrote something else I was about to say "Oh no he didn't" haha. But I agree Black people hate themselves (many not all). We need self love.. we need self pride without thinking we are better than any other race of course. Like you said many Black Americans experience racism within their own race more than any other race. I haven't experienced racism with any other race other than a few petty comments from a few White men like one said to his friend "That's a sexy n.i.g.g.e.r" one day and one called me a Black slut when he passed me by in a car. I just roll my eyes and don't let that get to me but racism of Black people makes me just shake my head with sadness. However nothing can make me hate my Blackness. It's all about loving the skin you're in.
you ever noticed how every one else has solidarity but us.But that seems to be ok. A Mexican could wave a Mexican flag all day in the air in the U.S. but that is just pride in being Mexican but as soon as blacks address this topic among blacks you get accused of being a radical "kill whitey" black panther to shut you up and deflect from addressing the issue.


So, according to your own logic, is your wife a self-hating racist? Since she didn't marry a Brazilian (Latin) man, and married you instead? Funny how when black men prefer non-black women you call us "white worshiping self-haters", but your own wife is a self-hater by your logic for marrying outside her race. Also, you never answered why you have sheer hatred for Latin women, yet you moved to Brazil to marry one. Or why you had to move to Brazil to marry someone who looks like an American black female. Your wife must be past her prime, and if she looks like today's American black female (by your own admittance), she certainly must've been desperate for ANY male.
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Postby skateboardstephen » Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:12 pm

All_That_Is_Man wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:
ILoveBlackAmericanWomen wrote:
Maker55 wrote:To ILoveBlackAmericanWomen, I'm officially giving you a virtual b***y slap.

That's right people.

To all of my african people on this website,

If we were ruled by other blacks it would be worse for us than it is right now with whites.

Remember how brutal the Africans were with us when they sold us to the Europeans???

The Africans became just as viscious and brutal to their OWN people as much as the Europeans were.

That makes sense, because I've actually had better white friends than black friends but I still love my people regardless.

And I still love my curvacious, big b***y black women!



Wow Maker lol. At first I read the b***y slap part wrong I thought you wrote something else I was about to say "Oh no he didn't" haha. But I agree Black people hate themselves (many not all). We need self love.. we need self pride without thinking we are better than any other race of course. Like you said many Black Americans experience racism within their own race more than any other race. I haven't experienced racism with any other race other than a few petty comments from a few White men like one said to his friend "That's a sexy n.i.g.g.e.r" one day and one called me a Black slut when he passed me by in a car. I just roll my eyes and don't let that get to me but racism of Black people makes me just shake my head with sadness. However nothing can make me hate my Blackness. It's all about loving the skin you're in.
you ever noticed how every one else has solidarity but us.But that seems to be ok. A Mexican could wave a Mexican flag all day in the air in the U.S. but that is just pride in being Mexican but as soon as blacks address this topic among blacks you get accused of being a radical "kill whitey" black panther to shut you up and deflect from addressing the issue.


So, according to your own logic, is your wife a self-hating racist? Since she didn't marry a Brazilian (Latin) man, and married you instead? Funny how when black men prefer non-black women you call us "white worshiping self-haters", but your own wife is a self-hater by your logic for marrying outside her race. Also, you never answered why you have sheer hatred for Latin women, yet you moved to Brazil to marry one. Or why you had to move to Brazil to marry someone who looks like an American black female. Your wife must be past her prime, and if she looks like today's American black female (by your own admittance), she certainly must've been desperate for ANY male.
i was not talking you faggot. i was not talking to you. and she is not non-black for the 50th time and i NEVER SAID THERE WAS ANY THING WRONG WITH DATING OUT YOUR RACE! for the 100th time i just said it is stupid to exclude a whole race of women especially a race of women like black women who come in all shapes sizes and skin tones. I was saying it is dumb and not logical to say that a since black american women are this way.... then all black women the world over are the same way. I never said that any black man who dates or even prefer to date non black women are self haters it is just when you talk shit about a whole race of women like your at a KKK meeting that is what makes you a self hater.For the 100th time when i talk about how many non black women are in reality in the U.S. i am talking from experience i have dated all races of women ALL RACES I JUST DON'T EXCLUDE ANY OF THEM AND TALK SHIT ABOUT THEM ESPECIALLY A RACE A PEOPLE WHO LOOK LIKE MY SELF THAT IS THE DIFFERENCE. And stop putting words in my mouth faggot be for i come up there and kill your faggot ass.


