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Postby pete98146 » Fri Jan 04, 2013 5:53 pm

E_Irizarry wrote:
pete98146 wrote:I'm kinda giggling to myself. Trying to recall how many filipinas I blocked when I was actively looking for women on Cherry Blossoms.

Hey, man. How many Filipinas did you block when you were on there and why?


I think it's fair to say that when I first joined CB I didn't have much of a plan so I started talking to random women. Once they get your Yahoo Messenger address they are relentless and filipinas enjoy talking lol. It became overwhelming so many of the less desirable girls were eventually blocked. Didn't do thjis to be mean to them, it just allowed me to focus on the type of girl that I really wanted which is probably similar to what most west women are doing to western guys.
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Re: This is why guys can't get a date online

Postby Teal Lantern » Fri Jan 04, 2013 5:54 pm

OzGuy wrote:That's right fellas, many women block you for simply saying hello. No wonder so many of them never reply! It seems the first thing women do on dating sites is locate the block button so they can use it extensively.


Meh, so what? A shallow woman hitting the block button has saved you money, time, aggravation, and quite possibly some sort of infection.
Why be angry?

www.dailymail.co.uk/femail/article-2227 ... e-age.html

I was part of the Sex And The City generation — successful, feisty women who made their own money, answered to no one and lived life to the full.

When it came to men, our attitude to them was the same as it was towards the latest must-have handbag: only the best would do, no compromises should be made, and even then it would be quickly tired of and cast aside.


Then there are the practicalities of finding someone who can shift a heavy piece of furniture or jump-start a car. If my married sister needs something done, she asks her husband. But when I need help, I have to pay someone £200 or more.

In the Nineties, we professional, single women conducted our love-lives according to a best-selling book called The Rules — a dating bible that dictated that we should be aloof and hard to get, that we should not return phone calls, and we should always make a man pay on dates. Any man who didn’t conform was to be kicked to the curb until the next poor sap came along.

What I never considered, though, was that one day they’d stop coming along altogether. I really wish I’d known that once you’re in your late 30s, men are pretty thin on the ground. And once you’re in your 40s, it’s as though they’ve been wiped off the face of the Earth.

A woman over 45 on an internet dating site is made to feel as welcome as a parking ticket. The sites may be full of single men in their 40s, but they sure aren’t looking to meet women of the same age!

Some call it the Wile E. Coyote moment.

I also think it’s an uncomfortable truth that the sort of high-flying alpha males we were all holding out for didn’t want women like us.
Karma eventually runs over the dogma.

All the successful men I know have married sweet, uncomplicated women who are happy to forfeit their careers to support their husbands.
This last bit is why you want to know early on if a woman is a flake.
Note that part of "success" for each of these men was learning to recognize and not marry a woman like her.
See how that works, fellas? 8)
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Postby terminator » Fri Jan 04, 2013 7:56 pm

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sfexcellence wrote:Ah, emotionally insecure and undeveloped North Americans. You certainly wouldn't find this attitude in parts of Europe, that's for sure.

Well ya! Of course because the Pilgrams and the Puritans came here to this country in its humble (no pun intended to the Puritans necessarily) beginnings.
I heard that they wanted to get away from "sex-crazed" Europe even back then. So much p.orn in Europe has cougars getting "smashed" by late-adolescent male teens, and NOBODY is having a cow over it! Awesome I'd say.

America has the highest age of consent practically in the western world/Anglosphere. That was done by design.

Sex is thrown in the face of people almost ubiquitously around the world, and in MOST of those places, HIV/AIDS and out-of-wedlock births are not as a big problem here in the U.S.
of Gay.

I saw a TV show in one of my favorite countries out there, and a semi-attractive woman, DURING PRIMETIME TV, was demonstrating how to masturbate on a talk show as a regular host.

Even though I sounded like a prude the other day when I talked about Canada's Naked News (tm), but it was to demonstrate that this is done in a feminist country, not in a resound virtuous cool-a.ss country like somewhere outside of the Femosphere.

