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Do you feel sorry for men and women in the western world?

Postby clowny » Thu May 09, 2013 6:26 am

Dating and mating is supposed to be the most natural thing in the world, but in this day and age when there's so much confusion and animosity between the sexes, many people cannot find a partner or get married. You guys will say it's so EASY for women to get a partner because western men are desperate and women have so many guys pursuing them and etc, but this is not entirely correct. While it's easy for women to get attention from guys (and sex), I think it's quite difficult for women to find a satisfying relationship. That is one of the reasons why women initiate most divorces - because they end up desperate to get married and have babies, so they settle for a guy they're not truly compatible with. It seems that in modern society, the sex/marriage/relationship society is like an underground cult, which a good portion of the population unfortunately don't have access to, so they spend their lives lonely and miserable.
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Re: Do you feel sorry for men and women in the western world

Postby clearbluesky » Thu May 09, 2013 6:57 am

clowny wrote:Dating and mating is supposed to be the most natural thing in the world, but in this day and age when there's so much confusion and animosity between the sexes, many people cannot find a partner or get married. You guys will say it's so EASY for women to get a partner because western men are desperate and women have so many guys pursuing them and etc, but this is not entirely correct. While it's easy for women to get attention from guys (and sex), I think it's quite difficult for women to find a satisfying relationship. That is one of the reasons why women initiate most divorces - because they end up desperate to get married and have babies, so they settle for a guy they're not truly compatible with. It seems that in modern society, the sex/marriage/relationship society is like an underground cult, which a good portion of the population unfortunately don't have access to, so they spend their lives lonely and miserable.


I agree with you. Multiple factors involved here, from fallout from gender warfare/radical feminism, excessive focus on freedom and individuality, pursuit of a more hedonistic lifestyle, excessive hollywood influence...etc. Both sides are at fault. Impossible to fix since it becomes a never-ending cycle of mistrust and anger. I think what we are starting to see more of in american society is a manifestation of a hidden psychological damage or pain from those people with a lonely and miserable existence, such as bad/weird/violent behavior.

One example, I noticed a difference when I was living in Germany, where prostitution was legal. The men were very laid-back and mellow. Not aggressive compared to here. I am sure it has to do with easy access to sexual gratification. Can't prove my theory, just a hunch.

My answer to this problem: Run as far abroad as possible and hope the western influence does not catch up to your society that you seek refuge in. And play by the Golden Rule when encountering other good men/women so as not to create a bad and never-ending cycle of mistrust and anger.
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Postby Winston » Thu May 09, 2013 7:33 am

Well where are all the single people in America? Whenever you go out in public, you see couples and families everywhere, but no one alone. Why? Are all the single people at home, ashamed to go out? Don't they have to go to the grocery store to shop at least? How come you never see people by themselves?
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Postby Adama » Thu May 09, 2013 5:00 pm

There are very few American people worth feeling sorry for. A good measure to me is whether or not those same people would feel sorry for me.

As an example, how many men do you think make up some huge lies about their past sexual exploits or that they are banging a new chick every week just to impress you? He likely isnt successful at all. But at the same time, if you tell him that you are striking out or that you have no interest in American women, that same man will think you are a loser, traitor, unpatriotic, in the worst case scenario.

As for American women, as full grown adults, the reason why they can not find decent relationshits is because they have unrealistic and unreasonable standards, as we should all know by now. For example, their standards are often so ridiculous that only 5% of the male population could even begin to make the entry requirements. Add to this the fact that women believe they shouldnt have to bring anything to the table, and you have basically a narcissistic personality who believes that her male partner exists to entertain her, obey her beck and call, read her mind, and do the impossible. These women are not grounded in reality. If you attempt to tell them such things arent possible, then you are the jerk.


