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It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby Adama » July 3rd, 2013, 6:57 am

How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby zboy1 » July 3rd, 2013, 7:00 am

Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


Dude, it's just a Hollywood movie, LOL. Don't believe in the propaganda that Hollywood likes to promote...
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Postby AnonymousAmerican » July 3rd, 2013, 7:04 am

I think we are just creeps, lol.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby Adama » July 3rd, 2013, 7:28 am

zboy1 wrote:
Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


Dude, it's just a Hollywood movie, LOL. Don't believe in the propaganda that Hollywood likes to promote...


If you are a kid growing up and you have no player friends, how would you figure things are done? I mean, if you are 14 to 17 years old, never had a girlfriend. You see movies like this. What are you to think?

They ought to show the women playing mindf-ckgames with the men.
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Postby ladislav » July 3rd, 2013, 1:53 pm

When foreigners see movies like these ( outside of the USA), they want to do one of two things: imitate the Americans and/or go to America. Most of the time, the end up imitating the Americans on TV ( which shows what is lacking in society) thus creating a "liberated America" in their own country.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby S_Parc » July 3rd, 2013, 2:07 pm

Adama wrote:
zboy1 wrote:
Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


Dude, it's just a Hollywood movie, LOL. Don't believe in the propaganda that Hollywood likes to promote...


If you are a kid growing up and you have no player friends, how would you figure things are done? I mean, if you are 14 to 17 years old, never had a girlfriend. You see movies like this. What are you to think?

They ought to show the women playing mindf-ckgames with the men.


Couple of points, the psychologist makes fun of his school/alma mater but then, Matt turns around and makes a parody of it. Thus, she first dishes on him gently but then, Matt makes a fairy tale out of the event (you know, him stabbing a Harvard man). Well, this sort of pantomime does work, if the gal is *looking* and the guy has some position. In this case, Matt seemed like an A-type, rising star in the BPD. I've seen this type of stuff in offices in my region, greater Boston but typically, those b*tches have their estrogen on 'release' mode and are trolling to make a baby. Well, this gal did get pregnant, a hour later in the film with Matt, the bad cop (ala John Connolly in the real-life story of the Boston mob).
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby Repatriate » July 3rd, 2013, 6:26 pm

Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


The problem here is that none of us are Matt Damon or look like him. :lol: I think the way Hollywood presents America makes a lot of sense if you're one of those extremely handsome classic American guys. Which is the equivalent of winning the genetic lottery in looks. I had a friend growing up who had the whole package..tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, surfer boy look and women did throw themselves at him. For a guy like this he could go anywhere in the world (except maybe some of the Scandi countries) and pull easily.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby E Irizarry R&B Singer » July 3rd, 2013, 6:29 pm

Repatriate wrote:
Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


The problem here is that none of us are Matt Damon or look like him. :lol: I think the way Hollywood presents America makes a lot of sense if you're one of those extremely handsome classic American guys. Which is the equivalent of winning the genetic lottery in looks. I had a friend growing up who had the whole package..tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, surfer boy look and women did throw themselves at him. For a guy like this he could go anywhere in the world (except maybe some of the Scandi countries) and pull easily.


Oh speak for yourself. I think I'm a 7/10. :-)
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby AnonymousAmerican » July 3rd, 2013, 6:34 pm

Repatriate wrote:
Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


The problem here is that none of us are Matt Damon or look like him. :lol: I think the way Hollywood presents America makes a lot of sense if you're one of those extremely handsome classic American guys. Which is the equivalent of winning the genetic lottery in looks. I had a friend growing up who had the whole package..tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, surfer boy look and women did throw themselves at him. For a guy like this he could go anywhere in the world (except maybe some of the Scandi countries) and pull easily.


it's not even that. it's personality.
A bartender told me this while I was in Guadalajara Mexico:

"If you aren't careful here with the women, you will be married in a week."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMNPv_HXffQ

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how to survive in the US: http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... hp?t=19236
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby Repatriate » July 3rd, 2013, 6:39 pm

AnonymousAmerican wrote:
it's not even that. it's personality.

