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Postby Banano » Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:44 pm

you ll find that most Western alphas with yellow fever are out living in Singapore, HK, Japan '

i wasnt talking about these countries, women from these places are as demanding as their western counterparts, 40 yo westerner isnt going to pull 23 yo japanese women, big age gap is not a norm,
guy has to have some quality and woman needs to be somewhat open minded and untraditional as japanese/sing/korean women are not known to mix with other races, knowing taste of western men it wouldnt surprise me if all they are getting are japanese leftovers ,



btw these expat men are minority compared to ones who go to SEA to look for love
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:53 pm

Well Banano, you've put yourself in a box. Do as you're told and then, society will be good to you. That's the essence of what you're telegraphing.

As far as I'm concerned, that box is a coffin.
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Postby expatasiaseeker » Mon Jan 21, 2013 12:58 pm

S_Parc wrote:
xiongmao wrote:My brother in law is very alpha. His new bride is Chinese.

You'll find that most Western alphas with yellow fever are out living in Singapore, HK, Japan with their beautiful Asian wives and girlfriends.


Yes, in fact, the American women ex-pats in those places, can't get a single date with an American ex-pat. I was actually taking 'em out to places, to cheer 'em up. But of course, not being a registered charity, I wasn't going to date 'em out of pity. Luckily for me, they knew their place and expected that I'd choose an Asian woman over them so they didn't bother with the old bait/switch techniques of the homeland.


Nothing more satisfying than to see these evil bitch American/western women get put in their places in Asia. In Asia, they finally begin to realize what disgusting SCUM that they truly are.
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jan 21, 2013 1:21 pm

expatasiaseeker wrote:Nothing more satisfying than to see these evil bitch American/western women get put in their places in Asia. In Asia, they finally begin to realize what disgusting SCUM that they truly are.


At this point in time, I just want 'em to go away. After growing up with a Femi-Nazi sister, the best thing I can say is that coming of age and moving out, was the best thing that ever happened. Thus, I'd like to extend that out to society, where AWs basically stop showing up at mixed social gatherings, and leave men alone have their fun whether it be televised sports, SciFi, Martial Arts, or what have you.

And then, as a group of fellas, we can drive up to Montreal for a quick b@ink with some Quebecoise, and then continue on with life. And conversely, AWs can form their own club, wear strap-on dildos, and do one another since they obviously don't like men. It's a happy Apartheid Yankee lifestyle & I'd prefer that, over what we have today.
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Postby expatasiaseeker » Mon Jan 21, 2013 1:33 pm

S_Parc wrote:
expatasiaseeker wrote:Nothing more satisfying than to see these evil bitch American/western women get put in their places in Asia. In Asia, they finally begin to realize what disgusting SCUM that they truly are.


At this point in time, I just want 'em to go away. After growing up with a Femi-Nazi sister, the best thing I can say is that coming of age and moving out, was the best thing that ever happened. Thus, I'd like to extend that out to society, where AWs basically stop showing up at mixed social gatherings, and leave men alone have their fun whether it be televised sports, SciFi, Martial Arts, or what have you.

And then, as a group of fellas, we can drive up to Montreal for a quick b@ink with some Quebecoise, and then continue on with life. And conversely, AWs can form their own club, wear strap-on dildos, and do one another since they obviously don't like men. It's a happy Apartheid Yankee lifestyle & I'd prefer that, over what we have today.


I also wish American/western women would just disappear or drop dead. Their very presence is toxic, because they are toxic subhuman monsters. ANd at this point, many men have woken up and realized what toxic monsters American/western women are.

It really pisses me off seeing so many western bitches here in South East Asia. I just wish they would stay the f**k in their own countries and stop polluting the rest of the world with their disgusting presence. Can't they just DROP DEAD ALREADY or just go f***ing disappear?

I really, really hate American/western women and hope they all f***ing die.
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Postby S_Parc » Mon Jan 21, 2013 2:03 pm

expatasiaseeker wrote:It really pisses me off seeing so many western bitches here in South East Asia. I just wish they would stay the f**k in their own countries and stop polluting the rest of the world with their disgusting presence.


Well, when I was in Asia, they did seem to be a bit invisible. And part of it, I believe, is that projecting presence/power isn't supported by the culture around them without something to show, like a pop singer or a dancer on a stage. Thus, Madonna's narcissism isn't simply soaked up by all the women in Asia, because in public, that sort of tackiness (nip/crotch tease, blowing smoke at ppl, sticking a crucifix in one's vulva) is seen as pubic displays of crudeness, not as Gal-Power. Hence, Yankee divas are basically spectacles on stage, not something to be emulated in daily life.
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Postby expatasiaseeker » Mon Jan 21, 2013 2:34 pm

S_Parc wrote:
expatasiaseeker wrote:It really pisses me off seeing so many western bitches here in South East Asia. I just wish they would stay the f**k in their own countries and stop polluting the rest of the world with their disgusting presence.


