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Post by leavingusa » May 19th, 2013, 11:20 pm

Women are not attracted to masculinity per se. They were only attracted to it because it used to be adaptive, now it is not.

You're crazy if you think girls don't like guys that look better than them, they insist on it unless he's got something else she wants. But not going anywhere in life is a big turn on since they are looking at flings instead of relationships.

Also, he makes her feel together by comparison.

Another problem with having a job is that it allows you to do things for her and that f***s things up. Girls want to do things for the guy and most guys are trying to do things for girls, totally kills things.

Never do anything for a girl if you want to f**k her, make her get things for you.




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Post by clowny » May 20th, 2013, 12:57 am

leavingusa wrote:Women are not attracted to masculinity per se. They were only attracted to it because it used to be adaptive, now it is not.

You're crazy if you think girls don't like guys that look better than them, they insist on it unless he's got something else she wants. But not going anywhere in life is a big turn on since they are looking at flings instead of relationships.

Also, he makes her feel together by comparison.

Another problem with having a job is that it allows you to do things for her and that f***s things up. Girls want to do things for the guy and most guys are trying to do things for girls, totally kills things.

Never do anything for a girl if you want to f**k her, make her get things for you.
LOL. So now women are not attracted to masculinity? If they're not attracted to masculinity, then they're not attracted to men, which would mean they're all lesbians.

The level of delusionality on this forum never ceases to amaze me.

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Post by Moretorque » May 20th, 2013, 1:37 am

I know children like clowns and women like children, so clowny should be a big hit ?
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Post by Adama » May 20th, 2013, 4:34 am

leavingusa wrote:Women are not attracted to masculinity per se. They were only attracted to it because it used to be adaptive, now it is not.

You're crazy if you think girls don't like guys that look better than them, they insist on it unless he's got something else she wants. But not going anywhere in life is a big turn on since they are looking at flings instead of relationships.

Also, he makes her feel together by comparison.

Another problem with having a job is that it allows you to do things for her and that f***s things up. Girls want to do things for the guy and most guys are trying to do things for girls, totally kills things.

Never do anything for a girl if you want to f**k her, make her get things for you.
I like the last sentence.
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Post by leavingusa » May 20th, 2013, 5:40 am

clowny wrote:
leavingusa wrote:Women are not attracted to masculinity per se. They were only attracted to it because it used to be adaptive, now it is not.

You're crazy if you think girls don't like guys that look better than them, they insist on it unless he's got something else she wants. But not going anywhere in life is a big turn on since they are looking at flings instead of relationships.

Also, he makes her feel together by comparison.

Another problem with having a job is that it allows you to do things for her and that f***s things up. Girls want to do things for the guy and most guys are trying to do things for girls, totally kills things.

Never do anything for a girl if you want to f**k her, make her get things for you.
LOL. So now women are not attracted to masculinity? If they're not attracted to masculinity, then they're not attracted to men, which would mean they're all lesbians.

The level of delusionality on this forum never ceases to amaze me.
How masculine are metrosexuals like Justin Beaner? How does the media look at masculinity these days?

Masculinity is totally irrelevant now as it serves no purpose in modern society and is scorned.

Women are attracted to whatever kind of guy is in vogue at the moment.

You'll notice that when a movie comes out like twilight and you kind a look like that guy you start getting laid like crazy. Duh.

The only thing girls care about is what guy other girls want and they have been sold on girly men.

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Post by clowny » May 20th, 2013, 9:26 am

leavingusa wrote: How masculine are metrosexuals like Justin Beaner? How does the media look at masculinity these days?

Masculinity is totally irrelevant now as it serves no purpose in modern society and is scorned.

Women are attracted to whatever kind of guy is in vogue at the moment.

You'll notice that when a movie comes out like twilight and you kind a look like that guy you start getting laid like crazy. Duh.

The only thing girls care about is what guy other girls want and they have been sold on girly men.
Yeah..this stuff applies to teenage girls, not WOMEN.

