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I absolutely used to be an AFC. It took years of brainstorming, research trial and error, etc before I could identify the disease and go about curing it. However, it wasn't until I started putting my focus into something other than women, that it became easier to get women. My focus became the making of $$ and it still is. I'd like to retire someday and that is no easy task these days. I'd also like to be able to afford to live abroad for 10-15 years. Looks are important, but looks fade with age. Money and your accomplishments do not. I've seen a few here that drop everything to plan their lives around finding a woman abroad due to not have any luck in their home country. I just think this is the wrong way to go about it. It's sad to see many complaining that they are having no luck in the location they decided to travel to. I can almost visualize what these guys look like and how they carry themselves. Much of that can be fixed with time and effort! All I am saying is that, sometimes, it's important to look at yourself. Don't get down on yourself, but improve yourself for no one but yourself. f**k finding a women in the states, but PREPARE for your best experience abroad before you hop over there...