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Is this some f***ed up shit or what?

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Postby abcdavid01 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:06 pm

So I was just downstairs heating up lunch and my mom mentions again that I should get an HPV shot. See, my mom got (cervical?) cancer like a year ago and blames my dad for it. She found out he was seeing a prostitute. My dad's a lawyer, so it was one of his clients. Did they sleep together? Maybe maybe not. I haven't spoken to either of them directly about it, but we've both kind of skirted it. And my dad said my mom keeps threatening to divorce him. So yeah, my dad was seeing this prostitute, may have slept with said prostitute, and my mom blames him for giving her HPV which lead to her getting cervical cancer. My dad also nearly died around the same time I think. My dad has colitis and diabetes and gulf war syndrome and it's pretty amazing he's lived so long, but he was in a hospital on my birthday a year ago. So he nearly died and afterwards he started acting differently and he began seeing a prostitute. People just act differently after facing death, my mom and myself included.

Again, I know this stuff, but I haven't spoken directly with either of them about it. We've just had weird conversations where the real message is left unsaid. I don't blame my dad for seeing a prostitute. Frankly, I know I was born and all, but my parents never should have been married in the first place. I don't like divorce, but it may be preferable.

Anyway, check this:

http://claritaslux.com/girls/why-relationships-succeed/

"Relationships succeed because of the similarity of world views. Many people think opposites attract. Maybe physical opposites attract for a while ,but moral similarities and general character is what keeps a relationship happy. In fact, you should be two peas in a pod. So similar that you might even look similar. See psychologists have studied this and I believe it. The best relationships are relationships that have the same social, religious, ethnic and educational background."

Thanks Tsar for directing me to that blog. My parents aren't like that at all. They have different ethnicity, different religions, different morality, different social life and upbringing, different way of viewing the world. Their values are completely incompatible. My dad wanted a nice, simple and caring woman who'd make a good mother, but he wound up marrying a cold business executive with a hot bod and pretty face. It's like he thought with his dick instead of his brain. So I feel like my dad is my only family; my sister takes after our mom and is a hardcore feminist. Also see the comment I posted on the article.

In one of their recent arguments, which I heard through the walls, she accused him of being a racist who didn't care about Chinese culture. He accused her of only marrying him out of rebellion instead of love. Both are probably true somewhat. My mother's side of the family didn't even attend their wedding and my uncle was even sent to talk my mom out of it. My dad and her family got along better over time, but again, their values are just different.

I dunno. I just had to vent for a bit. This has been going on a while, but I never posted about it until now. Just got off talking to my mom about her trying to get me to have an HPV shot. Some pretty f***ed up shit.

TL;DR: My mom wants me to get an HPV shot because my dad probably slept with a prostitute and she thinks it gave her cervical cancer. She's threatening divorce, but I don't blame my dad because my mom was pretty shit.
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Postby zboy1 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:40 pm

What your dad did to your mom was a scumbag move (no offense). I'm a traditionalist, so I see marriage as a vow of commitment. He not only broke that vow, but he gave his wife PPV and possibly, cervical cancer as well. And besides, why didn't he use a condom if he was going to cheat with a ho in the first place. Dumb move.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:42 pm

No, my dad is as well. It's my mom who's not a traditionalist. Frankly I don't know whether he cheated or not. But my mom's claim that he gave her cancer is pretty dubious. It's a tragedy because they never should have gotten married in the first place.
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Postby Renata » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:43 pm

Don't get any vaccines .. they're really unecesary & unknown & the results are unpredictiable ... HPV, Flu shots etc. ... just eat healthy & take care of yourself.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:46 pm

Renata wrote:Don't get any vaccines .. they're really unecesary & unknown & the results are unpredictiable ... HPV, Flu shots etc. ... just eat healthy & take care of yourself.


For the most part I agree. You know about Gulf War Syndrome? They gave the military untested nerve gas vaccinations during the first Gulf War and it messed up a lot of soldiers' nervous systems. My dad has that.
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Postby zboy1 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:52 pm

Renata wrote:Don't get any vaccines .. they're really unecesary & unknown & the results are unpredictiable ... HPV, Flu shots etc. ... just eat healthy & take care of yourself.


