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Re: Foreign men

Postby lovelybunny » April 28th, 2013, 5:48 am

OutWest wrote:
Cornfed wrote:
lovelybunny wrote:Are foreign men generally more family oriented than American men?

Probably most Western men are family oriented. It is just that most men are ignored by Western females in favor of a small group of male dirtbags they regard as having high status, and the dirtbags have no incentive to settle for just one female because they have sluts constantly throwing themselves at them. Also, since essentially all Western females are hateful worthless sluts, there is no incentive for men to start families with them as they are not wife and mother material. It is unlikely that any normal, family oriented foreign man would want to start a family with you for this reason. Seriously, what would an AW have to offer a non-Western man in the way of starting a family? Any foreign man interested in you would probably just be looking for a vessel to masturbate into, a green card or similar, or would be some kind of nutcase.


Statistically, what most American women mean by being "family oriented" is some well off sap who will get suckered
for property, alimony and child support after the near certain divorce. Maybe there are exceptions, but only a fool would marry an American woman.


Statistically, most Western men have only sex to offer, nothing else if you think Western women are only for that. Who else would they be cheating with? The fact that so many age horribly due to their chain smoking, binge drinking, go wild party weekend culture shows it. Men from Asia & Africa are probably better. Western men are good for short flings if some woman wants that, but NTO for long term relationships if you're a woman who's serious. The fact alone that the men here blame women for all of their problems shows that maybe, they don't see women as anything more than just objects. Marriage take sacrifice and compromise, and that's from women AND men. I prefer more traditional men to Western men any day.
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Re: What are foreign men like? Are they nice?

Postby lovelybunny » April 28th, 2013, 5:54 am

Renata wrote:That's a big question there with lots of broad answers ... it depends on the type of girl you are & what you appreciate ... It also depends on the enviroment they come from & how they were brought up,... their customs ... how they think, how they treat people etc etc.

I mesh well with decent British guys because they grow up as genetlemen & carry themselves very well & I always liked the way they treated me when I lived there. I feel the same way about the Irish & Greeks. I always felt like I was in good hands.

I'm afraid of Trukish men lol .. they seem very unpredictable. I feel intimdated by some of their antics sometimes. Although they are warm, friendly, very hospitable & possess this fearless quality when faced with unsavory situations.

I've never hung out with real asian men but I know some ladies with asian husbands & they describe them as having values & honour that's innate & they appreciate fine things like instrumental music & art. They are also naturally driven, ambitious but can be clingly & possessive.

Caribbean men can flirt & they have lots of charm. Thay are laid back & easygoing. 7 out of 10 men in the caribbean are black or part black. They are warm, friendly & caring poeple. Not usually monogomous.

I think all foreign men are nice especially when faced with a foreign girl / mysterious tourist ... you have to live in a country like a local to really know' ... or else you'll just be stereotyping 8)


I think Asian men, followed by African men, are likely good. Are they approachable? BTW, aren't Barbadian men monogamous too?
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Postby lovelybunny » April 28th, 2013, 5:58 am

Then are traditional men(who do NOT follow abrahamic/middle eastern faiths) the best? like those from Asia or Africa?
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Postby Cornfed » April 28th, 2013, 6:26 am

Alright, we can see this is just trolling now (or in any case should be seen as such). Mods?
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Re: What are foreign men like? Are they nice?

Postby ryanx » April 28th, 2013, 2:54 pm

lovelybunny wrote:We know how hard it i to approach us ladies and ask us out in the US, for its a taboo. However, it's NOT easy for us to get dates either. As a female in the US, if we allow a man to ask us out, we're seen as being easy or, since this nation has many psychos, seen as being crazy for accepting it. We generally cannot approach men either, for that's seen as slutty or being too forward in the least. or, we're thought to be bothering him on his usual routine of work or school. Hey, it's the culture. It takes two to tango, so don't blam it only on the women. Thus, in any case, maybe foreign men are better. How approachab are they, be they in Wetern, Central or Eastern Europe, as well as in Australia, Caribbean, Asia or Africa? The mideast I know about and will NOT bother. Are foreign men nice usually? Also, is it easier to make long lasting friends abroad than in the US?


