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Am curious as to what is the common view regarding asian women characteristics and how it compares to my views as a man who was brought up in an asian environment and values despite growing up in the US.
1. Feel free to post your expectations, concepts of asian female characteristic and why do you think the western world views them as pump and dump types generally.
2. Is there no respect for asian women that men only view them as recreational GFs and sex objects?
This concerns me as I might marry in asia and that means my daughters will look asian.
3. Will they be seen as pump and dump toys by western men when they grow up?
4. Or will they be seen as feminists and westernized if they exhibit any signs of self respect and/or intelligence?
Asian American women = hates her own race, bitchy, materialistic, status seeking, and domineering.
Asian women (in Asia) = depends, usually good, loyal, and kind, but that is changing due to Westernization. In the most modern parts of Asia like S. Korea, Japan, Singapore, the women are getting worse unfortunately.
Racially Asian women raised in the west have the opposite reputation then the one you have posted. This just happens to be a site which allows P4P members in it. The assumption you make comes from men who would rather pay an ante to the airlines for cheaper prostitutes then to pay higher prices at home. The general population do not see Asian women as pump them and dump then. However the general pop thinks the men are being lead by their little head and women from other nations are green card prostitutes. Because of their race and the relative few African women brought over for other then African men Asian women just stand out in their new society more then Latinas and European women.
Racially Asian raised in the west
edit strange software automatically changes "prosti" to "hoe"
Typical "in crowd" Taiwanese American college students at Cal Poly Pomona, CA:
CSA (Chinese Student Association) at University of Washington:
CSA + JSA (Japanese Student Association) + TSOA (Taiwanese Student Oversea Association), University of Washington, joint party:
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Back in the 90's we had joint CSU Student parties, looks like they're still doing it. Basically if you were at the right place/time and joined the right cliques, you'd have had a lot of fun and your cell phone's address book might be maxed out (back when we used nokia phones) from all the people that you meet. Those who are left out and feeling sour grape-ish would look at other people having fun and make negative comments like "...have you ever noticed (insert lame negative sour grape comment/opinion)".
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The Asian American club at my college campus were too busy with studying to ever hold a party or event.
It looks like UW may be more fun. Though like most things in life, these things are overhyped and overrated.
Plus, you might not like to hear this Momopi, but lower IQ people tend to fit in large groups better than higher IQ people. Lower IQ people also have more fun at nightclubs than higher IQ people too. Did you know what? Why do you think that is?
I don't need a research study to prove this. It's common sense, just like the thread about "poor people being more kind and compassionate" is common sense too, even though UC Berkeley did a study on it.
Here's an idea: How about we all go to the local university campus, pretend that we are students, and join the meetings of these Asian student unions, in order to meet Asian girls? Would that work? lol
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Your number 4 seems to be the case with many posters on this board. I would say the majority of Americans have a stereotyped view of Asian women- either as scheming green card sharks or simpleton lap-dogs. This provides justification for their fears and bigotry.
My wife is cooperative and tranquil around the house and I have no complaints. She is also independent and opinionated, well educated and insightful.
She is also fierce in a way. I would not want to be a home invader if she was inside the home with a bolo. She is quite good with knives or a bolo, and would cleave a head like a coconut.
I have a Eurasian daughter from my first marriage. The man who treats her as pump and dump will have signed his own death warrant.
Of course, my daughter is familiar with certain realities, and that contributes to a sort of bow-wave of protective energy around her.
Why worry about these things? If you live in Asia, enjoy your life. If you find a woman worth having as the love of your life, make the most of it
and take things as they come.
Thankee outwest for an honest reply. Most western men don't want to accept the fact that asian women are not pump and dump stupid slut types that they want to think.
It was a rude awakening for me when me moved to asia but after a while me come to respect the culture and how women are feminine in here but with honor and backbone
You're right man, me gonna find a eurasian/asian bride with asian upbringing and live a good life maybe in the Philippines or Taiwan and produce beautiful respectable daughters who will only give themselves to men who deserve them. Salut to family!
Right on...the man who stands for honor and family and has a wife and children that are loved and cared for will always have my respect and consideration.
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I would not want a wife who is as dumb as a box of rocks. However, if it were a choice between a dumb-as-a-box-of-rocks woman who loved me, respected me, and treated me like the man that I am and a smart woman who tried to emasculate me, I would go for the dumb woman.
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My wife totally understands respect and care...she also just completed a civil engineering degree this last year....