I hope that what I'm saying isn't too cryptic nor would fall onto deaf ears (or inert/idle fingertips - for keyboard's sakes!) LOL

P.S.: look at my current, new avatar: this was a still I had taken from a RUSSIAN amateur p**n snippet! Yes Russian "creepy-looking" middle-aged guys can f**k curvy, but not fat women. In America, he would be talking to himself all the time (not having sex for years on-end due to reasons that have been beat like a dead horse) and probably residing in a homeless shelter being mentally-disturbed or some s.hit.


Wow, older Russian guys get OK p***y - that's amazing. I like your take on middle-aged US guys being mentally disturded: they're dancing with the devil (AW) and it's screwed up the guys.
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Postby noog » Sat Jan 05, 2013 1:13 pm

AW just don't know what they want :)

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Postby terminator » Sun Jan 06, 2013 9:26 am

noog wrote:<quote>You don't want to have a second date with every guy you meet in the produce department or at the parking meter. You don't have to give every online date a second chance either. I'm sure my number of online dates last year was somewhere between twenty and thirty, of which THREE led to second dates and ZERO led to third dates.
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The elephant in the room that these women aren't talking about is that so many of them are not using the domestic dating sites to find long-term relationships, instead they are using them to fill their enormous over-inflated egos. To women like this, every rejection is another feather in her cap. What was just said above is all the proof you'll ever need.

Maybe I shouldn't have read this article, it just ticks me off more.


Yes, this ego-stroking covers the rest of AW on-line who aren't scammers. So 99% of women online are looking to scam you and/or reject you.
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Postby Disillusioned_American » Sun Jan 06, 2013 10:09 am

E_Irizarry wrote:Well ya! Of course because the Pilgrams and the Puritans came here to this country in its humble (no pun intended to the Puritans necessarily) beginnings.
I heard that they wanted to get away from "sex-crazed" Europe even back then. So much p.orn in Europe has cougars getting "smashed" by late-adolescent male teens, and NOBODY is having a cow over it! Awesome I'd say.

America has the highest age of consent practically in the western world/Anglosphere. That was done by design.

Sex is thrown in the face of people almost ubiquitously around the world,...

Yes Russian "creepy-looking" middle-aged guys can f**k curvy, but not fat women. In America, he would be talking to himself all the time (not having sex for years on-end due to reasons that have been beat like a dead horse) and probably residing in a homeless shelter being mentally-disturbed or some s.hit.


Good assessment. This kind of sh*t drives me insane! I can't stand how even fat, ugly skank women with gross lip piercings and tattoos on their neck/face/wrists here in the US are totally full of themselves, and have an extreme sense of entitlement! This sh*t is crazy! After going to Europe, I often think to myself about how if these skank-assed American women were to ever take a trip to Europe, NOBODY would give them ANY attention! Unfortunately, fat skank Americuntz will never have to experience the kind of rejection and disdain that they truly deserve, since they are too cowardly to ever go that far outside of their comfort zone.

Most fat, vile, grotesque b*tchy and ugly women in the US will never leave the comfort of the US, unless they opt for a vacation to some generic Carribean island where their market value will still be way overpriced. That's one of the reason I resent having to live here so much; grotesque females are constantly getting their egos stroked while living off the backs of men, meanwhile even good looking, fit men are unable to get laid. This sh*t is unreal!
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Postby Contrarian Expatriate » Sun Jan 06, 2013 10:24 am

sfexcellence wrote:Ah, emotionally insecure and undeveloped North Americans. You certainly wouldn't find this attitude in parts of Europe, that's for sure.


Oh give it time, just give it time. I would also say that women in the UK can be this way already, and with the media onslaught on full-blast, the rest of Europe is right around the corner from this.
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Postby Dark_Sol » Sun Jan 06, 2013 10:26 am

Disillusioned_American wrote:
E_Irizarry wrote:Well ya! Of course because the Pilgrams and the Puritans came here to this country in its humble (no pun intended to the Puritans necessarily) beginnings.
I heard that they wanted to get away from "sex-crazed" Europe even back then. So much p.orn in Europe has cougars getting "smashed" by late-adolescent male teens, and NOBODY is having a cow over it! Awesome I'd say.