A part of it is personality sure..but the idea flogged by PUA marketers is that personality is the most important for women which is frankly b.s. A lot of it is innate social status and what a woman sees from appearance too. Good looks..especially the classic WASP kind does bring social status to the table.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby S_Parc » July 3rd, 2013, 8:46 pm

Repatriate wrote:A lot of it is innate social status and what a woman sees from appearance too. Good looks..especially the classic WASP kind does bring social status to the table.


Well, the movie did portray Damon as a climber in the detective arm of the BPD and thus, his white-status has a social side, as well. Hence, 'stabbing a Harvard man' to get to the top, wasn't off the books. I think the lady took notice. Many of the top brass of Boston's law enforcement are the Irish-Catholic climbers of the area. I think if he were a basic, surfer-type without too many ambitions, the psychologist with a PhD wouldn't see him as BF/husband material, since she was looking to get pregnant.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby AnonymousAmerican » July 4th, 2013, 12:14 am

Repatriate wrote:
AnonymousAmerican wrote:
it's not even that. it's personality.

A part of it is personality sure..but the idea flogged by PUA marketers is that personality is the most important for women which is frankly b.s. A lot of it is innate social status and what a woman sees from appearance too. Good looks..especially the classic WASP kind does bring social status to the table.


don't even mention PUAs. those fuckers are slaves to feminists, just in different ways.
A bartender told me this while I was in Guadalajara Mexico:

"If you aren't careful here with the women, you will be married in a week."

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=kMNPv_HXffQ

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how to survive in the US: http://www.happierabroad.com/forum/view ... hp?t=19236
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby Adama » July 4th, 2013, 3:04 am

Repatriate wrote:
Adama wrote:How do I know? I am watching "The Departed" with jack Nicholson, Matt Damon, Leo Dicaprio, Alec Baldwin.

Matt Damon is a new cop, but a higher paid one. He is on an elevator, and as this psychologist woman is getting off, he hits on her. Within less than 30 seconds, he has this woman cooing and has a date with her for later that night.

This just has me wondering what the f am I doing wrong here?


The problem here is that none of us are Matt Damon or look like him. :lol: I think the way Hollywood presents America makes a lot of sense if you're one of those extremely handsome classic American guys. Which is the equivalent of winning the genetic lottery in looks. I had a friend growing up who had the whole package..tall, blonde hair, blue eyes, surfer boy look and women did throw themselves at him. For a guy like this he could go anywhere in the world (except maybe some of the Scandi countries) and pull easily.


I would rate Matt Damon as slightly above average. The whole looks in the USA is moot anyway. Most women dont want a man better looking than them, cause it leads to control issues. They want men they can command with implied threats to withdrawal of sex.

In his personal life, Matt Damon married a single mother. Like I said, looks in the USA is not an asset all about. Middle of the road is the way to go with facial appearance in the USA.
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Re: It is sooo easy to get dates in the USA

Postby S_Parc » July 4th, 2013, 3:14 am

Adama wrote:In his personal life, Matt Damon married a single mother.


Matt's also married an Argentinian woman, so once again, FWs still beat AWs. The same goes for star Boston/New England Patriot's quarterback, Tom Brady, who's married to a Brazilian. These men are millionaires and even they've got a good head on their shoulders.
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Postby OTB » July 11th, 2013, 1:37 am

Most women dont want a man better looking than them, cause it leads to control issues.


You said it Adama. I was just saying the same thing to my cousin. That's why the argument about how you have to be really good looking to pull American chicks is false. Most of the time when I see couples out in public and the girl is good looking with a nice body her man is average looking. Sometimes I have to say to myself....that's her man? I just shake my head in bewilderment.

But just like you said it's a control issue. I'm gonna have to break some things down about this in a thread. This is something that's been on my mind.

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