Well, when I was in Asia, they did seem to be a bit invisible. And part of it, I believe, is that projecting presence/power isn't supported by the culture around them without something to show, like a pop singer or a dancer on a stage. Thus, Madonna's narcissism isn't simply soaked up by all the women in Asia, because in public, that sort of tackiness (nip/crotch tease, blowing smoke at ppl, sticking a crucifix in one's vulva) is seen as pubic displays of crudeness, not as Gal-Power. Hence, Yankee divas are basically spectacles on stage, not something to be emulated in daily life.


Yea man, American/western women are considered as FREAKS in Asia, by both the local men and the expat western men who have learned the truth and realize Asian women are much better.
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Postby Andrewww » Mon Jan 21, 2013 5:39 pm

S_Parc wrote:
Banano wrote:please stop this AW get fat and chop hair off, are all american men with 6 pack when they turn 30 or 40? dont start me taking pix of australian, american or english men with beer bellyand awfull sense of fashion..


You don't seem to get it ... AWs (my biological sister included), grow fat because on the inside, they don't care about either themselves or their husbands. All it takes to stay in shape is an exercise bike with some crunches and pushups. It isn't that hard to age gracefully but the self-loathing of AWs, causes many of them to turn into slobs. I'd seen 'em for myself at my 15th HS reunion.

Looking back, one of the few gals from my graduating class worth dating/marrying, married a decent *beta male* during her undergrad. Her husband was a techie, not a frat junkie. She then got herself an advanced degree and now teaches at a New England college while consulting for the water treatment industry. They're still together after a dozen years and she's still in great shape. I remember her on track/field and lacrosse, and she kept it up. Also, she'd avoided the catty clubs of women, who routinely tease/put down men or were social climbers. She was more studious and introspective and was cute and wore nice dresses from time to time, outside of jeans/slacks. And what's obvious is that neither her nor the husband are in the rapid aging dept because they're one of the few couples, who have a healthy daily dynamic. Unfortunately, as others have stated, they're in the top 5-15% of persons in the country. The rest, the so-called Alpha Male to Vapid { Ally McBeal/Sex In The City/Desperate Housewives } woman, are more typical.


+1, it's not rocket science to take care of your body and wear a dress from time to time.
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Postby Jester » Mon Jan 21, 2013 6:46 pm

odbo wrote:..blah blah blah.. laid
..blah blah blah.. roosh
..blah blah blah.. manginas
..blah blah blah.. alpha male
..blah blah blah.. foreign women
..blah blah blah.. 1000 cock stare
..blah blah blah.. 8 out of 10
..blah blah blah.. marriage
..blah blah blah.. feminism
..blah blah blah.. entitled
..blah blah blah.. racism
..blah blah blah.. p4p

Why don't the males on this forum ask themselves: Do i know what I what?

If the answer is yes, then ask yourself: Am I on the path to self-actualization?

if the answer is no: Am i making the world a better place through my actions?

Here's a tip, alpha males bring more to the table than a fork. And they certainly don't travel around the world for the purpose of shitting up the place, taking advantage of the poor and weak, stripping good people of their innocence, leaving behind disillusioned locals, orphaned half-breeds, and so on.


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Postby S_Parc » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:19 am

S_Parc wrote:Tom Brady, guaranteed Hall of Fame NFL quarterback (vying for top 3 QB of all time) for the NE Patriots, is married to a Brazilian. (Yes, I'm watching the AFC finals now)


Ok, strike that comment about top 3 quarterback :?

Brady's bungles in the AFC finals has knocked him out of the top 3-5 of all time category but he's still in the top 10-15 category and has a spot in the Pro Football Hall of Fame after retirement. That still doesn't change his Alpha male status, just because he won't be in Manning's or Montana's elite QB ranking. And he's married to a Brazilian.
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Re: Why alpha men(top 20%)don't go abroad to date foreign wo

Postby Disillusioned_American » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:22 am

Banano wrote:Why alpha men(top 20%) dont go abroad to date foreign women and they look down on men who go abroad for sole purpose of getting laid or getting gf

From what I have seen in SE Asia and S America its always beta guys(non desirables) who are chasing local girls, sort of guys that AW wouldnt consider

In Phuket for example there are many young european guys who come to visit but you will hardly see them with local girl, they either come with Gfs or if they are single they usually go to discos where euro and russian chicks go and try to pick up,
i only see older men mid 30s+ who are into local goods

Now even if you find non p4p thai women and walk down the street with her people will assume she is a whore , both thai and falangs,without thinking, your hotel reception will treat her as whore and will either reject her entrance or ask her to leave her ID at reception, she cant just walk in like a normal guest

is there stigma attached to dating abroad and is it why western women and alpha men despise people like us,
they see it as act of desperation


Yeah, I think you make some good points alright. Thing is, what are we [betas] expected to do? Give up and masturbate for the rest of our lives? Kill ourselves for the betterment of society? Settle for an overweight pig westerner wife who is a 3/10, yet has the entitlement mentality of a 9/10?