NO ONE SAID THAT IT WAS A BAD THING FOR YOU TO GO TO MEXICO WE JUST SAID WE WOULD NOT CHOOSE THAT PLACE FOR OUR SELVES AND WE SAID WHY THAT IS IT. WE NEVER SAID THAT IT WAS A DOWNGRADE FOR YOU OR ANYTHING LIKE THAT. YOU JUST WANT TO START SHIT. AND IF I WAS IN MEXICO RIGHT NOW I WOULD HURT THE f***ing SHIT OUT OF YOUR f***ing ASS p***y. I ABOUT HAVE HALF A MINE TO SEND A MEXICAN HIT MAN 40 BUCKS TO FIND YOUR PUNK ASSS AND BLOW YOUR HEAD THE f**k OFF p***y ASS BITCH.
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Postby skateboardstephen » Thu Jan 10, 2013 6:23 pm

All_That_Is_Man wrote:
skateboardstephen wrote:
ILoveBlackAmericanWomen wrote:
Maker55 wrote:To ILoveBlackAmericanWomen, I'm officially giving you a virtual b***y slap.

That's right people.

To all of my african people on this website,

If we were ruled by other blacks it would be worse for us than it is right now with whites.

Remember how brutal the Africans were with us when they sold us to the Europeans???

The Africans became just as viscious and brutal to their OWN people as much as the Europeans were.

That makes sense, because I've actually had better white friends than black friends but I still love my people regardless.

And I still love my curvacious, big b***y black women!



Wow Maker lol. At first I read the b***y slap part wrong I thought you wrote something else I was about to say "Oh no he didn't" haha. But I agree Black people hate themselves (many not all). We need self love.. we need self pride without thinking we are better than any other race of course. Like you said many Black Americans experience racism within their own race more than any other race. I haven't experienced racism with any other race other than a few petty comments from a few White men like one said to his friend "That's a sexy n.i.g.g.e.r" one day and one called me a Black slut when he passed me by in a car. I just roll my eyes and don't let that get to me but racism of Black people makes me just shake my head with sadness. However nothing can make me hate my Blackness. It's all about loving the skin you're in.
you ever noticed how every one else has solidarity but us.But that seems to be ok. A Mexican could wave a Mexican flag all day in the air in the U.S. but that is just pride in being Mexican but as soon as blacks address this topic among blacks you get accused of being a radical "kill whitey" black panther to shut you up and deflect from addressing the issue.


So, according to your own logic, is your wife a self-hating racist? Since she didn't marry a Brazilian (Latin) man, and married you instead? Funny how when black men prefer non-black women you call us "white worshiping self-haters", but your own wife is a self-hater by your logic for marrying outside her race. Also, you never answered why you have sheer hatred for Latin women, yet you moved to Brazil to marry one. Or why you had to move to Brazil to marry someone who looks like an American black female. Your wife must be past her prime, and if she looks like today's American black female (by your own admittance), she certainly must've been desperate for ANY male.

NO ONE WAS EVEN TRYING TO INSULT YOUR PUNK ASS. WE JUST SAID WE WOULD NOT HAVE CHOSEN MEXICO THAT IS f***ing IT AND THAT IS ALL IT EVER WAS.WHY THE f**k YOU CAN'T UNDERSTAND THIS IS BEYOND ME. IF YOU ARE NOT GOING TO AT LEAST BE A MAN ABOUT IT AND TALK TO ME FACE TO FACE THEN SHUT THE f**k UP. AND YOU NEED TO STUDY HISTORY YOU REALLY DO. BRAZILIAN FIRST OF ALL IS NOT A RACE IT IS A NATIONALITY . LATIN IS NOT A RACE. SO YOU ARE JUST SOUNDING DUMBER AND DUMBER. THERE ARE WHITES ,BLACKS, MIXED RACE AND ASIANS WHERE I AM. I SHOULD NOT EVEN BE EXPLAINING THIS SHIT. I WHITE PERSON FROM NORTH AMERICA DATING A GERMAN FROM BRASIL IS STILL DATING IN THEIR RACE IS IT NOT? WHAT THE f**k ARE YOU TRYING TO PROVE. ARE WE GOING TO KEEP f***ing UP THIS MANS THREAD WITH A BUNCH OF BULL SHIT OR WE CAN TAKE THIS SOMEWHERE ELSE. I'D PREFER TO BE ON THE NEXT THING SMOKING UP THERE TO BEAT THE BLACK OFF YOU ASS WHICH YOU WOULDN'T MIND ANY WAY. WANNA BE
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