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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby marklambo » Sat May 25, 2013 8:46 am

Tsar wrote:I decided to test how many messages a 8-10 American girl would receive on a dating site. What I determined was a very attractive girl would receive between 100 or 200 messages a day. I figure that a 7 would receive the relatively same number.

After seeing how many messages a girl would receive it isn't worth playing that game.

The common situation with dating sites:
1. A man has no luck getting a date and decides to try a dating site.
2. He joins thinking he will have better luck
3. He spends a lot of time writing a good profile
4. He finds some attractive girls he wants to meet
5. He sends out individual, genuine messages

Then one of the following happens:
1. He gets no replies, he checks his views and he gets none. The lack of replies becoming annoying and he quits.
2. The girls send a reply once or twice then nothing. He quits.


Don't forget number 3

3. He gets random messages from disgusting obese whales that look like this...

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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby jamesbond » Sat May 25, 2013 9:54 am

marklambo wrote:Don't forget number 3

3. He gets random messages from disgusting obese whales that look like this...

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Oh my God, after looking at that girls picture, I suddenly feel like throwing up! :P
"When I think about the idea of getting involved with an American woman, I don't know if I should laugh .............. or vomit!"

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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby marklambo » Sat May 25, 2013 6:47 pm

jamesbond wrote:
marklambo wrote:Don't forget number 3

3. He gets random messages from disgusting obese whales that look like this...

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Oh my God, after looking at that girls picture, I suddenly feel like throwing up! :P


lol!
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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby MJay1978 » Sun May 26, 2013 11:08 am

Tsar wrote:I decided to test how many messages a 8-10 American girl would receive on a dating site. What I determined was a very attractive girl would receive between 100 or 200 messages a day. I figure that a 7 would receive the relatively same number.

After seeing how many messages a girl would receive it isn't worth playing that game.

The common situation with dating sites:
1. A man has no luck getting a date and decides to try a dating site.
2. He joins thinking he will have better luck
3. He spends a lot of time writing a good profile
4. He finds some attractive girls he wants to meet
5. He sends out individual, genuine messages

Then one of the following happens:
1. He gets no replies, he checks his views and he gets none. The lack of replies becoming annoying and he quits.
2. The girls send a reply once or twice then nothing. He quits.


...Hahaha! Let me guess. You did a test on an American dating site posing as a woman? You just gave me a new idea for a video project. :) I should consider doing this later so I can show everyone the proof. If such a video were to be released, I think a lot more guys would really start to open their eyes.
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Postby djfourmoney » Tue May 28, 2013 8:16 pm

My standards are higher than Tsars actually I just don't demand the virgin part, that's ridiculous.

But he's also barking up the wrong tree and I have said this before, he rather complain on here its easier.

The way my luck turns out, I'd find a virgin faster than he would.

How?

I keep my convictions to myself.... If I don't find her acceptable, I don't call back or send her messages or any of that.
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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby djfourmoney » Tue May 28, 2013 8:19 pm

marklambo wrote:
Tsar wrote:I decided to test how many messages a 8-10 American girl would receive on a dating site. What I determined was a very attractive girl would receive between 100 or 200 messages a day. I figure that a 7 would receive the relatively same number.

After seeing how many messages a girl would receive it isn't worth playing that game.

The common situation with dating sites:
1. A man has no luck getting a date and decides to try a dating site.
2. He joins thinking he will have better luck
3. He spends a lot of time writing a good profile
4. He finds some attractive girls he wants to meet
5. He sends out individual, genuine messages

Then one of the following happens:
1. He gets no replies, he checks his views and he gets none. The lack of replies becoming annoying and he quits.
2. The girls send a reply once or twice then nothing. He quits.


Don't forget number 3

3. He gets random messages from disgusting obese whales that look like this...

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If he gets women like that in his inbox, let's keep it real, its more about him physically than his desires in a mate.

I've NEVER gotten anything close to that bad and only the BW that hit my inbox or visit my profile on Black People Meet even come close. My issue as I have said time and time again, all these women are OLD, several of them in their 40's, a few in their 50's!
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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby MJay1978 » Thu May 30, 2013 1:19 am

Tsar wrote:I decided to test how many messages a 8-10 American girl would receive on a dating site. What I determined was a very attractive girl would receive between 100 or 200 messages a day. I figure that a 7 would receive the relatively same number.