Also, what about those of us whom wish to relocate abroad as a means of seeking a more sane environment to live within?

Furthermore, being a Serb and all, you should know that being a beta doesn't necessarily make a man worthless. I mean, I don't think Nikola Tesla ever had a woman in his life other than his mother, yet look at how huge and influential his accomplishments were (even though he never lived to receive the fame/recognition that he deserved)? Although, it is doubtful that most nerdy guys will ever be able to live up to his genius or contributions toward society.
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Re: Why alpha men(top 20%)don't go abroad to date foreign wo

Postby S_Parc » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:37 am

Disillusioned_American wrote:Furthermore, being a Serb and all, you should know that being a beta doesn't necessarily make a man worthless. I mean, I don't think Nikola Tesla ever had a woman in his life other than his mother, yet look at how huge and influential his accomplishments were (even though he never lived to receive the fame/recognition that he deserved)? Although, it is doubtful that most nerdy guys will ever be able to live up to his genius or contributions toward society.


Tesla chose not to have a woman in his life, distracting him from his higher purpose. He was not a *beta*, he simply didn't re-negotiate with Westinghouse, so that he could have his money and continue on with his work, without JP Morgan's involvement. Thus, he was blindsided, a problem with many idealists. A beta would have given up on his dreams and become a stooge for the Edison company. Tesla was not that kind of man. It was his idealism which costed him a fortune.
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Postby pete98146 » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:43 am

OutWest wrote:
Banano wrote:In Australia there is stigma of going to 3rd world countries to get a girl especially SEA,


you see assumption is that only people who are not successfull with local women go to 3rd world contry to use money as leverage,

it wouldnt be stigma if people went to france, holland, sweeden to get the girl or wife, the thing that its always women from the poorest places on earth,

please stop this AW get fat and chop hair off, are all american men with 6 pack when they turn 30 or 40? dont start me taking pix of australian, american or english men with beer bellyand awfull sense of fashion..

stop this bs about AW are entitlement bitches, do you know thai men is expected to pay dowry(cash) to girls parents if he wants to be with her, isnt that entitlement??


winston was in USA, visited Russia,ph and tw...
would you call his adventures success, romance wise?

USA- was really bad to winston

Russia/EE -the same, some pros rejected him due to his race, girls used him for gift etc without rewarding him back

PH- well this is where he claimed to found paradise but he admitted its low class/dirt poor girls that were into him(money obviosly played big part), on top of that he banged tons of bar girls in excahnge for $$

TW- what to say abt TW and girls, winston doesnt fit there, girls shun him, he made 100s of post why TW and Taiwanese women suck


so you gonna balme all these countries or common denominator?
if we send winston to Rio de Janeiro or Buenos Aires do you think he will have a blast with girls?
as roosh said, how you do abroad depends how well you do back home

Phoenix for example , tupac look alike, is very successfull with AW and no wonder he will be succesful anywhere in the world, be it 1st 2nd or 3rd world country


you know HA is an illusion when founder cant get laid abroad


Who cares? Enjoy life in Australia and avoid those low class SE Asian girls. It sounds like Australia is your cup of tea, nothing wrong with that. Find some nice Australian girl and grow old, fat and happy together.

If you look up the stats on American women FAT, they have totally changed on average over the last couple of generations- they are very likely now to end up as fatties. Some men are into that, so a silver lining in every cloud, right? American men are not far behind their female counterparts in turning into lard-a$$es. What does that prove except that a smart person would not marry either one unless they are into whale watching?

I probably have 30 men on my email list that are happily living abroad with a wife or GF, in Asia and Latin America. Most of us seem pretty happy with our lives in the bedroom...and in the living room...and on the sofa...on the patio...and on top of the kitchen table.
But we are happy for ourselves, not for you. That is your job and we cannot do it for you and we will not take photos.

Some men are miserable abroad- others are happy in the very same city. Some men know all Aussies to be drunks and larrikins, while others know them be be good men and comrades. I find Aussies to be good men- worked with a great one from Melbourne for a couple of years in LA. All this only proves the perspective is a very big deal. If I am unhappy, I am a fool to insist that others be unhappy with me. All of us live our lives as trial runs...we are all beta versions.


