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Winston has stated that when he approached women in the US, a "paranoid look" would surface on their face. I guess, women in America are not approached much if at all when they are out at grocery stores, bookstores and shopping malls. Maybe this explains why they get so paranoid when a guy approaches them. However, they don't get paranoid when they approached by a guy at a bar or club! Maybe it's because those places are socially acceptable places to approach women in the US and she is with her friends when she is out at a bar or club.
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jb whose that porn star with water down tits?
um, i dont think its just social places. women get like that too in bars and clubs. they either have to pretend to be drunk or are drunk. They never act as if its ok for a guy to hit on them unless hes super sexy and shes encouraged by the slut parade. what i dont get is why if they are sluts anyway can they act like that without being in a dark room, club, or drunk?
socially acceptable and policatically correct is all a myth because in reality these people dont exist. its just all an act.
thats a first "paranoid look". More like scared shit face what are you trying to do rob me? you have to give in, women know we want to f**k them and they hid their p***y as if the national treasure when in reality the y probably want it more then we do.
I completely agree with you assessment that people are a bunch of withdrawn noncommittal lunatics. But have you considered that that is everywhere? Even in this forum for example I have tried to contact and communicate with some of you guys deeply but have not been reciprocated. I agree with you 100% but that doesnâ€™t mean that what your talking about doesnâ€™t happen in all parts of the world included by people that youd least expect it from.
Whenever I read posts like this, all I see in my minds eye is "Why dont axe murdering sociopaths like me?"
It reads like "I walked up to a deranged lunatic and she got a look of insanity on her face, what did I do wrong?"
Or "Why cant I strike up a conversation with a mentally imbalanced borderline moron with multiple personality disorders?"
When will you people come to the conclusion, or the reality, that you dont WANT positive attention from blithering idiots. Be HAPPY that you dont "score" with disease ridden pigs.
Could be worse, you could be in a relationship with one. Or MUCH worse, MARRIED to one.
Wake up, people. Get a grip.
As in..why spend time bitching about girls who a man with any sense would not want anything to do with...
You said it best. AWAKE!
Sometimes being in this bad enviorment and lifestyle boggles the mind and it sleeps in a big nothingness. It could be a lot lot worst. Thank you so much for bringing that to my soul and reminding me how stupid and meaningless my life can be.
I am very lucky that through the struggles of my demons i have reached this far and I still have a long way to go but I can always be reminded how short i couldve come.
Last edited by Master on January 1st, 2010, 1:03 pm, edited 1 time in total.
Maybe American guys see this all as a zero sum game. If they cant get girls here, they cant get girls anywhere? Its simply not true.
I used this before, but here it goes again. My step brother was a prison guard. He spent so much time in the lockup, the only way he could interact with the people around him was in a guard-prisoner context.
Three word sentences, barking and yelling, verbally abusive for no reason, on and on. He was utterly miserable right down to his core, and he wanted those around him to be as miserable as he was. Needless to say, he was about as much fun to be around as a case of herpes.
What happens between men and women in America is very much like the prison paradigm. Men get acclimated to what is "normal" here in America and they think it must be this way everywhere. Since most guys seldom get off their fat f***ing asses and actually GO anywhere, the fantasy becomes the reality. Like the old song goes, if the illusion is real, let it give you a ride.
Or you have guys like me that view the zany antics of American females properly. The thrashing and wailing or a mortally wounded pig.
You can approach women in the USA. Just remember that >99% of the time, she will either give you a fake phone number, a real one but never answer when you call, or she will simply "not have the time" to hang out with you.
20 or so women do this to you, then you start to become reluctant to bother. After 100 you start to think something may be wrong with you.
Luckily for most of us here who have lived outside bullshit feminist hell / Great Satan / Sex Prison, we know it is the mindset of the women.
Complete and utter nonsense.
This man earned $250K a year, owned a home outright, a nice car. He was in great shape. He went out on dates with a couple of chicks. He was able to get none.
I donâ€™t know why, I donâ€™t feel that way. Iâ€™ve always had confidence in myself and yes I have been hurt by rejection but I never saw it as if I had a problem but more like they were messed up and that was always the case. I do think I can get girls elsewhere but your line is true in a general population. Even me, sometimes when I get rejected I think my life is going to end, like I can never get a girl or would never get a girl. So you are a right, itâ€™s simply a bad psyche of man. Man needs to be Tougher, Grittier and Manner. If he gets hurt like a bitch by a bitch then he deserves heâ€™s bitch fate.
