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Postby Adama » June 4th, 2013, 8:35 pm

Mr.Darcy wrote:I mean do will british and Canadian women at least let me in the front door, because where I'm at they act like I'm air.


No. There are black men with British nationality on other forums, and they say nearly the same about British women.
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Postby aozora13 » June 4th, 2013, 8:47 pm

I am glad Adama, you brought the truth out about how Black men (British stock) are doing well in the UK. I knew that even if you have 'success' with British, Welsh, Scottish (and Irish) girls that it is mainly because you fit a 'thug' persona and not because they generally like you as a person.
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 4th, 2013, 8:59 pm

So I'm pretty much f***ed. Even my dad managed to pull some young white women that were nurses or doctors, but life is too short to wait that long lol.
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Postby aozora13 » June 4th, 2013, 9:52 pm

Most 'Anglo' women are quite similar. I would say you will have a easier time dating British women than American women for sure. Mixed dating/marriage is accepted in the UK more than in the US. However, the women might like you as a person but as usual it is a small number (better than the US for dating but for marriage, it is another matter).
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Postby Anti-American » June 5th, 2013, 4:01 am

I agree with Killhoffa and Skateboardsteven.
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Postby Mr.Darcy » June 5th, 2013, 5:40 am

Well if they'll at least let me in the front door than I can work with that. What I can't work with is women turning me down upon making eye contact with me.
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Postby celery2010 » June 5th, 2013, 7:41 am

Move to Florida and date Puerto Rican, Cuban and Domincan women. They are hot!!
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Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » June 5th, 2013, 8:28 am

celery2010 wrote:Move to Florida and date Puerto Rican, Cuban and Domincan women. They are hot!!


He better be in shape, have a job, a 2nd-to-3rd-tier car/SUV, be not too dark, exceptionally-good hygiene and at least an intermediate level of Spanish
to pull stateside.

WTF are you doing advising him stateside s.hit? *self-facepalm*
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Postby aozora13 » June 5th, 2013, 11:11 pm

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote:
celery2010 wrote:Move to Florida and date Puerto Rican, Cuban and Domincan women. They are hot!!


He better be in shape, have a job, a 2nd-to-3rd-tier car/SUV, be not too dark, exceptionally-good hygiene and at least an intermediate level of Spanish
to pull stateside.

WTF are you doing advising him stateside s.hit? *self-facepalm*


+1 for E on this one.

The guy should try South America | Spanish-speaking Carib and learn intermediate level Spanish. I think beyond being healthy and knowing some Spanish to talk with them since the best looking women usually do not know English (which is a good thing) or very little English. Usually being a black guy who actually has his life together is better than a guy locally who is not doing anything with his life.

Stateside: Avoid like the plague. Latinas who immigrate to the US usually become materialistic quickly and because men are not treated well in the country because of Elite men who crushed men's chances (including black American men who are marginalized more than 40 years ago with laws and through media), men usually treat the girls like a princess and they are too corrupt; spoiled and not suitable to date.

Of course there is colorism in Central | South America and the Caribbean island countries. However, you can still find a larger variety of decent women who are better than the women who live in the United States | Canada.

An example would be to try to learn more from Stephen who is married to a Brazillian and he can tell you about the color-conscious and materialistic Latinas who live in the US.

Also this Latina is going to want the requirements that E Irizarry has mentioned. I say iti s too much stress and little reward. Also with costs in the US high as they can be and with marriage laws and domestic laws (accusations that can wreck your life) it is better to finish your studies and try to find a required skill in the country you want to travel too.
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Postby scott529 » June 6th, 2013, 12:29 am

Darcy, what college are you attending in Tennessee? Do they have a program available for students to study abroad? You could escape the U.S. for a semester and experience university life in a foreign country of your choice. Plus, your school will pay for it.

If white girls are your type, then it sounds like Eastern Europe or Russia may be your ticket...18-23 year old European co-eds just begging you for some private lessons.

God I wish I had studied abroad when I was in university.

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Postby skateboardstephen » June 6th, 2013, 1:35 am

scott529 wrote:Darcy, what college are you attending in Tennessee? Do they have a program available for students to study abroad? You could escape the U.S. for a semester and experience university life in a foreign country of your choice. Plus, your school will pay for it.

If white girls are your type, then it sounds like Eastern Europe or Russia may be your ticket...18-23 year old European co-eds just begging you for some private lessons.

God I wish I had studied abroad when I was in university.

Scott


Why do people all ways try to recommend Eastern Europe for Black men looking for white women?Why not Sweden,Norway,Finland, Switzerland ..places where you are probably.. less likely to be beaten or stabbed by Neo-Nazis..just saying..due to the stories i have heard and violence caught on tape against foreigners in places like Russia.
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Postby scott529 » June 6th, 2013, 1:48 am

Maybe some parts of Scandinavia are cool, but others should be avoided like the (Western) plague...

"Sweden has a reputation as having the most equal relations between the sexes in the world—it’s a place where male politicians are voted 'woman of the year' by feminists, where young dads on paternity leave take toddlers for play dates while their wives work, where a preschool can casually ban gendered pronouns..."

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Postby Jester » June 6th, 2013, 3:45 am

E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote: *self-facepalm*


This reminds me I am going to start a new thread. Winston's smilies are pathetic, he really needs to add a bunch more.
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Postby Adama » June 6th, 2013, 4:11 am

Jester wrote:
E Irizarry R&B Singer wrote: *self-facepalm*


This reminds me I am going to start a new thread. Winston's smilies are pathetic, he really needs to add a bunch more.



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