And as for why there are no people who go out by themselves. The answer to that is quite simple: if you go out by yourself, you are a LOSER! You are not allowed to go out by yourself in the USA. You are only supposed to go out with others. If you dont have others to go out with, then you are a loser. Even if a woman is attracted to you in the USA, if she sees you out alone, she will label you LOSER. Social validation is taken very seriously by women here.
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Postby Winston » Thu May 09, 2013 8:51 pm

Adama wrote:And as for why there are no people who go out by themselves. The answer to that is quite simple: if you go out by yourself, you are a LOSER! You are not allowed to go out by yourself in the USA. You are only supposed to go out with others. If you dont have others to go out with, then you are a loser. Even if a woman is attracted to you in the USA, if she sees you out alone, she will label you LOSER. Social validation is taken very seriously by women here.


Isn't that high school mentality? lol. But even single people have to go to the grocery store or shop at Walmart or something. That's what I mean. I'm not talking about going for fun by yourself. Everyone has to shop and do errands. So how come you don't see people out by themselves while shopping, except for housewives during the afternoon?
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Postby Adama » Thu May 09, 2013 10:59 pm

Winston wrote:
Adama wrote:And as for why there are no people who go out by themselves. The answer to that is quite simple: if you go out by yourself, you are a LOSER! You are not allowed to go out by yourself in the USA. You are only supposed to go out with others. If you dont have others to go out with, then you are a loser. Even if a woman is attracted to you in the USA, if she sees you out alone, she will label you LOSER. Social validation is taken very seriously by women here.


Isn't that high school mentality? lol. But even single people have to go to the grocery store or shop at Walmart or something. That's what I mean. I'm not talking about going for fun by yourself. Everyone has to shop and do errands. So how come you don't see people out by themselves while shopping, except for housewives during the afternoon?


IMO, the high school mentality never dies. People leave HS, but HS never leaves them. They always have the same mindset.

I have only seen attractive women shopping in the supermarket one time many years ago. TBH, I dont think single women really shop at all. That is cause they survive on 20 cigarettes, one cheeseburger and one english muffin per day. They dont each much. They are on a fast food-starvation diet. They eat small amounts of fast food /take out, which doesnt require them to shop for food. It can be delivered or picked up at a drive-thru (unless they are on a date where someone else pays).

You might have better luck catching them shopping for clothing. They love to buy clothing.

Edited to add: Most women suffer from codependancy, meaning they will not go anywhere alone. They will always have a BFF with them when they leave the house, for "emotional support." How do I know this? I used to talk to one girl and we were discussing driving far from home (as in 45 minutes). She said she wouldnt do it unless someone was with her. I asked why. She said "emotional support." There arent many guys that need that kind of emotional support. I think you can catch AWs alone, if it is from the car to their doorstep.
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Postby skeptic » Thu May 09, 2013 11:50 pm

Winston wrote:Well where are all the single people in America? Whenever you go out in public, you see couples and families everywhere, but no one alone. Why? Are all the single people at home, ashamed to go out? Don't they have to go to the grocery store to shop at least? How come you never see people by themselves?


They are not born in couples (at least in earthly terms), are they? At some point they are single until a lucky guy comes up and gets into a relationship with her.
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Postby momopi » Fri May 10, 2013 12:03 am

Winston wrote:Well where are all the single people in America? Whenever you go out in public, you see couples and families everywhere, but no one alone. Why? Are all the single people at home, ashamed to go out? Don't they have to go to the grocery store to shop at least? How come you never see people by themselves]?



Try visiting the Vons by E. Tropicana & S. Maryland Parkway, I think it's across the street from UNLV. See if you can spot some people shopping by themselves.
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Postby PeterAndrewNolan » Fri May 10, 2013 8:47 pm

People in the west deserve everything coming their way. They really do.

"Do unto others" is the golden rule. And how to people treat each other in the west? Terribly.

I loaded a video just today to point out that men don't help other men AT ALL....all they do is attention whore and talk to each other and they claim that the mere fact of talking to each other will somehow, miraculously, fix their problems. It won't.