Donâ€™t worry about repeating your stories, I havenâ€™t been in these forums long enough to read or know all of you so when someone repeats them most likely I donâ€™t know it. Itâ€™s always refreshing to hear most of you guys story, as they are so refreshing and in-depth. While most people here are the opposite stupidly, witty, and dry.
Your stepbrother was a good example as it reminded me of so many just like him. I know a lot about the world and philosophy and I do think environmental conditioning plays a huge role on the masses especially on the weak minded. I donâ€™t think most have the courage and strength to shatter the weak walls we have around ourselves. Its like one of most profound quotes Iâ€™ve ever read. It all it takes is to step out of your zone. The real quote is something like all it takes is to get out your comfort zone to find out about the real world or something like that. I forget them but I get what they mean and thatâ€™s the important part.
Anyway, back to your story, yes many men think that because they live bad, abuse, spoon-feed, get tons of girls, are rich, have a good education, that the rest of the world is the same. Some people hear about bad things about the world but do they really know? So they go about their daily life without changing or challenging anything, which of course makes their life empty. But anyhow they think thatâ€™s how the world is and will be. When one sec. the reality check hits them, but not to worry they either pry or will get back to the previous cycle of life just because they truly cant live without it.
That was the worst yet best description Iâ€™ve heard. A CASE OF HERPES! f**k!
Its like I think you told me, though I didnâ€™t like it, it was true. We have to get off our fat ass and do it. There is nothing to it but hard work. People hate hard work when in reality its nothing but good for them. Like some hard laborers say, work creates life. Thatâ€™s the only way to go anywhere and do something out of their miserable existences. Hard work and nothing else as in everything hard work creates great rewards. Seek and fight and you shall find and conquer.
Your last line was disturbing but true. Itâ€™s sad to look at people at such a raw way but also itâ€™s a must because if youâ€™re not cold they will be cold at you. Sometimes I hate the way you talk, since you have a way of talking down at people but sometimes itâ€™s needed.
simply put...Imagine if there is only one human left on earth all alone and by himeself and he happens to be the richest man on earth and he survived because of all that money he has....He will soon realise that money is nothing compared to be in contact with other human creatures...PERIOD
It's interesting that "pickup artists" will tell guys, you need to approach HUNDREDS of women each year! WTF? Who has time to do that? I realize meeting women is a numbers game but come on, asking out hundreds of women a year is just too much! How much rejection can a man take?
Even when you do get a womans phone number, most of the time it leads nowhere. You call her, leave her a message and she never calls you back! Gee, how nice of her to give you her number and then never pick up the phone when you call her! It makes you wonder why she even gave you her number to begin with! Men in America need to learn it's not them it's the women in the US who are wierd!
People need to understand that I became heavily involved in the mens rights and foreign women internet circles literally 10 years ago, if not more. I was reading Dirty Harry and trolling the Russia.com Personals forum back in the late 1990's.
I have gotten pretty tired of American men always bitching about how hard they have it. My first real-world experiment was back in 1997 when I took a short trip to South America, Equador to be exact.
At the time the only "job" I had was in the Army National Guard as a summer instructor and winter recruiter. I lived out of my car and made maybe $1000 a month. Yet I was still able to get on a plane and confirm some theories.
Yet here is is, 12 years later, and I am seeing some of the same f***ing people talking the same f***ing shit crying the same f***ing blues. Like that clown over at americanwomensuck.com or whatever it is now. He(?) talks a fantastic game, but when its all said and done, he wont get off his ass and DO anything.
That leads me to doubt everything he says does since he started his webpage in 2001. I suspect aws is little more that a troll looking for lulz or some feminist honeypot operation designed to gather IP addresses and evidence. Or perhaps even encourage people to violence against women like that guy in Pittsburgh PA.
My point is this, I was flat broke and I still managed to work something out. I got my life cleaned up and went out into the world and found a wonderful wife. It took a monumental effort and mind boggling cost, but I did it.
As an American guy, all of us are at the very top of the global male gene pool. Millions of hot young women are waiting eagerly to get their hands on us. The dollar is still worth something, and travel is still an option.
Its always good to vent, to blow off steam, to identify the problem, but if you stop there you are not being productive. Like the old joke goes, the only way people can walk all over you is if you lie down first.