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Winston wrote:How to be a bad boy to attract girls without being a criminal or bad guy.

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Much of this is cliche that I don't agree with.

I almost stopped the video when he said men should ALWAYS treat a women like a princess. Really? Glad I never fell for that.

The other thing is none of this had to apply to girls from traditional cultures, only western cultures where the average man is cucked. In America and the West, women don't feel attraction for cucks so they gravitate towards the rare breed of man there, the masculine stud.

In countries where most men are masculine studs, women actually like polite and courteous men (not pushovers though), like the average man in the West.

The bottom line is, if you are still hoping to find a good, undamaged woman in America or the West, good luck finding that unicorn.

all women want to date the "bad boy" but in America, to be a "bad boy" you have to be a f***ing convict, a killer, a criminal, etc.

In Asia, just being a white guy with a bit of a rebellious attitude is enough to be considered a "bad boy". So at least in Asia you don't have to murder people, commit crime, and go to jail, just to get some p***y, LOL!

I think it has to do with the culture period. I've always had issues finding a GF or having any women here in the USA interested in me. I met a 22 year old Vietnamese girl that has been living here for 9 years and notice shes under 30 and she likes me for being who I am nice and respectful. Don't waste your time with American or Westernized women there's women out there from different cultures that want a nice man.

JesseL26 wrote:I think it has to do with the culture period. I've always had issues finding a GF or having any women here in the USA interested in me. I met a 22 year old Vietnamese girl that has been living here for 9 years and notice shes under 30 and she likes me for being who I am nice and respectful. Don't waste your time with American or Westernized women there's women out there from different cultures that want a nice man.

western women are trash that can only have an orgasm if they get raped by a violent criminal convict or gangbanger or something. They will ruin your life if you get anywhere near them.

Because their actual father is their provider who asks for nothing in return.

clowny wrote:I've seen posts on here from guys who say that "nice guys" will have to go abroad if they want to date, because american women only want thugs and bad boys. But the thing about thugs and bad boys is that they're generally in the lower end of the socio-economic spectrum..they are often guys with criminal convictions, without education, without good careers, and in turn, do not have alot to offer women in terms of wealth. So then, why do american women go for these kinds of guys when they do not make good providers?

Because bad boys and thugs are often immensely far richer than your typical guy. Thugs and bad boys are very often the ones with the biggest, most expensive souped up luxury sports cars and limousines on the road. The only difference is, those vehicles are usually stolen.

And truthfully, thugs and bad boys have practically the entire world on a sparkling gold platter to offer a woman. But once again, over 98 percent of that immense wealth comes straight through the guy's crimes such as robbery, burglary, grand theft auto, car jacking, credit card fraud, and such. And unfortunately, American women are attracted to guys with stolen wealth. To especially American women born after 1985, a man with a career is no good if he does not live in Los Angeles (or San Francisco), if he doesn't own the biggest, loudest, fastest, sleekest, and most expensive souped up luxury sports car on the road, the most expensive luxury cabin cruiser on the ocean, and if he can not give her the whole world on a sparkling gold platter.

Also, American women are turned on by guys who will viciously shove another man to the ground and beat him up or even shoot him if he tries to befriend her.

Winston wrote:How to be a bad boy to attract girls without being a criminal or bad guy.

[youtube]https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7r6UDaIrhkY[/youtube]

well just play the role of a druggie, and you'd be surprised how many women throw themselves at you. If you make it clear and obvious that you are in possession of cocaine, heroin, or meth, any number of bitches will jump on your cock without hesitation

I think women sometimes see guys like that as not being "diluted." The concept that they are only being swayed by them, so to speak, might be appealing to a woman- no ifs & maybes when it comes to if he wants to be with her & nobody else undermining their relationship. Could be a subconscious thing.

Other stuff is the impression of being tougher, even though the guy didn't likely out fist-fight a whole police department to get or keep whatever it is in his pocket. Maybe just that he can handle danger without falling apart. Women seem to like "solidity" on a lot of levels & that likely has just a little bit of phallic overtone (or undertone, I don't know when it's one & when it's the other).

One other is attributing (or possibly misattributing) excitement to them- they find the whole subject scary & this guy is reminiscent of it. There's the possibility that HE'S exciting to her or that she just has a bit of associative activation.

All besides the whole "alpha male" that does whatever he feels like & does it competently, that she can potentially make have empathy while still keeping the ass-kicker ability around. Sometimes women are just unhappy with whatever's around & satisfaction's not part of their (at least current) personality.

JohnDoeBigBaller wrote:western women are trash that can only have an orgasm if they get raped by a violent criminal convict or gangbanger or something. They will ruin your life if you get anywhere near them.

More and more western men are realizing this and they are starting to avoid western women like the plague!

I don't even think it is "western women." It's probably just US, Canadian, British and Australian, women (and to a lesser extent Scandinavian). Most men (except for probably Yohan) seem to get along fine with women from continental Europe. This is mainly an English language problem, and probably a Scandinavian one too.

They don't. I've slept with dozens of AW and they're really just looking for a good time.

HouseMD wrote:They don't. I've slept with dozens of AW and they're really just looking for a good time.

