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The reason is simple. Some American girls like bad boys because they are bad girls, or want to become bad girls. Like attracts like. It's a universal principle and the true law of attraction. If these girls were seriously good girls with kind, caring hearts and good moral values, they would not be into bad boys of course. Extreme opposites and great differences do not attract. For example, a person who is 60 percent good and 40 percent bad, can get along with someone who is 60 percent bad and 40 percent good. But a person that is 90 percent good will not get along with someone 90 percent bad. Extremes don't attract and don't get along and don't like each other. When you are with someone too different from you, you feel uncomfortable and do not vibe with them. It's simple logic.
Also, another reason is that some women need drama and conflict in their lives to feel alive. They feed off it, even if they don't know it. Many young women do not enjoy peace and harmony. They need something to fight about to feel alive. If you won't fight with them, they will start a fight with you, usually over something trivial. And if you refuse to fight, they break up with you. A bad boy gives them a constant source of drama, so it makes these girls feel more alive. It's like a drug and addiction to them. They need their fix once in a while.
Another possible reason could be that the girl has daddy issues. If her daddy was a bad man or asshole, she seeks to find a bad boy and change him into a good guy, to make up for her past daddy issues. However, if she manages to turn him into a good guy, she will lose interest and need to find another bad boy to transform. It's a control drama, kind of like how Batman is obsessed with cleaning up crime, and no matter how many criminals he puts away, he still needs to find more to stop. It's an addiction cycle that repeats in a control drama fashion.
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you nailed it, man. Unfortunately American culture has turned 90% of women into bad girls and sluts. If you want a good girl you have to go to a foreign country.
Yeah but dont you hate how PUA articles and videos never mention the reasons i gave above? They always make it sound like nice guys are clueless and ignorant about women, and women who like bad boys are normal and following their innate psychological nature. As if bad is normal and good is ignorance. Its very satanic in a way. Im sure adama would call this satanic too. Thats why PUA stuff is detestable and fake as well. PUA material never admits that such girls are bad girls themselves and that like attracts like, which is a universal principle.
This is half true. Most men know absolutely nothing about how women are. Their ideas of women are just caricatures of what women are, based upon the societal myths that we're given to believe in. From the start we are given lies and delusions to believe about women. And if you believe those lies, as most every man does, then that will destroy the quality of your life.
I don't think it is necessary to go to PUAs. Men should gather as much experience with women as possible, and then try their best to go over every memory of them in objectivity, not slanting anything to any cultural or personal bias (as best you can). Try to see what their motivations are, and imagine what kind of person has such motivations.
Many American women are not good people in general. A very significant portion of them are just deceitful and evil, because society has exalted them to an unnatural position above men, and they're desperately clawing onto it, to hold on with all their dear might. And the might that they have is based upon lies and deception, which is hurtful to men and everyone else, including themselves.
This essentially makes many of them worthless and a negative force in the world to be avoided.
PUA's will say stuff like, "You need to be more confident around women" and "You need to be cocky and funny to attract women." What PUA's never do is say things like, bad women are attracted to bad men and it has nothing to do with confidence or being cocky or funny.
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."