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This first post has troll written all over it...a 'western woman' asking how approachable foreign men are! come on guys wake up and smell the troll.
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Postby lovelybunny » April 28th, 2013, 3:16 pm

Oh, so any woman who prefers foreign men is a troll? LOL. Shows what mentality many men here have. Personally, I think they're just jealous that not every Western woman wants them. I think Asian/African men are likely the best husbands.
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Postby Robert77 » April 28th, 2013, 4:32 pm

from the countries I've been to

COLOMBIA: the men tend to look at western women mostly pushed by curiosity.... colombia's beauty standards tend to gravitate towards the shakira/sofia vergara look.... you know the shapely colorful flamboyant tropical beauty, that is what colombian men approach and like (so as a western woman you'll be seen as interesting to approach and to talk to but not likely to date, for the colombian male psyche you're just too different I guess)

SPAIN: the men are quite open and will approach you if they like you, but expect spaniard men to be cheesy like italians.... with a tendency to be metrosexuals....

BRITISH: they're boring, lack personality, they're like a straight line -------------------, predictable, cold, reserved, and the american women I know complain british men are uncomfortable with being romantic and relaxing.

GERMANS: they're robotic, cold, will NOT approach you, you'll have to do all the work

FRENCH: they're kinda cold and tend to ignore people, you'll have to do the work but they're warmer than germans and once you land a french stud they'll be more romantic and less robotic than germans.

AMERICANS: at times desperate for women so they're known to hook up with some gargoyles just so they can be with a woman... overseas american men WILL NOT DATE AMERICAN WOMEN.... it is rare to find an american man overseas looking for an american woman.... they all go for the foreign women.

CANADIANS: like americans.... but stuck up and with a chip on their shoulders constantly telling everyone they're not americans, ignorign the rest of the world do not care!

AUSTRALIANS: they're like southern white trash with an accent.... drunk, loud, meat heads with very low iq, some of them very very obnoxious and borderline racist and proud of it. some of the biggest dirtbags i met were australians!!!! horrible people!!!! only the refined aussie male is worth a woman's time but i am afraid thats a minority there.

ASIANS: never met an american women overseas dating asian males.... however the whole asian men are desperate to hook up with white women from the west is mostly an urban legend.... i lived in asia and if anything the average asian is rather uninterested in western women.

as an american women, you have big chances of getting a man in mexico, india, spain, turkey, italy, france, germany, uk..... stay away from some south american countries like brazil, colombia or argentina.... stay away from eastern europe, asian countries in those countries most guys will be nice to you, but rarely meet men from these places with western women.... it's the other way around, women from these places go with western men a lot.
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Re: men

Postby ryanx » April 28th, 2013, 5:37 pm

lovelybunny wrote:Oh, so any woman who prefers foriegn men is a troll? LOL. Shows what mentality many men here have. Personally, I think they're ust jealous that not every Western woman wants them. I think Asian/African men are likely the best husbands.


Not any woman, just YOU! - Assuming you are a woman.

Mentality of many men here? Do you know many men here?

Go find an Asian or African man already or better still an Asian-African man and shut your trap already.

Even though the troll that you are, learn to use the f***ing quote function. You are getting on my frigging nerves!
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Postby TruthOrConsequences » April 28th, 2013, 6:17 pm

I personally think that Hispanic and Middle-Eastern men seem to be very macho and masculine. It's like they know their gender role in the society and they have no qualms about standing up for themselves no matter who the aggresor may be. Some of the older middle-eastern/iranian dudes I've come across acted/talked like straight up villains. So badass!!
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Postby Winston » April 30th, 2013, 6:58 pm

Lovelybunny,
Yes there are many nice foreign men. But it all depends on the culture they are from. In Russia, there are many poor men who get drunk and act like scum. Sure they are approachable, but you wouldn't want them.

In Europe, men are more broad minded. You may like that. But it depends on where they are from and their background and economic status too. In Sweden, people don't talk to strangers. But in Spain or Italy, it is more common and acceptable to flirt.

In Asia, people don't approach strangers unless its business related too. The only exceptions are Philippines and Thailand.

But for foreign men to like you, you've got to look feminine and decent and not overweight and have a feminine attitude too. I don't think foreign men like masculine women.

You are right that many guys in the US are afraid to approach women. But what do you expect? It's not appropriate to just walk up to a stranger and try to pick up on her/him. These men know that American women don't want to be bothered. They have that "don't bother me, mind your own business" look on their face. So, if you approach them, you will not get good results. We have tried it and know. So it's not just a fear, it's a reality too.

I think you can approach American men. As long as you aren't flirtatious, you won't come across as slutty. You can just start a normal conversation or small talk or ask about what he's doing. Just innocent small talk. And get the ball rolling from there. Most guys would find that refreshing I'm sure. Have you tried it before?
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Re: What are foreign men like? Are they nice?