Yes, I agree. Everytime I got a flue vaccine in the past, I used to get really sick. So, for the past few years, I refused to get a flu vaccine and as a result, I never got sick except for a minor cold. I no longer trust the pharmaceutical industry for any drugs....
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Postby Renata » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:54 pm

Wow I didn't know that ... that's the strange thing, in the US I think they give kids 20 baby vaccinations ... kids in the caribbean get 6-10 by the time they're 3yrs old & where I'm from is literally riddled with jungle insects that fly around & bite ... it's almost like they do the testing on people, .. human lab rats
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Mar 19, 2013 8:59 pm

zboy1 wrote:What your dad did to your mom was a scumbag move (no offense). I'm a traditionalist, so I see marriage as a vow of commitment. He not only broke that vow, but he gave his wife PPV and possibly, cervical cancer as well. And besides, why didn't he use a condom if he was going to cheat with a ho in the first place. Dumb move.

There is no such vow,. It is the wife that must have sex exclusively with her husband. Men nailing hoes on the side is a traditionally expected norm. Obviously you would want to take some precautions, but disease transmission can be just one of those things. If he caught the flu from one of his clients and gave it to his wife, would that make him a bad guy? In any case the assumption that he caused her to get HPV which in turn gave her cancer is a big stretch. She may have got the HPV from some dirtbag she was having sex with on the side, and who knows if it caused the cancer.
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Postby Renata » Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:03 pm

Cornfed wrote:
zboy1 wrote:What your dad did to your mom was a scumbag move (no offense). I'm a traditionalist, so I see marriage as a vow of commitment. He not only broke that vow, but he gave his wife PPV and possibly, cervical cancer as well. And besides, why didn't he use a condom if he was going to cheat with a ho in the first place. Dumb move.

There is no such vow,. It is the wife that must have sex exclusively with her husband. Men nailing hoes on the side is a traditionally expected norm. Obviously you would want to take some precautions, but disease transmission can be just one of those things. If he caught the flu from one of his clients and gave it to his wife, would that make him a bad guy? In any case the assumption that he caused her to get HPV which in turn gave her cancer is a big stretch. She may have got the HPV from some dirtbag she was having sex with on the side, and who knows if it caused the cancer.

Marriage means one man with one woman ... if u want multiple partners don't get married. If you're in a marriage & u want extra relations leave the marriage & do your thing.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:12 pm

For example, when my mom was telling me to get the shot I told her I was skeptical because I plan on staying a virgin until marriage and also marrying a virgin. She just scoffed at me and said it was unlikely.

Jester turned me on to the whole polygamy idea though.
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:13 pm

Renata wrote:Marriage means one man with one woman ... if u want multiple partners don't get married. If you're in a marriage & u want extra relations leave the marriage & do your thing.

No, historically it was considered normal and desirable for men to spice up their marriage by having sex with the odd whore and they weren't considered responsible for any bastards that might result. The crime of adultery consisted of a married woman having sex with someone other than her husband. In any case if you are a woman you should not be participating in these kinds of discussions with men as you can not possibly have anything of value to offer. Nothing to worry your pretty little head about.
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Postby Renata » Tue Mar 19, 2013 9:23 pm

Cornfed wrote:
Renata wrote:Marriage means one man with one woman ... if u want multiple partners don't get married. If you're in a marriage & u want extra relations leave the marriage & do your thing.

No, historically it was considered normal and desirable for men to spice up their marriage by having sex with the odd whore and they weren't considered responsible for any bastards that might result. The crime of adultery consisted of a married woman having sex with someone other than her husband. In any case if you are a woman you should not be participating in these kinds of discussions with men as you can not possibly have anything of value to offer. Nothing to worry your pretty little head about.

Your mother shit you out didn't she?
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:11 pm

It seems that a lot of these problems could have been solved if the husband was in the habit of dispensing proper discipline in the form of good assbeatings. Probably too late now.
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Postby abcdavid01 » Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:13 pm

Cornfed, you know he'd be jailed for that. This is America. I'd have wound up raised by a single mother and hell I'd probably even be dead.
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Postby Cornfed » Tue Mar 19, 2013 10:18 pm

abcdavid01 wrote:Cornfed, you know he'd be jailed for that. This is America. I'd have wound up raised by a single mother and hell I'd probably even be dead.

You need to take the risk and have means of discouraging her from making a complaint. If you are running scared from the pigs then of course your wife will think you are a p***y and have no respect for you. This is a reason why dirtbags are now favored by women. You can't abandon your husbandly duties just because it might cause the ZOG pigs to attack you. However, like I said it is probably too late for this guy to start being a proper husband now.
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