America has the highest age of consent practically in the western world/Anglosphere. That was done by design.

Sex is thrown in the face of people almost ubiquitously around the world,...

Yes Russian "creepy-looking" middle-aged guys can f**k curvy, but not fat women. In America, he would be talking to himself all the time (not having sex for years on-end due to reasons that have been beat like a dead horse) and probably residing in a homeless shelter being mentally-disturbed or some s.hit.


Good assessment. This kind of sh*t drives me insane! I can't stand how even fat, ugly skank women with gross lip piercings and tattoos on their neck/face/wrists here in the US are totally full of themselves, and have an extreme sense of entitlement! This sh*t is crazy! After going to Europe, I often think to myself about how if these skank-assed American women were to ever take a trip to Europe, NOBODY would give them ANY attention! Unfortunately, fat skank Americuntz will never have to experience the kind of rejection and disdain that they truly deserve, since they are too cowardly to ever go that far outside of their comfort zone.

Most fat, vile, grotesque b*tchy and ugly women in the US will never leave the comfort of the US, unless they opt for a vacation to some generic Carribean island where their market value will still be way overpriced. That's one of the reason I resent having to live here so much; grotesque females are constantly getting their egos stroked while living off the backs of men, meanwhile even good looking, fit men are unable to get laid. This sh*t is unreal!


I agree, when these AW asked why I am going to Peru and other countries, I tell them. Cause I deserve to be with someone. Surprising enough, what you say about them never leaving the US is true. I have not yet meet a women around my age ever gone overseas to EE, SA, Asia and Africa. They don't plan to and hate the idea of their husbands or boyfriends doing the same. That is why they don't invite me to parties or their house anymore. Except that their parents love me and always invite me :twisted: Than I spread the word and a lot of guys agree.
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Postby jamesbond » Sun Jan 06, 2013 5:54 pm

You never know what kind of people you will meet when you use internet dating or chat rooms. :lol:

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Postby djfourmoney » Mon Jan 07, 2013 3:30 am

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Andrewww wrote:Another online dating topic...there must be a new one each week.

Think about it, why would a (normal...as in not mentally sick) beautiful woman ever use a dating website in the US ? Beautiful women get courted just by going to a cofee shop. Not to mention the countless dance clubs that offer special treatment to women (free drinks from men included), the gym (where there's a majority of men), even the freaking supermarket.

So it's not surprise that in the links you posted these women mock other men, they are plain f***ed up in the head and the guys are trully pathetic.

You can go in any country, no women (outside of escorts) will pay you any attention if you are desperate: hey i'm a nice guy, pick me!!!1!11!

That's why it's a good idea to leave your emotional crap behind if you go abroad. I haven't checked the dating websites abroad but even there I would watch out for gold diggers.


Beautiful women in the US don't use the dating sites here. It's all filled with women who are either fat, ugly, mental, or all 3 combined. Dating sites abroad are a little different, depending on the countries.


There are beautiful women on dating sites, however you or nobody else would want to date them, they don't have time for you or they believe you are poorer than the last boyfriend... The rest you are correct about.
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Postby Disillusioned_American » Mon Jan 07, 2013 4:02 am

E_Irizarry wrote:Russian "creepy-looking" middle-aged guys can f**k curvy, but not fat women. In America, he would be talking to himself all the time (not having sex for years on-end due to reasons that have been beat like a dead horse) and probably residing in a homeless shelter being mentally-disturbed or some s.hit.


[youtube]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=OGkG5nxdFkY[/youtube]

I wish you would make more videos talking about this kind of sh*t. You definitely have a way with words that can be hilarious: "Hmm, he shops at Payless Shoe Source to get his shoes... I think he's a cheapskate... Um, I'm cool... I have a lot of enabling men who are gonna shell out a lot more money for me." LOL!
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