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Traditionally many men would become more established and be providers. They would be looking for a bride and seek out a younger woman. It was common to see men in their late twenties or early thirties dating women in their late teens. Sometimes a sixteen or seventeen year old, an adolescent but a biological adult.
This was acceptable up until feminism and the "sexual revolution" changed everything. When men go for younger women it became "unacceptable" according to feminists. Today most girls in their late teens or early twenties don't want too much of an age difference. Even some girls age eighteen don't want a man age twenty.
In feminist countries men that ask out or date a sixteen year old or seventeen year old are doing so with the risk of being charged with statutory rape, jail time, and labeled a pedophile. One hundred years ago that wouldn't have happened. Many parents would have been pleased that their daughter found a responsible and financially secure husband to offer her a stable future. Today it's the opposite because of feminism.
In many cases if a thirty year old man told his family and friends he was dating an eighteen year old girl his family and friends would look at him weird, say he was making a mistake, and she wasn't any good. That they were at different stages in life. The girls family and friends would look at her weird, say he was a bad guy and using her, and that she was making a mistake. Can you imagine how the families would react if the girl was seventeen? I commented about this to some relatives about how some men would date a sixteen year old girl, and they quickly said that it was statutory rape and wrong. These relatives aren't even liberal and have conservative American beliefs. Even if the Americans are conservative they still believe components of feminism and how age differences are shamed.
When a woman is a cougar or she is thirty and dating a seventeen year old boy people congratulate her and the boy. Many men say they wish that happened to them but they would be quick to label just the opposite happening as wrong. When Courtney Stodden was sixteen she married a fifty-one year old Doug Hutchinson. Since then Doug Hutchinson was called a pedophile by people including one of his fellow stars almost causing a fight on stage set.
Feminism is one of the main culprits. The second is the government which passes laws to protect feminism. The main reason I would give for the changes is the desire of feminists to try to extend their "lifespan" in the dating market. To do this they make it illegal for men to pursue women when they reach biological maturity and then brainwash younger women in their prime years to ignore stable men by portraying age differences as wrong.
There are a record number of women reaching their late thirties and forties without a husband. Women having children in their late thirties and early forties. So it would make logical sense they want to prevent men from going for the younger women.
I know that men dating younger women ( 30/18 ) is controversial in Western societies and a thirty year old man dating a seventeen year old girl would be illegal. Would old school traditional relationships be acceptable and legal in places like Russia, China, or India? I know the Middle East is very traditional in terms of age differences but I am more interested in knowing how Eastern European, East Asian, and Southern Asian cultures view them because feminism hasn't gained a foothold in those regions.
On the other hand I've yet to see an 18 year girl that's not a complete air head. I can't judge the ones abroad because I don't speak their language, but all the US ones seem delusional. Women become a little less delusional by their mid 20's but will always be crazy. So I think if you date an 18 year old you just need to bare with them while some of the air leaves their head the first couple of years.
Twenty three/four are the ages they begin to accept about ten years of an age difference. It's not much of a big deal when girls are in their mid-late twenties. Typical ages when most feminists and people don't approve are girls 16-19, sometimes 20-21 dating older men.
But the concept remains. Do you know the phrase Overton Window? It's basically the window of beliefs that the public can accept as reasonable political discourse. The idea of May-December relationships is outside that window. The window itself continually moves Left.
Women are having children in their late thirties or forties...or not. They are failing to because their biology starts failing them. This is Feminism's greatest poison. It is literally an anti-life philosophy. Post-modern Nihilism.
I know because my dad wanted more kids and my mom wanted to wait.
Pre-feminism: some women want to date older men because they have more resources. Older women with younger men rightly recognized as bizarre or bad.
Post-feminism: "Cougars" hit the scene and snatch up as many alpha-cock bearing young guys as possible. Older men with younger women seen or treated as a sexual crime.
I guess it is just one more thing that women wanted to do that men did. But older provider men will always be valued. Cougars have a definite shelf life.
In EE women actually look for older guys (4-5 years difference) because they see younger ones as immature. A 30 year old dating 18 year olds is not a big deal at all. At 40 you're pushing it, you might have some resistance from parents but if you are still in good shape no one is gonna criticize you (not publicly anyway).
Mark Davis is 25 years older than his Ukrainian wife Anna. When they met, she was 19 and he was 44. They got married a year later when she was 20 and he was 45. Age is not an issue with a lot of eastern European women.
Here is Anna Davis discussing age differences between Ukrainian women and the men they date and marry.
Here is a more in depth discussion talking about age differences between Ukrainian women and the men they date and marry.
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