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For single men looking for easy prey this Valentine's Day, you've got your work cut out for you, especially if you're below a six.
A new study reveals that the more women want sex, the more they up their standards when choosing a short-term mate.
Researchers found that this is in direct contrast to statistics for men, after they study revealed that men are more likely to lower their standards the more "sexually hyperactive" they become.
Israeli researchers from Bar Ilan University conducted a study with 78 male and female students. Participants were asked to fill out surveys that asked them the degree to which they each agreed with statements like: "My desire for sex is often stronger than my partner's" and "Having sex isn't high on my priority list".
Based on their answers, the participants were then placed on a scale that identified them as somewhere between "sexual hyperactivation" or having heightened sex-related desire and worries and "sexual deactivation" or suppression of sexual behavior and thoughts.
The students were then asked to watch videos of men and women talking about themselves and their lives. Later, researchers asked participants how much they would want to have a short-term relationship with the people in the videos. The people in the videos had previously been rated for attractiveness by a separate panel of 60 people.
The findings, published in the Journal of Research in Personality, found that while both sexually hyperactivated and deactivated men preferred attractive women, hyper-sexual men were significantly more likely to desire having a short-term relationship with women who were judged to be less attractive.
Essentially, the hyperactivated men were at the stage where they considered any woman good enough for a short-term relationship.
"Sexual hyperactivation seems to make men less selective and make women more selective," the researchers said, according to The Times. Researchers said that the findings are interesting because they appear to go against the laws of sexual supply and demand.
Researchers said that for men who feel sexually hyperactivated, short-term relationships served as efforts to fulfill their "sexual system's goal," whereas for hyperactivated women, their requirement for a short-term relationship is more complex.
From an evolutionary perspective, women engaging in a one night stand will potentially create a child they would have to look after on their own. Therefore, the child from a short-term mate should at least have good genes.
Researchers wrote that "most women are expected to rely on 'feminine' strategies... preferring dominant and attractive men as short-term mates," according to The Times.
Researchers said that the latest findings support the theory of optimal male evolutionary strategies, based on the idea that men contribute fewer resources to child rearing compared to women.
"Men, being the less investing sex, are expected to be less selective than women," researchers wrote.
it sounds unbelivable but in reality it is all true,
slutty women wont just sleep with anything, as some people would think
from what I have seen these promiscous women are very very selective when it comes to casual sex and one night stands,
The reason is this: when girl turns into a slut or decides to be one ,all of a sudden she is faced with numerous choices of men, naturally she will select only most desirble one leaving bettas with nothing....
when men or beta male wants to be a player his choices are still very limited and he will do any women just to get laid
explains why its so hard to score in clubs and bars, sluts want dominant, attractive alpha men and you know how women in clubs are treated like mini celebrities whereas guys are going there to get drunk and most will never approach any women...
Only top tier guys will profit from such places as they will recieve plenty of IOIs, indications of interests in form of smiles, flirting, giggling.etc
Yes, in America 20% of the men are sleeping with 80% of the women. This is what Pickup artists have said (Mystery, David Deangelo).
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"
"Trying to meet women in America is like trying to decipher Egyptian hieroglyphics."
So far, I haven't seen any evidence that 20% of the men (even if they were to sleep with 80% of the women) are fathering 80% of the children.... which means most other men are getting in at some point.
Observe what 1000s of people actually DO rather than what they mark on some B.S. questionnaire.
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"Even an American judge is unlikely to award child support for imputed children." - FredOnEverything
If PUA said it then it must be true right ?
These studies are theoretical, they rarely hold up in real life. Also, the sample size is very small. Add alchohol and loud music into the mix and you have a different result.
And yes, AW are easy, they will sleep with just about anyone if it fits their skewed image of a "hot" guy. In EE you have expensive clubs where women will blow you off unless you're dressed with the most famous brands and you flash a full set of jewelry to show that you're a rich peasant.
That's the key phrase right there. But being how picky they are, the majority of guys will never fit their image of a "hot guy". This mentality is why you see 95% of the girls in night clubs being very rude and stuck up. The moment that "hot guy" comes along, her attitude quickly changes and she's all over him like white on rice. At this point in time, she's ready to spread her legs for him. This happens all the time. You even see chubby and not so attractive girls doing the same exact thing.
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