After seeing how many messages a girl would receive it isn't worth playing that game.

The common situation with dating sites:
1. A man has no luck getting a date and decides to try a dating site.
2. He joins thinking he will have better luck
3. He spends a lot of time writing a good profile
4. He finds some attractive girls he wants to meet
5. He sends out individual, genuine messages

Then one of the following happens:
1. He gets no replies, he checks his views and he gets none. The lack of replies becoming annoying and he quits.
2. The girls send a reply once or twice then nothing. He quits.


Hey. This is a serious question. How did you do this? What pictures did you use? I tried it on POF. I was going to get the proof caught on video. Had a lot of guys turning heads on the fake profile. The girl I used scored a lot of views, favorites, meet me's, and was even getting a lot of hits in her inbox.

There is a problem I ran into though. I think what happened is either the guys flagged the profile as fake or the POF admin dickheads caught on that it was a fake profile. I couldn't get the proof because the profile got removed when I tried to sign in. If I can get at least 4 pics of the same girl and use this to obtain the proof on video, I have an idea for my next video project so I can put the truth out there on my video channel. Is there anyone that can help me out?
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Postby Winston » Thu May 30, 2013 7:04 am

clowny wrote:Tsar, I just wanted to say this: f**k you.

You use these stupid calculations to ascertain that statistically speaking, there is no chance for you to find a good woman in america. Well to that I say, your standards are too high. And no, your chances are NOT going to be any better abroad. Because non-western women, in some respects, are even worse than western women.

So, your options are basically this:

1. Lower your standards, and basically just try to find a western woman who isn't fat and isn't a bitch (almost impossible)

2. Bang hookers & escorts

3. Become content with jerking off for the rest of your life

4. Go abroad to meet women and discover that foreign women are not magical princesses and are just as bad as western women (sorry to shatter your fantasy)


Totally not true at all. Foreign women in poorer countries appreciate a nice guy. They treat men better. They are not perfect, but they are far more natural and treat men better. 99.99 percent of guys here have attested to that. Read the trip reports. Sorry, you are not God and your false statements do not erase the MOUNTAIN of testimonials here to the contrary.

Most guys do not have high standards. They are happy with a 6 or 7 who treats them well and isn't a bitch and acts feminine. That isn't hard to find in most countries.

You forget that even many good looking guys have trouble in the dating scene in America. A lot of people have told me about that. Some women are also so picky that they reject everyone.

There are also guys like Rock on this forum, who is good looking, but doesn't vibe with Western women at all, but Asian women like him a lot.

Please stop giving bad advice. You don't seem qualified to be giving any advice or making broad sweeping generalizations.
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Re: Don't Use American Dating Sites

Postby Winston » Thu May 30, 2013 7:12 am

Maverick wrote:
Tsar wrote:I decided to test how many messages a 8-10 American girl would receive on a dating site. What I determined was a very attractive girl would receive between 100 or 200 messages a day. I figure that a 7 would receive the relatively same number.

After seeing how many messages a girl would receive it isn't worth playing that game.

The common situation with dating sites:
1. A man has no luck getting a date and decides to try a dating site.
2. He joins thinking he will have better luck
3. He spends a lot of time writing a good profile
4. He finds some attractive girls he wants to meet
5. He sends out individual, genuine messages

Then one of the following happens:
1. He gets no replies, he checks his views and he gets none. The lack of replies becoming annoying and he quits.
2. The girls send a reply once or twice then nothing. He quits.


Generally, if you can't get girls in real life, you won't be able to get them doing online dating.


Don't make generalizations like that. It depends on many things. In some countries, breaking the ice online is a lot easier than in person. Even Rock, a good looking white guy on this forum, said that he didn't do well with cold approaches in the Philippines, but online, many girls write to him. Sometimes girls are shy with strangers in person but more comfortable online.

There are many other factors as well, such as location. For example, I can't get any girls in America or Taiwan to write me back on dating sites, but I can get many decent quality educated women from China to write me back.
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Postby Christianfilipinacom » Thu May 30, 2013 9:54 am

A good looking white guy had trouble meeting women in the Philippines? Kind of strange. Actually I think the comment is pretty much correct - "Generally, if you can't get girls in real life, you won't be able to get them doing online dating." though "real life" might mean being somewhat in the area where the women are located, not where you are from.
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