That is because you are a p***y slaying Thug-Badboy!
NEWSFLASH!
This just in! Those girls wanting to have fun are actually Gold-Digging Whores From Hell! They just want to have fun (aka f**k everyone except you) divorce you and take all your money because you are a f***ing doctor.
Jonny Law's Advice
Have your fun. Enjoy American women just don't give them your real name. If you have money you are a target! And for f**k sake do not marry and American bitch (or at least get a Prenup, it will not protect you but it can make you feel a little better).

Jonny Law wrote:

HouseMD wrote:They don't. I've slept with dozens of AW and they're really just looking for a good time.

That is because you are a p***y slaying Thug-Badboy!
NEWSFLASH!
This just in! Those girls wanting to have fun are actually Gold-Digging Whores From Hell! They just want to have fun (aka f**k everyone except you) divorce you and take all your money because you are a f***ing doctor.
Jonny Law's Advice
Have your fun. Enjoy American women just don't give them your real name. If you have money you are a target! And for f**k sake do not marry and American bitch (or at least get a Prenup, it will not protect you but it can make you feel a little better).

I've been with the same girl since before medical school. All of these women I dated while making a lowly 55k/year. And If I ever end up on the market again, I'm not letting anyone know my career until a few months in. Pretty easy to say I do literally anything else in the hospital.

Jonny Law wrote:

HouseMD wrote:They don't. I've slept with dozens of AW and they're really just looking for a good time.

That is because you are a p***y slaying Thug-Badboy!
NEWSFLASH!
This just in! Those girls wanting to have fun are actually Gold-Digging Whores From Hell! They just want to have fun (aka f**k everyone except you) divorce you and take all your money because you are a f***ing doctor.
Jonny Law's Advice
Have your fun. Enjoy American women just don't give them your real name. If you have money you are a target! And for f**k sake do not marry and American bitch (or at least get a Prenup, it will not protect you but it can make you feel a little better).

I've come to the conclusion now, that many of them are just so evil, that it must be that we are being protected and saved from them having to deal with them (In other words, being able to be with them itself may be its own condemnation). That is, we are spared from having to deal with their insanity, their games, their rollercoaster emotions, their deceptions, their cruelties, their confusion, and their disobedience.

Before I thought I was at some loss and missing something. However, JWow, Snooki and Sammi-Sweetheart have revealed to me what these people are really like, because I never got to interact with them up close too much, thankfully.

Many of these women are just completely corrupted to the core, and they can literally do evil things that would boggle your mind as to why or how anyone would even conceive to do such things.

So now I really do think, if a man can be successful with multiples of AMERICAN or ANGLOPHONE women, that it means that he may be in trouble himself and he may be among these people, and he may think they are good and normal because he's also blinded because he is like them and essentially one of them: of the same mindset and type of heart.

Rejection is a blessing in disguise. It means we're saved from their torment and sorrow, which they would inflict upon us, since they are on the evil path and they don't know what peace or righteousness is. That means their job is to destroy you, as they have destroyed themselves.

And if you are not one of them, instead of lamenting at what you've lost out on, you should be thankful that you won't be driven insane by them.

Some hours have gone by but I have thought about this some more. I even think that you probably can't get one of those evil women, unless you really have earned it (or there's going to be a test or lesson of some kind).

God has said that He will allow the sinners to be taken by the strange women, but that the good ones He will allow to escape from the strange woman. (Proof 1:The mouth of strange women is a deep pit: he that is abhorred of the LORD shall fall therein. Proof 2: And I find more bitter than death the woman, whose heart is snares and nets, and her hands as bands: whoso pleases God shall escape from her; but the sinner shall be taken by her.)


I was just thinking, even if I went to Jersey Shore and pulled all the same dance moves as Pauly D and The Situation, I probably would not have 1/100th the "luck" they have with women. Whoops! But that's because I'm not one of them.

In other words, if God loves you, He's going to spare you from having to deal with a woman who's going to destroy your soul. They will fall away. It may seem like rejection, but it is really cowardice and then them blaming the man, to uplift themselves and their egos by the vanity of lies (even self deception), to frame lies to say that they did the rejection, rather than just admitting to fallibility; to maintain the glory of their godhood (righteous, blameless, spotless, perfect, mighty, and gloriously beautiful). In their very rejection itself, they reveal that they are working the works of iniquity, destruction and death.

But such evil is routine from these women. They are in all kinds of evil, confusion, mischief, spite and just hateful, because their consciences are seared and turned to evil, and because they are evil, they are rejected from peace, truth, light, wisdom, and righteousness. And why would you want to share that fate with them? You may deserve a better life than to live with evil at your right hand.

Is that to say that men who have bad women have done something wrong? I don't know, but I do know that in not knowing the law, and in following the laws of the world, a man is likely to entrap himself in sin, while thinking it is acceptable, and he will not know he is in a trap, because he doesn't know what God has said.

In addition to that though, sparing you the pleasure of unrighteousness preserves your soul from destruction, which may be another reason why you can't get them; because those who love the pleasure of unrighteousness are at risk of becoming reprobate.