I went a LONG way out of my way to help men. They don't want to live in freedom. They don't want help. And they sure as hell do not want to help anyone else.

My second book has had 6,000 downloads now. Mostly thanks to John Rambo. Men will not even help other men by passing a free book around. Pathetic.

And since I released The Truth Be Told and pointed out how men will NOT pay other men who help them? Only SIX guys have paid me relatively small amounts of money for all my effort to HELP THEM.

In the end? Men are UN-HELP-ABLE and they sure as well do not help out other men who are asking them for their help.

They deserve ALL the evil the Illuminati can throw at them. That is why I now openly call men in the west "dumb stupid animals" and "useless eaters" who SHOULD be killed off by the Illuminati because they are doing nothing useful above ground. When they get "upset" about this? I point out how they refuse to help men like me help them get out of the jam they are in.

John Rambo has come to the same conclusion. Men can not be helped and they SHOULD be killed off for their willful ignorance and stupidity.

Just try and find evidence of men helping men just because they need it and ask for it. It is VERY rare.

Men will step over their dying homeless brother in the street to help a woman with a broken fingernail.

So they deserve everything they get. Period.

And when a man DOES go out of his way to help other men? What do those men do? They HATE on him.

Way to go, eh?



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Postby S_Parc » Sat May 11, 2013 9:03 pm

Adama wrote:And as for why there are no people who go out by themselves. The answer to that is quite simple: if you go out by yourself, you are a LOSER! You are not allowed to go out by yourself in the USA. You are only supposed to go out with others. If you dont have others to go out with, then you are a loser. Even if a woman is attracted to you in the USA, if she sees you out alone, she will label you LOSER. Social validation is taken very seriously by women here.


The art of being outside alone is the notebook/tablet with stock charts, biz letters, etc. You must have an appearance of being an extremely busy, important business person, or what have you. People quite literally come up to me and talk about their investments, career, schooling, and all kinds of stuff for this reason. I guess it's the ghosting version of PUA, where you're socially out there but not trying to get AWs into your lifestyle. Because all and all, AWs are garbage and really, you don't want 'em, even if they want you.
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Postby Adama » Sat May 11, 2013 9:50 pm

PeterAndrewNolan wrote:People in the west deserve everything coming their way. They really do.

"Do unto others" is the golden rule. And how to people treat each other in the west? Terribly.

I loaded a video just today to point out that men don't help other men AT ALL....all they do is attention whore and talk to each other and they claim that the mere fact of talking to each other will somehow, miraculously, fix their problems. It won't.

I went a LONG way out of my way to help men. They don't want to live in freedom. They don't want help. And they sure as hell do not want to help anyone else.

My second book has had 6,000 downloads now. Mostly thanks to John Rambo. Men will not even help other men by passing a free book around. Pathetic.

And since I released The Truth Be Told and pointed out how men will NOT pay other men who help them? Only SIX guys have paid me relatively small amounts of money for all my effort to HELP THEM.

In the end? Men are UN-HELP-ABLE and they sure as well do not help out other men who are asking them for their help.

They deserve ALL the evil the Illuminati can throw at them. That is why I now openly call men in the west "dumb stupid animals" and "useless eaters" who SHOULD be killed off by the Illuminati because they are doing nothing useful above ground. When they get "upset" about this? I point out how they refuse to help men like me help them get out of the jam they are in.

John Rambo has come to the same conclusion. Men can not be helped and they SHOULD be killed off for their willful ignorance and stupidity.

Just try and find evidence of men helping men just because they need it and ask for it. It is VERY rare.

Men will step over their dying homeless brother in the street to help a woman with a broken fingernail.

So they deserve everything they get. Period.

And when a man DOES go out of his way to help other men? What do those men do? They HATE on him.

Way to go, eh?