Postby Winston » April 30th, 2013, 7:01 pm

ryanx wrote:
lovelybunny wrote:We know how hard it i to approach us ladies and ask us out in the US, for its a taboo. However, it's NOT easy for us to get dates either. As a female in the US, if we allow a man to ask us out, we're seen as being easy or, since this nation has many psychos, seen as being crazy for accepting it. We generally cannot approach men either, for that's seen as slutty or being too forward in the least. or, we're thought to be bothering him on his usual routine of work or school. Hey, it's the culture. It takes two to tango, so don't blam it only on the women. Thus, in any case, maybe foreign men are better. How approachab are they, be they in Wetern, Central or Eastern Europe, as well as in Australia, Caribbean, Asia or Africa? The mideast I know about and will NOT bother. Are foreign men nice usually? Also, is it easier to make long lasting friends abroad than in the US?


Beware of anyone who claims to be a woman and refers to women as "us ladies"!

This first post has troll written all over it...a 'western woman' asking how approachable foreign men are! come on guys wake up and smell the troll.


You can't know that for sure. You have to give every newcomer the benefit of the doubt. She could just be an honest person asking honest questions. Better to give her the benefit of the doubt than risk banning an innocent person who is just asking honest questions.

Even though the troll that you are, learn to use the f***ing quote function. You are getting on my frigging nerves!


Yeah. Her profile was set to disable bbc code. That's why her quotes were not showing properly. I went ahead and fixed it, so her quoting should work ok now.
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Re: Foreign men

Postby ladislav » April 30th, 2013, 8:01 pm

Hey, stop the disrespect. I was NOT being rude to you or anything. Moreover, divorce rates are high for Western men because they also often cheat a lot. It takes two to tango, so DO NOT blame it all on the women. The Western culture is all messed up and I'd prefer a non Western man. That is my right/ I am against divorce except in things like infidelity, criminal activity, etc. The men Also, many foreign women marry American men just for the visa, so don't get your hopes up too high. Knowing how you started arguing with me, it shows that the arrogance here is enough for no decent woman to want men like this


Yes, guys, please stop the bile! The lady has the right to ask the questions and please, no prejudice. Treat her like a lady.

May I ask you what you mean by foreign? A Canadian is a foreigner and so is a Brit. A Puerto Rican is not a foreigner and neither is a Guamanian.

When you say, non-Western, a Czech person is non Western, and a Japanese is non-Western. A Hispanic person from Tijuana is Western and a Jamaican is Western. A White S. African is non- Western. Would you please be specific as to what foreign/ non Western? What type do you have in mind? Roughly speaking ( pun not intended).

Most white American women get along with Italians, Frenchmen, and all kinds of Mediterranean people- Greeks, Turks, Moroccan Arabs ( the French speaking ones- also Tunisian Arabs). These are refined Euro Arab types who are classy and friendly. Anywhere around this area is pretty much where American women are in big demand. The darker and more Latin the Euros, the better she will fare.

An American woman will be in demand in Argentina- an Italian/Spanish mix.

They are also in demand in Black Caribbean and Black Africa- for example, Gabon, Senegal, etc.

Please give more or less the physical/ cultural description of your man.

And gentlemen, please be civil.
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Re: What are foreign men like? Are they nice?

Postby lovelybunny » April 30th, 2013, 8:19 pm

Winston wrote:
ryanx wrote:
lovelybunny wrote:We know how hard it i to approach us ladies and ask us out in the US, for its a taboo. However, it's NOT easy for us to get dates either. As a female in the US, if we allow a man to ask us out, we're seen as being easy or, since this nation has many psychos, seen as being crazy for accepting it. We generally cannot approach men either, for that's seen as slutty or being too forward in the least. or, we're thought to be bothering him on his usual routine of work or school. Hey, it's the culture. It takes two to tango, so don't blam it only on the women. Thus, in any case, maybe foreign men are better. How approachab are they, be they in Wetern, Central or Eastern Europe, as well as in Australia, Caribbean, Asia or Africa? The mideast I know about and will NOT bother. Are foreign men nice usually? Also, is it easier to make long lasting friends abroad than in the US?


Beware of anyone who claims to be a woman and refers to women as "us ladies"!

This first post has troll written all over it...a 'western woman' asking how approachable foreign men are! come on guys wake up and smell the troll.