Women are attracted to males who look and act like men, not males who are more feminine than they are, such as Justin Bieber. Trust me, grown women get wet over guys like Vin Diesel or Dwayne Johnson...it's only the teeny boppers who obsess over Justin Bieber.

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Post by Moretorque » May 20th, 2013, 12:21 pm

Not all women are as shallow as a lot of people on this site make them out to be, yes most but not all.
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Post by jamesbond » May 20th, 2013, 1:55 pm

These are the type of guys American women love! :D


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Post by Renata » May 20th, 2013, 2:29 pm

Why women desire thugs & bad boys ?

The statement good triumphs over evil is very overated. It's a lie. We live in a dark age where everything bad or negative has become attrative. That's why women gravitate to undesirable men. Last year I was put in charge of an english drama club, everyone wanted to be the witch & the socerer, no one wanted to be a fairy or an angel.
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Post by Moretorque » May 20th, 2013, 3:24 pm

That is the problem, the 2 witnesses " Mother and Father " are operating off their conscience level for the most part of just being a dumb animal and doing the dog eat dog mentality. I can understand why our ruler's are doing what they are doing because this thing be to dumb to let it to it's own devices.

People do not realize how stupid they are, I can totally understand why certain more intelligent groups have been forced to isolate themselves from the dumb herd.

None of us have thought about future generations enough.
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Re: Why women desire thugs & bad boys

Post by Teal Lantern » May 21st, 2013, 5:37 pm

clowny wrote:Due to the feminisation of society, the typical man these days is a nice guy/beta/mangina, which women are not truly attracted to. They may be attracted to his money or status, or other superficial qualities, but this is not primal attraction.

Women are attracted to bad boys and thugs because they are the only guys left in society who show a bit of raw masculinity – something that is lacking in so many men today after being raised in this feminist society (often by single mothers), which sees masculinity as a threat and tries to stamp it out. I bet that if you could build a time machine and go back to any time before 1900, the average man would have been 1000x more masculine than they are today. And if you could take a man from another age and bring him back to the modern society, women would be drawn to him like a magnet.
How much welfare and paper-pushing jobs were available to women, before 1900? :wink:
Disagreeing with the wife wasn't considered "domestic violence" then, either.
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Post by kai1275 » May 21st, 2013, 9:52 pm

clowny wrote:
leavingusa wrote: How masculine are metrosexuals like Justin Beaner? How does the media look at masculinity these days?

Masculinity is totally irrelevant now as it serves no purpose in modern society and is scorned.

Women are attracted to whatever kind of guy is in vogue at the moment.

You'll notice that when a movie comes out like twilight and you kind a look like that guy you start getting laid like crazy. Duh.

The only thing girls care about is what guy other girls want and they have been sold on girly men.
Yeah..this stuff applies to teenage girls, not WOMEN.

Women are attracted to males who look and act like men, not males who are more feminine than they are, such as Justin Bieber. Trust me, grown women get wet over guys like Vin Diesel or Dwayne Johnson...it's only the teeny boppers who obsess over Justin Bieber.
You are both right. What do those men have in common? They are "PRETTY"! I agree with Leavingusa, and there is research out there to support this, but women only want what other women want. They only dress for each other (hello.....Animal Print? Men don't like that shitty fashion), and if some women express desire in some man, others will want to mimic those women. It's some natural primal way for them to select mates. I kinda forgot the details of how that works.

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Post by Christianfilipinacom » May 21st, 2013, 10:05 pm

Guys this is not so complicated. 1. Women want to be openly wanted, not secretly wanted; 2. They would like to do what their friends would admire.

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Post by Flatland » May 21st, 2013, 10:09 pm

Women do not desire thugs and bad boys. What they desire are confident and dominant men. In today's wussified society it just so happens that thugs and bad boys are the ones who possess these qualities.

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Post by clowny » May 22nd, 2013, 2:28 am

Flatland wrote:Women do not desire thugs and bad boys. What they desire are confident and dominant men. In today's wussified society it just so happens that thugs and bad boys are the ones who possess these qualities.
Couldn't have said it better.

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