Outwest


I agree with Outwest! Could care less if anybody thinks there is a negative stigma associated with getting a girl from SE Asia! Really? Twenty percent of alpha males would never consider dating abroad? Again, who cares? I've already gone thru all of these feelings and doubts from my friends and family. Guess what? Once they meet my wife, all the prejudice melts away faster than ice at the equator. Why? Because my wife is an amazing individual and she puts most women to shame. I don't mean to brag...but I'm stating the truth.

I'm not alone. I've many guys who can boast about their wives that they met in SE Asia. But and it's a big butt (pardon the pun), I went thru a long and extensive search to make sure I got a good wife. If I opted to listen to others peoples opinions and feel bad about myself because I actively pursed a wife from Philippines I would have never met her. So I say screw other people who say it can't be done and bring shame to your cause.
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Re: Why alpha men(top 20%)don't go abroad to date foreign wo

Postby Disillusioned_American » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:51 am

S_Parc wrote:
Disillusioned_American wrote:Furthermore, being a Serb and all, you should know that being a beta doesn't necessarily make a man worthless. I mean, I don't think Nikola Tesla ever had a woman in his life other than his mother, yet look at how huge and influential his accomplishments were (even though he never lived to receive the fame/recognition that he deserved)? Although, it is doubtful that most nerdy guys will ever be able to live up to his genius or contributions toward society.


Tesla chose not to have a woman in his life, distracting him from his higher purpose. He was not a *beta*, he simply didn't re-negotiate with Westinghouse, so that he could have his money and continue on with his work, without JP Morgan's involvement. Thus, he was blindsided, a problem with many idealists. A beta would have given up on his dreams and become a stooge for the Edison company. Tesla was not that kind of man. It was his idealism which costed him a fortune.


You right, I guess he was a bad example. He definitely wasn't some pushover nor was he spineless. I think the same thing about guys that choose to become monks or mad scientist types, who seek truth or the inner path. It's not like they're all beta losers, it's just that they see women as a distraction from their true goals/pursuits. These men merely opt out of the system, which isn't all that bad of a choice, IMO, as long as they feel fulfilled with their lives.
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Re: Why alpha men(top 20%)don't go abroad to date foreign wo

Postby Tsar » Tue Jan 22, 2013 12:53 am

Banano wrote:Why alpha men(top 20%) dont go abroad to date foreign women and they look down on men who go abroad for sole purpose of getting laid or getting gf


The "alpha men" of Western society aren't really alpha men. An "alpha men" as commonly seen in America is often unintelligent, ignorance, self-absorbed, lacks etiquette, lacks class, and acts thuggish or gangster. Many are irresponsible, reckless, have no commitment in relationships, are criminals, or deadbeats.

The Western media glorifies these types of men and tell the feminist/liberalized WW that these men are desirable and "alpha." Feminism also indoctrinated many women with hate. Feminists and WW hate the true "alphas", the nice guys, and anyone that doesn't live up to their unreasonable expectations.

The "alpha " men have no trouble getting relationships and they are also ignorant. The "alpha" men can go through breakup after breakup and not care because all they care about is p***y. They might go through divorces but they will have an easy time getting back with women so they have no reason to go abroad. As long as they can get with another they have no reason to go abroad.

Even if a typical "alpha" went abroad they might have many problems and foreign women might be able to see right through him.

"Why do alpha men look down on men who go abroad for the sole purpose of getting a girlfriend?"
The "alpha" men look down on men who go abroad for the purpose of getting a girlfriend because...
1. The foreign woman would be feminine
2. The foreign woman would be very beautiful, especially by American standards
3. The man who went abroad would have had no success in America, but went abroad. "Alphas" would be jealous because they don't like to see the "nice guys" succeed.
4. The "alphas" would be angry because they know that the "nice guy" didn't settle for leftovers or ugly landwhales. The feminists are anrgy because they are used goods, don't want to see nice guys succeeding, and they lose the opportunity is exploit another "nice guy."
5. Getting with a "good girl" abroad is very respectable. Getting with a slut or feminist "bad girl" from the WW isn't respectable. The "alphas" don't like anyone that openly goes against the Feminist/Thug/Bad-Boy/WW Dating Code
6. Some would be openly jealous and hostile towards men that went abroad because they can't help but hate the fact the "nice guys" went abroad and got a foreign woman because that shows action, determination, and success.
7. The foreign woman a "nice guy" would have got might have be a trophy wife
8. The foreign woman would most likely be very affectionate. Most WW are not affectionate.
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