You can't know that for sure. You have to give every newcomer the benefit of the doubt. She could just be an honest person asking honest questions. Better to give her the benefit of the doubt than risk banning an innocent person who is just asking honest questions.

Even though the troll that you are, learn to use the f***ing quote function. You are getting on my frigging nerves!


Yeah. Her profile was set to disable bbc code. That's why her quotes were not showing properly. I went ahead and fixed it, so her quoting should work ok now.


Thanks Winston. I respect the men in the West. All I meant was that the US is lonely. Forget just dating, but even to make friends. You can't make friends at work, for Americans are taught ot mistrust others. In all, Are the Caribbean Island, as well as Asia & Africa good places to visit and make friends? Romance is extra, but at least friendships? I want to visit and even move there possibly, to ANY of those places. THank you so much.
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Re: Foreign men

Postby lovelybunny » April 30th, 2013, 8:22 pm

ladislav wrote:
Hey, stop the disrespect. I was NOT being rude to you or anything. Moreover, divorce rates are high for Western men because they also often cheat a lot. It takes two to tango, so DO NOT blame it all on the women. The Western culture is all messed up and I'd prefer a non Western man. That is my right/ I am against divorce except in things like infidelity, criminal activity, etc. The men Also, many foreign women marry American men just for the visa, so don't get your hopes up too high. Knowing how you started arguing with me, it shows that the arrogance here is enough for no decent woman to want men like this


Yes, guys, please stop the bile! The lady has the right to ask the questions and please, no prejudice. Treat her like a lady.

May I ask you what you mean by foreign? A Canadian is a foreigner and so is a Brit. A Puerto Rican is not a foreigner and neither is a Guamanian.

When you say, non-Western, a Czech person is non Western, and a Japanese is non-Western. A Hispanic person from Tijuana is Western and a Jamaican is Western. A White S. African is non- Western. Would you please be specific as to what foreign/ non Western? What type do you have in mind? Roughly speaking ( pun not intended).

Most white American women get along with Italians, Frenchmen, and all kinds of Mediterranean people- Greeks, Turks, Moroccan Arabs ( the French speaking ones- also Tunisian Arabs). These are refined Euro Arab types who are classy and friendly. Anywhere around this area is pretty much where American women are in big demand. The darker and more Latin the Euros, the better she will fare.

An American woman will be in demand in Argentina- an Italian/Spanish mix.

They are also in demand in Black Caribbean and Black Africa- for example, Gabon, Senegal, etc.

Please give more or less the physical/ cultural description of your man.

And gentlemen, please be civil.


Thank you Ladislav. I guess someone who's easy going, approachable, NOT the gun crazy type like many in the US are, not religious fanatics either. That's what I want, if possible. If not, friendships are okay too. Are the Caribbean Islands good to make friends in? Ditto in Sub Saharan Africa?
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Postby lovelybunny » April 30th, 2013, 8:25 pm

Winston wrote:Lovelybunny,
Yes there are many nice foreign men. But it all depends on the culture they are from. In Russia, there are many poor men who get drunk and act like scum. Sure they are approachable, but you wouldn't want them.

In Europe, men are more broad minded. You may like that. But it depends on where they are from and their background and economic status too. In Sweden, people don't talk to strangers. But in Spain or Italy, it is more common and acceptable to flirt.

In Asia, people don't approach strangers unless its business related too. The only exceptions are Philippines and Thailand.

But for foreign men to like you, you've got to look feminine and decent and not overweight and have a feminine attitude too. I don't think foreign men like masculine women.

You are right that many guys in the US are afraid to approach women. But what do you expect? It's not appropriate to just walk up to a stranger and try to pick up on her/him. These men know that American women don't want to be bothered. They have that "don't bother me, mind your own business" look on their face. So, if you approach them, you will not get good results. We have tried it and know. So it's not just a fear, it's a reality too.

I think you can approach American men. As long as you aren't flirtatious, you won't come across as slutty. You can just start a normal conversation or small talk or ask about what he's doing. Just innocent small talk. And get the ball rolling from there. Most guys would find that refreshing I'm sure. Have you tried it before?


Well, for femininity, in terms of dress style, I weart skirts, blouses or fashionable tops(NOT brand name stuff), I try to comb my hair well and I'm polite. I know how it is for US guys. But it's America, what to expect? I've tried appraoching American men, but some of them brushed me aside, saying, 'I'm in a rush, go away,' or such stuff. In the US, people(men AND women) do NOT talk unless it's necessary, liek in business stuff. I'm Guyanese-East Indian descent.
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