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Help, I'm a black male in America and can't get girls

Postby Mr.Darcy » June 3rd, 2013, 7:48 pm

I'm 6ft 2, muscular, and guys and girls have told me I'm good looking. My friends tell me I act too white and sometimes they forget I'm black sometimes. Girls don't even acknowledge me or they tease me. It's like I can't even get to the front door with them. Where I go to college, I hardly see interracial couples and the races stick together, or black guys date white girls that nobody wants. The only exceptions I've seen were in Charlotte, NC or NYC. I was previously involved with one girl who wasn't really pretty, but she was a classy white girl and she started playing games down the road and I had to dump her. I still have feelings for her, and I can't find a new girl because all the girls here act like I'm air.
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Postby kai1275 » June 3rd, 2013, 8:07 pm

Is this a troll? Care to finish your story? What is your goal? What are you looking for?
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 3rd, 2013, 8:09 pm

kai1275 wrote:Is this a troll? Care to finish your story? What is your goal? What are you looking for?


I'd like to be able to find a girl, but I have to deal with jerking off every night.
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Postby Array9 » June 3rd, 2013, 8:24 pm

I'm not buying the story. American women get wet for tall guys. As I explained in a post last week, men who are in shape or good looking get hit on all the time. Something smells fishy here.
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Postby zboy1 » June 3rd, 2013, 8:28 pm

Can you write a story about your dating situation more in-depth, Mr.Darcy? Because I get the feeling you're nothing but a troll and should be banned...but I'm willing to give you a chance to prove yourself, before I do that.
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 3rd, 2013, 8:32 pm

Well I have access to parties and I try and talk to girls, but they don't give me any levels of interest or they tease me. The previous girl liked me because she thought I was cute and I gave her a chance because I didn't have another girl lined up. Eventually she started thinking she was better than me and I had to drop her because I don't play with that shit. I get hit on but that's as far as a girl will go with me. I've had girls say they have crushes on me, but when I try to do something with them they tease me and play games.
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Postby zboy1 » June 3rd, 2013, 8:47 pm

Well, it's not impossible for some Black men to have a tough time in the dating scene in the United States. It's a stereotype to think all 'Black Men' do well in that regard. I have a Black friend that is very studios and smart, and not into hip-hop culture at all, and has a tough time dating women because he's not the stereotypical Black man that some women are into.
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Postby Moretorque » June 3rd, 2013, 9:06 pm

Come' on, tell the real story, you Be da Black man that didn't get Daa " PECKER GENE ". :shock:
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 3rd, 2013, 9:24 pm

Oh she said I was bigger than her ex
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Postby skateboardstephen » June 3rd, 2013, 9:42 pm

I can see where this guy is coming from..American women don`t have respect for men....they have even more of a lack of respect for black men...black American women being the worst in this regard...American women just don`t have no respect for black men period..especially if you are not the Thug...Hip-Hop head..all ways acting like a hard ass..but even these guys don`t really have respect from women...and the women they get are trash..most women choose the thug because she can have the upper hand over him because they usually are not going anywhere in life...and have to depend on the women.

If you are a Normal black guy and are the type that gets accused of "acting white" you can pretty much forget the U.S. most non-black women only give their best(if at all)to men of their own race..or white men.....while thinking they can go to black men in any f**k up condition...thinking that they will still accept them because ..as a white women,Hispanic women for example... they feel as though they are higher on the food chain by default just for not being a black women even though i have seen many of them with the same ghetto nasty attitudes...

it`s a catch 22 for black men trying to walk a straight path in life..it is enough to make you go nuts..unless you have an international mind set.In America right now everything with most women are either focused on thugs...or the super duper white guy named Bob who drives a Saab and lives in the Suburbs.There is no middle ground for normal black men...With Black women you are not ''black enough'' with white women...your are black...Asian women,Indian women....you are not a super duper white dude....Hispanic women....you are not Latino....best to meet these women in their original countries...not these U.S. born skanks..
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Postby kai1275 » June 3rd, 2013, 11:28 pm

What is your age man? If you want help you need to give us more information than that. Probably every black man on this forum, except Izzy because he loves RnB music and seems to have a silvery tongue..lol, has been there and done that in regards to your story. What is your goal? What kind of women you like? Any countries or cultures you interested in?
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 3rd, 2013, 11:47 pm

Well I manage to pull a few white girls, but the gap in between them is too long. Im not interested in most black girls and the ones Id take only go after white men. I mean my last girl wasnt trashy or slutty at all, but they play games with us like they do to white men.
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Postby Adama » June 3rd, 2013, 11:50 pm

The men on this forum are funny. If this were a chick with a feminist intent on this forum, 90% of you guys would be licking this up, playing white-knight, and kissing ass.

A dude comes on with a typical story. Retards dont believe it.
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Postby skateboardstephen » June 3rd, 2013, 11:53 pm

Adama wrote:The men on this forum are funny. If this were a chick with a feminist intent on this forum, 90% of you guys would be licking this up, playing white-knight, and kissing a**.

A dude comes on with a typical story. Retards dont believe it.


What does that have to do with the topic?
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Postby Adama » June 3rd, 2013, 11:54 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:Well I manage to pull a few white girls, but the gap in between them is too long. Im not interested in most black girls and the ones Id take only go after white men. I mean my last girl wasnt trashy or slutty at all, but they play games with us like they do to white men.


Forget about USA women. All they will do is injure your self-esteem if you keep going after them and they keep saying no. Things will never change. The same thing happens to me with women. Women telling everyone we know how much they like me and are attracted to me. I make my move. They say no. Then they tell the world how they rejected me. That has happened dozens of times. It just isnt worth it.

Just when you think you have found an American woman who is different, you'll find out she isnt. She was just playing the game better and willing to go further than most women are.

The only solution is to forget about them. Go to Colombia, Dominican Republic, Brazil. Although you may not like black American women or pure bred black women, many of the black women in those countries are mixed and look more mulatto and are much more attractive, with virtually none of the attitude of USA women.
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