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Adama wrote:And as for why there are no people who go out by themselves. The answer to that is quite simple: if you go out by yourself, you are a LOSER! You are not allowed to go out by yourself in the USA. You are only supposed to go out with others. If you dont have others to go out with, then you are a loser. Even if a woman is attracted to you in the USA, if she sees you out alone, she will label you LOSER. Social validation is taken very seriously by women here.


The art of being outside alone is the notebook/tablet with stock charts, biz letters, etc. You must have an appearance of being an extremely busy, important business person, or what have you. People quite literally come up to me and talk about their investments, career, schooling, and all kinds of stuff for this reason. I guess it's the ghosting version of PUA, where you're socially out there but not trying to get AWs into your lifestyle. Because all and all, AWs are garbage and really, you don't want 'em, even if they want you.


Just goes to show. In the USA, there needs to be a reason and a strategy. Things can never just exist as they are or simply "be." You need a serious facade to succeed. And if you arent a thug with tattoos, sagging pants and a gun, you better be a CEO in disguise.

Frack America.
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Postby anamericaninbangkok » Sat May 11, 2013 10:54 pm

I don't feel sorry for them. You have to make your own way in life and if someone is content to end up with a fat pig of a wife who bitches day and night, that's on them.
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Postby jamesbond » Sun May 12, 2013 2:59 pm

Winston wrote:Well where are all the single people in America? Whenever you go out in public, you see couples and families everywhere, but no one alone. Why? Are all the single people at home, ashamed to go out? Don't they have to go to the grocery store to shop at least? How come you never see people by themselves?


I have been thinking the same thing. I almost never see single women by themselves at either the grocery store, Walmart, bookstores or shopping malls. I do see guys by themselves occasionally but not women.

Living in the suburbs doesn't help, there are not many single people in the suburbs to begin with. The suburbs are filled with married people, children and teenagers.

No wonder why people say, the suburbs are "death to your social life." :P
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Postby S_Parc » Sun May 12, 2013 6:36 pm

Fellas, sometimes I don't understand all the complaints about American life & society. In all honesty, do you really want to know your neighbors and see what dysfunctions, hide behind the "picket fence"? Really, I find it best that for the most part, my acquaintances/friends are from school (HS/undergrad), martial arts, & b-ball. Outside of that, I'm well recognized by ppl around me [ the 3-4 towns vicinity ] and thus, I'm successful in business. Also, by not b*inking AWs locally, I don't have those rotten b*tches, try to ruin my life like they did to one of my close college friend who'd gotten a couple of harassment charges & child payment issues. He can't take more than a month off, from work, without falling into a financial abyss. In contrast, I can easily take a decade & more off w/o any troubles, whatsoever. In fact, I could effort to go out for Sushi, Prime Rib, & Oysters regularly even w/o an income stream for years at a time. Granted, I'd cut back on extravagant living expenses if my income were to disappear, as that's just plain commonsense :wink:
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Re: Do you feel sorry for men and women in the western world

Postby Teal Lantern » Sun May 12, 2013 7:57 pm

clowny wrote:Dating and mating is supposed to be the most natural thing in the world, but in this day and age when there's so much confusion and animosity between the sexes, many people cannot find a partner or get married. You guys will say it's so EASY for women to get a partner because western men are desperate and women have so many guys pursuing them and etc, but this is not entirely correct. While it's easy for women to get attention from guys (and sex), I think it's quite difficult for women to find a satisfying relationship. That is one of the reasons why women initiate most divorces - because they end up desperate to get married and have babies, so they settle for a guy they're not truly compatible with. It seems that in modern society, the sex/marriage/relationship society is like an underground cult, which a good portion of the population unfortunately don't have access to, so they spend their lives lonely and miserable.


They are not satisfied as part of their nature. Plus, television, PUAs, & other p-beggars have convinced female 3/10s they can get a male 9/10 to "commit", if they just hold out long enough.

Once you figure out the winning move, from the options available, you're hardly lonely or miserable.
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